>>2956918 my 4chan was opened from last night and i wrote all this out before realizing the thread was archived, so heres my thought vomit on how to pass better incase this will help any of you nonas.dysphoria started for me around when i was 15 and getting into high school. i live with a very unsupportive family so i had to rep until i could get hrt when i turned 18. i dont know why i did this but i would constantly observe girls in my school that i found cute and try to pick apart why they were cute, what features they had, and how those features worked together. after obsessing about other people being cute and why they were cute for years, by the time i turned 18 and could get hrt i had an okay idea of how to mold myself in a way that made me more girly.the worst part about transitioning is trying to figure out who you wanna be, which for most of my transition was this kinda blurry image of a cute asian girl that i couldnt really understand how to get there. after picking apart which trait made a girl cute in the way i envied and how they worked together, a lot of those traits were actually not related to looks at all and had to do with just being a not horrible degenerate person. the girl that i wanted to be diddnt just look like a girl and was cute, but they were a better person than i was at the time. someone who was kind, patient, understanding, and loving. a lot of my effort early on went into weeding out the parts of myself that were fueled by bitterness and jealousy and just becoming a better person in general. with looks its a long trial and error process. cis girls get their whole adolescence to find their style and learn how to be pretty with all the support of women around them, but i was mostly alone in the beginning of my journey. heres what i focused on:
>contmakeup: i like to keep it light so it doesnt look like my face is made of plastic (doesnt look good on cis girls either) so i usually do eyeliner, a little blush, and concealer to hide my beard shadow. eyeliner takes a lot of practice so depending on your situation i recommend just practice eyeliner before you go to bed a couple times to get the repetition in there and find what style you like. watch yt tutorials and explore different stylesfashion: most vague and depends a lot on how you wanna carry yourself. i like the cutsey east asian style so i look at fashion magazines and also study other girls to get inspiration for outfits, what color combinations work ect. your approach to this can really depend on what aesthetic you want but i had to figure out how to style around the parts of myself that i was insecure about like shoulders, legs, ect. im on a tight budget so i go thrifting regularly to look for pieces that i can recycle into many different outfits or just get inspiration.skin care: depends a lot on your skin type and budget you can go crazy to the moon with skincare stuff but i usually also keep it light. watch yt videos that explain all the different products and theory behind skin carehair: the easiest thing ive been doing for like 5 years is just grow it out; its hard to go wrong with long hair. this is what im currently working on because to make your hair look better it needs to be layered and cut in a certain way, and mine is just really long so its kinda messy. im just looking at styles i might want and narrowing down on the style that fits me.General care: keep good hygine, use good shampoo and conditioner, use skin lotion (also helps you smell good), eat properly, and exercise. exercising really helped me put weight on my thighs which helped me make my whole figure look a lot more fem
>conti rotate which of these subjects im working on every couple months and try to reach out to friends for advice and input. lots of girls out there whether they be cis or trans are willing to help so growing those connections will definitely help you a lotthats my thought vomit i definitely missed a lot but thats the basic formula i apply to most things i hope this helps someone out there <3
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Things i did:Get ffsDo skincare dailyBrighten skin as much as possibleGrow hair outTake hrt Take progesterone after 4 yearsWear clothes that accentuate female features and minimise maleLearn to walk like a womanBelieve in yourself Find a good hairdresser Take botox Get lip fillerDo make upEnjoy lifeSmile
>>42964428something i still need to work on>>42964473>smilethere was this girl in high school that told me i needed to smile more, and ofc i was offended when she told me this because i was a bitter piece of shit but sometime later i realized i dont smile because im a bitter piece of shit and hate myself. now that im way farther in my transition and actually feel good about myself i smile a lot!
>>42964362any particular exercises you would recommend?
>>42964473>Take botox>Get lip fillerI did everything except these two.But I also got vfs and srs.But the most important part is to enjoy life. Nothing makes it worthy without enjoying life.
>>42965543ntaSquats and romanian deadlift are by far the ones that would help the most.
>>42964473>Take botox>Get lip filler31 turning 32 and people still think I’m 19-20 because of tox. Also lip filler is underrated even if you have good lips 0.5ml makes them so much nicer.
>>42965630Fellow queen>>4296560538 going on 28 here, how do i look 18, i tell them the secret to looking 8 years old is botox and lip filler >>42965500>>42965605Gotta find the good in everyday, gotta let go of the hate. It isnt easy but it feels good once its done. The purpose of life is to enjoy the process
>>42965543i did speed skating on a team here locally which is a really intense on the legsi dont really go to the gym too much (i really should be)
