What could your hypothetical (or real) gf do that'd be an instant turn off or dealbreaker? Suggesting some weird kinky shit? Making a very awkward comment? I've never been in a relationship before and I'm so afraid of fucking up god please help me
>>78257710Doing something that indicates to me that she is retarded and also not a good person. Like caring deeply about materialism or hierarchies.Like wanting absurdly expensive jewelry just cause it's expensive.
>>78257710Ask for an open relationship, or just mention being interested in the idea. I got hurt so fucking bad by this my survival instincts would kick in and I'd instantly lose all attraction and tell her to kick rocks.
>>78257740So would you only consider over-materialistic values "retarded"?
>>78257749> I got hurt so fucking bad by this my survival instincts would kick inWhat happened?
>>78257757No, but those are extreme examples that are hard to justify.Most things even if they seem initially retarded can have good reasoning to explain them.So really just make sure you are introspective, know what you like and why you like it, and communicate well with your partner and that should basically make sure that dealbreaker shit never happens.Assuming your partner is also introspective and communicative.This is also why i think those values are the most important for a long-lasting relationship. Everything else can be negotiated. But that's only possible if both partners can communicate like reasonable people.
>>78257710>Being a bitch >being materialistic >being money hungry>having lots of friends (preferably 0) or caring what her friends think >talking to any other men at all>caring too much what her family thinks>expecting me to love her more than she loves me
>>78257710>"I'm feminist"
>>78257781The only gf I ever had asked me for an open relationship so she could fuck her abusive ex who kept trying to sabotage our relationship and kept pestering her for sex. (I expressed how I didn't like it and that she should set boundaries but she always said the same old don't worry I don't want anything to do with him) So yeah that absolutely fucking destroyed me.
>>78257710I had a girl on a first date talk to me about how big her ex was. That was definitely a dealbreaker for me. Idc about that or understand why you would ever tell me that. Just gonna move on and assume she is either not over him or just completely unaware of how to interact with people.
>>78257710existing, see >>78257801>>78257749but really this
>>78257710When she copy paste love letters from facebook and sends them to you like shes the one that wrote itWhen she sends you mainstream love songs over and over again like an autistic retardWhen she expects you to write posters like youre still in highschool asking her to promWhen she wants to have sex in public spaces and doesnt take no for an answerWhen she unironically uses emojis to respond to youWhen all she does is dance on camera all the time to ratchet music like shes a retarded whore When she talks to other men besides you When she hangs up out of nowhere qhen youre having a video callWhen her pussy smells bad When you cant have any real conversations with her becauses shes literally autistic/retarded When you take her to expensive restaurants and she doesnt eat anything When she looks at other men when youre on a dateWhen she pulls her hand away when youre holding her hand like an unloyal bitch
>>78257710>Hurting an animal on purpose>Pee/Poo/Vomit play>Irrational hatred of all children>Lusting over celebrities/other men>BPD diagnosis or symptoms>Doing hard drugs (meth/fentanyl/coke/etc)>Any mention of an open relationship>All of her friends are men>owns Kuromi merch (BPD symptom)>enjoys gore or torture porn>cutterStay away from me icky broken girls
>>78257710Aside from obvious ones like being a slut, drug addiction, leftism, veganism, tattoos: falling for a scam. Someone who falls for scams often is someone with the the horrid mix of stupidity with optimistic naivety.
>>78257853>Hurting an animal on purpose>Irrational hatred of all children>owns Kuromi merch (BPD symptom)>enjoys gore or torture pornLiterally my ex, and probably last woman i will ever willingly speak to, god it sucked.
>>78257710twerk
>when you take her to barnes and noble and she doesn't read anything except look at other men
Saying bro and dude a lot
>>78257951My condolences anonNot all women are like that, and now you know what to look out forI treat the 3 months a BPD bitch mentally tortured me as a valuable lesson, I can spot BPD bitches from a mile away now, it's a good skill to have
>>78257710>be materialisticinstant breakup>not shave her bodyinstant disgust, permanent ick>smoke/drink/do drugs sociallyabsolute disdain>non virgin / poly in any waydeserves beatings>>78257951based bpd psycho gf, sounds pretty fun
>>78257801>expecting me to love her more than she loves meIs saying I'm sad he doesn't love me as much as I love him weird or too demanding?>>78257822That sounds very shitty, I'm sorry that happened to you :[>>78257843I think it's over lol>>78257896You mean you wouldn't date a commie?>>78258112Poly can be halal though
>>78258410>Is saying I'm sad he doesn't love me as much as I love him weird or too demanding?No thats pretty cute in my book.
>>78257822>I don't want anything to do with him, but also let's open the relationshipwhat the fuck do women's brains run on?
