A lot of people will genuinely tell you to go pull yourself up by your bootstraps (wokely) because they're too cushy for empathy
>>39381331No genuinely she's right.Were all in the same boat. Transition was fucking hard. Which is why it pisses me off when people aren't willing to do the hard thing but want to whine about how we have the same problems online. Transition or fuck off goddammit. Noones saying it's easy. I was dead poor. I was assaulted. Multiple times. I scrounge up every penny I could find. I lost my family. I'd do anything to be a woman and I'm sick and tired of people who wouldn't wasting air thinking they belong in the same conversation as me.
>>39381386I don't want to be assaulted just to make you feel better about yourselfDipshit
>>39381410nta but Florida? Really? Shouldn't you have weapons for your protection? I'm in a blue state and even I have items for my protection, and they were cheap online. I assumed Floridian trannies would happily crash out and cap cissies for misgendering them.
its annoying when people who literally dont have any lived experience of being trans or only have like a year or two on hormones dominate conversations online with opinions and thoughts that arent really any more informed than a cis personsyou're not fake trans but you're not the same either and often make us all look bad while hurting yourself
>>39381331reminder everyone that says take your pills retards in /repgen/ is doing it as a shit test to make more hons to mock
>>39381331not enough ppl are willing to say its not worth if you don’t have a 1 in a million skeleton
>>39381550if ur making this kind of value judgement in the first place and deciding logically to transition or not then ur probably not trans
>>39381603>if you're not willing to experience perpetual shame and humiliation with minimal relief to your dysphoria without a second thought then ur probably not trans
>>39381386don't forget they think you're very brave *headpats*
>>39381463also nta but i can't buy any. florida has draconian gun laws, can't get one till I'm 21
>>39381633yeah you sound like you don't really have dysphoria and are just weighing up the pros and cons of living a different life
>>39381633my dysphoria is completely gone. i do not pass. i do not have shame, or humiliation. shame is contrived. dysphoria is real. take your pick
>>39381331crazy that someone called "bambiattack" is making a good point
>>39381660this is so obviously an attempt to put your own experiences on a pedestal and dispel your insecurities that it kind of surprises me you haven't realized it yourself
>>39381667if you're happy honmoding then good for you, but not all of us are capable of the cognitive dissonance.
>>39381733im sure when you're on your deathbed never once having lived as who you really are, youll be very happy that you never partook in cognitive dissonance like those other fools.
>>39381410literally you are not going to get assaulted, you just live in another universe of cope if thats your excuse. dont care if you can send me news articles of annoying retards having this happen to them just be fucking normal and use the mens room if you dont pass and you will be fine
>>39381786to be clear i have taken steps to medically transition, but hrt alone is far from a miracle drug and i can't afford surgery. anyway, yes, i have no regrets about not socially transitioning. i desperately wish i could but i'm really not in the mood to turn my life into an even bigger shit show.
>>39381733i pass now but socially transitioned before HRT (crossdressing + pronoun change) and yeah hon moding is better. it doesn't fully alleviate dysphoria obviously at least didnt for me, passing did, but when you are around good people who respect you even though you get treated bad in public sometimes, you get to be a woman sometimes and that was a good feeling and helped a bit. being seen as who you are even just by people who care about you or people pitying you is infinitely better than keeping it all inside
i was really active on tumblr when i was a 14-16 year old, and I saw a lot of really embarrassing transgender posts from a lot of queer culture people and it made me think>I'll wait till i'm 18 to make the decision for myselfthinking that I could just wait, thinking that somehow I could continue to live as a guy.at 18 I came out to the only person who I thought would give me reasonable pushback, my father, and he said>No (deadname), you're not trans.I spent 7 years repressing until i broke down, 7 years repressing with backwards chud beliefs doing anything to cope about not being trans and around my 25th birthday i spent every day, from dawn till dusk trying to think of ways i "couldn't" be trans. I started hormones in october 2023.repping probably damaged my life more significantly than losing an arm or a leg for some people
>>39381864i do understand that aspect of it, but i do not have many accepting people in my life and am dependent on my transphobic mother so i don't stand to gain much. i guess it's case-by-case.
Why are LA people more concerned with coming out than they are with cumming in a beautiful bottom's ass?
>>39381848ah, i see. that sucks, hope you can socially transition one day.
>>39381723Maybe the GD thing actually exists for some people though…
>>39381888Bro I’ve done fuck all with my life either after high school and I’m not trans. You’ve got an incredibly common internet age personality type unrelated to being trans. You just used trans to break out of the rot with a surge of determined energy.Doesn’t last btw. I was back to NEETmoding by 27
>>39382103Even if it does they are little bitches that should stop crying so much.
>>39382124>pure anecdotal nonsense irrelevant to the original postboy i wish i was this stupid
>>39381410Yeah Florida sucks