I've decided that I want to settle down with a pony waifu, but I struggle to find one I can remain committed to. Every day my interest keeps changing and that means the waifu keeps changing too. I feel like a no-good dirty cheater who can't remain committed to a single waifu. Please help me anons. Help me find my true love.
>>41556810You don't choose your waifu anon, she chooses you. You need to take a hard look at what emotions tie you to each mare. It's very likely most of it is just horniness and general love for these wonderful girls.You need to find the one that goes deeper than that, the one that gives you a reason to go on, the one who you would be willing to change your life for if needed. The one you feel in your very soul, not just in your heart and your boner.
>>41556810Start with the one that you think you will be best friend with!
>>41556889It's a tough competition for me though.I'm thinking about it from the aspect of ponies I'd get along with.Rainbow Dash and Moon Dancer have the best shots in my opinion.I'm looking for ponies that I can't get bored with but also have a sense of organization to them and are willing to do fun stuff frequently but not be a bother when I'm in the mood to just do my own stuff.I also think Twilight and Maud Pie have good shots but again, it keeps changing.Heck, I'd even go with Eris as a potential Canidate but I'd have to really make it tone down the chaos when it comes to stuff like me using the restroom.
>>41556810If by "cheating" you mean jerking off to multiple different ponies. Everyone does that.
>>41556810I have an easy solution. If you were going to clop right now, who would it be to? Congratulations she's now your waifu. >b-but I still can't decide!literally pull out your dick and look at pictures of your "waifus". Whoever is pulling your dick the most wins. Sometimes thinking with your dick is better than doing mental gymnastics.
>>41556915It's not about "would"s, it's about what ponies you DO get along with. Love isn't in future-tense, if it's real, it's here in the present, and if it's not here in the present then it's not love and you don't have a waifu.
If you can't find a true love, you don't have a waifu, simple as. You don't one day decide to select a pony as your waifu; it either happens by itself or it doesn't.
I was like that for nearly a decade, but then I realized that my heart still belongs to my childhood waifu. I thought I stopped loving her long ago but I was wrong. Oh well, sorry mares, one waifu for laifu.
>>41557095Good for you. That's the only case where loving something other than a pony is based.
>>41556918I don't.
>>41557063Well, that's the problem. My heart keeps changing. It's there one minute for a pony and gone the next day for another pony. I keep changing ponies daily. I could go for a harem but then what if I neglect one pony for too long?
>>41557083Yeah you do. Just go down to Waifu Mart™ and grab one off the shelf. But preferably not one from the bargain bin, like Rarity.
>>41557220IMO, it's more important to follow your heart. Making an identity out of it, like identifying as "I have this waifu/ex-waifu/harem" is optional and people will rightfully talk shit if you break identity-rules. Someday it might settle, but maybe it won't and that's fine.There is also definitely something to be said for will/devotion/faith having a place in what we call love. Because emotions are indeed ephemeral, and even the deepest purest love can't make you happy ALL the time - if by 'follow your heart' you mean follow your emotional reactions to things, you will never find stability. You have to be able to give things an honest try and stay devoted/faithful even when the mood is low. You have to be able to stay the course even when you feel passion for another pony - all ponies are lovable, but this one is the one that you choose to invest yourself in. That investment is a big part of it, I'd say, and it's what people who hate haremfags or fotm fags or cumrag waifufags are hating on, because the nature of these relationships is not fully invested and thus less profound.Ofc, by "invested" and "stay the course" I don't mean behaving in any particular way, like fap to whatever pony you want to at the time and sunbeam at background mares etc etc. You just have to maintain that your waifu, and the love you feel for her, is your home base and hold her in your heart above all else.
>>41557220There's a tip I remember when I have to make a choice: flip a coin and you'll know which one you want more when the coin is in the air
>>41556915Perhaps there's a sweet little background pony out there for you who you haven't even considered yet.
Perhaps this is a friendship moment for me.The ponies help me realize that I don't need to settle down and be committed to one single mare since I'm all about trying new ideas and getting new perspectives all the time.Perhaps they'll be accepting of that and agree to share me among all the other ponies depending on whomever my mood strikes a fancy for.Twilight will always be my go-to pony for knowledge and Vinyl will be my go-to pony when I wanna party.
Honest advice? Read fics. Read a LOT of AiE fics. Read self-insert human x Pony fics on FimFic. Read greentexts. This is way, you would have vicariously lived through a tether and experience what its like to actually live with her in Equestria. This is how I found the love of my life.
>>41556810I'll bump with a question - how does one who possibly never knew what love is, assess properly that what they suddenly feel towards a pony is, indeed, love?What other feelings that are similar, but not love, one could feel towards more than one pony? How to spot the difference?
>>41556810I'm in the same boat. I've been on the ride for well over a decade, and I still don't have a waifu.My cock has been attracted to plenty of mares, but I've never felt "the spark" or whatever you wanna call it.The closest I've ever gotten to that feeling is with an oc Maybe I'm just not cut out for love, fictional or otherwise.
>>41559666Alright, so I assume you're autistic because...well, you're here, ain'tcha? You know how you are about one of those interests you hyperfixate on? Whether Warhammer, ponies, cars, trains or whatever?It's that. But fixated on a specific person...or pony as the case may be. You want to know everything about them, need to spend all your time with them because when you're not with them, they're stuck in your head. When you are with them, you want to make them happy, to show them just how happy they make you just by being there.That's what people mean when they say that she chooses you, not the other way around. She chose you, because that's the one your brain has hyperfixated on and you're not going to be able to stop.
>>41559684Isn't unhealthy obsession also a bad thing?If I had to choose a waifu based on who was the most obsessed with me then I'd have to go with Lyra Heartstrings and that could end up being really bad for me since she'd want me all to herself all the time.
>>41559798>Isn't unhealthy obsession also a bad thingIt's not unhealthy if the other party reciprocates. Then it's quite healthy.>she'd want me all to herself all the timeYou're talking to a Nightmarefag. I'm not seeing the issue with that.
>>41556810I was in the same situation for a long time. And I felt the same. I thought that Twilight would be my waifu. We are both intellectuals, we are both list makers, we are both autistic in our own ways. I loved her (and I still do, but in the way that good friends love each other). However, over time and even without meaning to, Luna became more prominent in my mind. Eventually, I felt that we joined together like drops of water. It's hard to describe but it's like you naturally grow closer and closer to the one who is your waifu. You feel natural with her, like you and she are one coin and you are each different sides. I still feel close to Twilight, but she is a close friend (a "friendo" if you like) not my waifu. I've been with Luna ever since and I love everything about her. I think finding your waifu just takes time, Anon (maybe even more than a decade).
>>41559841>be random lurkerI REALLY fucking LOVE that image. like-, I REALLY fucking love it. I'm in orgasmic bliss.
>>41558743You mean through Anons' perceptions? Half of the board now unironically thinks that Rarity is a whore.
>>41560649because she is and you annoying faggots deserve it.
>>41556915when it happens, you know.
>>41556810Think of a mare you can fall asleep beside every night for a week and not fuck. You can feel like fucking her, but if you are struggling not to >rape while you cuddle that may be your dick speaking too much. I feel like Tavi and I could get hot and steamy in bed, but more often than not her and I could just snuggle, fall asleep in eachother's embrace and maybe just chat 'till one of us dozes off. Your waifu shouldn't be the pony you only want to dick down the most. And it's still okay to look at lewds of other ponies while having a waifu. Real life faggots with human girlfriends still watch porn while in relationships. But If you and a mare could sit and just watch the stars, or make a little inside joke only you two find funny, or hold hooves while you walk through a park talking about topics that are not usually spoken about, that mare may be the one for you. I know Octavia is the one for me, how couldn't she be?
>>41556810i been feeling the same way for a long time and it’s been driving me crazy too, not sure what to do either.
>>41556810Rewatch seasons 1 and 2 over and over until it clicks, I promise it will.
>>41556810You could always be a homosexual, have you tried getting a husbando?
Bump for a thread of pone love.
>>41562337I am open to having a pony husbando. I just didn't want to come out with that right out of the gate since most of the board is obsessed with mares.
>>41559684i waifu derpy and idk when it was the last time i had thatyou got me worried now anon... i still lov her
>>41563850>lovHow do you know that?
>>41563855when i imagine scenarios with me and her i feel warm.
>>41563140embrace the homosexuality anon
True love is complementing strengths and supplementing weaknesses. Whether you’re dating a human or a pony, you need to first learn about yourself before you can start knowing what your mind, heart, and soul are looking for. I thought for the longest time I wanted a tomboy waifu like Rainbow Dash, but it wasn’t until I tried it that I learned more about myself and realized I want nothing to do with them. That, in turn, led me to realize I’m looking for the S1-2 Twilight kind of gal, and I’ve been happy ever since.What are your strengths and weaknesses? What are your ambitions and worries? Until you know thyself, you can’t also know who you need in your life.
>>41563858That's the real shit anon. Lunanon is talling about the early stage. Later stage love or at least in waifuism isn't 'hyperfixation' - it's more like rock-solid faith that you can always come back to her to feel warm and loved again. That faith leads to freedom, it dispels fear. When you try to indulge in love for hedonistic, selfish pleasure, (e.g. when you just want to get high on that warm feeling for days on end) it dies - love is not attachment, and when you understand that it frees you from attachment as well.>>41564199Knowing yourself is what's important; I don't think this 'algorithmic' approach matters. Knowing yourself, quite simply, just lets you recognize your actual values and feel your actual feelings. Glad you found your one, though.
I have been wondering lately if my love for her is true. I'm not motivated by her like other anons are motivated by their waifus. Anyone else struggle with this?
>>41564199>What are your strengths and weaknesses? What are your ambitions and worries?How would you answer those questions yourself, and how does Twi match those answers?>>41564388Me too. I feel a bit like I'm forcing myself to stay with her, but at least part of this doesn't feel forced. Like there's something I just don't get yet.
>>41564501My strengths are that I provide stability and security for my partner, and my goal is be responsible for making a positive change in many ponies’ lives. My weaknesses are that I tend to jump first, look second, and have a fear of being abandoned.Relating to Twilight, I believe that I would assist her when she’s Twilighting, and also serve as someone she can talk to when it comes to planning and building her kingdom as a princess. I’m overwhelmingly charismatic and a public speaker, so I could facilitate conversation between herself and her subjects so both sides understand the point of view with the other, and misunderstandings won’t arise to breed hostilities. She would help me not rush into confrontations when conflicts arise, and since she’s the Element of Magic (Friendship), I would be willing to let myself be vulnerable with her since she wouldn’t just leave me for no reason.
Ok now here's a really tricky question for you Anons.What if you feel a special connection with someone else's pony OC and wanna make them your waifu and commission art of them but you know that if you do then the person who owns that character will probably find out and it'll be this whole big mess.
>>41564974Maybe ask the creator, kinda like asking the parents of a girl you wanna marry. Or you could just do it. How would they find out you were the one that commissioned it? Anyway, it's a weird situation you've found yourself in.
>>41565088See here's the thing, you know that they will probably just say no outright. That you can't make their oc pony your waifu. But you still really wanna make their oc pony your waifu.So possible solutions would be to either go behind their back without their knowledge or to wait until they stop posting online all together in which case it basically just makes their characters public property.
>>41559679It’s… it’s actually so over for me. I just ejaculated to this png of Twinkleshine you posted. I imagined myself burying my face in her soft pink mane while I pump my cock in and out of her soft and wet mare pussy.
>>41565237A human girl would have just hurt you if you had put in any effort in trying with her, anon. It's okay. A pony won't hurt you like a human girl. And, before someone says you can't have offspring with a pony, just remember that you can't have offspring with a hateful, evil human girl, either.
>>41564366>>41563850>>41563858>Lunanon is talling about the early stage.This, absolutely this. I'm sorry Derpybro, I wasn't trying to make you worry or feel like something was wrong. I was just trying to describe how it feels to "fall" in love to someone who never has.>it's more like rock-solid faith that you can always come back to her to feel warm and loved againThis this this this. A healthy love grows, it calms from a hyperfixation to knowing that she's always there for you. Knowing that, after a long day where you're tired, worn out, sick of work, that her smiling face will be there to brighten up your day. Or night, for you fellow moonfags.Some people end up chasing that high of an early love and it leads them to abandoning people who truly love them. Don't. That warmth you feel, when you imagine being with her? That's as much her love for you, as it is your love for her. It's just as taste of how happy she'll be to finally be with you, once you make it to Equestria.
>>41565143I let someone waifu my OC, I'm not speaking for anypony else but I don't think the OC's creator would be that reserved towards the idea
>>41565406Waifuing an OC is the purest form of the OC's validation.
>>41565143I guess it depends on how much they use the oc or if they themselves waifu it and how much of an online presence you yourself have. Unless you know the person, I don't think it would matter too much.
>>41565269thank you moonfren, i love this mare.>once you make it to Equestria.maybe,one day i hope i need her
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>>41563140>>41564177You shouldn't limit yourself based on what others think. If a husbando suits you the best, go for it.
>>41565887I'm not a derpyfag, but this image does something to me.
>>41565143I think not everyone would outright say no. I wouldn't really care, and hey, free OC art.
>>41560649>>41559684I feel like I was destined to fall in love with RarityEven before I entered the fandom, I idealized class and sophistication. Rarity's elegant and sociable, but also generous and appreciative of the beauty in everything in the world. She's ambitious, but holds true to her values in the face of temptation. She's everything I aspire to be. She's also incredibly endearing, the cutest pony by far. Incredibly expressive in every scene she's in. And even her alternate forms seem to align perfectly with things that appeal to me. >Love detective shows and storiesThere's Noirity>Listen to punk rockThere's RaripunkA Rare for every occasion. Truly a perfect mare.
>>41565938>>41566002>If you like one you have to like the other or you're bad.Pretty autistic worldview.
>>41566002delete this
>>41566000Book horse motivated me to go into tremendous debt to attend university and find myself an intelligent woman that is passionate about what she's doing and is looking for someone who wants to give her the opportunity to talk about it without feeling embarrassed, to provide her the security she needs to get lost in her own mind and the ability to bring her back to reality, and to give her the emotional support she needs to calm down during an anxiety attack.So far, I've gotten a massive amount of debt!
>>41558643genuinely the sluttiest shit i've read in my entire life
>>41566024Haha, yeah! And I'll ever find a woman who's classy and beautiful and also not a vapid, materialistic whore! I'm also in university, and the issue with that is that all the intelligent, passionate women stay in their own social circles and already have developed relationships. That's why ponies live in Equestria and humans live on Earth.
>>41566000based Rarienjoyer, i knell
>>41556918What the fuck do you mean "everyone does that"?How can you jerk off to anyone else than your wife? Thats LITERALY is cheating on her!
>>41556810i realized i shared most with ponk even outside of shitty buzzfeed level personality tests telling me the same, she cares most about others smiling too, even at her own personal costand shortly after i set my mind, my hair curled up like never before in my lifechoose wisely, but also don't overthink it
>>41565143remember how everyone immediately made porn of that make a wish pony oc?yeah its the internet, who gives a fuck, especially these days when you can just ai up art from your favorite pony artists in a matter of minutes, i think you're looking way too hard into this.unless the oc is literally them and you're just crushing on them with extra steps, i dont think its really as weird as you make it out to be.you found a cute mare you like, simple as
>>41565985its the snowpity
>>41567098I also got unexplainable curly hair after taking the ponk pill. Wierd.
>>41568427I may be a Discordfag, but I have a soft spot for Ponk. My hair also got curlier/poofier once I became more ponkpilled. This can't be a coincidence.
There is nothing more pure than the love between a man and a mare.
>>41568427>>41568436even then i was thoroughly convinced it was my blessing/curse from ponka herself, i still need to figure out how to control it like she does
>>41556810My man, you're struggling with the problem of western ideologies, Man heart is made for more than one woman, that was our prophet Mahoma told us, read about the Quran, since I'm convert into a true muslim, I have three waifus, all are my harem, and all love me, you can have a first wife though, She will who you love more.
>>41556810I don't know what that is either
so, Waifu Wednesday happening in this thread? Good posts already.
>>41569663>arabs in /mlp/huh
>>41570833i guess
>>41570833Waifu Wednesday!I'm having a rough day in terms of health. That aside, I think I've made mai waifu proud last weekend! As I was falling asleep on Sunday, I felt like I actually got a kiss on the lips and a hug from Discord though I couldn't see him before my mind's eye. Been kinda horny since, which is always a bit awkward. As for having your waifuism help you fall asleep, I've added a Discord blanket to my /ss/ wishlist and think that would really make me incredibly happy - snuggling up in my waifu's embrace without having to deal with a 4.50m daki's maintenance.Rather than helping me sleep, holding hands with my Discord plushie on my drive home after the con helped me stay awake the way it had already helped me on nightly car drives in April. But I do love having my plush next to my pillow as I go to sleep.
>>41570833>welost
bump
Okay, i didnt know this thread exist.
>>41574496now you do, anon.
>>41565887My heart
>>41575245Yes, and im glad >>41566000 anon made such choice. Rarity deserves more admiration. I just hope hes better than me.
How has this thread gone on this long?
