Thread for discussions about selfharm and mutual supportHello everyone :>Hope this wednesday is treating you well >How are you doing?>Any plans for today?>When was the last time you hurt yourself?>Why did you hurt yourself?>Is there anything bothering you right now?
Good evening fellasHere are some useful links for anyone who might need them:> long list of self harm alternatives (thank you muddy):https://imgur.io/a/7Q2zgw7>a first aid post cuting:https://www.lifesigns.org.uk/first-aid-for-self-injury-and-self-harm/>a wound care guide:https://docs.google.com/document/d/1CsvJs8qNCVkHWHKekMSmCn6qn0GBEcgnq9fIqlA6Uv0/mobilebasic> bpd workbook:https://d-pdf.com/book/1781/read
Good morning frends, today I woke up in a real good mood. Mania finally seems to have worn off and I thought it was also important to share our little victories. I hope you guys have a nice day Didn't make time to listen to the tracks that you guys shared with me :< but will get to it when I get home, for sure :>
>>77422606Good evening everyone, good evening cat :3I hope you are doing well buddy. How was your day?
working from home today and about to go workout for a little bit. Got all my stuff done yesterday, got a haircut, and am getting through more work. Making time for reading again.>>77422606hey cat! how are you?Threads up a bit earlier, you having an easy day over there?>>77422656hey nap anon, how's it going?>I woke up in a real good mood.i kinda woke up feeling pretty good as well>I thought it was also important to share our little victories.always nice of course :> I know a lot of times people find this place when they're not doing great, but always like hearing peoples good times as well as help them in the bad>Didn't make time to listen to the tracks that you guys shared with menow i'm curious to go look in the last thread
heya everyone, im back homewas waiting all day for this threadit was surprisingly pleasant being in the middle of nowherenow that im in the big city again my mood dropped again :(im going to take my film tomorrow most likely to be developed and post some of the results here, the pictures from my phone suckthe "crazy guy" was surprisingly chill, i just coul;dnt understand half the stuff he was saying maybe due to his age or him not speaking much (no one to talk to) or his accent but he seemed fine enough to mehow r u cat? :3
Hi guys. Phoneposting from uni.I'm finishing a cigarette and then I'll head into classroom for the exam. I'm gonna get wrecked so bad it'll even be funny. Hope everyone's having a great day.
god all i want is a cute emo self harm bpd girl that i can hold life isn't fair
>>77422656Hello nap anon :]>woke up in a real good mood. Mania finally seems to have worn off andyay :Dhopefully you feel the way for a long time>hope you guys have a nice daythank you I'm doing okay >Didn't make time to listen to the tracksThat's okay, no need to rush ^^>>77422675Heya DM :>>hope you are doing well buddyyou too ^^>How was your day?pretty alright, I had the whoale last week off so I could relax but now this week I had to go back to uni :<it's a bit annoying but I'll survive How have you been?>>77422751Hi officeanon c:>working from home today and about to go workout sounds like a taking it slow kind of day :>>Got all my stuff done yesterday, got a haircutnice :D>hey cat! how are you?I'm good, I had less classes today so I could make the thread earlier :3sadly next week's gonna be more annoying >>77422840Heyo Sisyphus :Dvery pretty picture :o>now that im in the big city again my mood dropped again :(oww rember good day fren :<you're going to get better, you're gonna see pretty views again >some of the results hereyes pls :3>"crazy guy" was surprisingly chill, i just coul;dnt understand half the stuff he was sayinghaha sounds like my neighbor>how r u cat? :3I'm good, I had less classes that usually today so I had more time to relax >>77422845Hi saka ^^>I'll head into classroom for the exam.best of luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I stopped cutting like 3 months ago but I think I'm gonna start up again because I finally made the decision to kill myself so the scars wont matter. The date I've chosen isn't for a couple months tho so I'm gonna see how deep I can go before then. Hopefully I can hide it from my family :3
>>77422928Hi anonWhy do you want to end it?
Hello people,hope everyone is having a good day!Been reading the thread for the last few days but for some reason I couldn't muster up the courage to reply :(Voices have been very constant and 'powerful' recently,at least I finally talked to my psychiatrist to up the dosage of my meds>>77422656>I thought it was also important to share our little victories.Very true,happy for you>I hope you guys have a nice dayYou too!>>77422675Hey Dm!How are you doing?>>77422840>my mood dropped again :(Hope you feel better soon!>the "crazy guy" was surprisingly chillCrazy people are mostly very fun to be around>>77422845Best of luck to you Sakamoto!>>77422908Hey cat,hope you're doing good
>>77422606just go to discord faggots
>>77422751>now i'm curious to go look in the last threadDude, cat left some pretty good hip hop recs, I really didn't take him for the kind to be into underground stuff but from what i've heard they're pretty good!>>77422840Welcome back Sisyphus! Glad you had a nice trip, can't wait to see your photographs.>im going to take my film tomorrow most likely to be developedI had no idea people could still get film cameras nowadays :0 any reason you go for film over digital? I'm really curious, I remember my uncle once told me they didn't operate in megapixels but he didn't elaborate and I never figured out why is that important>>77422845Sakamoto!! >I'm finishing a cigarette and then I'll head into classroom for the exam. You make it seem like you're the last romantic in academia. Have you looked into studying methods tailored to your learning type? I'm rooting for you like you were a manga character, lmao, I really want you to beat your professors.>>77422908Morning Catto, good to know you're having a good day too.>hopefully you feel the way for a long timeahhh hopefully God hears you on this one,thank you for your good wishes >>77423421Good morning Nida, nice meeting you! I'm glad you decided to reply today, the more the merrier :)Got any plans for today?
>>77423449>nice meeting you! I'm glad you decided to reply today, the more the merrier :)Nice meeting you too,everyone in this thread is so nice it's always a relief!>Got any plans for today?I'm gonna do my best to keep myself distracted,probably listen to music and study
>>77422675what's up dm? good to see you>>77422840hey sisyphus> pleasant being in the middle of nowherealways feels that way. glad you had a nice time> in the big city again my mood dropped againfeel you there as well :/ hang in there, hope your mood improves.> "crazy guy" was surprisingly chillsuppose that can often be the case sadly. Definitely need to be careful if you're not sure with people, but a lot of people aren't dangerous, just kinda off and often in a sad kinda way>>77422845good luck saka! see you soon>>77422908> slow kind of daynot as slow as the previous days were, but the right mix of getting stuff done, without being pressured so i can focus on other things too>I had less classes today so I could make the thread earlier always nice. Glad things are going easy for now and good luck with next week. You just more classes or are there things coming up you need to focus on?>>77423421hi nida, good to see you again>I couldn't muster up the courage to replyit's okay. understand, but hope you feel less uncomfortable since everyone here is nice and pretty understanding>I finally talked to my psychiatristhope you can find some help with it all, no matter what it is that ends up helping.
>>77423538>probably listen to musicWhat kind of music you listen to? Got any favorite acts? I enjoy talking about people's favorite music and stuff, so bear with me lol
>>77423449> cat left some pretty good hip hop recs, I really didn't take him for the kind to be into underground stuff huh, now i'm even more curious xD a bit outside what i normally listen to, but will go check it out. how's your work day been? not everyone's super out in the open in, but what do you do anyway if you don't mind me asking? Curious because you mentioned working in an office
Good evening femboys.
>>77423616>huh, now i'm even more curious xD a bit outside what i normally listen to, but will go check it out.Riiiight? Really took me by surprise, and it's super good on top of that!>how's your work day been? not everyone's super out in the open in, but what do you do anyway if you don't mind me asking? Curious because you mentioned working in an officeI don't mind you asking at all, don't worry! it seems like it's gonna be another Heart Gold on the phone kinda day tho, lmao. It's been a slow couple of days but htere are some weeks I don't even have room to breathe. It eludes me how to explain it in english but we provide consumables and surgery equipment for goverment hospitals, so sometimes we have a lot of work and other times we're mostly worried about pretending we're working. Specially since I don't get to do many hospital runs lately, it was more exciting when I was able to go straight to the operation room to deliver some obscure tool in the middle of a surgery xD
>>77423565>understand,but hope you feel less uncomfortablegonna try my best,i'm just awful at socializing even online>hope you can find some help with it alThanks <3>>77423577>What kind of music you listen to? I listen to a lot of random stuff,i love old music from the 70's and 80's like Raul Seixas,Legiao Urbana,Belchior ,Ze Ramalho,basically old people musicBut i also really love metal and noisy stuff,i've been listening to PaleFade daily ever since i discovered them,good stuff!
>>77423755>Raul Seixas,Legiao Urbana,Belchior ,Ze RamalhoOooooh lot's of Brazilian acts, that's actually pretty cool. I've been meaning to get into brazilian music for a while not but besides Jobim i never really knew where to turn next so I will definitely give them a listen to broaden my horizons, so thanks for the reccomendations!Pretty solid Nida, preeeeetty solid>But i also really love metal and noisy stuffreminds me of my middle school algebra teacher, he was reaaaaaally into Sepultura, are they any good? Metal has never been much of my style so I always wondered
>>77423421Hello nida ^^>couldn't muster up the courage to replyThat's okay, everybody needs a restjust remember that we all like you and you're always welcome to post ^^>Voices have been very constantI'm sorry :<hopefully the nrw meds help>cat,hope you're doing goodyes I'm doing quite well at the moment :3>>77423428no discord servers are horrible and also you can't post there anonymously plus it'll be harder ro find this place for new people It's not like qe only talk about ourselves, I make sure (at least try) to reply to everyone and start a conversation wo they don't feel left out>>77423449>hopefully God hears you on this oneyup, hopefully the big guy upstairs listens >thank you for your good wishesyou're welcome have a nice work day :>what kind of stuff are you going to do when you get home?>>77423565>the right mix of getting stuff doneglad to hear everything is going well :>>good luck with next week. thank you very much I suspect I'll get an exam or two and one of the chill profs got sick so we might have classes with a new guy who's "difficult">>77423688dubs Good evening anonhow you doing?
>>77423688evening femboy anon, how's life been going?>>77423718>super good on top of that!damn that was pretty good. have to have a word with yuanon when he shows too lol. My music taste is pretty boring. Grew up with pretty standard punk rock, into metal and grungy music these days, with some interest in different electric/edm genres because i always wanted (and am trying but failing) to produce it>don't worry!it's kinda boring, but i like talking about work lol>Heart Gold on the phone kinda day thonever been huge into pokemon, but i was silver a little back in the day and picked up soul silver back when they did those re-releases but can respect you going with gold :>> I don't get to do many hospital runs latelyooh, so you actually have to run out and drop off the equipment sometimes, but usually hang around the office board these days? Interesting>straight to the operation room to deliver some obscure tool in the middle of a surgery too intense for me xD lol i like my low risk development job>>77423755> just awful at socializing even onlinei'm gonna sound like an old man saying this, but i used to be too when i was younger. Used to worry about every single thing i said or put out there for people to see. But most people aren't bad and can kinda relate. So at least know it's okay and other people understand what it's like
Hey everyone! I slept for like 14 hours lol.
>>77422606>How are you doing?Really bad. I feel like I'm gonna have a nervous breakdown.>Any plans for today?If I don't implode then I'm going to meet with some people about research they're doing on bpd patients and then I'm having dinner with a friend.>When was the last time you hurt yourself?Years ago, but I might again tonight.>Why did you hurt yourself?At the time I was just upset that there weren't any interested women in my life.>Is there anything bothering you right now?My apartment is a mess and I need to clean it in the next few hours but I just cannot bring myself to do it. I am a failure at work, I have no career plans or future, and women want nothing to do with me. I just want to die.
>>77424141Hello Ali ^^>slept for like 14 hours lol.wowdid you have any dreams?How are you feeling now?intuition is telling me that a sleepy that long would only make you tired >>77424170Heya Schizo>Really bad. I feel like I'm gonna have a nervous breakdown.:<maybe you could sit down get something cold to drink and watch some silly cat videos https://youtu.be/7iN7GG3oXbA?si=fNA4fis-ztrQH3wCMaybe it'd help you relax?>If I don't implode hope you don't >then I'm going to meetsounds coolmaybe if you don't feel like going, don't goOnly thing worse than having a breakdown in your apartment is having a breakdown in public >might again tonight.stay strong bud>have no career plans or future, and women want nothing to do with meme lolSorry to hear you're struggling so much frenIs there something I could do to help you out a bit?
Hi friends I hope everyone is doing well. It's been storming all day and has been a pretty comfy vibe.
It was a fucking disaster. I'm so fucking stupid. The exam wasn't even hard. I'm gonna get home and destroy my back with my belt, I fucking deserve it.
>>77424223>Is there something I could do to help you out a bit?Just keep talking to me I guess>maybe if you don't feel like going, don't goI feel like I have an obligation to goSorry I might not be the most interesting conversationalist
It's me btw
>>77424314Meant to reply do my post >>77424266I'm beyond stupid
>>77423826>thanks for the reccomendations!You're welcome!>SepulturaThey're great,I started listening to them because of my stepfather a few months ago and I don't regret it>>77424061>just remember that we all like you and you're always welcome to post ^^>hopefully the nrw meds helpThanks for always being supportive cat,You're amazing>yes I'm doing quite well at the moment :3Good to hear 'v'>>77424129>So at least know it's okay and other people understand what it's likeThanks for the advice old man!>>77424141Hi Gator,sounds like you had an amazing night
morning guys i think today i can finally post more than once.. maybe... how are yall?
>>77424328I've lurking this thread recently and now I'm emotionally invested. Would tell how you study? what you do? and also can you point Where you fail in the exams? is it in all the classes?Only in the exams but the stuff at home is no problem? Is it a memory thing?I would like to help you.
>>77422606>Hello everyone :>hellooo catbro! ^^>Hope this wednesday is treating you wellno. no, it didn't. it's over though. moving on. >>77422656hey napanon! >today I woke up in a real good mood. Mania finally seems to have worn offthat's great. :D glad you had a good day. >I hope you guys have a nice dayeh...>but will get to it when I get home, for sure :>take your time. no need to rush. listen to the first half of the album you recommended me on the way home and have to finish it. might have something to recommend you based on that, though. >>77422675good evening dm! (^-^)>>77422751hey officeanon! :Dhope your workout went well and good to see you're getting stuff done. what's next on your reading list?>>77422840hey sis! >it was surprisingly pleasant being in the middle of nowheremy parents always went to the same remote place in italy for out vacations and at some point me and my brother asked to do something else and go for some sort of resort on gran canaria. we asked to go to italy again next year... ^^'>>77423421hi nida! >Been reading the thread for the last few days but for some reason I couldn't muster up the courage to reply :(it do be like that sometimes. i always have to get over that initial mental block when i didn't post for some time. >at least I finally talked to my psychiatrist to up the dosage of my medshope it helps. >>77424129>good on top of that!damn that was pretty good. have to have a word with yuanon when he shows too lolwhat did i do? D:>>77424141hey gator! don't worry. you need that kind of sleep when you're younger. >>77424170hey anon! hope you can avoid the breakdown, but maybe it wouldn't be to bad if you found a way to get those emotions out somehow. >>77424238hi foxy! >It's been storming all day and has been a pretty comfy vibe.now i'm jealous. ^^ could really do with something like that right now...>>77424266sorry, dude. :/ don't be to hard on yourself.
>>77424061i meant just make a /cut/ discord most of you dont post anonymously anyways
>>77424438hey gal! good to see you again! :D how's it going? >how are yall?i had a pretty rough day, but other than that it's alright. just want to get this day over with. gladly it's a holiday tomorrow and i got friday off. :>
>>77424223>did you have any dreams?Yeah it was about my mom seeing my razor. Did you have a dream?>How are you feeling now?I'm okay, I am very tired. I am starting to feel a little numb.How are you feeling cat?>>77424341>Hi Gator,sounds like you had an amazing nightHey nida. Yeah it rained so it was really nice. How was your night?>>77424576>hey gator!Hey yuanon!>you need that kind of sleep when you're younger.Yeah I guess so :)Im probably just gonna lay on my bed for the rest of the day. See ya tomorrow everybody.
>>77422908Sometimes having things like uni or work can help, right? A coherent day schedule goes a long way. >How have you beenI'm doing pretty ok. I'm staying at my mom's. She bought me some scented candles so now I'm sitting configuring my linux distro by candlelight. I had a pretty bad psychotic breakdown yesterday and scared her with my rambling so she made me call in sick today. I feel really bad, i feel like I don't deserve her.>>77422840Hi sis, really nice photo. You have an eye for composition>>77423421Hi Nida, sorry to hear that. Do you think it's seasonal maybe? I don't really know anyone with schizophrenia irl so I'm not well versed on it, but it sounds horrible :<Mental illness in general is much more horrific from the inside than it looks sadly>How are you doing?Pretty ok, just chillin out. Probably going to play something with my friends into the night.>>77423565Hey officeanon :>>>77423688Hi anon>>77424141Hey gator ^^Sounds lovely haha>>77424170Hey anon. That's very familiar, I know how cliche it sounds but there are always at least a couple girls out there that would be into you no matter what, it just takes some searching sadly. The dinner plan sounds nice btw ^^>>77424238Hey foxy :P>>77424266You aren't stupid saka, just unprepared. It happens to the best of us, trust me.
i feel like things are beginning to fall apart again, but in a new waymy depression has been getting a lot better over the past year, and it's manifesting in some very measurable waysbeen losing weight, getting into the gym, spending more time with people, making friends, generally just engaging with lifewhat's eating away at me, what's new, is this feeling seeping inthe more i engage with the real world, spend time with more average people, make friends with people around my age, the less human i feeli just feel so fucking out of place, i struggle so much to even comprehend some of the things people seem to think and feel, can't even begin to pretend i can actually empathise with them in any meaningful wayi've always known i wasn't "normal", i thought i had accepted that i was never going to lead what i expect people consider to be a normal life, i thought i was okay with myselfbut the more time i spend around people, the more i engage with the real world, the more i feel it's been shoved in my face just how fucking out of place i ami feel dehumanized, foreign, incompatibleinhuman
>>77424684>there are always at least a couple girls out there that would be into you no matter whatthey might exist but I don't know how to meet them
>>77424684Jesus I forgot about that pic, I meant to post my usual statue lol
>>77424238Hi foxy>storming all day and has been a pretty comfy vibe.nice :3have a comfy time in your tentHere it stormed last night >>77424266pls don't be so hard on yourself budyou said tose things last time and it turned out to not be so badpls at least wait till your get your results >>77424269>Just keep talking to me I guessoky :3so, have I ever asked you about you hobbies? what kind of things do you like to do??>feel like I have an obligation to goI'd suggest trying to get rid of that feeling somehow it'll only make you feel worse >might not be the most interesting conversationalistdon't worry about it ^^let's just talk, it's not a competition fren :>>>77424341>Thanks for always being supportive catno probs :>I hope it helps you guys feel a little better >Good to hear 'v'thanks and what's better is the the week after the next week might be off for me too :D>>77424438Hiya Gal>think today i can finally post more than onceI hope that means you're doing better >how are yall?pretty goodunder my blanky rn watching crap on my phone :3How are you?>>77424576Hey yuanon :D>. it's over though. moving on.true today doesn't deserve to be though about Let's think about something elseWhat are you doing now? hope you're busy being comfy?Oh btw I got a different bag I ordered for the bike :3>>77424583I just dislike discord sorry>>77424671>it was about my mom seeing my razor. ooo can you tell me more?I had a dream like this too, wanna hear?and a situation like this almost happen to me irl, wanna hear about that too?>Did you have a dream?nope but it was a nice sleep>am starting to feel a little numb.ow :< >How are you feeling cat?I'm god though feeling a bit tired too and also a little overwhelmed because I just remembered I had to do a couple things and I forgot and maybe I should make them now
>>77424684>coherent day schedule goes a long way.for some people sadly I it makes me just feel drained and I can't do stuff I'd want to do I don't kinda have my own day/night schedule and uni/work just interferes with that>configuring my linux distro by candlelightsounds like a good time ^^stay comfy fren>pretty bad psychotic breakdownglad you're better now >feel really baddon't instead try to feel grateful^^
>>77424684>Hey gator ^^Hey dm :)>>77424879>can you tell me more?There's not much more to say, i sadly never can really remember my dreams.>had a dream like this too, wanna hear?I would love to hear about that. :)>and a situation like this almost happen to me irl, wanna hear about that too?If course!>a bit tired too and also a little overwhelmedOh that sucks.>maybe I should make them nowYou should do whatever makes you happy.
>>77424651its okay. im just tired today. wanna sleep forever.>>77424879im tired and wanna sleep and never wake up
>>77424671see you tomorrow!>>77424708i get you. the more normal i appear the less i can relate to the people around my. i just don't share most of their concerns in a way that would be relatable to them. >>77424879>Let's think about something elsemy brain is quite done, so thinking about anything will be quite the challenge. ^^ >What are you doing now? hope you're busy being comfy?kinda. just chilling on my couch with astream as background noise. still a little agitated from today, but i think that will be gone soon. >Oh btw I got a different bag I ordered for the bike :3nice. how is it?>>77424918welcome back. :>
>>77422606Genuine questionWhy do you people cut yourself?The only thing I would cut is my carotid But thats way harder than I imagined and that are better methods to go awayMaybe if end homeless that's the last resort
>>77424879>so, have I ever asked you about you hobbies? what kind of things do you like to do??I have a canned fake answer to this, but the truth is that I don't really have any hobbies. I don't enjoy doing anything anymore.>feel like I have an obligation to goI'm so fucking exhausted and my apartment is such a mess, I feel like I have to go because I'm worried about what my friend would think if I didn't
>>77424978same. now that i've been home for while, i just want to go to bed. you still at work?
>>77424993>welcome back. :>Yeah lol. I'm actually going now. See ya
>>77424061>how you doingVery good my precious femboy. What about you?
>>77424576>hope it helps.I'm bopeful it will>>77424671>How was your night?Can't complain,slept like a rock and woke up earlier than normal>>77424684>Do you think it's seasonal maybe?I don't know,I've been feeling pretty normal for the past 2 years,but suddenly it came back like a truck>Mental illness in general is much more horrific from the inside than it looks sadlyIt sucks trying to explain what is happening to my mom and my friends,especially since my friends meet me when I was doing fine,now I have to explain what is happening and hope they don't treat me differently>Probably going to play something with my friendsHave fun!
Just got home. I'll now treat myself to the belt and the plastic bag at the same time>>77424533It's in all classes because I'm stupid.From now on I'll follow pic related guidelines for studying. I will not allow bad performance. My performance must be excellent. The fact that I can't get excellent performance makes me wanna punch myself in the head until I get brain damage.I don't really look back at the exams after doing them.At home I can perform well most of the time, but during exams I always get wrecked.Fuck me, I want someone to cut my balls off and make me swallow them making me suffocate with my balls on my throat.I'm an abomination, stupid low IQ cunt, low GPA piece of shit. I want to get beaten to death.>>77424576>don't be to hard on yourself.I'm not even being hard enough. If I were to be fair with myself I would torture myself with a hot knife, cut off my limbs and then kill myself.>>77424684>You aren't stupid saka, just unprepared. It happens to the best of us, trust me.That's why I'll follow new study guidelines. And if I keep failing, poor me will get the belt on the back>>77424879>pls at least wait till your get your resultsI can tell when I'll get wrecked by an exam.
>>77424061>glad to hear everything is going well gonna be super busy next few days D: but got some weekend plans to look forward to as well>got sick so we might have classes with a new guy who's "difficult"that always sucks :/ hopefully not for too long and good luck if you have any exams>>77424170hey schizo. Know things are tough, but hang in there. Always a way forward, even if it doesn't seem like one>>77424238hey foxy> storming all dayactually finally got a nice day here finally>>77424266go on easy on yourself. You knew it was going to be tough going in and expected a tough time, but you as the others have said you don't knew just yet.Can't stop you from doing what's next, but please be careful not too seriously hurt yourself>>77424341>Thanks for the advice old man!xD>>77424438hey gal good to see you as alwaysknow you're going through tough times, but we're always here for you if you need to let anything out. Know it doesn't help much, but still
>>77424708Hi anonglad to hear at least some of your mental issues have gotten better >feel so fucking out of placeI have similar experiencesthe stuff I care about, value and want from life is a lot different from what the standard person thinks>feel dehumanized, foreign, incompatible>inhumanMaybe you just need time? hope you realize one day that it's okay to be different and others people opinion doesn't really matter Also even though you're so different people want to spend time with you, why is that? I think you shouldn't feel like an outcastmaybe people like that you're different?>>77424918>sadly never can really remember my dreamsthat's usually the caseWhen I wake up I usually try to piece quickly a story about what was happening in the dream and find a couple of words that relate to the dream like>sniper, teacher, bike, torture or >lighthouse, night, razor, bed >would love to hear about that. :)okay so I'll tell you about what I remember I was in an old looking bare room, it was at night and in front of me was a bed and a window above it and through the window I could see a rocky coast and a working lighthouse, the light from it would periodically go through the window and light up the room I was in I ducked to see what was under the bed and I saw a razor under there and I immediately knew I had to hide it, then a door behind me opened and I think my mom entered the room and was ask me what I was doing and I was just making excuses so she doesn't look under the bed and see the razor >If courseI'll reply to this in next post
>>77424918>If courseso I usually would hurt myself in the bathroom because I could lock the door and could clean and patch myself up immediately after cutting and one night at around 1am I finished cutting, cleaned up and left the bathroom and my brother went there right after I left, then I put my hand in my pocket and I got stressed because I couldn't find my razor in there and I was sure I left the razor in there and what's worse I left bloody toilet paper in the toilet unflushed which paints a pretty clear picture of what I was doing so I thought I was fucked So I waited for my brother to leave and I rushed in there, no razor, no bloodI got even more stressed that he took itBut then I remembered that I did flush and I put the razor in my wallet, I just went autopilot mode after cutting and I forgor lol :p>You should do whatever makes you happythat's good advice thank uI decided to take it slowly and do those things I had to do
>>77425339unfortunately yes i am..>>77425573it helps more than you know
>>77422606What is the best way to get scars with the least amount of effort
>>77425723henna
>>77425746it doesn't last long, I need actual scars.
>>77425583That dream sounds like a really nice place to be. But that would be scary trying to hide a razor.>>77425642That sounds like a terrifying position to be in, thank God it was just in your head and he couldn't have seen anything.Im actually going now goodbye everyone. :)
>>77424978>wanna sleep and never wake up:ctake good rest when you get homeBtw doesn't ur bf visit you this month?>>77424993>thinking about anything will be quite the challenge. ^^mine toomaybe just take it easy for tonight and turn your brain off >still a little agitated from today, but i think that will be gone soon.yup dwsoon it'll just because the past and you'll forget about it>how is it?it's quite a bit smaller than the last one but it'll work fine, probably can't tell yet>>77425217>Why do you people cut yourself?it distract you from problemsit's hard to think about whatever's bothering you when you actively bleeding and in pain It has to be like a primal response to focus your attention only on the current injury rather than others issues>>77425318>truth is that I don't really have any hobbies.> I don't enjoy doing anything anymore.anymore? have enjoy enjoyed things in the past? what were they and why not anymore?>feel like I have to go because I'm worried about what my friend would think if I didn'tI feel the your friend would be okay with you take a break because you're not mentally wellThey're your friend after all>>77425401>Very goodoh nice did something good happen?>What about you?eepy>>77425560>can tell when I'll get wrecked by an examin my opinion you're overestimating your abilities and are too hard on yourself >>77425573>gonna be super busystay strong ;-;>weekend plans oh! what plans?>good luck if you have any examsThank you >>77425723I don't want to encourage you to cut It depends on a person, for me I get scars easily even from minor cuts, (unless it's on my hands)Why do you want scars anon?
>>77425811>It depends on a person, for me I get scars easily even from minor cuts, (unless it's on my hands)>Why do you want scars anon?BPD is kicking back in full gear and Idk how to deal with it other than this, sadly scars dont form easily on my skin but I want the scars those are the parts I like the most.Its my way of showing the world I deserve to live in a way, its not like I show them on purpose of course I hide them from family... but its a statement sort off.
>>77425662drat. :/ any plans for tonight? did you guys have that movie night you talked about?>>77425806or maybe just stay a while longer? it's up to you. ^^>>77425811>maybe just take it easy for tonight and turn your brain offit's time for bed soon anyway. (~.~) stream doesn't help much, either. they're just playing some weird isometric open world crafting action rpg. there's way too many of those...>soon it'll just because the past and you'll forget about itforget about what?>probably can't tell yetdo send a pic when you put it on. :> what do you intend to put in there anyway?
>>77424576hey yuanon!>hope your workout went well yeah it did. Thinking of adding some more variation in, but not sure now is he best time to be modifying things, but will see..>next on your reading list?Divine Comedy like I've been meaning to get to. Have to work my way down that classics reading list I froze up on a while back.>what did i do? D:you're not in trouble, i was just very amused when you recommended nap anon babymetal lol >>77424671hey gator!>See ya tomorrow everybody.bye gator xD >>77424684>>77424720i did think it seemed a bit unusual for you, but your reaction made me laugh a sec lol>>77424708hi anoni can relate to the inhuman feeling. Honestly I still feel that way most days and don't know if it'll go away. But even if you're not normal, you shouldn't let it mess with you keep you from enjoying stuff. Maybe it'll be a little hard, but you can be normal in some ways maybe and do things make you feel a little better. Just spend too much time worrying with these particular thoughts, though know i do the same
>>77425988>yeah it did.awesome >Thinking of adding some more variation in, but not sure now is he best time to be modifying things, but will see..you've got to change it up a little at some point, but finding the right time, especially when you found a good routine, is tricky.>Divine Comedy like I've been meaning to get to. Have to work my way down that classics reading list I froze up on a while back.i think i read it ages ago and don't remember anything about it. :/ maybe i should look for my copy.>you're not in trouble, i was just very amused when you recommended nap anon babymetal loljust love their energy. :> https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=RIgjfGHgwDc
>>77425583>I have similar experiencessorry to hear that anon, but i'm glad that it doesn't seem to be affecting you in a similar way>Maybe you just need time?as time goes on, the more people i interact with, the more i'm exposed to people from all different walks of life the worse it gets>hope you realize one day that it's okay to be different and others people opinion doesn't really matterit's not other peoples opinions or actions which are leading me to feel this way, it's coming from within>I think you shouldn't feel like an outcast>Also even though you're so different people want to spend time with you, why is that? i don't feel like an outcast, because like you mentioned people do want to spend time with mei've been experiencing the opposite of being excluded, people wanting to be more intimate with me, wanting to spend more time with me, engaging with methe moment i'm away from people my mind goes dead, i'm exhausted, all i want to do is remain alonethe issue comes from within, not from other people judging me or treating me harshly because of who i ami'm definitely guilty of acting like a social chameleon, it's not something i do consciously but i do find myself just slipping into the role i feel like i should playbut i don't lie to people, i don't make up things to fit in, i'm still mei've opened up to a few people in real life about these feelings, laid it all out honestly, and they didn't push me away or treat me poorly because of iti'm not an outcasti just don't want to be therei just feel like i don't belongit's eating away at me
guys who cut are hot
>>77425806goodnight Ali>>77425876>parts I like the most.oh, well I don't think you should cut but if you really want to then at least please make sure to stay safeDisinfect the blade and the area you want to cut and afterwards clean yourself up with water and patch yourself up well>statement sort off.maybe you should get a tattoo?>>77425949guess it's time to eep>what do you intend to put in there anyway?hm phone, wallet, water, maybe a flannel shirt in case it gets cold , a multi toolwel I already put those things in there to test and it fit those wellI'll sleep now goodnight everybody :3byee
>>77426480>guess it's time to eepdefinitely is. >I already put those things in there to test and it fit those wellseems like a keeper, then. :> now all it has to do is look the part...i'm off to bed as well. good night, everyone!
>>77425560I get that you are gonna do 12h studying, but how you do it? you just go over your notes and read them over and over? do exercises?>I don't really look back at the exams after doing them.This is a big mistake, and i know is hard, but you can ask you teacher for the correct answers so you know in which point is where you fail. >At home I can perform well most of the time, but during exams I always get wrecked.Maybe you also should consider some sort of meditation to help you calm down, many people fail exams because they get nervous at the thought of it being an exam>I'm an abomination, stupid low IQ cunt, low GPA piece of shit. I want to get beaten to death.I bet you are none of this things because you got in the university, if you were any of those you couldn't set foot inside