>>77262879
i am currently in the process but it already feels impossible to recover
lol at being happy lmao

>>77262879
>waste your 20s doing nothing
>life is irreversibly over
the best time was either yesterdecade, yesterscore, yesteryear or even yesterday. But the next best time is NOW. As long as u ain't physically crippled or someone diagnosed with neurologically degenerative disease like parkinsons, It ain't OVER.

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>>77262879
>I failed school due to hating it and being generally mentally unstable
>Lose any kind of friend I had. >Double in weight over a year or two.
>Get nasty stretch marks all over my body, literally mark of failure etched into my very skin. >2011-2014 think about suicide often and ways to accomplish it
>During this time 3 neighbours (one being booted from home at 18) kill themselves
>Feeling of wanting the same increases, but never do
>Nearing 30, having done nothing but a job for a couple months
>Get some wierd shit where I can't breathe, think I got some kind of stroke because got twitchy eyes and my mouth moved on its own volition and exteme gut pain which made me lose 10kgs
>Lost appetite, any kind of lust
>Get past 30, generally fine
>Starting to get gray hair, eye sight fucking dogshit, skin on some parts starts looking like a fucking grandma
Childhood is severely underrated, literally best time of in existance

>>77263618
for me 7-19 were the worst years 24-28 were uneventful but filled with despair
20-23 just felt like a nice break from everything and finally 29-30 has been pretty nice. 31 starts soon but its unclear what will happen because theyre making me change living arrangements again
childhood is okay but its just as luck dependent as everything else

Not knowing how to drive while living in America is what truly ruined my life more than anything. Jesus Christ. You're locked in a prison basically. The bus makes a 10 minute trip turn into 2 hours.

>>77262879
Life isn't defined in your 20s.

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>>77264155
You are expected to cement your foundation during your 20s
Find a partner, get your housing, experience life fully where you previously couldn't due to restrictions of age, slowly climb your way up in the heirarchy of career.
At 30 children, get a house, your career is at its peak, you are satisfied
At least, this is the image that has been set by boomers and those before them

>>77265286
the only ones who expect anything of you are probably you and your parents.

>>77265314
If you talk to old-timers, this is what they will tell you how it was at that age

>>77265286
Nobody really cares whether you buy a house or learn to code or for a pipe at 30 or 50 as long as you do it right.

The social and relationship milestones are NOT a meme , however, and having no experience spending time with your friends or girls will make you look like a retard.

>>77265346
It probably was like that, but nobody really cares if do the same things.

>>77264155
you are right
it is defined in your 10s

>>77263222
secondu postu bestu postu desu

>>77262879
Move, thrive, fight it!