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sleigh bells - treats edition

>QOTT1: whats your favourite “obscure” album?

thread theme: https://youtu.be/nmFgejWZjtg?si=v9oWGfUXYkbvKIrp

previous: >>39296053

Tagmap: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Fbigen%2F

FAQ:
>Am I bi if I like women and femboys/traps?
>Am I bi if there's this one member of the same-sex I'm desiring, but normally I like the opposite sex?
>Am I bi if I sexually like both sexes, but only interested in romance with one of them?
Yes, sexual attraction to both sexes is bisexuality.
>Do you love me, OP?
I love the way you say things, and your voice is really nice too
>What's the difference between bisexual and pansexual?
Only difference is that our flag is prettier.
>Am I bi if I have periods where I feel only attracted to women and others where I feel only attracted to men?
This is known as the bi-cycle and many bisexuals experience it.
>Am I bi or am I 'prison gay' or porn addicted?
'Prison gay' is not a real thing and porn addiction does not alter your sexual orientation. You are bi.
>Am I bi or pan if I like trans people?
Both are able to be attracted to trans people.
>I think I might be bi but I can't tell. How can I be certain?
Just make a point to check out members of the sex you think you might be attracted to and see if anyone grabs your attention.
>Should I be harsh on myself?
You should be kind on yourself. Few people will do it for you

Resource for Bisexuals:
https://biresource.org/
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>>39363993
Hey, I do that as well.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LvYeNGkKMJc

I've always wanted to try playing drumsm, they look so fun
but I think I may buy a new bass bass...

>>39363913
hopefully I'll get to the psychiatrist soon and start taking meds again
it's strange, but I actually want to
I stopped taking the ones I was prescribed because the side effects were terrible

>Last time I went to the funny shack, I had sport therapy (jogging and pilates and things like that), pottery classes, meditation class and uhh psychoeducation
that does sound nice actually, especially pottery classes...
when I was in the funny shack last, we had.. nothing really.. it was a quite sad place
basically just one corridor in an old building with patient rooms along it, and a WC at the end, a smoking section that was walled off, and a dining room area

I did ask for a pencil and some paper and started to draw there a little bit
I haven't really drawn before or after sadly, but it was quite nice
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>be me
>meet up with a guy about a month ago
>talk about how we want something short term and casual, essentially were both looking for fwb
>meet up at his place
>we hook up and have a lot of fun and he makes it clear that he likes me
>am very hesitant to leave (i always have trouble going out the door and saying goodbye when i genuinely like the other person
>text him that i got home safely and that i had fun and i cant wait to see him again
>we agree to meet up again another week after but i became ill
>try to make plans once i got better but he responded with “im busy but im sure well make something work”
>its been radio silence ever since then, my messages keep showing up as sent/delivered but he still has me matched on hinge and following me on instagram
>i try to cope by telling myself hes probably just busy but he posts on his instagram stories and ocassionally views mine
>mfw
did i do anything wrong? i admit ive gotten a bit too comfortable and kinky when we first met up but weve known each other as acquaintances for over 5 years now so i would have assumed he would know about how “eccentric” i can be
its worth noting that he hasnt blocked me on anything (yet) but hes been leaving me on delivered so im just receiving nothing but mixed messages
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For someone just starting out, ythink an hour of super inclined walking would be good on a chill break day? From what I’ve read it’s not good to go hard every day.
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I need more basses... but no money... but I need at least 5 more.. no, 10
I need a wall of different basses
I love my current one but I need many more

>>39364609
its not looking good.... if I know this guy, and I'm sure I do, he will probably write after a few weeks when he gets lonely...

>>39364620
your muscles need time to recover
it depends what you are doing on your ON days
if it's lifting, then cardio should be fine
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Sort of not sure if I should start dating men
>can definitely feel romantic attraction towards men, and appreciate their bodies aesthetically
>but only get a semi-hardon at best when thinking about sleeping with a guy or when looking at gay porn (unless it involves bondage)
>had sex with a guy once, and only got semi-hard as well. I really enjoyed making him cum though
>also really like using dildos and butt plugs, would be interested in (power) bottoming

I really don't want to have sex again without having established some deeper connection before - but because of that, I'm afraid of a situation where after building up romantic attraction to a guy, I can't match that attraction on a sexual level.
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>>39364976
babe u just need to go with the flow
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>>39364609
Probably found someone else, really dont you feel disrespected that he doesnt even reply out of courtesy? I guess he doesn't want to lead you on but like other anon said, wants to keep you within reach. You can move on but keep your feelings in check
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>>39365174
i try to see the best in ppl desu i had a friend who didnt reply for days or even weeks bc he was busy and i dont like jumping to conclusions
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>>39365268
You deserve better :/
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>>39365285
it sucks because even when i lower my standards (i may be a tranny but i still take care of my physical appearance and have hobbies and aspirations and i expect my partners to be the same) i still have guys waste my time and lead me on
meanwhile my brother (who cant cook his own meals, keeps his car looking like a crack hut, and is still very dependent on my parents) has been going out with his girlfriend for over a year i really have no idea what im doing wrong lol
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>>39365341
Idk it's annoying it's like people who put more effort in get less back and if they don't put that effort in they get nothing and then there are others who don't put any effort in and coast by. It can be frustrating but there's really no making sense of it. Just keep trying your best to find someone who you're happy with, appreciates you, and treats you right, because the rest you can't control
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New thread, new me. Just kidding, I’m still a total loser
>39363753
Ah lol yeah okay, I can see why you would end up choosing that if you were drunkly skimming the descriptions. I hope the bureau will agree with you that moving sand and doing word association games isn’t conventionally agreed upon as leading to measurable results for most patients. I mean… Lowkey might as well have done crystal healing or chanting mantras in a room full of monks or something instead.
Fwiw I know a few people who got long term talk therapy for ptsd (and bpd too), but I guess judging by the other anon’s replies it’s wildly different what’s offered from place to place.
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>>39365494
Im’ a clumsy idiot with clumsy idiot hands (I missed a bracket)
>>39363753
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>>39364818
> it depends what you are doing on your ON days
It’s still more cardio, but running, and then some weights too.
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>>39365494
>moving sand
I did some reading and people say it's good for people who have trouble putting their emotions into words.. which sounds good.. but still..
though I never understand what emotions I am even feeling lol

>Lowkey might as well have done crystal healing or chanting mantras in a room full of monks or something instead.
this is pretty much how I feel about it haha
I need clinical diagnosis, I need clinical help

>Fwiw I know a few people who got long term talk therapy for ptsd (and bpd too)
this is nice to hear
if I'm honest I'm not even sure what therapy is supposed to look like lol..
and I noticed that I feel all ready to talk about so many things, I write things down that I would like to bring up
but then when I arrive at the office I'm like
"oh shit, I've actually got to talk about these things" and it gets scary
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how do i start a polyandrous relationship
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>>39366682
idk
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>>39366682
>polyandrous
Find some male feminists https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X_j5Wim358g
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>>39366894
i want some actually attractive men though
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>>39366900
Actually attractive men don't enter into polyandrous relationships
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>>39366929
ok well where can i meet a man who is loyal to me and only me but i get to sleep around with whoever i want
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>>39366946
Again, only creepy male feminists with low self esteem who aren't attractive
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>>39366946
Just look like this
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SLEIGH BELLS MENTIONED!!!! plus a music related qott shall get me to post here finally lol
>qott1
ebner - 4-track fuck fever
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>>39366946
You sound like an absolutely godawful person
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>>39363881
hi bigen do u like my emo fit
notice st. peter's cross
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>>39363881
Anyone else weirdly puritan despite being bi? Like I'm not really interested in fucking someone unless I can see myself marrying the person in question

I think it would also be nice to be able to answer "my wife/husband" when someone asks me what my body count is
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>>39367745
take the prep and go to the bathhouse bigot
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>>39367484
>dont tread on me
lol
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>>39367773
How am I a bigot, this is my life choice, I'm not forcing anyone else to do this
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>>39367745
um well yeah. idk about THAT strict, but casual sex sucks hard. i wanna date someone for a bit first
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>>39367818
I just wanted to know if I was alone on that
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>>39367815
It's a joke, buddy
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>>39368306
I'm not your buddy, guy
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>>39367745
Leaning toward being in the same boat, probably more aligned with the other anon.
Sex seems alright, but I'm not specifically sex-motivated. I feel like if I were comfortable enough with a person to fuck them, I'd also be comfortable being in a long-term relationship with them. Directly gunning for marriage at the outset seems a little destructively idealistic, but I think long-term relationships are definitely for assessing if marriage is a viable option.
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>>39368357
Yeah there seems to be a lot of people who want to slut it up and although that seems fun I'm just not that type of person
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I love my ftm bf. I can be gay as fuck with him and he won't judge me for it
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I don’t wanna get deleted :(
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>>39369358
Fetus undeletus
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>like the feminine form
>like tiddies
>think the vag is ugly and unsexy and don't want to be up close to one
>think cocks are aesthetically attractive
I'm still bi, right?
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I''m so confused, bros...
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>>39366946
So you wanna date an actual cuck?
>>39367745
I think I'm "puritan" in this way but it may just be a cope to cover for my intense fear of rejection and abandonment
I don't think I'd want to sleep around though, I want to be a slut for one person
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>>39366946
There are lots of handsome men into cuckolding, but you have look like not only like a hot woman (like >>39367005 said), but a woman with high self-esteem and finance independence.
If you don't have any of that, you will hit your head straight into a wall.
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>There are lots of handsome men into cuckolding
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FUCKING FINALLY
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hi
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>>39363881
not bi but this album FUCKS
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>>39372015
>When your still born in on April 2nd a male body
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>>39371982
Did you rike it? :^]
Worst fucking april fools
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>>39372015
I read this as being stillborn first lmao
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>>39372415
The /m/ thread on /v/ ended up being pretty comfy. And /trash/ /k/ was also nice.
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>>39372540
/o/ thread on /a/ was just super cub.
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hello lovelies

that was a pretty stupid joke
they just ruined a perfectly good session of comfy posting

they could have done anything else, as long as the boards stay useable..

also I overslept my appointment because for some reason the alarm didn't work, and now I will get a 30 euro fine which is heartbreaking for me lol
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Apparently there are 3 people in this world who are (were) half-sonichu half-human hybrids:

Chris Chan
Her father Bob Chandler
Ted Bundy

Why that last one you ask? I have no fucking clue. But I am cursed with this knowledge and now so are you.
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>>39375612
schizophrenics often make judgements based off things that only make sense to them
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>>39371982
>>39374517
Dont know whether this years april fools was so mid that it sucked, or that it sucked for sucking in general. Didnt even bother checking who won
To be fair tho, thinking it over, it might have been more fun for other boards, since the crossboard hate is just banter for them, not actual desire to eradicate or club each other to death.
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>>39376757
honestly I don't use 4chan as much as when I was much younger, so it wasn't really amusing or funny to me
just a pointless annoyance that messed with me posting in and browsing certain threads like this one

I feel like the crossboard hate and most fun was had by people from /pol/, /r9k/, /b/, /int/ etc
ie, a bunch of hateful annoying children
while everyone else were just denied from posting thematic posts on their thematic boards

wow.. very "fun" and "hilarious"
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>>39376757
It was fine until they started with the number shit
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>>39377024
Number shit was fun, it confused the /pol/ normalfags.
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with each passing day it becomes more and more apparent that sex work is the only feasible “career” for me
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>>39376960
I’m in a strange place where I grew up /here/ (major oldfag), but didnt start posting until last year. Most of the refugee threads were kind of boring to me desu. I think you’re right about pol and all of that.
>>39377024
Might have missed that part, what happened? I dipped around the time /vt/ and /tv/ was kill
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I HATE MY BODY HAIR
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>>39378212
get laser
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>>39378232
2poor
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>>39378813
steal laser
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become laser
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>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

A reminder that tomorrow at 21 GMT we will vote for the next two movies for Movie Night! If you want you can also give your recommendation by replying to this post

>what the hell is "movie night"
its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community

>when will movie night take place?
its FRIDAY at 22 gmt

>where do we watch the movies?
on the Bigen Movie and Game Night Discord server:
https://discord.gg/X7pjs6WP

>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?
Of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to mute yourself during the movies, be civil and have fun!

fyi: this is the list of every movie we watched so far:
https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h
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>>39379220
Catwoman
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>>39379220
heartbreak ridge
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>>39378212
Laser
>>39378813
Okay waxing then, assuming you have sugar and access to a kitchen
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>>39379220
My coworker I am working with this week saw the movie species before, I'm going to be real, he remembers more of the film than I do.
Flip a coin on these anime movies and pick one.
Between sing a bit of harmony and expelled from paradise
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These no (fill out specific detail) gf type posts I occasionally check things that I already am like. This one is probably the closest to me.
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>>39379529
>Won't watch me stream games or won't stream games yourself
It's over bros....
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>>39379568
I was tempted to circle the last two but it is so infrequently that either happen I honestly don't know.
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>>39379636
Putting that aside, the girl in the pic is cute as fuck, I can't pinpoint why but she's exactly my type
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I hate that I feel like I have to dress sharp for going to IKEA alone to pick up furniture. Who tf cares about being hot in IKEA, it’s not like the couples shopping for their first apartments are going to fuck me on the Smörgashimla or whatever else the closes desk is called.
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>>39381251
I know the feeling, I dress up a bit nicer whenever I go to drive my bus.
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>>39381251
This is why I only have one outfit
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>>39379220
Bill & Ted's Excellent Adventure
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>450 for a switch 2
>80 dollars for digital games and 90 for '''''''physical'''''''
>but not really because the 'physical' version of the game is just a 'download pass' that comes on a card that you stick into the switch. it does not contain the game data its just a download code on an sd card

lmao go home nintendo you are fucking drunk. didnt we do this already like a decade ago when the xbox one tried to do away with game ownership? the nintendo cycle dictates that after every big hit console, they make nothing but bad decisions on the next one and it ends up a flop, so i guess we are due. the obvious solution is just dont buy it but the problem is that nintendo is a trendsetter. if they get away with this, the rest of the industry will follow suit. so i guess the question now is, will the nintendrones be willing to empty out their life savings to make this work. i was already not planning on getting one but the fact that theyre making a worse steam deck and charging more for it is hilarious
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>>39382749
It's really hilariously stupid. Like one of the people calling for the return of physical media made a wish on a monkey's paw.
I yearn for crystalline storage.
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>>39382749
I was thinking of getting the Switch 2. Just gonna get a SteamDeck instead maybe.
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>>39382970
I can vouch for such a decision proving prudent...
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Why is bi4bi so unintentionally common?
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>>39383096
If you're with a non-bi person, half of your sexuality will either be something they don't understand or it'll be a fetish for them. If you want a relationship based on mutual trust and understanding and respect and all that good stuff, being with someone else who's bi just seems smart. Thus, the bi-dar is working overtime in the background.
Also, I suspect a lot more people are at least some degree of bi than would normally admit to it- even to themselves. Dating a bi person kind of gives you a good starting point to process those feelings.
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>>39383187
i honestly find it impossible to picture myself in a relationship with a non-bi person
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>>39363881
>QOTT
Maybe Nikolai Kopernik - Rodina. Soviet psychedelic. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VXUqb9r5j8I
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>>39384012
Limiting yourself to only ~2% of the population is certainly a choice
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>>39384402
I'm not limiting myself, if I end up in a relationship where my partner isn't bi that would be totally ok
I just can't mentally picture it
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>>39383096
>>39384402
I unironically think bi people are a much larger percentage of the population than 2%. Not to the point where they may actually date both women and men, but just people who have some level of attraction to both, like Kinsey 1 or whatever. So unintentional bi4bi happens when one member realizes/admits it and then the other one does the same. People who are inclined to admit it will likely attract similarly inclined partners.
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>>39381483
We must have been grown in the same vat
>>39382212
Horrifying, yet inspiring. What’s the outfit and when did you decide to become a cartoon character?
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>>39382749
The worst part of this is the physical boxes being download codes. I know it’s not new but holy fuck do I hate it
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>>39384814
>>39382749
This is pretty shocking to me, if anything I thought Nintendo wouldn't do this particular bullshit.
Sega should come back and make a console that cannot connect to the internet.
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>>39382749
Every time I hear news about consoles I am glad I play exclusively on PC.
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>>39384741
The best proof for this is how touchy most men will get with each other when drunk.
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Surprise bi4bi is the cutest thing in the world.
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>>39384859
Nintendo has been doing the download code thing for a while now, with switch games, I think they just avoided it for most of their own ips and major titles.
Still sucks tho.
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>>39385045
Yeah my gf and I hit it off first and realized we were both bi later, it's nice.
Come to think of it, same with my ex before her lol
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>>39384741
Probably. I'd be surprised if the real percentage was more than like 5-10% though; I feel like Abrahamic religions wouldn't have reached their level of status and influence that they have (or, at least, the anti-gay stuff would have omitted) if, for example, around 50% of the population was bi. But also because the amount of people that claim to be gay or bi rises at first in a societies where it becomes more acceptable, but the curve eventually flattens out, like with left-handedness and the acceptance of that.
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>>39385355
I certainly don't think it's 50% but I wouldn't be surprised if it was around 20% if you count men willing to smash/jerk it to femboys/traps/whatever and women willing to make out with other women and maybe feel each other's tits up.
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>>39384871
this
though it would be kind of nice (in a manchild way) to collect a bunch of old consoles and make a collection of old games that I could just play once in a while
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>>39384871
>>39385394
I used to play on consoles because it was easier up through around the time of the PS2 and maybe the Wii, and now I play on PCs because it's easier.
The number of administrative tasks in my life should be as close to zero as possible.
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>>39385394
Old consoles are a completely different breed of device compared to modern ones. They were simply purpose-built hardware for playing games.
Modern consoles are simply assembled from available parts with a locked down OS slapped on top to make sure the company behind it keeps in control over the customer.
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>>39385394
>>39385431
PC emulation of consoles has also improved notably in the past ten years, so it’s nice to have the ability to keep everything in one spot.
The real draw of nintendos consoles, imo, are the gimmicks and the games that make good use of them. A stronger 3Ds would be goated, imo, I loved those dual screens for strategy games
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>>39378212
get an ipl device
>use once a week after shaving
>amount of hair that comes back gradually decreases over 6-12 months
>once it's gone you just use it monthly and don't have to shave
>machines are about $150
idk why nobody talks about these things
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>>39385394
Real. I kind of wish I had a CRT for playing old games. That glow...
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>>39386169
I get free ones from garage sales and garbage days all of the time
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>>39385431
after I got my first "gaming" PC it was all over for me lol

>>39385463
I am very out of touch with not only modern consoles but many modern things in general lol
I learn about things usually a few months late

>>39385529
emulation is great
that's how I was able to play silent hill a couple of years ago hee
but it's not the same... I want that full analog experience

>>39386169
now that you mention CRT I kind of want to have a VHS collection too
in my post I was thinking about calling those "old" consoles "retro" instead but it felt wrong and made me feel old..
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>both the mother and the son express they are dtf (separately, having no idea about each other's attempts)
Uh oh. UH OH. Surely I can't go for that.
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>>39386738
Just like my japanese cartoons.
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>>39386738
>both the mother and the son express they are dtf
D:

>>39386738
>(separately, having no idea about each other's attempts)
:D
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>>39386738
What are you doing, stepmot- wait, they are actually related
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>>39386074
Everyone seems to say this shit doesn't work on facial hair, which sucks. I hate having my face and still being able to see the hair under my skin
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wtf do you put in a dating profile as a bi dude? a shitpost? actual information? just a shirtless pic?
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>>39387282
If you want to date women:
- ~4 photos showing you from different angles
- Smile in all photos, or at least look visibly happy
- At least 1 photo with friends to show that you're not a loser; note that these should be male friends, having girls in the photo turns women off (player vibe)
- Only shirtless photos if you're JACKED and only looking for hookups; women who want to seriously date will avoid you
- 1 black and white photo can work well, but not all of them should be
- No bathroom mirror selfies; it makes you look like a loser
- At least 1 pic where you full body is visible so they can see you aren't fat
- Only list positive stuff in your bio, especially related to activities that involve exercising or doing something with your body
- Include a joke or something funny in your bio, that's not selfdepreciating, cliché or cringe
- Most importantly: DO NOT OPENLY STATE THAT YOU ARE BI. This alone will probably reduce your match rate by 90%

If you want to date men:
- Just put a photo of yourself in there. Men are animals and will fuck anything
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>>39387282
I just list a few interests of mine that show I'M NOT LIKE THE OTHER GIRLS
and maybe a short meme sentence that kind of relates to me

but your results may vary, my profile is pretty shit and lazy
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>>39387365
if you think being bisexual restricts ur dating prospects try being a tranny, not even the less than average guys would wanna settle for you
t. lowered my standards and still got ghosted
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>>39387365
you’re supposed to take photos when you’re out with friends?
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>>39386941
In Japanese cartoons, the characters actually fuck. I'm not sure it's a good idea to have sex with either of them. The other one might take offense.

>>39386994
:o

>>39387013
Incest is disgusting.
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>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

A reminder that at 21 GMT we will choose the next 2 movies for movie night!
You can give your recommendation now by replying to this post

>what the hell is "movie night"
its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community

>when will movie night take place?
its FRIDAY at 22 gmt

>where do we watch the movies?
on the Bigen Movie and Game Night Discord server:
https://discord.gg/X7pjs6WP

>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?
Of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to mute yourself during the movies, be civil and have fun!

fyi: this is the list of every movie we watched so far:
https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h
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>>39388158
I'm nominating License to Live one last time !
wu is nominating Life force !
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>>39387545
Ye you've been dealt a bad hand, I understand.
>not even the less than average guys would wanna settle for you
Maybe I'm just huffing copium, but I think there are decent guys out there willing to date trans people - they are just not very numerous due to few people being into that stuff in the first place.

>>39387546
>you’re supposed to take photos when you’re out with friends?
Yes, but in a way that doesn't scream "I am taking this photo for my dating profile". App/online dating is basically a dance where you try to convince the other person that you aren't a loser (regardless of whether you actually are one or not).
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closeted bis that try to convince themselves and others that they are actually straight even after posting the gayest shit ever annoy me so much
wish they would just come out to themselves, accept themselves for who they are (and others), and stop with the mental gymnastics that are literally on the level of "if we wear socks it's not gay"

it just frustrates me that they are technically one of us
I know being openly bi brings certain stigmas/problems/etc, but it's SO liberating and freeing to stop lying to and just be yourself

but maybe it's just because I relatively recently realised I was bi, so it's more new to me and I am trying to gatekeep the identity
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Pound tranny asshole
Lick tranny dickheads
Savor tranny mouths with thine own

LUV ME TRANNIES
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>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

The poll is now open, no further recommendations will be accepted.
The voting will stop tomorrow at around 4 PM GMT, so be sure to vote before then!

Here is the link to the server:
https://discord.gg/X7pjs6WP
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>>39388776
>try to convince the other person that you aren't a loser
damn, guess the picture of me and the boys in maid outfits at a convention is out. I was so sure that’d be the one to get matches off of!
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>>39388947
>tfw no tranny sticking her pp in my butt and caressing me
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>>39389060
LIFE IS BULLSHIT WITHOUT TRANNERS

satisfy my GAMP, TRANNIES
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>>39388776
>Ye you've been dealt a bad hand, I understand.
no matter how much effort i put into my physical appearance no matter how much hobbies i take up no matter how unique my personality is the average cis guy is going to want to settle down with a cis woman by virtue that she was actually born female
i tried giving t4t a try but it seems that im also incompatible with a lot of trans men as the ones that i have met seem to be gayden bottoms while straight/top ftms seem to almost exclusively exist online and even then they would wanna settle with cis women bc cis women dont have the same hang ups with going out as a trans person as cis men do
>I think there are decent guys out there willing to date trans people - they are just not very numerous due to few people being into that stuff in the first place.
unfortunately the harsh reality is that a fair amount of them would rather settle down with a cis woman when the right one comes along
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I don't understand the point of not disclosing you're bisexual if you want a long term relationship. It's a great filter, and besides, settling down with a person who hates your sexuality sounds like hell.
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>>39389204
I have to be suuuuuuuuuper careful around trannies and women

fem men don't give a SHIT
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>>39389204
Yeah I kept it a secret with one girl who hated bi guys and then felt too awkward to bring it up with my next gf even though she was a fujo. Now I'm open about it and it feels great. Current gf is also a bi fujo lol
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>>39363881
Hey guys, I’m a bi trans man living in NY. I’m in college studying biomedical engineering. I’m taking a few classes over the summer and doing research. I’ll mostly be focused on my research but I’d also like to get back into drawing. I’d really like some online friends to share my art with, maybe play some games/call, talk about sex, talk about careers and friends, etc. my discord is gbau_99
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>>39389305
>I’d really like some online friends to talk about friends
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>>39389232
Bisexual fujoshi and himedanshi are my favourite kind of people.
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>>39389339
Yeah, talk about my irl friends? “Gossip,” perchance?
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>be bisexual
>live in UK so it's redundant
ok
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>>39389485
>live in UK
My condolences
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>>39389339
>>39389479
I don't have the bandwidth for a new online friend atm but I can confirm, having an online friend or friends to anonymously gossip about your real life friends is a lot of fun and therapeutic.
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>>39379800
Sorry, I do not look anything like that unfortunately.
>>39382749
Nintendo people I know are willing to sell their things just to olay another pokemon. Nintendo could/should have it at 600 for the system and 100 for games. Btw like last time the tech demo games for the system is not free with the system.
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>>39383096
WHY CAN'T IT HAPPEN TO MEEEE
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It is tragic to me how many people completely missed out on rage 2. i think they saw it as a fallout kockoff and ignored it. nah brah this is a movement shooter set in an open world. a fallout sort of setting, but you play as the doom slayer. its really good actually.

>>39382970
prudent

>>39384814
its pretty new to consoles. again xbox tried to go purely digital a decade ago, doing much the same thing with disks that were useless and largely a formality, and the consumer threw it back in their face. i guess nintendo thinks its time to try again. they yearn for a digital only world where you will own nothing, resell nothing, trade and borrow nothing. this is nothing new really, nintendo was trying to get secondhand video game sales banned as far back as the 90s. its up to the consumer to send the message again, we still want physical media

>>39384859
they did, it was called the sage genesis classic, and because its a sega product, it sucked

>>39385431
emulators still cant match the convenience of original hardware. they can still require fuckery and configuration before the game will play right. and even then you may still have glitches. if you want piracy and convenience, get a ps2 and dvd writer and burn the isos to them yourself

>>39390784
youll pay 60 dollars for 1 2 switch and youll like it. wii sports was so long ago bros
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>>39389305
Join movie nights, also do you post art on a website outside?
>>39390847
I am not buying a Nintendo. I haven't since the wiiu. I kinda want nintendo to fuck off these days for attacking emulation.
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>>39390847
Nintendo has always been anal and stereotypically Japanese corpo-brained about controlling their products, yeah, so I’m not surprised as much as I’m tired. Their crackdowns on emulators last year made it clear they want to try pulling harder that direction again, as stupid and frustrating as it is. Happy seeing the digital re-releases of GameCube titles though. About damned time they got to that.
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>>39390847
>emulators still cant match the convenience of original hardware. they can still require fuckery and configuration before the game will play right. and even then you may still have glitches. if you want piracy and convenience, get a ps2 and dvd writer and burn the isos to them yourself
I mean for emulation yeah, I don't emulate anything newer than a PS1. I still have a Dreamcast, a PS2, and a PS3; and my gf has a PS5.

But for random new games where I have the option of PC vs console, I now go with PC with DualSense controllers hooked up via BlueTooth just because the PS5 experience is so annoying lol.
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>>39390815
one day anon...one day
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Odds I go out tomorrow evens shutin weekend.
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>>39392461
go out where
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to the 4 cis women on this board what would it take for you to date a twink
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w2ULCW2HV3w

Fuck everyone.
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>>39390847
>emulators still cant match the convenience of original hardware. they can still require fuckery and configuration before the game will play right
Ok grandpa, let's get you back to bed
Emulation was a bit tricky in some cases many years back but I haven't had a problem in years
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>>39392461
>>39393186
NTA but I'm going to a 21+ event at an art museum tonight.
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>>39395185
>21+ event at an art museum
This is gonna be some avant-garde sexual exhibition isn't it?
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>>39395200
I wish lol. they just serve drinks and you check out the exhibits and I think there's a dance area or something.
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>>39393312
Good chemistry, bisexuality, willingness to discuss regular culture and artistic choices in vidya, same as with all other types of men.
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>>39392461
Shutin weekend for me
If I've lost a good amount of weight this week I'll treat myself with some snacks and watch movies and shows
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>>39363881
You fucking spastics
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The fact that I have never been friends with (or even acquaintances) a femboy throughout my life is proof that God isn't real.
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>>39396396
Love you too babe
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>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

And we have the two winners!:

>Hot Fuzz
>Catwoman

So see ya later at 22 GMT!
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>>39396396
k
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>>39393186
I dunno, I live in my college towns bar district some something there.
>>39396170
I should stay in honestly, I’ve got a big paper I’ve been working on. I just need to destress though, been a rough semester.
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I fucked it all up again...

>>39364135
>it's strange, but I actually want to
I think that's good. They do help me personally, although finding the right medication was a pain.

>when I was in the funny shack last, we had.. nothing really.. it was a quite sad place
>basically just one corridor in an old building with patient rooms along it, and a WC at the end, a smoking section that was walled off, and a dining room area
Hmm, I've been to one of those before too. It was a closed ward, the open ward was better.

>I think I may buy a new bass bass...
Buy a fretless bass and be cool like Michael Manring
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post a video that best describes ur sexuality
https://youtu.be/2TPgopaeyEs?si=m3qNDSIG3LJJ5YMJ
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>>39397583
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3ExGuHWdXCE
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>>39397583
obilgatory https://youtu.be/Zd8vzIRQLLM?si=Sk4GryxjYyWYW2ED
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>>39397583
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=veZaHimbtaQ
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Am i the only one alive in the modern day who doesnt feel like they have any sort of addiction to their phone? I barely use social media at all beyond a couple specific purposes and aside from that i use it an appropriate amount and dont check it obsessively all the time. I think a lot of people dont realize that you can control what apps and notifications you get and you dont need to allow yourself to get pinged by grubhub every time they run a promotion. the doomscrollers of the world should probably value their own time a little more

>>39396610
>catwoman
finally some good fucking slop
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>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

A reminder that in 1h30 Movie Night is gonna start! Here is tonight's selection:

>Hot Fuzz
>Catwoman

>what the hell is "movie night"
Its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community

>where do we watch the movies?
On the official Bigen Movie and Game Night Discord server:
https://discord.gg/X7pjs6WP

>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?
Of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to mute yourself during the movies, be civil and have fun!

fyi this is the list of every movie we watched so far:
https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h
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>>39398397
>Am i the only one
yes
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>>39398397
My phone is for figuring out train schedules, navigation, calling the doctor when I’m sick, taking quick notes, possibly emulating my old pokemon games when I’m done setting it up, and thats it. Dont like small screen when big screen better
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>>39398397
I don't but I also don't have a smartphone
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>>39398397
Yeah I hate notifications in general and disable as much as possible. I use a Basedes S10 Max which has a 3.5" screen lol
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>>39376960
>/pol/
they hated the event because they realized they don't fit in with the rest of the site, was very funny to see the seethe threads afterward.
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>>39398354
observe, vanity's folly
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>>39398752
Nta but thats so funny. As hated as lgbt is we at least have some friends in /u/ and /hm/ and so on
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>>39390815
Because many bis tend to avoid people who ID as straight.
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>>39399025
>at least have some friends in /u/
How common are non-straight cis himedans there?
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I fucking hate commies I wanna kill ALL of thoss bitches it doesn't matter if it's an anarchist, a marxist, a leninist, a maoist it's all the same retarded bullshit fuck commies forever fuck you if you are a commie retard grow the fuck up stop believing in fairy tales. I'm bi btw
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>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

first movie of the night, Hot Fuzz, is about to start !!
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>>39399148
Cant say for sure, but I know 3-4 of them irl who lurk from time to time, so at least some
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>>39399236
why not cold fuzz
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and so i said, why not cold fuzz?
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>>39399171
I don't think they should die, but people who identify themselves as socialists or communists don't even realize how much of a self-report it is - like damn you're an economic incel, congrats bud
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I don't know why, but I decided to rotoscope a seal

I have pretty much no animation experience lol
it took forever to do

>>39397514
>I fucked it all up again...
what's up?

>finding the right medication was a pain.
yeah, it's surprising how debilitating they can be though so it's kind of scary

>It was a closed ward, the open ward was better.
hmm I don't really know the difference but it seems I was in a closed ward

>Buy a fretless bass and be cool like Michael Manring
so many options... I want a huge collection one day
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DONT WANNA BE AN AMERICAN IDIOT
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I miss edgy eyeliner billie
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>>39399577
v cool and valid seal, saved and hoarded.
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>>39384402
It's gotta be waaay higher with all the trannyfuckers living their Kinsey 2 TRVTH
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Realistically, as a fat diabled neet with zero social life, whats the best non-dating app way to safely hook up with other men?
I literally cannot stop thinking about sucking dick but dating apps are too confusing and intimidating for me and I dont take good pictures. I also dont want to get mugged or raped at a gay bar.
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>>39401062
a Second life group?
a sub R e d d i t?
All the smartphone apps are poisoned wells tho, in part because of the users, but mostly by design by their own developers/owners.

Depending on your personality I would date and/or sex you in RL tho, I adore fat guys, specially if they are bi, I exercise, I'm 6' tall and manly, 7 inches cock. So don't give up, there are people out there who would be a lot into you, make you feel special, caring and taking care of you.
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>>39400804
<3
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>>39401173
Thanks I hope I can find someone like you. Never played second life and I dont remember the last time I used reddit, but they both sound worth trying.
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>>39401300
>Thanks I hope I can find someone like you.
Wishing you the best at that, I hope you'll do, either if you want only something short-term, or even long-term.

>Never played second life and I dont remember the last time I used reddit, but they both sound worth trying.
Sorry if I wasn't explicit, they are not exactly the best options, they kind of suck in their own way, but for some it is better than the usual smartphone apps nowadays, the companies crippled them to milk the desperate users. I wish you could find a niche way to get what you want, for example, I still use to hook up with guys like you in an obscure IRC chat that was known locally if you googled something like "free gay chat", so that had like 200-500 users all day long, then from that we kept chatting through other apps, like whatsapp, skype, telegram, etc. Most people use it to just get fap material, but many were looking for real physical encounters. I've been told that another niche way could be joining local facebook groups, but I've never used facebook really, so I couldn't say. There used to be a very nice hook up local scene in my city, very variated, not a single group monopolizing, it were bathhouses and cinemas, internet cafes, etc, but all died around covid and the apps, I've met most of my boyfriends there (all of them chubby or fat), one of my best relationships was with this guy who touched my shoulder sugestively at the back of a public transport bus, I was distracted and didn't noticed him at first, but he gave it a shot because his bi-dar blipped with me, he was seated behind me, and as he was teasing me I stood up (wich scared him at first, I look kinda threathening) but then I sat at his side, and we talked nicely, at the end of our route we were tongue-kissing each other and some heavy petting too, it was magical, that guy was brave, yet sweet. So don't give up.
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>>39401062
Can't say I have direct advice but I dated a girl for awhile who had a very fat (like 5'8" 450 lbs) roommate who mostly rolled around on a chair instead of walking in the apt, and he had both a gf and a bf somehow.
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>had a sex party this week
>meet this cute and interesting bi couple
>had a nice chat with both
>they had to leave around midnight to a rap battle
>almost went with them 'cause conversation was real nice and it has been a while since I went to a rap battle
>next day, went to a friend's house to gossip about the party
>she told me the girl of the bi couple is borderline
Every. Fucking. Time.
Unbelievable.
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>>39403894
So much cringe in one post brah
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>>39403894
>Attend sex party
>Annoyed when finding out that mentally ill people are overrepresented at sex parties
I don't know what you were expecting
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It would have been the quintessential American story if the sex party had been held in the Playland at McDonald's and they rapped whilst fucking and then did a vigil for George Floyd in the parking lot.
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>>39403903
I accept the cringe, making me a free anon.

>>39403951
Eh. I ain't annoyed with being surrounded by mentally ill people. Everyone's is weird when looking closer.
I'm surprised by again meeting a borderline after slowly breaking up a friendship with a borderline person.
These weirdos are following me around.
>inb4 you attract what you deserve

>>39403959
If it's a sex party at a McDonald's, I prefer being a gangbang with 14 werewolves in the bathroom.
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>>39404035
Save something for later little girl, slow down
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It is already cringe enough that I was born bi. Just to make things even more cringe I'm literally obsessing over people even twice my age. Currently a mid 30s woman and a mid 40s man. I just want her to ride my cock, spit in my mouth, then keep riding me as I deepthroat the guy's cock.
What a fucking joke I am.
t. early 20s cringe lad
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if I can full "missing work ability" status I can visit the zoo for free....

at the moment I have partial and only get a discount.. but still kinda expensive..

>>39404352
>What a fucking joke I am.
why? as long as you aren't hurting yourself or anybody else, then who cares
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i think im going to get drunk tn
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>be me
>bi guy
>see cute guy in short skirt online
>message him
>very reciprocal
>meet up
>very stiff person
>doesn't seem to reciprocate anything
>he's alright with me touching any part of him, but doesn't really do anything
>he still wears the cute schoolgirl outfit that i liked in his pictures
>doesn't reciprocate any hugs
>me: maybe he'll get into it?
>try to get him to relax with whispers, soft touches, stroking, gentle stuff
>little to no reciprocation
>begin to suck him off
>his eyes are closed, moans a little
>he gets half-erect halfway-through
>he finishes after a good few minutes
>he requests to rest a bit
>doesn't get back in the mood
>we talk about life and mythology and such for an hour; he seems a lot more animated
>turns out he got found out and scolded by his parents on the way (conservative country, not USA)

>I never got off

what do i was expecting fun times but nothing happened

feels like shit because it might be the thing with his parents was bad but my technique might have been shit enough that he just didn't wanna keep going
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>>39406397
Seems like he was awkward from the start due to his parents or whatever reason, rather than anything about your technique.
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>>39406454
I certainly hope so

him getting half-soft halfway through really made me feel like shit, though i still stuck with it
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>>39406397
Was he a little autistic also? Talking about mythology for a whole hour after a blowjob could a sign of it. I'm not saying an stiff normie from a religious family would not, but, for an hour straight?
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>>39406660
i don't think so? im pretty good with being able to tell

it wasn't just mythology, it started with life, then his parents, then our generation, the economy, etc etc, and i was responding back as well; it wasn't like he was ranting for an hour about just mythology
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>>39406397
It doesn't have to do about your technique, anon. It was about him being scolded by his parents before meeting up with you.
Trust me. I was in this cute guy's shoes once or twice. Having something bad happening to you before going to do something you enjoy can kill the mood.
At least you could cheer him up with some conversation. That helps a lot.
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thinking of telling my 'fwb' that she can try pegging
she's bi and told me she wanted to try it, but nobody has ever agreed to it
I kind of want to try too, but I'm afraid of panicking once she goes near my bum

then again when imagining scenarios the only thing that seems to evoke fear is when a man touches me that way
but I can't know for sure unless we try..
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>>39407393
Talk to her and talk about your own anxiety towards pegging. Say you can both try, but no promises about going through the end of it.
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>>39407393
She wants it. You want it. Talk to her about your interests and your concerns.
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>>39407458
>>39407461
you're right
she knows there was trauma and said she doesn't want to do it if I'm not 100% sure..
that is a good idea about telling her we can try without going through, I think I'll tell her that when I have the chance, thanks!
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>>39406397
No amount of technique can undo getting scolded by conservative parents few hours prior. Imagine your mom catching you mid-goon session, freaking out at you for being a pervert, then having to socialise or be sexually available for a date right afterwards. I’d be stiff and unreceptive too.
>>39407393
Good luck estonianon. As long as you talk it through and you’re both aware of the possibility of needing to stop prematurely to prevent a panic attack without judgement, I think you’ll be good to go.
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>>39407813
thanks <3
thankfully she's very understanding
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>>39407791
>she knows there was trauma and said she doesn't want to do it if I'm not 100% sure..
Tell her you are 100% sure that you want to TRY, even if you MAY want to stop early.
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chat, do I crush all the mirrors in the house or starve myself for a month? semi serious question
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>>39408114
have you tried working out
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Johnny Mnemonic is currently being re-streamed on the Discord server.
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>therapist gave me some lorazepam for "emergencies"
NEEEEEEEEED
MOAAAAAAAAAAR
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I miss my pubes, it itches, why did my retarded ass shave them off
It's been 5 days. When does it end. I miss the gym but I couldn't be assed to go like this
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>>39408095
I think I will phrase it like this
thinking about it feels so exciting and makes me nervous though in a good way lol
I only relatively recently came out to myself as bi, and have mostly had vanilla sex only
never even done anal with a girl

>>39408401
iktf
was given benzos for sleep only when needed
in the end I took them every night because they are comfy...
be careful
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>>39403894
>had a sex party this week
You know, I'm not very religious myself, but maybe it's time to turn to christ anon...
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>>39408480
>was given benzos for sleep only when needed
>in the end I took them every night because they are comfy...
they /are/ really comfy, I never get to take em because the docs in my country seem very reluctant to prescribe them because muh addiction. only had them once before inna hospital
I fucking hate that I can't just buy any medication I want without a prescription unironically, fuckin gubermint keepin the regular joe down man
if I want to get addicted to benzos that's my choice reeeee don't patronize me

she only gave me 4mg... and i already took 1mg tonight... ugh

need more
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>>39408560
>only had them once before inna hospital
my last prescription was there too, then I got it extended out of hospital for a couple of weeks...

>if I want to get addicted to benzos that's my choice reeeee don't patronize me
benzo abuse is terrible and scary though, I don't recommend
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>>39408688
my body my choice
my body my choice
my body my choice

I've heard the horror stories too, withdrawals without a taper being terrible and life-threatening and all that, with seizures and shit. but that's why you just don't stop until youre dead

we all have to go someday and death by drug addiction/overdose/whatever is my preferred way of leaving this retard world

t. former druggie (currently prospecting relapse)
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>>39408120
that will surely curely my crippling dysmorphia
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>>39408884
>surely curely
I fucking hate myself I cant even type
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>>39406972
>>39407813
thanks anons

i was probably also feeling frustrated and backed up since i sucked him off but didn't even get so much as a hug
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>>39408884
Well it appears to be weight-related judging by your mentioning of starving yourself so yes
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>tfw my mom has kissed more girls than I have
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>>39377253
i encourage you to check out this short game when you have the time
https://taylormccue.itch.io/trauma
hopefully it changes your mind
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Picked up Arx Fatalis, seems fun so far.
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I feel like if I come out to my friend, but also conveniently leave out the transition and detransition part it would be worse and less truthful than just never saying anything about being bi in the first place, but it feels bad to keep anything secret I just want to be my whole self around others. But the trans stuff is too much for me. I would have a panic attack trying to tell anyone about that and I feel like that could backfire and really weird her out
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a few weeks ago there was an anon on here who linked a bunch of their favorite yaoi doujins written by fujo artists. I was going to read them end then some things happened and I didn't
are you still here, anon? x3
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FUUUUCK I'm down bad bros, I need to learn how to hook up with people (20, never been in a relationship or had sex). Since I snapped out of denial about being bi I've been FIENDING. Like holy fuck idk why, I'm not attracted to a lot of guys but when there's one I AM attracted to I get like short of breath lmao. There's this gay classmate of mine that is MY type, good fucking LORD I want to destroy him. His personality, his hair, his face, his body - he's ***slightly*** chubby but still fit... one day he was wearing a longsleeve shirt that showed his belly a little - GODDAMNIIIIIIIT
Idk maybe I need to come out first? I don't care if people know I'm bi, I just don't want it to be "the thing" that people know me for, you know? I just hate that awkward kind of tension that comes with it...
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>>39410040
funny u should say tht bc i got crossfaded tn and taken advantage of lul
some word of advice never take k from a stranger
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If I can't find another guy to cuddle sometime this year I am going to go insane
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>>39412688
How long had you been without one?
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>>39363881
>5days 12hours
never stops being funny how dead this place is
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>>39412768
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>>39412812
aww now i feel bad, do you want me to keep you company?
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>>39412741
All 29 years I've been alive.
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>>39412812
>>39412883
sorry but this is taking too damn long, i was going to post "sike" and "you really thought" when you replied but I'm not patient enough to stick around for this snail pace of a gen
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>>39412768
slow and comfy >>>>>>>>>>> fast and toxic
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>>39413385
You're so right, 2 posts every other hour is so much more comfy and interactive than a constant feedback
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>>39411701
it will only be "the thing" people know you you for if you make your personality revolve around it
as long as youre not one of those people who brings sex into every conversation, or hang the bi flag up on your wall, it will be fine, especially if youre in school
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>>39414136
re-reading this post i didnt realise how hateful it sounds i just woke up sorry
i didnt mean dont be proud of it or anything just some bis like to tell everyone theyre bi and thats fine i just meant if you dont want people to see you as "that guy" you really shouldnt have any issues if you just keep acting how you always do (unless you put on a mask or something but thats a different topic)
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>>39411998
are you ok ?
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>>39414893
you're replying to an 8 hour old post lmao, what's the point of keeping this alive at this point?
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>>39408415
Shaving anywhere around there gets itchy as hell, last time i tried i went around scratching my buttcrack in private whenever i could for a week. Waxing seems so intimidating though.
>>39408889
Kek great typo
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>>39411998
Fuuuck thats scary
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>>39415267
I've just started lasering my pubes (and elsewhere). After a couple sessions they're severely reduced already!
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>>39408415
This shit is why I just trim.
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>>39415332
Fuck maybe I should do that, since I have one of those at home ipl things already. Do you do it at the same strength as for your armpits? I fucking haaaate the stubble, but letting it grow long is too warm and musky for my liking
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>>39415365
In retrospect that seems like the infinitely smarter decision but I guess I wanted to feel pretty even though I'm definitely not getting my dick sucked anytime soon.
I was partially motivated by my classmate pointing it out in P.E lockers because it slightly stuck out of my boxers' waistband.
Major lesson learned, lol.
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new fuck here, i've come to sulk
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>>39415489
So curious who asked
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>>39415530
no one asked
i just barged in like a bitch
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>>39415489
What are we sulking about today, newfuck?
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I asked
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>>39415563
where?
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>>39415559
i've been talking to this girl (female), was going great and all, but somewhere along the way she assumed like I was full-on gay

GIRL I WANT YOU, I MEAN I LIKE MEN TOO BUT I WANT YOU RIGHT NOW
long story short, relegated to gay friend now, might just cut off contact
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>"dead thread"
>new person shows up
>"who asked"
lol
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>>39415669
lmao I'm just here to make fun of you guys, i don't actually belong to this gen
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>>39415669
figures you guys are too lazy to even keep this shit float
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>>39415574
*shows you where*
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>>39415915
I actually almost fell over laughing at this, good one
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>>39415587
Dude just tell her you like girls too, nbd, maybe casually bring up how an actress or a model looks hot if you feel too awkward to correct her directly
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>>39414893
yeh im alright lol thankfully the worse that happened is that he got a bit handsy and i got outta there as soon as i started to feel myself spiral the worst thing that came out of it is that my stummy hurt
in other news though a nice kind gentleman gifted me his hat and coat when i stepped outside to have a smoke but he was overly friendly and touchy too so i think he wanted to hit as well
its so hard being hot u_u
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>>39416051
>i stepped outside to have a smoke
Ewww
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>>39416051
that's nice to hear anon, next time you should ask the genie to make you less hot so you have a plain old nice time
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minecraft movie (unfinished version) starting in like 5 mins in the bigen movie night server come joinnnnnnn
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>>39417406
chicken jockey
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>>39416323
in my defence i dont make it a regular habit and only smoke when i drink
also im socially awkward by virtue of me being an unironic autist and asking for a smoke makes for a surprisingly good ice breaker
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>>39363881
>Favorite obscure album

It would be something by Masayoshi Takanaka. I never realized how many records he made, and so far they're all good or great. It's a hot spring here, so it feels perfect. It takes me mentally to the beach. I am bummed that I'll probably never get to see him live as he is in his 70s, only plays in Japan, and sometimes LA.
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>>39418303
>that blazer and those glasses
im jealous
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Was told I was too fat for this girl, who was looking for someone "with a lean body type".

I was told if I lost more weight, I'd "gain an inch or two of dick size".
My waistline is 88cm. That's ~34.6 inches.
My body fat percentage is 18%.
If I lost more weight, I'd maybe get 1/32 in of length, if any at all.

?? maybe she's looking for a unicorn? I'm confused
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>>39363881
>favorite "obscure" album
Got a few picks on my mind, but I'll go with Lustful Sacraments by Perturbator. Masterpiece.
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>>39418468
i think shes just not that into u babe, maybe find someone hotter to make her jealous
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>>39418468
adding context
>conservative country
>he just declared himself FTM trans a few months ago, and he wanted to compare how a dick feels as compared to his "ladyparts"
>he self-described as someone who presents and looks completely male
>having a medical background, I was willing to do so with explanations and such
>he wanted a bi or gay person who didn't mind doing this with another guy

so, including their reqs, they want someone who
-is bi/gay (already a rarity in the country)
-doesn't mind being with a trans person
-is leaner than average
-is shorter than him (being FTM trans, they're something like 5 1/2 ft)
-isnt there to 'just play with his ladyparts'
-has some amount of medical knowledge to describe what is analogous to what, not just clinically, but also in sexual scenarios
-is single

I mean, I guess this person might exist?

>>39418526
You're probably right on that front, anon, maybe the whole "show me how it goes" thing is a kink...
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>>39418523
saw gost and perturbator live a few years ago, was a great experience. i was moshing and didnt drink any water because it was too expensive and i almost passed out
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>>39418523
Fuck I was considering posting that one but I figured it wasn’t obscure enough. “God says he’s away”, man
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>>39418609
wanted to see perturbator and carpenter brut but couldn't go. man it would've been awesome

>>39418662
Twins :333
I mean, not the most obscure I know but if Masayoshi Takanaka gets a pass then surely this can count.
Either way FUUUUUUCK the atmosphere of this album is UNMATCHED. It's absolutely spellbinding.
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>>39418468
When a girl tells you that you are "too x for her", what she means is that she isn't interested in you. It doesn't matter if the "flaw" is retarded or even real, they just do it because it's easier than saying "No thanks, not into you".
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I fucking love Lightning Bolt and I can’t decide whether Wonderful Rainbow, Sonic Citadel, or Hypermagic Mountain is my favorite, it changes depending on the day
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>>39418700
For real, it’s one of those where you put it on and listen through the whole thing in one sitting. The depth and width of the instruments? Mwah. Chefs kiss, with tongue, 10/10 succulent meal
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Alright I’ll post one too but I dont know if it’s my fave per se, it’s just a good album if you’re in the mood for some long childhood car ride nostalgia
>>39363881
Light Sleeper by Girls Who Care
https://youtu.be/KSqBB4G2WBw?feature=shared
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>>39418415
If I won the lottery, there would certainly be signs.
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I'm joining you guys because there's nothing left for me in /gaygen/ and I'm probably going to kill myself soon. I do like straight cuckold porn but only to see males at their peak (stealing what belongs to other men and asserting their reproductive superiority).
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>>39419701
So if you’re from /gaygen/ why is your trip F anon?
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>>39419701
>I'm probably going to kill myself soon
Love yourself NOW
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>>39419848
I have a storied history over there. They won't admit it, but they love me. It's just i have nothing to gain from the place anymore. I have nothing to gain anywhere. I just want to die soon.
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>>39419957
Well I cant say I dont relate at some level, my past few years considered. Not that that helps you or anything. How long’s it been like that for you?
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I wish I loved women but I just don't. I have little to no romantic feelings towards women, only sexual. I'm romantically attracted to men. I don't know why I can't get over it, it makes me feel sad and insecure. I don't know the beauty other men see in women.
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>>39420432
Maybe you feel like you are missing out in some way? Like when you were a kid and everybody except you watched a movie in the cinema but you didn't, so you couldn't play along with the jokes and quotes lmao

>I don't know the beauty other men see in women.
I can obviously only speak for myself, but as a man what attracts me to women romantically is based on the same thing that attracts me to them sexually: them being different from men.
Just like their bodies are different, their voices, their hair, their smell, even the texture of their skin is different and the same is true for their personalities. The higher importance placed on emotions, the vulnerability, the capacity for nurturing and different ways of experiencing the world is precisely the appeal for me.
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>>39420084
2 or so years mostly on a steady decline with occasional bumps. This is the 4th prolonged period of suicidality I've experienced. I think it's just over now. At least it should be.
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>>39420505
I do feel like I missed out. There were girls who liked me in school but I wasn't that into girls as a teen. I wish I pursued one of them just to experience heterosexual romance/dating, cause otherwise I'd rather date guys. I don't want to try to date a woman now because I don't think I could truly love them in my heart.
>their bodies are different, their voices, their hair, their smell, even the texture of their skin is different and the same is true for their personalities. The higher importance placed on emotions, the vulnerability, the capacity for nurturing and different ways of experiencing the world is precisely the appeal for me.
Some of this is what attracts me to gay bottoms. I like the differences between me and them, but ultimately I feel like it's a lot easier to relate to them.
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>>39420584
>Some of this is what attracts me to gay bottoms. I like the differences between me and them, but ultimately I feel like it's a lot easier to relate to them.
Makes sense. I definitely feel the same way, with there being an inherently better understanding of each other when you are both the same gender. I still prefer women though, for the reasons stated in my previous post.
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>>39420432
its the opposite for me, i like women emotionally but men sexually
probably because i grew up with older sisters and was repeatedly molested by my male friend as a kid
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being bi is nice because when one sex annoys me I can just mentally switch to the other side temporarily in my head
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>>39419701
m'poon
you need pregnancy, saar
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>>39414136
>>39414868
Lol there's nothing offensive about the first comment, so don't stress. Idk I think I'm getting the impression that people should be at least aware I'm bi so if/when something relating to it comes up people won't be so surpised by it. But in reality it's probably not necessary...
I think it's more like I've been in denial so long it feels like I need to do/say something to make it "real"; I just need to chill out I think
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any warhammer anons i am painting my flesheater courts but it is very hard i am sad ; i cant do it well at al
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>>39421539
I've been awaiting the arrival of a Hashut faction in Age of Sigmar eagerly...
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>>39421539
i only play total war warhammer
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>>39411701
Fuck I wish someone thought of me like you think of him…
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Unless you've had romance with both men and women during your dreams, you aren't true bi.
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Honestly, dating women in 2025 sucks. I have a smell fetish and enjoy smelling my partner's genitals. With my ex-girlfriend, she would complain that she felt harassed when I smelled her pussy. (I'm a woman, by the way.) But now that I'm dating a guy, he never complains when I grab his parts or smell his penis. What went wrong wlw bros



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