Do women really go out with you just for the free meal, assuming you will pay ofc? Maybe only in big american cities, if it is widespread over Europe as well then it is truly over.
I had two dates this summer. One we had drinks and she wanted to split the bill because she didn't like me. The other we had drinks, then went to a second venue and had food and another drink but she only took tiny sips of that. I ended up paying for her food and drinks for nothing in return.