well guys, I'm backhad a gf, finally thought i was gonna be able to take the normie route. get married, kids, real job, etc. hell i was even gone off 4chan the whole time (well most of the time). gf and i broke up earlier this week and it has been hell. she was the only reason i really did anything for the past couple years, so without her i have no forward momentum. i know you guys don't know me or don't have to care, but please don't end up like me. find a way to have your own sense of self worth, rather than leaving it to others to give it to youim sure i'll be around much more frequently, so i'll see you
>>78025380How long were you gone? How old are you? Why can't you find another woman to strive to be a better man for?
>>78025380well, anon, why'd you break up?
>>78025380don't know what to say except sorry anon. exact same thing happened to me a year ago and i've been back here since. it doesn't get much better.
>>780254412 years but it was the longest relationship i've ever been in. she was the only person who could put up with my autistic-neurotic-fucked up tendencies. hell even my family cant (and ive lived with them my whole life, aside from college). she not only tolerated me, but celebrated my "uniqueness" and the things i did made her happy. im 21 as well
>>78025442we broke up simply because of circumstance. she has better opportunity elsewhere in the country, without going into too much detail. it was not a fight
>>78025483>>78025494You're 21 and young. This is going to hurt for a while, maybe even little over a year, but you'll get over it. After your first relationship you're much better equipped to understand others. You're doing fine, even if it sucks right now
>>78025380Now is your chance to go to the gym anon. No fucking excuses, no crying, just go
>>78025494If you were worth it she wouldve made it work She had better "opportunities" for sure.
