I'm a single incel, been alone for over 30 years now, almost 35 soonToday I was in some expo, and in some booth I was forced to take part in a "relationship skills" quiz.The social worker asked me something about my dating history and I just flat out told her I've never dated. Time froze in place. I could almost hear jaws dropping and their puny normie brains wildly computing what kind of flaw I must have to end up like this.Normies really dont get it. They hold this ridiculous axiom that everyone will automatically, effortlessly find a mate. A lot of people actually dont, and nobody listens to them and learns from them. Society has changed a lot, a lot changes just by turning 30 years old. My main reason for incledom right now isnt my looks or lacking basic skills in treating other people nicely. Dating isnt meritocratic. I simply never, ever bump into single adult women anywhere. Online everyone seems to be a teenager and outdoors everyone is a granny. It's pretty obvious that people remotely my age arent hanging out in expos and libraries looking for guys, they are married and out of the game.I'm so tired of people going "why are you single?????+++" Next time I'll tell them to show me a single 20-30yo woman.
I'm 33 khhv, I see them working in stores sometimes but I heard you aren't allowed to talk to those ones. I doubt any of them would want to talk to me and they are probably married or have boyfriends anyway, oh well..
>>77264937You basically have to be intensely networked and know hundreds of people to get into a relationshipYou get a relationship when one of the women you know breaks up and is single for 2-3 days. During that window you need to make your moveGuys like us stay permanently single because we're not there when a woman is single for 2-3 days
I'm a 34yo KHVIt's started to get to me and I'm very unwilling to do anything. Like, I no longer work, take out the trash, study, or try to do things. My brain just goes "nope" because it has learned that there is never any reward, so the smartest thing is to never move a muscle. People like to pretend this is the cause for my condition and not the other way around.My problem is this: my social workers refuse to acknowledge that inceldom is real. Nobody cuts me any slack even though what I'm going through is basically a severe illness of sorts. There are mental health professionals who have openly said that loneliness kills. Literally, physically kills you through heart failure at some point, because it's a stressor.I just want normies to openly admit that I live in what they would consider hell. If people just admitted that I'm a fucking trooper for taking almost 40 years of loneliness, I might actually cheer up a bit.
>>77264832>isnt my looksi'm telling you, fag, stop. the. cope.
>>77264832yeah so 35 and single here. i had some work meeting and this hr lady waves at me when i walked in. i was like huh cool. after she personally escorted me to the door. I was thinking why would she do that? did she want to see me like alone? she was smiling the whole time with some small talk. I did notice I was the first to leave. I think she was getting me to leave so all the cool worker club could hang out together. sucks but whatever. probably kill myself at 40 fuck it
>>77265143Ive been told I look like Tom CruizeI'm legit an unbelievably handsome incel, probably would become a youtube star if I posted my face hereBut I dont wanna get famous for not gettin sex
>>77264832I met my last gf at the laundromatShe was attractive and I just thought to myself "I wonder if I could have sex with her?"The answer was yesLooking back, it's actually surprising I caught her when she was single
>>77265451At least you understand it's about random chance and luck as much as personal courage.A week later I might of approached the same girl and she would of been taken by you alreadyThis doesnt mean you are more handsome. It means your timing was better.Normies dont want to admit dating is about timing
>>77265451>I met my last gf at the laundromatI can afford my own washing machine so I never meet girls and die aloneSighCockblocked by being rich
>>77265525Well I was living in an apartment complex that had laundry machines on premises but they were shittyAt a different laundromat a female worker there fell in love with me at first sight But she was gross and fatAfter a few weeks I was like, fine, I'll invite her over so she can suck my dickBut there was a blizzard that night and I couldn't get to the laundromatThe next week she had changed jobs I think I've told this story on here before
This is cope on so many levels. Getting dates isn't hard at all if you know what you're doing. I went from complete incel at 22 to averaging 2-3 dates a week by 25. I'm not attractive, I'm not tall, I'm not even white. Hearing everyone wallow in their own misery here is disgusting. When have you taken the initiative to either approach women or download dating apps? If you can wipe your own ass, you can swallow your pride.
>>77264832Im 30 and perma single by choice. Used to be ugly during hs and girls would laugh at me for asking them outNow im unironically 6'7 and inherited my dads company.Suddenly a lot of old whores who rejected me came crawling back kek."""love""" btw
>>77265742I didnt ask, anon.>>77265942>22yo kidU dont get it I was a Chad at 24 and a Joker incel at 32You dont meet people at 30 anymore>Hearing everyone wallow in their own misery here is disgusting. When have you taken the initiative to either approach women or download dating apps? This is just world fallacy. You succeeded by random chance and try to force it to be your own merit, like work actually paid off in this life. It doesnt. There are people out there who have put 10 000 gf joules of work into getting a relationship and failed. Then there are guys who put in 0 joules and won. It's chaos and attempts to convince anyone otherwise is cope to make you feel like there is order to this world
>>77265942>When have you taken the initiative to either approach women or download dating appsI dont meet women IRL because women sit sequestered at home grooming men on dating apps and socmed>just download a dating app thenNo.Making me play their algorithm-infested cellphone game would mean that they won.Anyone who rushes to download a dystopian app that costs 20 bucks a month for a chance at something that was FREE for millions of years is weak as fuck. You resorted to tinderpill, you have no right to say anything. Tinder is what you do when your pathetic levels have maxed out and you have a gun in your mouth
AVGN mentioned, opinion accepted
