>talking to a girl from college>hitting it off pretty well>her friends keep mentioning and teasing her about a guy>she says it's just a former crush>whatever>few weeks later reveals they were actually fuckbuddies and they stopped because she wanted a relationship but he rejected herwhy do i keep getting hopeful and how do i stop?
Whore until proven otherwiseIt's 2024, if you don't have that mindset you are a sucker
Women are just objects stop getting attached. You can use her for sex and other things. If she becomes too expensive or stops being useful get rid of her. simple as
It's just the past anon, it doesn't matter.
>>77272370How is that fucking post original
>>77272323Idk why theres like this thing where they expect you to just be fine with her while shes hung up on some chad. Like sorry, why am i getting attached if you are clinging to other people but still teetering me along just in case? Meanwhile if youre not over an ex(or werent even together lmao) they get the ick and youre not a man and suck it up too much emotional baggage
>>77272323ask her if she's down to just be fwb
>>77272895do girls actually want to be fwbs? it seems like it's only used as a coping mechanism when they can't lock down chad.
>>77273348girls want any kind of arrangement with people they're legitimately attracted to.
>>77272323force your brain to stop thinking about people. dont give attention to people in your head unless they have actually earned it
>>77272323not sure man, i guess just don't expect anything at allyou'd have to be pretty good at convincing yourself of things though, that takes time and practicebut you could always just convince yourself whatever girl in question isn't interested in you and just... be friends with her, nothing's stopping you from being friends with people, right?
>>77272374How is this fucking post original
>>77272323>>her friends keep mentioning and teasing her about a guythis is when you bail and don't look back, fucking idiot
>>77272323>they stoppedkey part. they're not still fuckbuddies. that's about as good as you can get in a girl these days.just make moves and if she doesn't put out then you'll know she doesn't like you enough
>>77273348No. They will only do it with guys they want a relationship with. Ironically she would want to be FWB with this guy shes crushing on. She doesn't even see OP.
>>77273758Going to highlight this post for autsits or newbies. Women are lemmings.They care deeply about the opinions of their friends and when their friends dont respect their boyfriends its a big deal to them. unless she is head over heels for you then her friends will poison her mind against you just by doing subtle bitch comment type stuff like in OP. her friends are disrespecting OP right in front of him and he hasnt done anything about it? (idk). This makes the girl you like see you as passive and women are subconsciously turned off by passive guys who dont defend themselves because those sorts of guys wont defend them. The fact you didnt correct the friend is an issue, the fact they would even say that with you nearby is an issue.When you are with your girl and her friends are there you need to make them like you somehow. get their approval without seeming like you are trying to get their approval. It can be as easy as appearing high value and not doing anything to fuck it up. If they sense any kind of weakness then they will do passive aggressive or stupid comments like in the OP.
