How bad is gooning for you actually or edging? I do no fap but basically use porn and edge still unfortunately. So basically I edge for like 2 hours a day and never ejaculate because I don't want to fail the no fap. But maybe its already failed in theory. I have almost become accustomed to not cumming. Which is weird. It seems like gooning and edging has grown in popularity for whatever reason but how bad is it for you actually?
>>78279415no-nut is fucking stupid and meaningless. no-fap is what matters. 2 hours per day is so much lost time. stop at all costs.t. got fired from remote job because I was edging all day
>>78279415I feel insane for saying this but gooning is actually really good for my health, not related to nofap or whateverI sit down, open e621, goon to furry porn for like an hour or two, close it when I'm done and life feels pretty goodno sexual frustration or whatever, it could honestly be because I'm consuming fictional media, watching real people having actual sex is so depressing and is lowkey unfaithful if you're in a relationship or whatever>It seems like gooning and edging has grown in popularity for whatever reason but how bad is it for you actuallyIt just became a funny word at this point, people know of the word but nobody sits down and actually goons and edges for hours at a time unless they were already doing this beforehand, I don't think it's bad for you, it's mostly about the content you consume when you goon
>>78279481I actually think content matters more than most think. If you are masturbating to women doing crazy shit like shoving massive dildos up their ass, I feel like your brain gets fucked over more than if you were to masturbate to women in underwear or something.
>>78279415fwiw I started gooning at like age 12 and I met my first gf when I was around 25... one of the biggest shockers to me was that sex was totally different than using my hand. I think I was partially desensitized, so used to my strong fapping hand that a vagina barely felt like anything after a couple minutes of fucking. I had a very hard time achieving orgasm and also staying hard in general, though I could cum with porn easily. I tried to abstain from using porn and it works, but also not conditioning myself to cum everyday lowered general libido and I began to resent that and end up relapsing when I couldn't have sex.I think it also induces some sort of mental change over time toward a voyeuristic tendency; my thoughts upon meeting women in friendly/professional settings would always be "what do they look like naked" and I find myself going out of my way to check out women in the store etc. of course your experience may vary i may also just be a weird and creepy person independently of my porn use but I feel like it coaxes out my worst qualities
theres absolutely nothing wrong with it, nofap is a retarded meme that plebbitors started taking seriously
>>78279415>tfw you know this exact porn scene down to the fucking minute.Brain is too gooned. FUCK!!!
>>78279535absolutely ,before I switched to fiction I felt honestly like shit when I consumed real medianot that it was even girls shoving inside them a massive bad dragon dildo or whatever it was just seeing another person get fucked by some rando it felt like an invasion of privacy and I'm not all about thispeople need to stop shitting on like animated porn or whatever it's honestly actually good and people who watch actual people having sex are VERY slightly cucks
>>78279535>>78279481yeah this, if you start feeling like jerking off to boobs isn't cutting it and you start branching out into new fetishes to experience novel arousal you are on a dangerous path, especially if you start ignoring initial feelings of disgust. set boundaries for yourself and don't cross them. sexual predators have no boundaries
>>78279603is it gay?
>>78279415Nofap is fucking retarded.Anyway the amount of fapping and edging is different for me every day of the week since it simply depends on how busy I am. I rarely just fap because I'm bored these days and if I haven't done it in a while I have most of the day free to myself then I can even edge like for 8 hours straight if I find good anons to chill with.
>>78279645it's just slightly embarrassing but I am into some really fucked up strange fetishes because of the fact that vanilla just wasn't cutting it anymore, it's a pipeline that I've started going through since I was around 12these days I'm into self harm, vore, feet/armpits, micro, selfcest and the list goes a longggg way from herebut I don't think that it's unhealthy, it doesn't make me sad that I'm honestly a total degen, I don't show it around and everything but I'm not very ashamed of having all of this it's just things that I jerk off to behind closed doorsbut that's just because I'm pretty far gone, I wouldn't suggest people to get into weird fetishes if they can prevent it
>>78279661No. Her name is natasha nice. Colombian butt slutt extraordinaire
>>78279722as long as you're not harming other people you can only hurt yourself
>>78279415The difference between nofap and no porn is huge. In fact I would say all the superpowers you get is in reality a result of no porn rather then nofap. Trust, me I've tried both. Doing nofap gives you more energy but no porn gives you a lot more mental clarity and confidence ect ect.
>>78280455Whats crazy about nofap and no porn and all this stuff is that women never seem to have to do this stuff. Why is that? I find it frustrating that as a man, all this stuff like porn and fapping will hurt me but none of this seems to have any effect on women. Why?
>>78279535>tfw addicted to femdom cbt bbc cuckold gooning
>>78280472because women don't watch porn. There are female gooners, and it does fuck them up but they're women so they're not expected to have confidence or be responsible or rational in life.
>>78280472there's a reddit community of recovering female porn addicts. their problems are pretty similar as far as the desensitization and shame surrounding fetishes go
>>78280310What scene.
>>78279415theres nothing wrong with it but i'd say it's more enjoyable to get a hobby rather than edging for 10 hours straight
>>78279415It's bad for me because it chafes my peanus-weanus
>>78279457>t. got fired from remote job because I was edging all dayplease elaborate
I've been doing nofap since 2016.Of course I've relapsed a few times, but never to actual ejaculation. Just edging relapses. I've noticed that for 2-3 days after a relapse I feel dumber, foggier, weaker, and unlucky/cursed.During nofap I feel blessed, strong, confident. The contrast is so apparent to me that I know for a fact (within my person) that edging/cooming is terrible for the mind/body/soul.The science shows that porn and masturbation flood your brain with dopamine to a point of absurdity. It's insane how powerful they are.When you stop doing these things cold turkey you go through a slight withdrawal, similar to quitting weed or other drugs.After a few weeks your brain resets and you'll feel amazing.Try it.
>>78279594>Bozo tries to philosophically explain his deathgripped pecker
>>78281592So is the only way to ejaculate under this mindset is to have sex with a woman? What bugs me most about nofap is that no ejaculation thing. It makes it sound like you aren't supposed to ejaculate EVER.
>>78281663in my experience (yes I'm a normal fag) having casual sex with a rando/escort results in the same feeling as fapping.But I've experienced cooming inside women I genuinely love and it felt way different.So I guess never coom unless it's with a woman you want you spend your life with.Even then, my longest relationship lasted four years, I learned that too much cooming of any kind will drain you. I learned Karezza sex, aka no coom sex.
>>78279415I got really into using ai sex chatbos last week, fapped like 24 times over 3 days, and my sould left to go protest. I stopped fapping for a few days and did dxm and as far as I can tell it is back. Your soul has limits to its patience.
>>78281473I was working remotely as a software developer and I would literally jack off all day during work hours. Then I would stay up until early morning desperately trying to make up the work (but usually just edging more) and crash the next day. By the end of it I was doing maybe 4 actual hours of work per week and barely sleeping. This went on for months before the company realized I just wasn't doing anything and fired me.I would play erogames, mostly. I could put 10 hours a day into an h-game and then move on to the next one. Or I would generate AI images or browse vile shit on telegram. I was never proud of it though like gooners seem to be nowadays. I hated myself and wanted to stop. Never cumming was a big part of the problem--I was constantly turned on and unwilling to cum to anything but the very best porn. I was only cumming like once per week.After I was fired I travelled the US/EU for a while and got really into rock climbing. It ended up being a good career move too since I'm getting paid twice as much now at another remote job. But I have to be constantly vigilant to prevent myself from going down that path again. I cum every morning to keep myself from reaching that state.
>>78282179thats fucked up. i thought i was a gooner just for looking at big white natty asses on instagram pawgs all day. you took it to a whole 3 other levels
>>78279415This was such a good scene, sadly I fucking hate Natasha for what she did to Khloe and because she doesn't show her rose bud more often, her gape is incredible tho
>>78279602It's bad if you do it so much that it interferes with other things like regular life responsibilities or trying to get in relationships, or if you're doing it with porn that warps your internalization of sex and relationshipsThat applies to a lot of people
>>78279415I gooned a lot a few years ago while high on weed. I ended fucking something up in my pelvic floor and now I have pudengal neuralgia and occasional retrograde ejaculation. It fucking sucks. The follies of youth
