Debilitating anxiety is just the manifestation of extreme insecurity. Everyone has 'their' reason(s) for being insecure, but there's really one way to fight this that I know of. That being "pretending". What I mean by 'pretending' is that you need to pretend to be perfectly happy with what you were insecure about. At some point you will forget you're 'pretending' and it will become a part of you.
Once this switch happens and, let's say, someone reminds you of your old insecurities, you won't be able to understand how you were controlled by such feelings. You won't be able to put yourself in those shoes again without them feeling the wrong size, so to speak.
>>78389963I figured this out when I was like 14 and didn't put it into practice until I was 20.
>>78389963>>78390017You're the MVP for helping people in need.Love you guys.Nice booty as well.
>>78389963I disagree, a woman who is anxious around others after sexual assault is not necessarily insecure about anything.This sounds like more homegrown hocus-pocus psychology, probably because you reaized your anxiety was because *you* were insecure, now you're projecting it on to others.
>>78391257Nobody here is a woman, why would you bring up something completely irrelevant?
>>78391421You're grasping at straws, you spoke abstractly about why a person suffers anxiety, and you are obviously wrong.
>>78391257As a rape victim, the event made me extremely insecure but it took me years to realize it. You don't speak for me.
>>78391257i agree, my employer belittled me every day in an attempt to make me work harder, giving me anxiety. i quit when i realized i had nothing to be insecure about and that my manager was merely implementing a scheme to get more work out of me. now i do the same work in a much friendlier and appreciative environment, with no anxiety; i had nothing to be insecure about all along!
>>78391568obviously this is OP making shit up all locked into the argument xD what is the matter with you dude
>>78391751bro, responding to yourself as if it's someone else is what's really pathetic. holy fuck dude
Look at yourself and what you're doing lol
>>78391821>>78391257>>78391499>>78391778All the same guy LMAO
>>78389963Cope, if you constantly fail to reach an objective you'll get demoralised eventually. If you never win once, and don't feel like you're improving, you'll drop the game. Pretending to have won without doing so might work until the next real defeat is served
