>use bumble for 3 weeks>4 matches>set it to men>80 matches in 2 daysWhy is it so hard to get women
women are having an astronomically delusional one currentlyno end in sight, unfortunately will have catastrophic results for society in the long-term and medium-term, too, probably
>>77283524Because women are extremely entitled and give men fucking nothing, and they never will. They will never care if that's a problem for you. Simple as
>>77283547I wish women had the brains of men but everything else stayed the exact same. Things would be better
the world would be a better place if transitioning technology was perfect and we had foids with male brains
>>77283547Both? Both. Both!
Who were the matches with? Were they interested? How many likes total?
>>77283657Oh sorry. I meant 4 likes and 80 likes, not 4 matches and 80 matches lol. Because I have premium, I am able to see who swiped right on me. 2 of them were black, 1 was obese and the other was actually not bad looking but looked mentally ill
There's no winning. I try to put on a brave face, but the truth is, it's getting to me how lonely I am and it's starting to hurt deeper and deeper by the day. I'm starting to wonder if I'm just ugly or what
>>77283694lol you can't even see who swipes right on you without paying their exorbitant subscription?what a cucked service these dating apps are
>>77283719Bro let me tell you how dating apps work.First you pay to get a subscription to the service since it's unusable in the free version. Then, you don't get to see who swiped on you until you pay again, then you need to pay to get their attention again with a special swipe, then they turn out to be a scam.If they're not a scam, they're a bot, or in the Philippines or Malaysia or Kenya and swiping internationally. Sven the real girls are just selling their onlyfans and their dirty snaps, except not really. Those are just scams. I've gotten sex ONCE off of Tinder in using it for like a decade now. And it was terrible.
>>77283763so not only do you have to pay to take these girls out with the hope of fucking them, you have to pay to even be visible to them in the first place and this is all hundreds of dollars a monthat that point why not just pay for a proustite? guaranteed sex and obviously dating apps are not structured around serious dating so using it for that is dumb, toobut unfortunately they seem to be the #1 way to interact with the other sex by default at this point, current society has made so many other modes of interaction essentially obsolete due to social and cultural pressures (e.g. hitting on your co-worker is always risky) the people running these countries must be doing this intentionally and maliciously, the incompetence rate is too high
>>77283609Yep. We need this. Hopefully with advancements in AI, technology and all that, we live to see this come into fruition >>77283719Yeah. Its hidden behind a paywall unless you just swipe enough times and eventually come across them >>77283763Yeah no joke. These apps suck major dick. Even some above average looking men might struggle on them
>>77283837AI and Gene Editing might legitimately make women actually irrelevant in 100 years or less.By that point they'd be begging to be made property again.
>>77283825>so not only do you have to pay to take these girls out with the hope of fucking them, you have to pay to even be visible to them in the first place and this is all hundreds of dollars a monthExactly, and if you can't afford it there's 75 other daddies in her inbox>at that point why not just pay for a proustite? guaranteed sex1. These ARE the prostitutes. The hookers are all trying to scam you and sell you their onlyfans, too, and they're literally the same people as on the dating apps 2. Current rate for just a handjob if you don't want to bang a crackhead is $120 3. The prostitutes are all trying to run deposit scams and there is zero legal recourse 4. Streetwalkers who WOULD do it are gross>and obviously dating apps are not structured around serious dating so using it for that is dumb, tooThey're there. Honestly I see adult film stars escorting on Tinder all the time >but unfortunately they seem to be the #1 way to interact with the other sex by default at this point, current society has made so many other modes of interaction essentially obsolete due to social and cultural pressures (e.g. hitting on your co-worker is always risky)I unironically don't see pretty women in real life anyway. They only exist online and I can't get them there anyway. >the people running these countries must be doing this intentionally and maliciously, the incompetence rate is too highNever attribute to incompetence what is clearly malice
>>77283865There are talks about curing or even reversing aging too so we could live until 100 and beyond if things go well. That would mean the best part of our lives is yet to come. Just have to stay alive and survive until then. Or at least, thats my cope anyway
>>77283524I got superswiped by this super cute guy but I was too scared to msg him, I still have his snap though
>>77283711Bro that's me and a lot of people nowadays. I'm sorry it's like that. I say try and improve your life in a bunch of ways but realize that if you don't fit a certain mold dating apps are a wastehttps://youtu.be/w0l7hZXm_wM?si=BbTyasSha6SZq4IpMaybe maybe you might get lucky and find a diamond in the shit but you will probably end like this dude in the video.You're better off bettering yourself as a person going to therapy and socializing a lot.I love you bro and remember that you're beautiful you maybe need to take care of yourself but you are beautiful
Most of us are not worthy if women at this point, rightly so. We're shit
>>77283524I dont try anymore because I realised that "winning the game" means signing on to have an adult dependent which will be on a hedonic treadmill and expect me to fund it. Oh and IF IM "LUCKY" she will pump out even more dependents IM ON THE HOOK FOR.I just dont see what I get out of any of it to be honest.
>>77283524>>>Why is it so hard to get women>can't get women>switch to men>get a first hand view of what being a woman on a dating app looks likethe answers in your own post mane
I don't think it's as hard to get a woman as some dudes make it out to beYou only need to - have a college degree and a decent job- look decent or a bit above- have a social life and a nice characterI still think you have a better chance in getting a girl throughout highschool, college or a hobby than dating Apps which is pretty sad because it's the basic way of meeting up these days
>>77286369The issue I have with it is how conditional the love of a woman is, it feels completely fake and worthless. Whenever ive been in long term relationships at the first hint of sickness women would just up and leave because my money would go down.Whats the point if its so fake and worthless?
>>77283524Pro-tip: the first day you make a profile is the only town you're ever really shown unless you're really good looking, after that your profile will only appear sporadically basically this means there's no point keeping it up for more than a week if you didn't get many likes right away
>>77286736only time* sorry I had a stroke
>>77283524This is what makes me afraid when I match with a queer guy on a dating app. I'm a below-average-looking chick that's also a bit of a prude, and there are probably hot guys he's also matching with that are DTF that very same day. Does this make me biphobic?
>>77283694>it's a being black is put in the same category as being physically/mentally sick episodeI wonder how many men I'm offending by being attracted to them or thinking they look cool. Fuck.
>>77283524that's not women in general. that's women who use apps instead of going out. also, only a tiny minority of those men would meet in public instead of just gooning to a fantasy.
>>77283694>the other was actually not bad looking but looked mentally illThen what are you even expecting these dating apps to give you?From how you sound, the women you probably hope to meet don't use dating apps, at all. That really shouldn't be hard to figure out however
>>77287382>implying "going out" works in 2024After TikToks of gym Staceys calling men creeps for looking in their direction, men are much more worried about being attacked for approaching a woman.
>>77287339Does it matter? It's natural and even healthy not to want to date men who have sex with other men. On the flip side I always swipe left on girls who are bi.
>>77287412it may not work if you're a blandmaxxed g*mer but i witness it often at goth things
>>77287429>tfw you spend a fair amount of your disposable income at concerts/festivals and haven't really met anyone through this>tfw you saw Drab Majesty not too long ago>tfw you're black and don't dress in an obviously alternative/goth way>tfw a girl came up to you at a concert a couple weeks back and asked "Do you guys give out earplugs?"
>>77287494the trick is to be genuinely interested in the music and deep enough into the scene that most shows are $0-$20 and some are dm4addy
>>77283524Women are only capable of caring about their own children. They don't actually give a flying fuck about anyone else, not even their friends. I know they may have it easier in many ways but I'm glad I'm a male because I can genuinely connect with people. Case in point, they'll say Frodo and Sam are gay because they don't understand comradery and perceive kindness as sexual desire.
