Do men actually like being rough in bed and calling their partner a whore/faggot etc or do they only do it because bottoms find it hot
>>39403359It's very hot to do
I fucking hate it but every woman and bottom makes me spit in their mouth, and step on their face while im fucking them, and choke them till they almost pass out, and call them all sorts of horrid shit. I'm 6'4 and pretty fit / very masculine so I am never escaping this hell either. I hate pornography we need to ban that shit.
>>39403399Please just set boundaries and don't have sex with those people
>>39403359I’m not even a man, and I enjoy that for both reasons. I’m a sadist in bed and I love the pleasure it gives my partner.
I enjoy it, but I don't overdo it. I am pretty sure I start off very loving but then get a bit rough and start namecalling a bit before I cum. Then I become loving again. I can do some slaps. No closed fists. A little spit. No piss. Sounds like I'm orderingI do not believe in there being men that do not enjoy being rough. They're only saying it online to be special
>>39403402its like 90 percent of women a sub men that are into this shit and its not like they don't have 200 options on their phone that will oblige, you can't really escape it unfortunately. I will wife / husbando up the first semi-put together person that isn't into this sort of shit believe me.
>>39403421Also I am not a sadist, so I don't know why I enjoy being rough.
>>39403359I do for my own reasons. It's basically me powertripping for feeling like such a failure of a man. Then getting it out of my system, I feel at peace with myself until my dick is diamonds once more.
>>39403423I don't think there are that few women who aren't into bdsm or whatever. Maybe easier to find outside of dating apps
>>39403481you're right, apps and the types that go for people like me definitely select for people into that shit, still hard not to rely on it i guess - i'm not really in with the church crowd. I guess i have to stop being lazy a find dates at social venues instead.
if my partner asked me to call them a whore/faggot I'd probably try to do it but I'd feel terrible and gross and it'd be noticeable enough to immediately ruin the sexif my partner randomly called me a whore/faggot I'd likely punch them in the face and the relationship ends therenot gonna knock the ppl who are into it, I just think it's awful
>>39403359>>39403399Some tops seem to like it too and do it without asking. I'm a bottom and I just wanna get dicked down by strong men without making it weird.
>>39403481You're not wrong but the problem is that the alternative is absolutely frigid bitches who make "unadventurous" sound like a thrilling upgrade. The girls who don't want ot get choked either go to church or 4B now.
>>39403399im sorry for being broken
>>39403359my cis m boyfriend is really dominant and has some sadistic tendencies and im pretty submissive so it works well, however I absolutely hate being degraded in anyway verbally. I know he would like to and it would make him rock hard but I told him to never do that. he once called me a whore during it and I completely shut down and like almost went home because of how uncomfortable it made me sooo. im asexual now tho, we haven't had sex for like 3 months cuz I started viewing sex as a degradation in its own way and its kinda like a humiliation ritual and I dont want to partake in it. Idk why I started to develop such a schizo view on it. sex is gross. maybe its just dysphoria
>>39403359I do for sure with women. It came quite naturally and feels intense. I love to put a woman thru her paces really give her the fucking she fantasizes about, to really get her to embrace the natural order of her body being made for cock and let her inner slut out. BUT im not a sadist at all...I hate inflicting pain. I always try to make sure she is still in control and with a word can make it stop. I try to make sure she is comfortable and in a space where is feels like she can let go and explore....And I am always sure to give as soft of landing as possible as shit is intense and post nut clarity can be a thing even for girls lolalas, as a bisexual who is a bottom for men and love when they work me over with their big cocks, I have a unique perspective and that helps when I am on the other side lol
>>39403359>being roughyes because it's an actual physical thing>calling their partner whoreno because it's obviously a fucking larp
>>39403359Hated being mean to my cis ex gf in bed. Love love love being mean to my trans gf in bed. It's funny cause I had very little feelings for the cis girl I dated before her, it just felt normal that I should be dating someone and she was the first person to show interest in me. Kinda wish I broke it off with her sooner but I thought I was just a sociopath who was incapable of love so I thought I'd stick out the relationship. Big mistake. Anyway I love this trans girl with all my heart. Like just absolutely besotted. But I just wanna call her a faggot and bully her and spank her and slap her and see her just an absolute whimpering, terrified little mess. I'm getting hard just typing that. I give her the best most loving cuddles afterwards and sometimes I fuck her passionately and lovingly instead of violently. So yeah I dunno. I think sometimes people do that stuff to please you, but some people really do get off on it.
dirty talk is cringe but I like spanking and I love being able to pick up a bottom while I fuck him
