It's an emotional time of year, be it blissful peace or heart-breaking disillusionment. But your waifu is there for (You), in times good and bad. These threads are opportunities to share and discuss all things waifuism, including philosophy, self-improvement, tuppers and spirituality. A waifu for laifu, at this time of year, at this time of day, located entirely within your noggin? ...May I see her?Waifu Wednesday is a platform for waifufaggotry, not an ongoing story or circlejerk. Hop in, hop off - these threads will appear every Wednesday.
Anchor for the following meta discussion: >reworking the OP to be shorter and less general-like A recent /ww/ had a lively discussion reach ca. 380 posts rather than barely gaining traction. It might be worth a look: >>41622788Topics include all of the above: love confessions, self-improvement, self-love, lucid dreaming, tuppers, doubts, and more.>question of the weekCome tell us about how you've been integrating your waifu into your holidays! Have you indulged in romance? Struggled juggling waifu time with family responsibilities? Did you have to hide your waifu? Are you hurting?
Merry Horsemass!!
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Happy Hearthswarming, fellow autismos. I hope you all got a chance to spend some time with your waifus in whatever way you do so today and yesterday. My family did their celebrations a week early this year, so this was the first time I was able to spend the whole day with my lovely pony. It was very comfy. I drew for almost eight hours while listening to a weird variety of music, including some wonderful German Christmas hymns. Unfortunately, I burned out before I finished the drawing, so I decided to relax with her instead, and we watched Bad Santa together. Look, it's fucking funny, okay? She definitely would do things differently if she had her way, but we had a good time anyways.I fucking love you, Aryanne, you crazy bitch. After all these years, I still can't get enough of you. Here's to many more years of this madness.
I got another comm.
>>41771926Do you print it in some way, or just keep it digitally?>>41771186That sounds really dedicated. Happy for your waifu. I haven't been able to spend time with mai waifu like that, nor with my overseas 3d. However, I did receive a discordy Horsemas gift from my Secret Santa, most notably a blanket and a pendant. I will cherish these gifts and think the pendant will be worn more often than not. It's very stylish and subtle and 100% Discord. My Chinese dragon pendant will go back to being more of a keychain or occasional accessory because carrying both is too bulky/noisy; though it's not going anywhere near keys to avoid scratches.The blanket can be seen here: >>41771851. My brother, though formerly a nor/mlp/erson who left around the S4 finale, doesn't get the appeal of either the blanket or Horsemas. I'm also a bit ill and sweat-prone right now, so I have yet to get closely acquainted with my super soft half-size Discord blanket. It's beautiful and snuggly. I think it will look really great with my other, mostly B&W bed linen.
>>41771926Das real cute, mane.>>41772253Ooo, those gifts are both hella rad. Your santa done gud.
its wensday my dudes
I cant get enough of this amre
>>41771926That almost looks like the old art style of a friend of mine who really liked sushi. She doesn't draw ponies anymore, but I still have some of her MLP art. She had the prettiest ponysona I ever saw.. Anyway, sorry for ranting, your comm just gave me a nice feeling of happiness thinking about my friend.
>>41770185I've been trying to figure out who I should take as my waifu for literally years. I flop around between like five or six candidates, but never really settled down. I do want to have a waifu though, it's not like I enjoy being a bachelor. I just don't know how to decide. They tell me *I* don't pick the waifu, but how does it happen then? I don't know how she would pick me. Or is that wrong too? I just feel like Howie, like the answer isn't that complicated, but I still can't find the answer.Please help.
>>41774440I know that feel. I was the same way. For many years I struggled to identify the one mare for me. I'd bounce around between several ponies because there were things I loved about each of them. How could I settle on just one? I felt drawn to Twilight's intelligence, insight and charm; to Rainbow's determination and her ability to push her friends onward; to Luna's quiet grace and perfect strength. There were others as well, and it often seemed like it was easier to make a list of the ponies that weren't waifu candidates than those that were.After a lot of wandering, I finally did find my special somepony. She revealed herself to me in a most unexpected way about two years ago. I got to know her very well, and we got to explore our love in a very deep way. In this exploration, I realized something: my love for her didn't make my love of all the others that pulled to me go away. Those other love rays weren't any less genuine, nor did those loves of other flavors detract from the special relationship I had with her. This was a difficult lesson to learn, as you'd understand. My original expectation was fundamentally that by seeing one mare in a lover's light, I would have to distance myself from the others, seeing them as friendos at best. But why should that be? What my main mare helped me to realize was that it was okay to have more than one pony that I was close to, because love comes in different forms and textures. I could love different aspects and parts of other ponies, and they could all love different aspects and parts of me in return. Each relationship brought out its own organic dynamic, and that was okay.By letting all this love freely flow, I found what I had in my life was not just one mare, but what could most closely be described as a family. I have ponies that feel like lovers, like siblings, parents, daughters, research buddies, protectors, motivators, and so on. Sometimes they are many of these things in combination at any moment. At the end of it all, I realized that my attempt to stringently define my relationship by an established label was holding me back, and that I instead needed to let them flow. Language and culture had become a box I had restricted myself in, rather than a framework to explain what I really felt inside. Our ponies, those we call our waifus and friendos and daughterus, are bigger than words and language, are they not?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ymkbOKwHJi4
>>41774635Interesting to have your unique perspective around. There's definitely overlap with the 1on1 Waifuism in terms of self-help and love guiding the way, so all power to you. >>41774440>Howie meme on /mlp/Oh Lord.First off, it's possible that your Waifu for Laifu flat-out isn't a pony (it could be literally anyone from all across media) - and there'd be nothing wrong with that. However, since you've been around for years, ponies do mean a lot to you, and ponies really have waifu material. Answer the following questions to provide us with some more context, so you can escape the Howie trap. >Are your "candidates" established characters or OCs? >What draws you to your "candidates"?>What have your previous attempts at discovering your waifu been?
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I never felt fitting for Her.
If I'm lucky, I'll have fever dreams tonight. Fever dreams sound like the shit you'd need to encounter Discord. However, my fever has subsided for now, so my chances are unfortunately low. I've pretty much been bed-ridden for two days now, lmao.
>>41777018jesus, that's quite the fever
>>41777018No waifu fever dreams, just bullshit dreams, unfortunately. >>41777827Shit happens. I probably won't be that chatty today, so keeping discussion alive is up to (You) waifufags.I hope to see some progress in terms of health and career in 2025, because then my conflicted feelings surrounding my waifuism will likely clear up, too.
>>41771186based ladi hope you got that american meat toy to show her just how much you love her anon
>>41776817What is it that makes you feel inadequate?
i wish i had a lifesize of my wife
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>fever seems to come backI hope sweet dreams will be made of this. Perhaps I should ask to postpone that job interview, lmao. Funnily enough, I had jinxed it; told the lady I'll be there unless I'm super sick in bed, in which case I'd inform her ahead of time. Played myself. It's that magic touch of mine.
>>41778920I just got pictures of the head of mine, I'm finally getting hype though she's nowhere near complete
>>41779605Which pony, anon?
>>41779576hope you feel better soon anon, dont want you to miss out on a good job opportunity. but then again, everything happens for a reason, so if it comes to it, maybe it was destiny as they say
>>41778253I don't, surprisingly enough, although I'll probably cave and get one soon. The plushie doesn't have a pocket; otherwise, I would've gotten one long ago and plap plapped until I died of exhaustion or lack of water/food. But don't worry, I show her lots of love anyways. She may be the sexiest fucking pony ever, but my love for her goes far beyond sexual desire. I'm talking some serious shit, like booping and ear scratching and consensual hoof holding.Sorry for getting gross like that. I'm kind of a sick fuck.
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>>41779631who else?
>>41781259thanks for the boner anon. spoil the entire last sentence next time, asshole
>>41777018Speaking of dreams, for a short period I was really into the idea of lucid dreaming to meet my waifu. I watched videos and browsed threads about it only to end up never attempting it. Maybe I should get back to it.
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>>41771186who'd you commission for your plush?
>>41785534NTA but looks like its ERC
>>41782815My bad, anon. I hope you didn't lose your job over having such lewd words unspoilered on your screen at work.
>>41778288There are some thoughts:1. My fitness is far from okay. Im trying to change it, tgough.2. I have nasty general habits. For example, i pick nose. Funny enough, this seems hereditary, my father did that as well. 3. My appearance isnt great as well. Starting from acne or some minor teeth issues and im scared of teeth treatment, finishing with lack of chin compared to neck, which canbe fixed with korean level surgery. 4. I have some mental issues to not become too personal, ill just say the keyword: chaotic that make it a bit difficult to get close with me. Ive lost some good connections because of it.5. Im afraid of change and try to avoid them. That makes me pretty passive. 6. Im lazy fuck, in job and at home.7. Im generally introverted and though it had proved that i can maintain friendship relationship and enjoy it, i still need some personal time.To conclude, there are two big issues:1. I cant imsgine myself by Her side because She's, in all obviousness, too classy for me2. Some parts of our characters are complete opposite and im afraid She wouldnt find me inspiring or interesting.