I don't remember being like this in the early 2000s. What's the cause of it? Jewish societal programming? People lack so much decorum and self-awareness. It truly baffles me. It's like the only time they consider being polite is when you have something they want.My great-aunt who lived a long WASPy and productive life was noted for her ability to be funny without doing it at others' expense. This seems like a rare character trait in this day and age, where people will stoop to anything for a laugh or for a thrill. It's just so sad. I don't meet anybody who possesses basic manners anymore. Nobody takes accountability, either. Nobody can solve interpersonal problems without going through the 7 stages of grief and possible physical violence. Is this due to or jewish niggerized society or poor parenting? Or am I just in the wrong neighbourhoods? It feels like overgrown children everywhere.>t. millennial in Canadian city btw
Why don't westoids use honorifics anymore? Feels weird to call an older stranger without Mr or Mrs.
The population is becoming dumber and more narcissistic because that’s the kind of person who reproduces more
>>486650079Sir muslim please dont make us abide by sharia laws in order to make ethical banking and cultural decisions
>>486649831same as ever.look up the studies on empathy and attention span and literal brain mass
>>486650237>t.
>>486649831The problem is that people teach kids to be polite be because it's the "nice" thing to do.They don't teach the fact that being polite actually gives you some serious tactical advantage on the social sphere.I've managed to tame down obnoxious people using manners and a bit of manipulation.
>>486649831humans are emotional not logical. they "average" person has gone down hill i believe. society used to be based on cooperation with others ie doing things besides netflix and video games.canada is known globally as a lefty shit hole. atheists are known to be selfish soulless assholes.same with my country.
>>486649831 I can't remember a time when people WEREN'T rude, and I'm ten days older than dirt.
>>486649831OP is a faggot! He is from Canada, aka WEST INDIA!He is surrounded by street shitters and he thinks he is superior!Look at me! I'm Leafposter! I declare my medical aid is superior even though the only answer my doctors tell me to do is to kill myself! How did they know I was trans?Day of the rake is coming in fall leaf and you are gonna starve while Indian's and chinks force you to eat their 'home cooked Canadian wet market meals'!Neener neener neener!
People are taught nowadays that kindness is seen as weakness. That nice guys finish last. That you'll never see 99% of the people you meet in a day ever again. So they figure why even be pleasant or respectful at allI blame it on a lack of discipline and manners not being taught by parents. Yeah its easy to blame an older generation, but what else explains people just not giving a fuck anymore
>>486649831this is what you wanted. this. this is your diversity! this is your globalisim!where the next man is nothing like you! you have nothing in common with them not even a language. you dont know their motivations. you cant even pronounce their name.you should get armed.
>>486650754>I founded a society on mercenary hyper-individualism, and now my collective interest has been undermined. how can this happen to me?I mean, I don't really know what's going through your head.
Why are we supposed to robotically parrot antisemitism? Why are we supposed, in this case, to debase and humiliate ourselves with a ritualistic submission, pretending that we cannot see antisemitism as rude? Why, in a word, are supposed to OBEY?
Low trust society. I blame the jews.
Unironically it is because of the internet and social mediaPeople are more divided and angry than before, and the anonymity of the internet gives them the courage to say things they would never say in person in the past, let alone think
>>486649831When dueling stopped, so did polite society.
>>486650079we replaced that with pronoun insanity
>>486649831>nowPick up a history book. People have always been rude, violent, and mean spirited. If anything people are actually much more civil now. For thousands of years people would just kill each other over nothing.
Poor decorum is just image and often vanity. Being of inconsiderate and cruel nature is what isn't cool, buster.
>>486650636>I've managed to tame down obnoxious people using manners and a bit of manipulation.Good to know I'm not the only one, genuinely listening to people and being polite can take you a long way, especially nowadays where everyone is so antagonistic, I've had women fall in love with me simply because I actually let them trauma dump on me and I actually engaged with them and worked through the problems with them, it's just in my nature so it's not overbearing at all. Truth is, I'm a good person at heart, but psychotic normies turned me into a jaded individual in my teenage years, luckily I had enough sense to snap out of it as an adult.
>>486650870nothing wrong with being nice. problem comes from a person that has no core confidence or self-respect that feels they need to be nice
>>486651236pendulum has gone too far and needs to come back a touch. people need a smack in the mouth for society to not "weak men create hard times"
>>486649831Because they WANT to fuck with the wrong person, they are so arrogant that they think they are tough and invincible. What's going to happen is they are going to get shot or stabbed for their insane public conduct eventually. I was raised to have respect and the vast majority of people who go into public and are cunts on purpose are why I no longer care when people die in shootings or collisions because chances are everyone involved was probably a cunt.
>>486651033When people were able to form their own communities and set their own standards without borders the need for standard decorum faded. People have tried to rebuild it as the internet has centralized but unless you can meme it the days of etiquette are basically dead.
>>486651379One of the most difficult things to accept is that people usually know how to fix themselves so it's useless to tell them what do to.They just want to feel listened.
I'm only polite to people who are polite to meOtherwise I just talk very straight forward and with little emotion. "I want this. Give me that. I need this. Help me with that." Etc etcNo use wasting energy on subhumans
>>486651943Yep. it's become a hostile dangerous world.And you have no clue who is on their last nerve.Grey rock. keep your head down. and get armed.
>>486651943Maybe it's just where I live, but being this selective has freed up an insane amount of my time, basically because almost no one is polite.
>>486651379>genuinely listening to peopleIt's too time consuming and it's almost never interesting or productive. Time is a valuable resource and it's a waste to squander it for just massaging a dumb person's ego to stop them from being rude.
I don't like threads that are structured like shitty bait threads, but on the off chance it isn't:https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Moral_Basis_of_a_Backward_Society
The comments in this thread sicken me.1) Be polite because of pride in who you are and because you want things around you to be better and lead by example. Not because of what other people do.2) Being polite can be inappropriate for certain situations. (OP is a huge faggot.)3) If the weakness of others causes you to be weak, you are worse than they are.4) Your idea of what is polite is a meme and different from what someone across the world's is. This is why being kind is more important than being polite. If you call a starving man a dick while you give him a sandwich, you are helping. If you say "How do you do fine sir," while he starves to death, you are a piece of shit and kind of a psycho. But at least you weren't rude.5) If you don't understand the value of building people up over tearing them down you are not a leader and have no valid opinion on what etiquette should be. But then maybe that is why you cry that someone didn't put the fork and salad fork in the right order.6) picrel
>>486649831Shut the fuck up. You must be a child.
>>486653103>3) If the weakness of others causes you to be weak, you are worse than they are.Going to clarify because I hate this phrasing after posting it:If the weakness of others trying to be kind and good to others causes you to prey on them, you are more weak than they are.Other phrasing sucked because society. Strong as weakest link. Etc.
>>486649831Simple, people spend way too much time on the internet so they got too comfortable and in your case leaf your country is full of jeets, chinks, and mudslimes they are not known for being polite>>486651033This
>>486652784Agreed, maybe I should become a therapist so I can get paid for being nice and listening.
>>486649831People are probably realizing that "being nice" gets you no where in life. It doesn't help that there was a campaign like the anti-"nice guy" movement by women to make it seem like being nice took no effort and should be taken for granted. In fact, being rude and not giving a shit takes even less effort, did they ever think about that before feeling entitled to "niceness"?
>>486654280being nice now gets you kicked in the jimmies and taken advantage of.
>>486650933>I don't really know what's going through your headA bullet
>>486651127This.
>>486654704>i can fuck you over right to your face and laugh at you and you can do nothing! "civilized"
>>486649831Why not
>>486654280>>486654517You guys autistic? You guys don't know the difference between being polite and niceness? What you two describe only works with women and loud niggers outside of that it is still best to still talk politely to strangers especially if there is a chance the person might be unhinged
>>486654517Do people take advantage of you less because you are a dick or do you just feel less bad because you got yours?Some places have always been dog eat dog. Others not so much. This kind of thinking is just an excuse to act like a dick, and if that is what you want you should just own it.Being nice costs nothing. It makes the world better for everyone.On the other hand some people feed off that and need a kick in the head for being predatory and selfish.
End Times Bible QuoteAccording to various Bible passages, people in the end times will exhibit certain characteristics. These include:Lovers of themselves (2 Timothy 3:2)Lovers of money (2 Timothy 3:2)Boastful (2 Timothy 3:2)Proud (2 Timothy 3:2)Abusive (2 Timothy 3:3)Disobedient to parents (2 Timothy 3:2)Ungrateful (2 Timothy 3:2)Unholy (2 Timothy 3:3)Without love (2 Timothy 3:3)Unforgiving (2 Timothy 3:3)Slanderous (2 Timothy 3:3)Without self-control (2 Timothy 3:3)Brutal (2 Timothy 3:3)Not lovers of good (2 Timothy 3:4)Treacherous (2 Timothy 3:3)Rash (2 Timothy 3:2)Conceited (2 Timothy 3:2)Lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God (2 Timothy 4:3-4)
>>486649831You just need to watch yourself that you don’t become like them. No matter what always hold on to good manners and good will to dear life. That’s part of the whole purpose of living, to be a good person no matter what.
>>486649831people aren't rude, you're just stupid
>>486655130Impoliteness and evil spreads like a disease. Someone gets hurt or abused and becomes the abuser and it goes round and round. We need to hold on to Jesus and never lose our humanity.
>>486655052absolutely. a dick might punch you in the face if you screw him over or disadvantage his path in any way. deal square and get rid of him fast.
>>486649831It's because of the niggers and jeets. No one is happy and no one is safe with street shitters and baboons running around.
Serenity is hard, but it works as a rhetorical strategy. Embrace serenity and politeness will generally be no additional effort.The two effective strategies are serenity and love. I will not speak of love much in this post, but obviously love tends to be polite.Serenity is not strictly the same as rationality, but it is good for speaking rationally and thus engaging the rational minds of the people to whom you are speaking. Like serene discourse, rational discourse tends to be polite at no additional effort.Rudeness militarizes discourse and prevents people from communicating freely with each other. It is a threat to free speech, full stop. It is a symptom of the widespread hatreds in our current period that people have become so obediently abusive and willing to surrender their free speech at the altar of rudeness. When people are rude to each ither, what they are directing towards one another is not speech, but criminal intent and a desire to oppress the outgroup.Insisting on rational engagement directs the conversation towards people who actually believe what they say, and who thus are potentially able to change their minds. The dishonest are trying not to put their actual beliefs on the line. Rational engagement thus enrages dishonest participants in the discourse.
>>486649831People have alway been rude
>>486650114>>486649831Basically a breakdown in families and communities. There's no accountability. If you saw the same people nearly every day or expected your interactions with a wider community to impact your other social networks you'd have a greater accountability.If you're in NYC on a random street, the overwhelming odds are you could be a general dickhole to almost everyone and have zero consequences. Compare that to a very small town of say, 500 people, in which you really just have several dozen families and almost everyone is connected to someone else.Secondly is a lack of a need to rely on others. In modern society you can basically be a shut in and get your tendies and watch TV and talk with communities of people on the Internet semi anonymously. You do not really rely on your family or community as gatekeepers to participate in entertainment or for work or other support.
>>486650570Your face is a butt
>>486655428>a dick might punch you in the face if you screw him overHonestly you deserve to be punched in the face if you are out to screw people over.> Rudeness militarizes discourse and prevents people from communicating freely with each other.If you aren't able to express a lack of respect especially when none has been given, then the speech isn't free. I don't disagree with most of the rest. "Hate speech isn't free speech." is a mental disability
I'm a gross pervert and I have had to stop using one of my dedicated fetish websites because the vibe has shifted to replace sexual tension with just... Well, tension. People feel entitled, everyone is on edge, some are too open with kinks while others are all too happy to kinkshame... It also doesn't help that the moderators are hands-off to an embarrassing degree. So on one hand I'm glad I can quit being a coomer. On the other hand I fear for the future if I can't even talk about my paraphilias online without dealing with the literal worst humanity has to offer.
>>486656040projection much? out to screw people over. no. thats just you.
>>486656213I was literally replying to the phrasing in your post, but I get what you meant now.
>>486650867Kek.
Pedophiles try to seem trustworthy with children. If a subculture, political stance, or profession is seen as more trustworthy with children, it will attract pedophiles. If a social strategem reliably grants access to children, pedophiles will attempt it.Dishonest people try to seem honest. If a social strategem is widely seen as honest, dishonest people will adopt it en masse.If rudeness is seen as a sincere and trustworthy kind of communication, dishonest people will get ruder. If politeness is seen that way, dishonest people will get more polite. If having a strong public brand is seen as an honest endeavor, dishonest people will develop personal brands. If speaking anonymously is seen as proof that you're speaking from the heart, dishonest people will speak anonymously.In general, evil colonizes that which is perceived to be good. If a particular cause is universally renowned as the purest thing on Earth, the purest evils will embrace it more than anyone. Evil must cloak itself in good until it has the privilege of true dominance.The rudeness in this particular space suggests that dishonest people believe the key to seeming sincere in this place is to speak rudely. If society in general has become rude, I would likewise suspect that people who value honesty have become accustomed to treating rudeness as symptomatic of sincerity.
>>486656172>join coomer discord >think it's just going to pertain to cooming to random social media sluts and the occasional bants>it's mostly just infighting, people accusing each other of being pedos, mods getting into pointless arguments, scammers trying to charge you 100 dollars to join their telegram, insecure coomers who call everyone a virgin after the dreaded post nut clarity hits, kink shamers, spam bots, etc. yikes, what happened to social cohesiveness.
>>486649831>Jewish societal programming
>>486653103saved
>>486656716If dishonest people try to appear honest, that means they are acting like honest people who act in that exact same norm, retard.
>>486649831In The Protocols it talks about the creation of cold and heartless communities by diverting the mind of the goyim to industry and trade while putting industry on a speculative basis.
>>486655683>breakdown in families and communities
I think part of the problem with cults of personality is that they create local influence clusters such that, within the cluster, there is a 100% agreement on what is good. This makes these spaces tremendously comfortable for people who are facile liars, since they can adopt the local language of virtue with virtually no risk of being caught out. Cults of personality thus facilitate the development of backstabbing social dynamics and the elevation of dishonest people.This may be why most politicians in the developed world do not aim to become 100% popular, and look askance on any rival politician who encourages zealous adherence.
>>486656172>I fear for the future if I can't even talk about my paraphilias online without dealing with the literal worst humanity has to offerthat was Jesus point in hanging out with whores and tax collectors, the real bad people are found in churches
>>486657240Honest people also try to seem honest, but honest people also lead changes by seeking new ways to be honest.Society does not generally collapse into stagnant ways, and relative stagnation in sociocultural terms also tends to facilitate the development of dishonest leaders by giving them a more profound cover.
>>486657610>adopt the local language of virtue with virtually no risk of being caught outthe problem with the west is that no one calls people out because its religious warfare and bigotry and narcissism of small differences and backwards and unscientific, its all my brother the guy who according to my worldview is going to hell
>>486649831I'm a millennial in Canada as well, Waterloo to be exact.I have no idea what you're talking about OP. People here are just completely tuned out. Nobody interacts, nobody socializes.Where do you live that people actually have conversations and interact with each other?
>>486657189Thanks. Not really sure it was worth capping though. I think what I said was "good enough" not completely accurate. The Good Samaritan stuff kind of ignores people can only handle a limited amount. The point is just to say kindness is a decent goal to aim for, more than superficial politeness.
>>486658110Also feel like someone could twist my words into being an excuse to acting like a total douche while helping someone, which isn't what I'm going for either.
>>486658110>"good enough" not completely accuratelike a meme
>>486649831Cause most people are vile IndiansIndians are rhe nastiest and creepiest race
