Being a 24 year old virgin is eating me alive.I'm truly thinking losing my virginity to a prostitute at this point.
>>77263911Prostitutes are pretty cool actually, not the street prostitutes though. They are just hoes.
>>77263911I was 27 when I lost mine to my first gf. I'm glad I waited for her but it's up to you.
>>77263911Might as well, it's nice if you can have your first time with someone special but at one point you just have to catch up. Also losing your virginity is also going to demystify sex in a way. I definitely carried myself differently around sex and flirting before and after.
>>77264052And I'm still the same embarrasing retard as I was before, I just lost hope and went for the paid option. It's not my first failure.
>>77263911I will probably go to a prostitute if I don't lose it some time after hitting 30.
>>77263911I am 37. I was a KHV until I was 23. I was in the exact same place that you are OP in terms of it driving me borderline crazy and making me consider going to a prostitute to get it over with and bring me back to sanity.I decided to just hook up with the first girl who was offering because I could not deal anymore. Ended up losing my virginity to a 2 out of 10 hambeast and being fwb with her for a few years since she offered up no strings attached sex on demand whenever I wanted; she knew she could not do any better and I think she knew I was in a similar boat but that I would never be seen in daylight with her. It was an unspoken understanding. I have been with my wife for 7 years now and married for two. My wife and I struggle with intimacy for a lot of reasons and one of them is that I see sex as a predominately physical act whereas for her it is an emotional one. I am just very used to sex being this thing that I do not have to be attached to the person in any way to do and my past choices have reared their ugly head in marriage. I wish I did not have that baggage to bring into my marriage with my wife, but at the same time I do not think I could have gotten my wife without the confidence and ease with women that came from FINALLY losing my virginity and all the anxiety & neurosis it caused me in young adulthood.Food for thought from an oldfag.
>>77263911You should have done this when you were 18 but no biggie. Prostitutes are awful, the worst sex you could possibly have.You're not gonna feel any better t. 28 y/o prostitute "enjoyer".Luckily for you drugs exist. They are better than sex, any druggy will tell you opiates are 10X better than pussy. And if you are smart you can spend 10 years on heroin without croaking.
>>77263911bro just do it. you won't regret it. ppl overthink who your first is and in the long run it doesn't matter. better than beating yourself over it. just get it done
>>77265671In the long term he's an incel. The only sex he will ever have is with prostitutes.That is disappointing and a waste of money.
This is gonna sound coombrained, but porn is more enjoyable once you've had sex cause you can empathize with the feeling and not feel anxious about FOMO.
>>77263911Theres nothing wrong with being a virgin anon. It is just one state of being. I gave up my virginity to a heinously ugly girlfriend years ago and now I just wish I could get it back. Not to give it up to someone else, the truth is I probably wont have sex with a woman again. But I feel like I would rather be able to say I am still a virgin rather than have to deal with only ever having had sex with that one ugly girl. Its a grass is always greener problem. You think the grass will be greener if you lose your virginity. It wont be
Muthafukas on dis shit think losing their virginity will give them super powers or sum shit liek wut
>>77265390Where did you meet your fwb anon?
>>77266544My group of dudes hung out with her group of girls occasionally when we were in college.
>>77266826Life must fucking suck for an ugly woman, holy shit. Can't be seen together with her, brutal.
>>77266826How did you lose so late while being a normalfag? I mean i can understand neets and hikki that don't have any friends and never leave their home to be virgins but someone with a social life must have sex by 18
>>77263911Why? Then you know what you're missing out on.
>>77263911I lost my virginity to a prostitute a few months ago (21). I go back and see her roughly once a month. It feels nice, but it is expensive. Once you have sex, you will crave it harder since your mind makes the connection that it is now attainable with $$$. It becomes an expense. I could be saving towards a PC upgrade or a car that doesn't run the risk of killing me when it breaks down every time I drive it instead. But to be honest, it is pleasant and I do feel really good during and after my visits to her. I have felt no benefits like "increased confidence around normal women" that some people report. But it's addicting. Be careful!
>>77266926Not being white while being in predominately white schools was probably the biggest reason. But I also just had social anxiety. Not crippling per se, I had friends and got along with people, but enough that I did not feel comfortable at parties and that trying to cross a room to talk up a pretty girl felt like being asked to climb out of my trench and cross no mans land back in WWI.
>>77266926>>How did you lose so late while being a normalfag? I mean i can understand neets and hikki that don't have any friends and never leave their home to be virgins but someone with a social life must have sex by 18mostly related
>>77266894I actually feel bad about it now in hindsight. I am living the effects it has had on me. I cannot even imagine what it has done to her.
>>77266826Hmm Im 25 and dont really have a friend group I guess im going to have to approach at social events or clubs
>>77267087How did you find her, is it legal in your country?
>>77267399Yes it's legal here. First time I paid for sex I got a blowjob from an escort I found on a website, messaged her to make a booking and she sent through her address details etc. Had to wait awkwardly outside of her apartment building for 30 mins before she was ready to let me in. Second time I lost my virginity at a brothel with a different girl because I didn't really like the first one. You just walk in on a whim, the madame sits you down and then a bunch of women come in one by one to introduce themselves and explain their services etc. and then you tell the madame who you'd like to see and whoever that is accompanies you up to their room. You can call in to book a particular lady and skip the whole introductions process which is what I do now.
>>77267585Damn that sounds great what country if you dont mind telling me
>>77267694Australia. Yeah the brothels here are all regulated and follow strict safety standards. Sorry for late reply
