Books that will help me find a virgin to make my wife? Even if only 0.01% of women are virgins, I need to figure out how to find them. The symptoms and warning signs of non-virgins, the beautiful signs of virgins, I need to know all of it so I can truly analyse a woman before marrying her. If I ever find out my wife has had sex with another man before marriage, I don't know what I'd do. Maybe divorce, maybe try to escape to a different country and start a new life, I'd kill myself but I don't really believe in that so that's not an option. You get the point, I NEED the skills and mindset to be able to deeply evaluate a woman. Thanks.
>>24083062What you tradcels who sneer at "degenerate hook-up culture" and whatnot have always failed to realize is that you're never going to get le beautiful virgin wife if you're a complete failure with women in "degenerate hook-up culture." It's like trying to get a zero-mileage Ferrari when you don't even have the resources to get a 300k-mileage Honda rental. If random sluts find you unattractive, you're not going to be some beautiful virgin's Chad.
>>24083073What if I've had success with women in "degenerate hook-up culture?"
>>24083079Then you wouldn't need hand-holding analyzing women.
Research different cult leaders out there and how they started. It won't happen without charisma.
>>24083088this. the only way you're getting that nowadays is if you're extremely good-looking and extremely charismatic to such a degree that some 30-something single mother gifts you her 19yo daughter for your harem.
>>24083073Except I've never tried to join the degenerate hook-up culture and even rejected some thots because even if they're pretty on the outside, they disgust me on the inside. I'm pretty sure I have the resources for zero-mileage cars in that case and I'm just asking where I could find the best to give it a shot. I don't know why it's so hard to believe some men don't just accept the first chance of pussy they get. I desire something much bigger than that and I'm willing to have the patience and make the sacrifices for it.
>>24083062Your best bet are autists and schizoids. So get yourself a book on recognizing mental illnesses.
>>24083276Autistic girls sound pretty cute.
It's extremely easy to spot a virgin woman.
impossible to do reliably in current year unless you literally groom a child. the idea of the now-defunct patriarchal social order was that the father was responsible for maintaining the purity of the daughter until handing her over to the husband. this doesn't exist anymore. you think a girl who starts developing sexual urges at 10 is still going to be virginal at 18, after 8 years of exposure to a sexually permissive social environment full of horny teenage chads, both in person and online? the only ones that will pass through this period untouched are the ones so faulty on either a physical or mental level that you wouldn't want them anyway. MAYBE if you found an extremely traditional family that homeschools their daughters with zero internet access allowed, but even then it's a gamble. even the amish are frauds and their children use smartphones. it took the combined effort of whole civilizations to keep the female instinct to whoredom in check, but now you think you can trust some random father to keep his daughter pure against the whole world conspiring to aid her in whoredom? not likely.
>>24083073You fail to realize that a woman is literally programmed to confirm to the man she is first with. If she is not a virgin then you are and will always be with some other man's woman. She can't even consciously understand that you are a different man. She will react emotionally based in experiences she had with the first man. Whatever he did to piss her off, she will transfer that right over to you without even understanding you are a different person. Women don't have the agency that society sometimes pretends they do. They were created to server their man and that man is the first man she has sex with. There's no getting around this. It is a biological fact.
Idk about books but really you just need to look at all the things that correlate with sexual promiscuity and work backwards from that. Tattoos are a big no, Dressing immodestly is obviously going to correlate to sexual promiscuity, The younger the woman the fewer sexual partners on average (probably an insignificant number of women above 25 that are virgins) this is obviously trickier for you if you're older. More obscure is checking for facial cues of hormone levels pic very much related -Which one do you think is more likely to be a virgin? I know that young men that score higher on IQ scores are less likely to have sex than literal retards and i assume that is also the case (to a lesser extent presumably) for young women. So selecting for intelligence is also going to correlate with chastity. How you go about doing this really depends on your situation and how sociable you are. Results may vary but for a start: Bookstores, Libraries, Bookclubs, Anything to do with classical music (e.g concert), Restorationist Shakespeare plays, Any university club thats of a not-retarded nature. thats all i could think of right now, Basically anything thats likely to filter out women bellow 110 IQ. Its not that the mentioned places/activities are actually for smart people just that hyper normie women will be filtered by it. The whole process is about filtering over and over again. So just go to wherever it could be reasonably expected that above average women might socialise and bring a friend so that you don't look to anti-social.>spend time social places that are likely to attract above average intelligence women>ignore women with perceivable symptoms of promiscuity (immodest clothing, tattoos, age, speech paterns .etc)>flirt with/ask out women that you get along with, go on dates etc>at some point they will talk about their sexual history, If they mention previous sexual partners just nod along and then later you can just let them know that you dont think you're a good match (don't mention why!) and then start the process again>eventually you'll find a woman who will say shes actually a virgin, If she doesn't have any reason to lie shes probably telling the truth (this is an important reason why you can't come across as judgemental)This is all assuming you aren't an ugly out of shape turbo-autist who can't even speak to a cashier but even that can probably be overcome and then you can move on to this.
Signs: wears boring clothes, baggy clothes, shyness, no tattoos, not interested in drinking or going out, likes folksy pop songs, perhaps religious.
>>24083268>even rejected some thots because even if they're pretty on the outside, they disgust me on the insideThis is just the usual "seamless" transition from I-need-help-understanding-the-absolute-basics-about-women to I-could-actually-be-a-master-player-but-I'm-a-Stoic--master-of-my-drives that /r9k/cels resort to when they don't like what they hear. Usually they're just lying, but sometimes they're deluded about the past and put a positive spin on situations that weren't actually opportunities at all, as people who need help understanding the absolute basics about women are apt to do.Beautiful virgins nowadays are more likely to end up with Chad womanizers because their womanizing has given them a social mastery and fluidity that the awkward turbo tradcuck lacks. Your best chance was probably the 1920s-1950s.
>>24083528I'm not skeptical about the value of a beautiful virgin wife. I'm skeptical about OP's ability to get one.
>>24083525Demoralization. A father only needs to raise her right up to the age of 16 or so where she develops her mind enough to be able to make a decision for herself, and if she's taught before then the virtues of chastity then she would likely make it a choice of hers that she would remain a virgin until marriage. You don't need to actively stop women from being whores if you plant the seeds of piousness in them early.
>>24083556>she would likely make it a choice of hers that she would remain a virgin>You don't need to actively stop women from being whoresdo you live on planet earth?
>>24083062You can find them by going on dating apps and setting your profile to global, and then being open to matching with less conventionally attractive girls. There's plenty of them around.
>>24083535Ill keep an eye out for that. Maybe ill get her to listen to Steeleye Span and Fairport Convention.
>>24083692>i want a virgin>go on a dating app and...lmao
>>24083708Ugly girls don't get matches
>>24083711of course they do. you had the idea to match with them, you think the legions of men desperate for any pussy at all didn't think of that?
>>24083744No, they really don't, and the matches they get are mostly shit, and they know it. When I was on apps a couple years ago I matched with a wide range of girls and met several who clearly had little to no relationship experience.
>>24083748You don't understand how deep the well of lonely men is.
>>24083796You're just feeling sorry for yourself. Your life is not that tragic. Within a year you could improve your appearance enough to get matches like I did, if you've already tried and couldn't. I'm not great looking. The girls I matched with were mostly average or ugly, but there's nothing wrong with such girls. They're still girls, they still want to cuddle and make a man happy, and from the waist down they all look relatively the same anyway. To be loved you need to be willing to love someone other than yourself. Sulking is proof that you're self-absorbed.
>>24083062>>24083073Dimes Square really needs to be location banned
>>24083062If you genuinely want to increase your chances of getting a gf, instead of reading you should lose weight and go to the gym, and if you're still ugly get surgery.
>>24083073this is technically correct but fails to distinguish between the four cases of men dissatisfied with what they refer to as "degenerate hook-up culture"group 1 never tries to compete within it at all because they're disgusted.group 2 tries it but is dissatisfied with the quality of women they getgroup 3 tries it, succeeds, but finds it spiritually corrosivegroup 4 tries it and actually fails to get laid at all.you're talking about group 4, who will indeed have a problem in any dating market. for all the rest it's +EV to exit any scene focused on casual sex and try to find something different. this holds even for group 2, because both men and women have different criteria for attraction for casual sex vs. LTRs.
>>24083528>They were created to server their man and that man is the first man she has sex with.What if she fell in love with a guy and had an "emotional relationship" with him but didn't have sex and stayed a virgin? Or if she had unrequited love for a guy but stayed a virgin? Aren't these still the same?
>>24084307Nope. I wouldn't give a shit if she thought she loved someone else before me. I would be the one to deflower her.
>>24084112Why on earth would I improve myself in a society that hates me for existing. I don't see anything wrong with going to the gym, but I'm not about to change my ways just to kowtow to gynocentrism considering it's not even going to do a damn thing about female standards. Just get rid of the concept of consent and we will back to above replacement levels.
>>24084313I get it but what's the difference? The guy would still leave a strong imprint on her psychologically even if they didn't have sex.
>>24083062t. incel virgin
>>24083062Just become catholic and join a trad catholic community. These fathers literally start arranging dates for their daughters when they are 16
Realistically the only way to do this today is either convert to Islam and marry a niqabi, or move to some Latin American country and marry a child
>>24084737Not with adult men
I do not desire such things
>>24083547>Beautiful virgins nowadays are more likely to end up with Chad womanizers because their womanizing has given them a social mastery and fluidity that the awkward turbo tradcuck lacks.This. /lit/ tradfags would cry if they realized that those virgin damsels are drawn to older and more experienced Chads who know how to seduce women, and not "sharing the same taste in books with good-goy Church boy" lmao.
>>24083062Chat wrote me this book right now:to optimize: 1. **target environments aligned with traditional values**: - **religious communities**: attend services or join faith-based groups that emphasize chastity. - **cultural hubs**: some cultures have stronger norms around premarital virginity; explore communities or events tied to those backgrounds. 2. **prioritize age-appropriate demographics**: - younger women (late teens, early 20s) are statistically more likely to be virgins, so focus on peer groups in those age ranges. 3. **emphasize shared values**: - be explicit (but not creepy) about your value system and interest in finding someone who shares it. - avoid hookup-centric environments or apps that favor casual dating. 4. **join niche spaces**: - look for social or hobby groups with value-oriented participation (e.g., traditional dating sites, virtue-based clubs, or even some college clubs focused on religious or moral discussions). 5. **develop congruent traits**: - virgins likely to value patience, respect, and commitment, so embody those. - avoid judgmental vibes—it alienates even like-minded people. the key is alignment: go where people with similar ideals naturally gather, and focus on connection over stats.Oh and if you want actual advice, find people in these communities who did what you want to do. Their experiences and help will be much more useful than any reddit blog
>>24084347He's a virgin who has no experience with women and thinks sex is the be all and end all about a relationship. I mean he'd kill himself or flee the country if he found out his wife wasn't a virgin? Blowing sex up in his virgin head to the nth degree.
>>24083062Crazy Cat Ladies
be good looking
>>24083062Don't men wish a literal 'Goddess' in looks and body to be their faithful and loving wife? What stops you from becoming a God, and conquer whatever woman you like? I don't mean a literal God, but at least do a handful of super-human feats like surviving in the wild for a few days, or learning to lift wheights. Or training for the super-human physique. There's no way of 'talking a woman into' getting interested in you (especially if you are not of the talkative sort). You don't have to be talkative if you are a God or at least a super-hero. Or a nigger. Or something. But sitting in your room watching vydia won't give you a personality and that's to men what booty is to women and you have no booty and no personality and no muscles... and you are surprised at women being as repulsed by you as you are by fat women? At least loose some weight. And if you desire a Goddess aka a woman that is attractive and a virgin at that... you better start becoming a God yourself.
>>24083475Believe it or not these girls are getting more sex than you
>>24088680Because they're women. Men can't get the same level because of things like consent. The law is a mans enemy. Never uphold the principles of a world that hates you.
>>24083062>/lit/ - LiteratureAre jannies asleep? Why didn't they delete this thrash thread that is completely off-topic? Not even a single book mentioned in the whole thread. The "Books for" or "Books for this?" in the off-topic posts is almost always an excuse to make /r9k/ threads in /lit/.
