I'm FtM and my girlfriend (fka boyfriend) started transitioning. She is a mega virgin, like kissless hugless virgin type, so in the past few months of our relationship I've tried hand/mouth/PIV stuff and it all seems to overstimulate her and I've never actually gotten her to cum. That being said, I do think the prostate is my ticket to getting her there. I have never used a strapon or fingered anyone or so on and so forth and don't really know where to start with this or how not to hurt her in the process plzhelp ST4T anons....
If making her cum is really that important to you, buy her a vibrator and ask about her fantasies. Look up tutorials to gently finger her prostrate since your instinct tells you that'd be a way to reach climax
>>39482500She jerks off dry so even a simple handjob (with spit) overstimulates her is sort of my problem. I certainly considered that but I figured it'd probably make the problem worse...
>>39482434twinkhon hands typed this post
>>39482434>She is a mega virgin, like kissless hugless virgin type>I've tried hand/mouth/PIV stuff and it all seems to overstimulate her overstimulate how?cos if you're getting a solid reaction that sounds like the path to keep going downbut yeah if you're gonna try straps, go into it gently,>fingers>thin toy>gently probe deeper>big toy>roughly go deeperand if she doesn't know how to clean out, uhm, get her to do that xd
>>39482434tie her up and overstim for hours i think.
>>39482434I relate a lot to your girlfriend; every time my boyfriend kisses me or touches my nipples it’s really overwhelming and I kind of shut down
>>39482542I just got a heckin' euphoria boner doods>>39482558>cos if you're getting a solid reaction that sounds like the path to keep going downI have no idea how it feels for her but she's described it as feeling like a more intense version of being on the brink of orgasm the entire time I do it. I look up and she's biting up and down her arm idk>and if she doesn't know how to clean out, uhm, get her to do that xdTo be honest I was thinking of just putting a towel underneath her and fingering/pegging with a lubed condom so she wouldn't have to go through the trouble. Maybe ask her to fast at best idk. Obviously let me know if this would end catastrophically thoughThank you for genuine advice tho anon
>>39482631>To be honest I was thinking of just putting a towel underneath her and fingering/pegging with a lubed condom >Obviously let me know if this would end catastrophically thoughI am petrified of the chance, but unironically, if you plan it out it might work fineand by that, make sure the day before she's barely eaten, like I like a good filled bagel and the day BEFORE the day before, make sure she has something high in fibrebut disclaimer this is speculation as I clean out>I have no idea how it feels for her >but she's described it as feeling like a more intense version of being on the brink of orgasm >she's biting up and down her arm idkbruhReally hitting the male brained stupidity here ngl xdI read that as success already, but a dick on E is more desensitised and I've also had massive issues actually cuming, like I did a decade ago, but there is a high sensation that's I see as nearly the same thing, it's a constant pleasure as opposed to before where there was a release and then nothingWhich sounds like what you're describingSO if you're gonna try and up the stakes with penetration, be very careful to not hurt anything, bottoming the first time can be a nightmare(trust me on that one ;-;)communicate till the point she's too fukin stupid out of it to communicate(also also, it's prolly smart to not make her clean out, that shit is demoralising but I hope you're ok in case it DOES go wrong)
>>39482631OH also also also, make a greentext about it if it all works, I'll take that as payment for any successful advice >:D
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>>39482540do it slow and ramp up with her too many non dick havers just jork full speed immediately and it hurts, touch her a whole bunch all over her body and dirty talk also make sure ur not pulling her skin too far up or down but i feel like u got that
>>39482434advice: gentle touching. pet her hair, kiss her tummy, run yr hand along her thighswatch her melt in moments
>>39484460what im sayin
>>39482434Just trim your nails and put your fingers in her butt. It’s not complicated. If she fights it put your other hand somewhere on her to relax her or go slowly, but never stop or take it out. It’s the only way she’ll get used to being stretched out. t. gold star st4t ftm
>>39484636holy fuck neeeeeeedddddd
>>39484665Are you mtf?
>>39484728yeah...
>>39484836Cute. Good luck on getting your butt filled.
>>39484845ty!
>>39484845where do i find someone to do so
>>39485268bumpppp
>>39482434god i wish I had a bf
let her PLAP
>>39485268Taimi?
>>39487647ty. idk if that'll work but whatever
>>39482434Gorda Chechona? On my tranny board?
>>39489000actual gold
>>39488974Have you tried before?
>>39491316no, i'm retarded
>>39482434Make her jerk off while you touch or lick her
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