Finding a girlfriend with the perfect personality, looks, and will unconditionally love you is nearly impossible if not impossible to find in 2024. What is the point of settling for some fat ugly whore who will inevitably leave you for Tyrone?
>>78003119Well, I guess it's all over for you anon. Time to give up and lie on your back like a flipped turtle and cry about how unfair reality is to you. The only solution.
>>78003119change perfect for decent and unconditionally to actually and its still close to impossibleshit sucks m8
>>78003123Yes, that's a brilliant idea, it truly is over for me, I think it's time for me to make a significant decision soon.
>>78003119>unconditionallyDoesn't exist. Only with mothers and their children maybe. But a man to a woman will always just be a "person who makes me feel good" and "provides for me". Chad loses his looks and height and all that love disappears like it never existed. Notice how easily eternal love and shit like that is thrown around in todays relationships like it's nothing and then when the girl breaks up the guy who used to be a god to her now turnes into a piece of shit loser whom she never actually truly loved. You can't take what women say seriously. It's all based on emotions that change every day.
>>78003119People are so devastated by reality because most baby boomers are narcissistic nutcases and they created a society based off people that confuse television with real life. You were never supposed to feel entitled to anime fantasy love. It doesn't exist in real life and never has. Gen X should have told Zoomers from a young age human FICTION is ALWAYS better than anything you are ever going to experience in your actual life. We write fiction that fulfills all of our power and love fantasies they have nothing to do with reality. Just live your real life as is, you'll be dead soon enough.
>>78003763Whats worse: someone who excessively uses fiction as escapism (but genuinely enjoys it) or someone who rejects fiction for being something that distracts one from reality (but doesnt get any enjoyment)? Is finding a balance the way to go?
>>78003119Unconditional love does not exist, with the only case that can be argued as possible being Parent/Childif you pay attention every relationship is conditional everyone has a line they wont cross, everyone has shit they wont tolerate
>>78003119Theoretically it should be easier to find someone like that with the invention of the internet. I bet there'll be AI matchmakers in the future too.
The only unconditional love is between a parent and child, and God and man.
>>78003119>Unconditional loveNo, thank you. I dont mind loving others unconditionally, but I want those around me to have a certain expectations of me, so I can live within a certain standard that is good for me.
>>78003119>unconditionally loveAll love is conditional. All relationships are transactional.
>>78003119>Finding a girlfriend >is nearly impossible if not impossiblefixed it for you
>>78003119I could have had OP pic if I wasn't cucked by family constantly having to move
>>78004959Ah yes, because dating apps want you to be happy. That's bs, the only intention of dating apps is for people to pay for it. That means making users just satisfied enough to not quit. We don't need advanced AI to tell who to match either. Mostly it's either matching preferences or personality compatability.
>>78003119>22, khv>never had a friend either, spend all day playing singleplayer games, to terrified to speak to anybody online and irl>also spend time on omegle desperately trying to find a friend>impossible to make friends with hundreds and hundreds of people on omegle>but eventually find one person I click with, get brave enough to ask them for social media>turns out she is a pretty girl, have my first friend>eventually we both realize we have crushes on one another>she encourages me to go to school, to find work, to seek psychiatric help for my problems, to work outI visit her, she visits me, I move to her, I'm 28 now and we got married this year, happy and healthy etcetcetcAnyway the point is that you can be miserable and sad and cry all the time and think it's over it's over, but just one day and one person can turn your entire life around.
>>78005848what happened to you, if your not larping, is a one in a million accident. astronomically unlikely to happen to the average man.
>>78005872He is just a chad who never went outside and had no social media. Or a larp things like this NEVER happen to an /r9k/ incel. We don't have anyone who will help us especially not a qt young girl. Having a relationship with a qt young girl would cure all my mental problems.
>>78005872That's a very easy way to handwave away my point. But here I will say this, why not just increase the odds? If I did not decide that I would spend every day on Omegle grinding out social skills and trying to meet people, then the chances would have been zero right?>>78005888Checked trips.I indeed did not go outside or have any social media (besides a discord to ask questions about games lol). Anyway it didn't cure all my mental problems, it was a long and difficult process even after meeting her, but having somebody by your side who you know believes in you and will lend a hand is a great boon.
>>78005872Any specific event will always have a microscopic chance of happening. You are ignoring that fact that anon going out there and socializing could have had a multitude of different positive outcomes
>>78004224Personally I think enjoying fiction as escapism is fine in moderation. The important thing is being able to properly separate fiction from harsh reality and live with it. I enjoy ridiculous anime romance stories myself it's like wholesome heart-porn but I know it doesn't reflect real women at all. Avoiding entertainment all together is probably only healthy if you have lots of other ways to occupy your time. It's like doing no fap, if you have a gf/wife to fuck or you have something else to occupy your time like a productive hobby or busy career then ya sure quit masturbating all together. But if you're lonely and bored all the time you should probably just rub one out when the hormones become too much to relax. Like anything in life it's about healthy moderation and striking a balance that works to your benefit.
