Am I the asshole for being livid with my mom for selling my family home when we so easily could've afforded to keep living there?My dad makes 250k a year working in corporate America and my mom makes 63k a year as a part-time nurse. We lived in a huge house in one of the most expensive states to live in, and both of my siblings were being private schooled (I had just graduated). My parents had very little money at the end of the month as a result of the cost of living and private schooling. My mom worked 24 hours a week as a part-time nurse, working 2 days a week. If she started working 36 days a week, working 3 hours a week, she would have started making $83,000 a year. It would've been a sacrifice, but it would've saved her THREE KIDS from literally losing their home.My mom chose to sell the house instead of taking a pay raise. Not only did she choose to sell the house, she actively pushed my dad into doing it. We're now a family of 5 living in two apartments across the hall from each other. We sold the house for $1.4 million, and are now wasting as much money as possible on $8,500 a month NYC metro-area rent. What a fucking waste. My siblings and I were completely traumatized by this. My sister is currently bunking with my mother. My mother chose this over working 36 hours a week.And now she's pushing me into moving out by guilt tripping me and saying I'm robbing my sister of having her own room. I'm 19, and my mom is literally trying to put me on the streets because she "doesn't have enough room to house me". We just sold a 4000 square foot house. What the actual fuck is wrong with you, you subhuman bitch. My mom had a choice to make between working 36 hours a week or this, and she chose this. I'm going to be on the street, sucking dick for money.I resent my mom so much for making this choice. Am I in the wrong for feeling this way?
>>38638050whiner
>>38638050On one end, it is a bit entitled to expect your parents to support you indefinitely. That doesn’t make your mom not a selfish bitch or whatever. As described the financial planning seems downright retarded.In your situation I probably would have offered some rent payments to help while you were still living in the house. In a vaguely similar situation years ago, my family rejected an offer of $500 month to let me continue living with them. They said they wanted to teach me independence, but at the same time my sister continues to live with them, room and board, at no cost (unemployed and not in school).That said, I’m a college educated cis dude. Your transness probably introduces variables that you would think your parents would be more sympathetic about. Idk about your family dynamics.You are getting a lesson in American altruism, which is to say, everyone is in it for themselves at the end of the day. The only one who can keep you safe and cared for is you. You see the writing on the wall. Start working on a real plan, not sucking dick.
>>38638297>Start working on a real plan, not sucking dick.unless sucking dick is your plan in which case, post pic
