The girl you're putting effort into was just a one night stand to another guy.
>>78250211>I ask her bodycount>she tells me "probably like 10, some of them were only once"yeah I'm literally never going to meet a virgin/low body count woman aren't I?
>>78250230she also got very defensive when I asked and said "oh I bet you think I'm a whore if I've slept with more than 3 guys?"
>>78250237>"oh I bet you think I'm a whore if I've slept with more than 3 guys?""Think? You are." then leave and cut contact.Not worth it
>>78250211No hymen no diamond solves thisNot interested if they aren't virgins
>>78250237What's funny is that deep down inside they know that they're whores, which is why they get so defensive
>>78250211Yup, feelings are but a weakness that we harbor to drive us to reproduction, yet denying the right of reproduction from others or ourselves is to deny the primary reason to exist, to perpetuate the existence of life, particularly life that's similar to us. Yet we feel no happiness when we discover that the child we've raised is not our own, as there is a desperate need in each of us to be the sire, the perpetuator who has succeeded in his mission, for that will validate our existence in entirety instead of what we can offer to others who might procreate. To simp is to dream, but to be cuckolded is to despair. Our lot need to take what's ours instead of disparaging
>>78250211I don't put any effort into femalesbetter luck next time nigger
>>78250237>No babe, I hate tight vaginas.
>>78250211>The girl you're putting effort intoJust how do you guys consider this ownership of a woman? Why do you believe you have any right to monitor what she does, who she talks with and where she goes?
>>78250423Forgive me for thinking we could be life partners and raise each other up to become better human beings as we complete the union of a man and woman to form a family unit and have children so that we aren't lonely in our old age and can have a stake in the future of our country and peopleGo ahead, fuck Chad and throw it all away babeEnjoy the personal hell of your own creation
>>78250211good thing i know literally no one then
>>78250452You ignore my point. She may not feel the same about you. You spot a girl you want and decide on your own to put effort into her and that gives you the right to her life. You speak as if she already belongs to you and damn her to hell after your judgement. She's not attempting to catch you and make you her's. She isn't in on your plan
>>78250452>raise each other up to become better human beingsI would love to inhale the type of copium you're smoking. I've never seen a single relationship function that way, at least those that involve a woman who's been the town bicycle before settling down with plan B. Those type of women almost always end up resenting her husband because of the realization that she had to settle down with a non-Chad.
>>78250397You understand the situation well. And have articulated it succinctly.
>>78250777Who enslaves who roastie? Who enslaves who? It's not men sitting on their ass while women work 10 hours at the factory. It's not women changing a man's car tire when he has a blowout on the side of the road. It's not men divorcing women because they get a permanent injury and can't work anymore.So you tell me. Who enslaves who?
>>78251005Most men couldn't change a tire nor do they work for slave wages in a factory. 100s of Millions of women work in factories everyday all over the globe while men are out drinking and gambling or playing some game and bullshitting with their boys. Oh and for changing a tire, many men and women push a button and roadside assistance comes.
you put in "effort" while she meets up with her fwb every week
>>78250211>tfw body count one>oneitis probably has a somewhat high body count because he's a musician (with a day job)I just keep telling myself he's probably been with lots of slutty women and I'm just being a female cuck and I should get over the crush
>>78251081Gadzhilliards of wymyn break their backs with hard labour you Chud. All men do is lay on their asses
>>78250211Yeah, happened to me last week. Lied to me for months.
>>78251161>All men do is lay on their assesAnd gang rape women.
>>78250211nice that I refuse to engage with them, no need to think about shit like this.
>spends year chasing my work crush and trying to get to know her better>she immediately hits it off with a new guy, flirts with him every day (she initiates) then fucks him within a month of meeting him>while i was too busy doing all the work so she could flirt with chadLiterally slave cucked. If this was 10000 years ago i would be a eunuch tending to grug chad's harem watching my crush getting railed.
>>78250211>The girl you're putting effortLmao implying I put effort into women, I learned my lesson early around the age of 11, it was already clearly then that regardless how much effort I put in it will never be enough whilst Chad can make fun her infront of her friends.
>>78251479attraction is just visual. if she didnt like you right away she never will. at least not properly. might use you for attention for a few months, like she did to me. Essentially, love isnt for us. its not something we're ever going to experience. Accepting this is the hardest part, not sure that i fully have yet.
>>78250211I very unfortunately developed a crush on some girl in my outer circle of friends who I can say with confidence has a lot of other men on her roster.
>>78250211>>78250230the craziest thing ive experienced is that these girls will admit stuff like this to me, and then tell me theyre not like that anymore, but i just KNOW if Chad comes along those legs are spreading faster than a rumor
>>78251531>i'm an ugly awkward male obsessed with a stacyYou aren't special anon.
>>78251081And when you call roadside assistance a female mechanic changes your tire right anon? You are so fucking stupid
>>78250211The girl I'm dating has an ex-husband. I don't even know what to say anymore.
>>78250211If you have to put effort in, then she doesn't want to be with you. A woman will make it easy if she wants you. There will be obvious hints, and she'll agree with whatever you suggest. Maybe try one desperate hail mary attempt, then find another one. Don't just pine over one person.
>>78251596You're ignorant to believe women cannot perform manual task. But I have never seen one of you good ole boys change a tire on your monster truck. You need a team of people to change a tire.
>>78251835Funny enough i had to change my tire this morning, i dont drive a monster truck and i never said women cant do it, they just wont and most dont know how to
>>78250211>>78251479>I hit it off with a girl very well>be basically have all the same interests and hobbies and stuff>also into all the same sexual shit as me once we start to hit it off >claims to be lonely like me too>I wake up to a text a month later that "oh yeah sorry someone came back into my life and I can't talk to you anymore" wow thanks for confirming I wasn't the only one and that there were better options, and that I had no chance because I was an e-nigga. sorry I just needed to vent. Well I mean at least she told me why I'm blocked before blocking me on everything, most girls don't do that. Is this typical of BPD women?
>>78252231sorry that I forgot to end the greentext at the end btw I'm just tired
>>78250211Oh dam she catchin STDs then? Ew, dont want her no more hehe
>>78251602That it's not gonna work outKek
>>78251108holy hell why am seeing you everywhere today. anons beware that this girl is in a relationship already but still has crush in his bfs musician friend. horrible stuff.
>>78250211Why don't manlets and other ugly men understand that one night stands are not for them?
>>78252344we are not trying to get one night stands, the whole point of this post is to talk about how we have to put in effort to get in the sack with a woman meanwhile tall chad doesn't have to try
>>78251602Virgin men and ex-sluts belong together though don't they? Both are less desirable than their counterparts: virgin women, and popular men.
>>78250237>oh I bet you think I'm a whore if I've slept with more than 3 guys?"uhmBITCH?? That's the definition of being a WHORE
>>78252361this is the blackest pill of all, also known as the niggerpill. incels recoil at the thought. it's pretty bad but it makes sense logically. oh well. guess its over.
>>78250211>The girl you're putting effort intobut I'm not putting effort towards women
>>78251577yeah you're basically instantly getting swept to the side if a chad from that "former" part of her life comes back into her life
>>78252383i dont even mind if theyve got a few bodies, i would do the same if i had the chance, its just disheartening to know tht they can basically have whatever they want while i starve
>>78250237"You're not a whore because you weren't paid"
>>78251577You kill a person, you're a murderer. You steal, you're a thief. You sleep around, you're a whore.Murderers are always murderers. Thieves are always thieves. Whores are always whores
>>78252474>looks inside "autistic lonely femcel">2 digit body count
>>78252231Just know that I feel for you. This must be fucking horrible. I don't know how I'd get over this if it happened to me.
>>78250211Then don't put effort?>>78250423Take your pills
>>78253299you know for some guys it's either redirect all your life towards a woman to get anything out of her or stay an incel forever, right? some dudes don't actually have women approaching them. they have to work to even get a woman to notice them let alone get pussy. in that case I recommend not doing anything at all and giving up but it's easier said than done.
>>78253326Hey man, it is what it isIf all your options are bad, all you can do is pick the least bad one
>>78250211it wouldn't be so bad if they actually enjoyed the sex they were having during casual encounters. at least I could understand that. the sad part is that these women almost universally say the sex is underwhelming and empty. yet, they get a thrill and sense of validation out of it so they keep coming back for more because they're insecure. if they're doing it because they love having sex with strange men, more power to them imo. but usually it's just a very pathetic attempt to feel better about themselves and nearly always backfires and they either learn that or some never do until they can no longer get it.
>>78253399Weird kekold copeYou are a weirdo, don't bother quoting me
>>78253425bluepilled & brainwashed i see
>>78252355>we have to put in effort to get in the sack with a woman meanwhile tall chad doesn't have to tryThen your issue is with chad not a woman. In life effort does not mean a guarantee of success in any endeavor. You may have an athlete that trained their whole life and some rookie has success immediately. Or a person works for years on an idea for a business without success and something changes slightly and someone else succeeds.
>>78253399>underwhelming and emptyThat has more to do with the guy not performing to expectations. On occasion you find a guy and the sex is so incredible I hardly have the strength to dress and thinking all the while when I can see him again.
>>78253485bad bait. women don't usually admit to being a whore like this. Study first, bait later.
>>78250211I'm not that other guy, so why should I by default also have whatever he had? maybe you could call me a cuck, but i think an explanation needs to be given as to why this is the default stance. people aren't equal, so why am I all of a sudden entitled to something someone else had?
>>78253516Nta but you're 100% a tranny. Rope and cope troon.
>>78253485>On occasionyou aren't exactly making it sound like the odds are good lol. a quarter of the time you get fucked really good and the other 3/4 you feel terrible?
>>78253049i dont agree with that honestly, i guess the label can stay but that doesnt mean the person continues the action>>78253065like pottery>>78253326>picrel
>>78253211it's not my first time this has happened to me so I'm not as hurt as the first time it happened, but I still feel terrible just how easily disposable I was, she basically told me that she "kind of" (KIND OF?) appreciated our friendship but that she can't be friends with me anymore because we were sexual with each other and "life's not fair :p" (yeah that's genuinely super fucking hurtful to be told this)and that she wants to start things over with someone who recently got back into her life. I mean at least she had the decency of telling me WHY she's blocking me on everything, most girls don't even do that they just block you outright and it's usually always because they found someone else and to answer your question, you don't get over it. I still think about the girls I fumbled a decade ago. I genuinely don't think I will ever get into a relationship especially since virginity gives women the ick
>>78253607>i dont agree with that honestlycan't disagree with reality, buddy. you either accept it, or slam head first into a wall
>>78253784once an incel always an incel?>originally
>>78254029one is a lack of something (lack of pussy/relationship), the other is an adittion(more bodies)
>>78253607>but that doesnt mean the person continues the actiontheir mind has been affected by it, and they might have developed trauma from it, and it shows they're an immature person who might cheat on you if they don't get enough attention from you
You >>78254061 dont think being an undesirable man who cant draw female attention for years doesnt do something to his psyche? This anon >>78254064 seems to believe so. I think you can cleanse your mind mostly of negative feelings due to this, but the underlying issue has to first be solved. (by becoming Chad or getting a gf)
>>78250211Women live life on easy mode while men live life on hard mode.
>>78250211This is why I'm not putting effort into women. It's pretty simple.
>>78254258being promiscuous even in the past is like having a shit tattoo or a drug addiction, it shows you're very prone to impulsive and risky behavior, which makes you unstable as a romantic partner, especially if combined with untreated mental illness and past trauma
>>78250211This is the blackpill in a nutshelll
>>78252361>>78252387Thing is, incels don't get this shit for free, they need to put in alot of effort, still.That's just wrong.And honestly, incel>whore.Even the depressing fucktard here has more potential to be a good parter than any of the soulless meat bicyclesLife is rigged its unreal
>>78254884so no addict has ever turned their life around? cmon man
>>78254969Effects of being a whore are irreversible.No woman can love, but those can't even bond
>>78255013well you cant grow your hymen back so duhhh, and the memories last so youre not completely wrong, women love Chad though so youre wrong there
>>78255086>women love ChadWhat does "love" mean in this context? I mean, one unfortunate accident, and beloved chad gets dropped like he's nothing
>>78255157they lust over him and imagine that they can fix and tame him and turn him into a good husband, and it's typically chad that drops them not the girl, what do you think a "situationship" is? it's when one person wants a relationship and the other doesn't
>>78254969I remember this former addict coming to talk to my high school about drugs. He was like, 45 or so. Said he'd gotten addicted in his 20s to heroin and did a lot of crazy shit, owed thousands to gangs, got into legal trouble, etc. Said he's been clean over a decade, but if he's honest with himself, nothing has ever felt as good as that heroin high. Nothing ever will.After being an alcoholic for a while, and 'turning it around' I can say I'm not the same person as I was before. I still want to get wasted. I remember how it felt, and my brain has been permanently altered. You can stop taking drugs but you're still changed. Whether someone wants to put up with that isn't for the 'former' addict to decide.
>>78252361does that mean that mayli and elliot rodger would get along?
>>78255584The Supreme Gentleman was only into blonde white girls, anon.
>>78250230Literally just go to a church bro, find some girl that was raised Christian they're probably not whores
>>78255602>He hasn't heard about "born-again virgins."
>>78255602NTA but>I'm not Christian so the whole relationship would be built on a lie basically >church girls are also big on the whole "ask my parents for permission to marry me" thing and I'm a loser who works a minimum wage job >church girls are kind of normie and turn fat after marriage >church girls still use social media and see how degenerate culture is, i was raised christian myself i know theyre not as pure as they look
>>78250211She was probably a one night stand to somebody a week ago.Dont fuck with women, just fuck whores they are cheaper in the long run.
>>78253399>and nearly always backfires and they either learn that or some never do until they can no longer get it.Holy copeStop posting, you imbecile
>>78250423>Why do you believe you have any right to monitor what she does, who she talks with and where she goes?That's not at all what OP was saying.It's the dreaded feeling that you are putting effort into being with a girl while some other guy gets to fuck her while not even putting half as much effort into it. How the hell do you confuse that as owning someone. Imagine you trying your hardest to get with a man but other women that just met him an hour ago are already having sex with him. How would that make you feel??
>>78255940you are replying to a tranny bro
>>78255584mayli is so hot I would marry her and fap to her vid while feigning ignorance about it in the relationship
>>78250900Then you haven't met many elderly people. My grandparents were in an old folks home for 3 years, visited them at least once a week. You couldn't imagine the love some of these people had. It is out there, just hard to find.
