For the bots into femdom, what do you like about it? As a foid I enjoy the control aspect, alongside the trust the sub is putting in me to make them into my toy.
>>79186301I'm not into femdom as I am a dom myself, but I'm curious as to what your limits are? I have noticed males tend to be way more pathetic than female subs. They often go way further into findom and cuckolding territories.
>>79186375I don't deal with anything too gross and I try not to break skin. I do like seeing just how much punishment a sub can take however, I've dommed men and women and men can definitely handle more.
>>79186388>I don't deal with anything too gross and I try not to break skin.How many balls have you crushed so that these male failures cannot reproduce?I'm at 2, but I imagine it's a lot easier as a woman.
>>79186410About 7, love CBT
I enjoy almost all of it. The only things i dislike is cucking, feminization, and any ugly/disgusting thingsMy biggest fetish is losing control, surrending to a woman's whims, being transformed into whatever shape she desires
>>79186428I don't get cucking either and would never do it with a sub. Feminization can be fun, but fair game.
>>79186301>For the bots into femdom, what do you like about it?My mommy issues like it>As a foidYou aren't real but i wish you were
i enjoy beating the shit out of men that view me as a maternal figure, personally
>>79186439Oh, and cunnilingus is a must. I dont think i could submit to a woman who doesn't want to receive oral at least sometimes
>>79186460That's a given silly bot
>>79186477Do you want to have normal intercourse too, or keep your boy a virgin and satisfy each other in different ways?
>>79186301>what do you like about it?I'm a lesbian and I don't like men very much, so getting paid to cause them pain and suffering sounds like a good deal.
>>79186458You're adorable mommy schizo dykebot
>>79186458Can i be your little brother instead?>>79186499Femdom can be homosexual, like one lesbian dominating another Pic rel
>>79186492Normal sex as a reward/when I feel like.
>>79186512I don't really find the idea of dominating someone else to be arousing, I just like the idea of being paid to cause men suffering and could easily dominate a man in that context.
>>79186514That's fineWould you let him masturbate and watch porn? Or be entirely at your mercy in regards to cumming.
>>79186301The only type of femdom is like is soft femdom, and I only like it because the thought of a woman enjoying her time with me. Otherwise I don't like it
>>79186526Only pictures or videos of me if he felt he had to masturbate
>>79186536Make sure they are ordinary videos and pictures of you too.
>>79186301This reminds me how hot latex is
>>79186554I'd want them to personal for his eyes only
>>79186301nothing in particular, its just been a necessary part of my sexual orientation for as long as i can remember>>79186514question: would it be a dealbreaker for you if your sub never wants to have normal/any penetrative intercourse? I cant stay hard for sex because penetration is too symbolically dominant. I absolutely adore giving head though. and I would be fine wearing a strap over my penis or on my face to pleasure my domme as an alternate to sex.
>>79186623Why so?And that's fine, everyone has their quirks, so long as they're willing to do alternatives for me, that's fine!
>>79186631>Why so?What?
>>79186301I think im a little different from most bots, because im mostly a robot due to walls I setup, I lack emotional connections even if im not a stereotypical "loser."I like the ability to trust someone, to be able to put myself at their mercy, its very intimate, I have always been someone who stood alone and was always responsible for other people and taking care of things, always had to fend for myself. So being able to trust someone that innately, it goes against my nature, but it removes me from being closed off.Its also very calming, iv always been a bit weird about sex/intimacy, probably because I grew up in an insanely repressive environment, but idk. But otherwise im a completely normal confident guy. Im the "alpha" of my friend group and leader of the company. I think its the ying and yang. Emotional side of it, I do like bondage and control, I blush so the flirty/teasy side is fun to me. Getting flustered is so disarming and it really endears me to it. Masochism is fun too, but mostly as a way to please someone sadism, tho again it can act as a way to break down the mental barriers we put up.I just hate the weird AGP cuck/sissification type stuff.Also like, iv always been kinda "traditional" (hold doors open, always pay, chivalrous type behavior) I dont think its necessarily "femdom" but it does kinda go along nicely maybe. Also, always wanted to cook for someone, learn what they like and perfect it. Also, I do really well for myself, so if I got into a relationship like this, would be nice to just take care of someone, let them pursue passions, build an empire or great life together.TLDR, it tears down the walls I put up, allowing emotional intimacy. Its a ying/yang of my day to day life being in charge.
Not really into femdom, more like I'm just switch. In parts where girl takes over I find hot>her confidence and lust>potential to wrestle a bit and subdue her to assert dominance, kind of adjecent to rapeplay>pleasing her because getting your partner off is hot>dropping burden of initiative and just enjoy mindlessly doing what I'm ordeted to, like taking a break from mentally taxing job
>>79186642Like why has it been a necessary part, I'm curious what sorta urged it on or is it just natural?>>79186649That's honestly quite/sweet anon, the intimacy and trust is a large appeal for me as well, end of the day this is someone I'd want to be able to cuddle up with.
>>79186301I generally like the kinds of femdom that reflect a common real-world dynamic.So that means pegging, whipping etc are straight out of the window. They don't reflect anything real. Didn't exist before internet porn.Real feminine domination of men is emotional or manipulative (and I fucking love it).So that leaves things like:- Knight/princess dynamic, chivalry. Male being self-sacrificing in some way to serve and protect a lady. I think orgasm denial falls in with this category btw. Also encompasses men who spend a lot of time giving their gfs oral without asking for much in return (pillow princess).- Homewrecker dynamic. Cruel women who entice a man to break his vows or promises, just for a thrill. He obeys her even though he knows she doesn't really love him, just because he can't help it.- Cuckold dynamic. This is controversial but it does reflect a real way that women dominate men, which is using another man as proxy. It also allows women to flaunt sexual power while still being submissive to another man.- Findom dynamic. Sugar daddies are so common, nuff said.>as a foidStop lying, women are not into femdom, it's a male fantasy.
>>79186375As a sub, I think its because, female subs are kinda considered the "norm" so alot of them get away with more, but its also considered good for them to be that way. That being said, its because alot of male subs, at least the loud ones and the ones who shill out all the money for porn and stuff, alot of them are agp degens or guys with mommy issues. The third category are guys who think its going to get them women or make it easier somehow lmao. There's alot of guys who are willing to do DDLG or "daddy" games bc it gets them laid, compare that to the guys who want to call their domme mommy. Its considered alot more cringe. TBQH its cringe because they are pseudo trannies, they want to have female sexual dynamics, being valued and chased, dommed, their submission being viewed as a cute quirk. Where really if you want to be a submissive as a guy and succeed, you have to do all the same things a normal guy has to do. You have to pursue largely, be proactive, have a life worth living and that people want to be apart of ect. Theres this sex writer on twitter, aella, and she talked about her onlyfans stuff, the stuff that got all the redditors was the fantasy of sex coming to them. "oh no we are the last people in the world" "I have a rare disease and need your semen RIGHT NOW."Alot of the fantasy for these people, isnt the actual part of femdom that are hot, its laziness fetishized. Which really is the problem for most people on r9k, laziness is the root cause of their issues. Femdom is just a way to fetishize it.
>>79186301How do you feel about subs with mommy issues?
>>79186670>Like why has it been a necessary part, I'm curious what sorta urged it on or is it just natural?To my knowledge, nothing urged it on. I could speculate that it had to do with an over-controlling mother and my mean older sister but those would just be guesses. I have memories as early as second grade of fantasizing about the girls in my class bullying me and kneeing me in the balls. It started out as mainly masochism focused on ballbusting and grew into other things like foot fetish as I got older and started watching porn and more when I started playing with sexual partners. I never grew to see any appeal in "normal" sexual activities as I got older. Penetrative sex just always seemed kind of gross, despite my attempts to watch "normal" porn and my attempts to have sex with women irl, and seeing girls in any sort of submissive position/behaviour is an immediate turn off. It feels like it is just built into me to my core to see pain and abuse as a form of affection. When girls hurt me, even something like playfully punching my arm to scold me, it makes me feel so happy and loved, it isn't even necessarily sexual a lot of the time. And when my domme tells me I'm her property / she controls me, it makes me feel so warm and cozy and happy. It's a unique sensation that I deeply crave and can only get from femdom.>And that's fine, everyone has their quirks, so long as they're willing to do alternatives for me, that's fine!Just to clarify, I meant in the context of an exclusive long term relationship, not just a casual play partner. Would you still be okay with that? Since it would mean never having sex for the rest of your life since you're opposed to cuckolding. This is something I'm curious about because it causes me a fair bit of stress that I'll have to ask this of a girl one day, and I'm not sure how it'll go.
>>79186670Thanks, its good to hear im not too out there. >someone id want to cuddle up with. Honestly, yeah, cuddling up after a, idk what youd call it fest would be nice. I know this is probably a long shot, and I dont normally do this, but im gonna leave my discord just in case youd be interested in talking more, no pressure if you dont. My disc is: rennaisancemuseBy any chance, did you grow up reading alot, being into literature and such? I think its a common trend among people like us, literature art, history. Physics interests too iv noticed. >tfw youll never picnic in the greek countryside or dine overlooking the pyramids with a domme qt or going on an archaeological dig with them.
>>79186672>women are not into femdomThere are but they come with their own set of quirks >it's a male fantasyThat remains true tho
>>79186734Very interesting honestly, for the second part, sex is more than just your penis, its the intimacy, and it seems you're more than willing to be intimate with your partner, giving head, using toys, etc. Don't worry!>>79186758I read a fair bit, but enjoyed sport/physical activity more.
>>79186301I'm more into gentle femdom and soft femdom, so a lot of femdom we see in porn is obviously out the door. I'm only into it because of mommy issuesI'm too shy and often fearful of women. Pic rel, Is how I want to be held
>>79186835>I'm only into it because of mommy issuesSpeak for yourself i have them too but i want the full bdsm package
>>79186776>There are but they come with their own set of quirks Expliquez-vous un peu?Personally, I don't think they are into it, it's a collateral effect of other things they enjoy, which they don't even necessarily noticeOf course, the man who loves them does notice and adores it, but it's different to a classic maledom/femsub dynamic where both parties are turned on by the fantasy of dominating and being dominated
>>79186786Tennis? What did you like? Interesting. Im sorry, im very interested in types of people, how peoples interests overlap and such. When did you realize you were into femdom?For me it was something that felt kinda emergent, remember feeling funny when I was young when I would get chased by a neighbor girl and developed overtime I think. Always wonder how much kinks are emergent vs nurtured from enviroment.
>>79186849>Expliquez-vous un peu?There are 2 subtypes who are into femdom for 2 different reasons. One group are spergy women who are dominant but not necessary sadistic. Thry are into it because they have trans thoughts or repress them and might become ftms in the future. The other group are women who are just sadistic and not really dominant. They have some childhood trauma involving men and now wanna hurt them
>>79186301Thumbnail made me think she was standing on top of a coffin. Even in death she steps on her loser.Femdom is pretty cringe, even if it's sometimes alright to let a woman lead.
>>79186875I can't say I agree with you, I have never met either of these types of women in the real world
>>79186536>Only pictures or videos of me if he felt he had to masturbatereminds me of my first gf / first domme / the girl I never got over. she had this condition too. it was really hard for me to stick to. in theory I loved the idea of only being allowed to cum to her, but I wasn't able to stick to it in practice for any significant length of time. she saw it the same way as cheating and it felt horrible to not be able to do for her but the impulse would become more and more overwhelming every day or week I abstained from fantasizing about other women. I always wish I had a chance to do it over with her and try again. I wasn't ready to let go of certain things before, but now I would be for her.
>>79186875you are correct that for a lot of women, there is a revenge sadism aspect of it due to trauma in their past. the rest, anybody who has had a domme irl can see you don't really know what youre talking about. i think you spend too much time online, or your sample size is very small.
>>79186857Tennis, rock climbing and volleyball. It's good to be interested. Always been a bit of a control freak/bossy person. First boyfriend I never really enjoyed him taking the lead, so I decided one day we were going to do things at my pace, what I wanted and it felt so much better. As for the more kinky side of femdom, that came when I went to college and branched out my interests a little more and discovered the kink through the Internet. >>79186901Then you'd have to be locked up until you learned to behave, alongside some training sessions.
>>79186929>the rest, anybody who has had a domme irl can see you don't really know what youre talking aboutEnlighten me pls>or your sample size is very smallTo be fair the sample size (if you ignore the sadistic ones) consist of artsy sperg girls ive met in uni
Femdom is such a bullshit fetish. A woman could never convincingly dominate a man. When I see a guy acting submissive to a woman and women trying to act dominant I can only think they both look retarded.
>>79186942>Then you'd have to be locked up until you learned to behave, alongside some training sessions.the problem with this is I have a high paced high focus job that would definitely be seriously impacted if I couldnt cum. it would be like making an alcoholic or a heroin addict go cold turkey and then keep performing at his job at a high level. i can say this because ive gotten clean from meth, and that was comparatively very easy compared to the times ive tried to quit masturbating. if we did this id have to take a month off of work or something to get through withdrawls. not a bad or unfeasible idea still though. will bring it up when I eventually win back my ex
>>79186301I dislike gender roles and think subverting them is fun. I like the idea of giving myself up, totally devoting myself to the person I love and their wishes to the point of worship, even if it sounds pathetic. And I think there's something really hot about an abusive woman, not really abuse if I enjoy it but whatever. Just makes me hard.I dislike cucking, pegging, cages, and all that other weird and gay shit now associated with femdom. I would prefer being slapped, kicked around and shouted at.
>>79186942>volleyball That would have been my second guess after tennis. rock climbing is fun, you would probably like kite surfing, Iv been getting into it and its alot of fun. Very physical, can do some fun tricks, its just a ton of fun. Iv noticed this seems to be a upper middle class/ rich girl thing too, or at least alot of people into femdom as a kink. (based off of talking to diff people on here and various clues like that.) I dont have personal experience with my kinks yet so idk, glad it worked out for you though. This has been very interesting.
>>79186967classic closed-minded malding normie moid. how you describe dom fem / sub male is the same way I see dom male / sub fem. except it also makes me physically nauseous due to how unnatural and disgusting it feels. i am smart enough to recognize that this is just because of my subjective sexual orientation, but you are a braindead monkey that cannot fathom empathy so you think your way is the "natural order" due to mystical irrational magic. many such cases!
>>79186500*stomps you into a fine paste* :3c>>79186512siblings isn't really my thing but i've done it in the past. i like the maternal role best
>>79186942Only daughter?>>79186976Bullshit, I manage over a dozen people in my company over 3 time zones and work with dangerous substances. I can put stuff away and get it done, you can too. I see so many people make the same cope for fast food/not working out but its possible, you need to just make the decision and work through it.
>>79187014Yeah I'm the only daughter
>>79186301>what do you like about it?It's more exciting for me than the traditional maledom dynamics. Having power and control can get boring so switching it up can be fun and exciting. I guess that's why I'm a switch. Surrendering myself to a woman is fun because then I can shut off my mind, and mindlessly obey and submit to her. I like teasing and I find that aspect of a woman exerting her power over me especially a tease. Plus I just admire strong, confident, assertive women.>>79186420CBT is so hot. I'd love to have my manhood abused and tortured. That really gets me riled up and going.
>>79187014well there is a reason rehab treatment centers exist. quitting an addiction has a much higher success rate when you take a break from the stressors of daily life and make rehab your primary focus. i run the tech division for a startup and I work 80+ hours per week. im sure youre right that I "could" do it, but id rather take a vacation and make sure im putting my work on myself and my relationship first rather than try to juggle two things that are very important to me that will both have disastrous consequences if one of them doesnt get the attention it needs.
>>79186967You miss the point. Femdom is the real maledom. Chad gets a submissive woman to become dominant for him to indulge in his kinks. Chad is bored of being dominant all the time and he wants something to break that. To break him - even if it's only roleplay.
>>79186301i like having women treat me like a slave but I have often wondered who is really the dom, since it's me asking them to do it so is it me dominating myself? anyway hot latex strapon time is hot
>>79186672>its a male fantasyEmotional sapiness is a female fantasy but there are some males than like it, the same goes for femdom. Youd be hard pressed to think of a single fantasy that has never had both sexes thinking about it
>>79187168The only thing that enables a female to be dominant is a male who allows it. That fantasy can be taken away in an instant due to the anatomical differences between the sexes.
>>79187168Is emotional sappiness a female fantasy? I think it's actually a male fantasy that men project onto women, as the "fairer sex". Real sappy romance is liked by men almost exclusively. If you actually read romance novels aimed at women, most of them are little short of 50 shades of grey in their maledom content.Both emotional romance and femdom are male fantasies that are based on an incorrect perception of what women are
>>79187233>That fantasy can be taken away in an instant due to the anatomical differences between the sexes.I case you don't know it but bdsm is just roleplaying
>>79186301Femdom allows me to express myself romantically to my fullest extent. I'm a follower when I'm in love. I do everything I can to study a woman, cater to her whims, accommodate her needs and make her feel special. I'm clingy, though not in the sense of needing constant reassurance. It's more like an elastic band, where my grasp is at its most tenuous when we are very close, and stronger if I feel like there's any risk of drifting apart as I get anxious about the relationship ending and do all I can to try to fix it.One of the best parts about femdom is the love and trust that go into exposing our vulnerabilities to one another and learning to find strength in weakness. Conquering fear together is such an amazing bonding experience. So, for me, femdom isn't just a fetish. Sure I love the pain and humiliation that come with the package, but it's all part of loving a woman in a submissive and caring manner. I want to please her, to make her laugh, to let her unwind after a stressful day, to be her comfort object, her court jester, her punching bag, her loyal pet, her favorite toy.
>>79186301Im into femdom but my autism got triggered by that bathroom
>>79187168>>79187236And if you have any doubt that men are the sex that truly believe in romance, let this anon's post prove your point>>79187252
>>79186999The male that you're "dominating" could probably kill you with his bare hands.
>>79187233and the part where all your limbs are chained down, retard.
>>79187274Men are the ones who do all the romantic shit desu. When women watch romantic movies, it's all about beach walks, candle lit dinners, flower bouquets at work, rosepetals leading to a drawn bath etc etc. Basically all things a dude can do for a woman. Reverse it and what would the dude appreciate? Maybe the dinner but a man doesn't need it to be candle lit, a drawn bath would be cool too but not the rosepetals leading to it. Women can be sensual and create sensuality/intimacy but they can only recieve romance.
>>79187284Moid drugged, handcuffed, in bondage or chained to the bed, playful knife to his throat. Problem solved.
>>79187309Yes please. Although drugs are a limit to me personally. But constriction and knife play are hot.
I was growing up but a r9k girl groomed me into being into the exact opposite
>>79187309If you have nerf him like that, it's only an admission to his inherent superiority.
>>79187284im not a foid, im a sub male. yes I could kill my domme but id go to prison, and its a moral atrocity. the foid youre "dominating" could commit a similar moral atrocity and claim you raped her and send you to prison for the rest of your life. its a moid delusional to think men are the dominant sex just because we have physical dominance. women have sexual dominance (gatekeepers of sex), and both genders have certain aspects of societal dominance. both femdom and moiddom play off of exaggerated aspects of real dominance found in inherent gender dynamics. this is why femdom play for example does not overtly have to do with physical dominance fantasies like overpowering your sub or rape, while these are common in moiddom. meanwhile things like body worship and controlling your subs chastity are more central themes in femdom (sexual dominance) but are not as focused in moiddom. youll still find all forms of dominance in femdom and moiddom but the most important motifs will be the ones that reflect the real life dominance dynamics.
>>79187371Sex is an act of pure primacy, taking into account such social contrivances turns it into some gay theater.
>>79187371That is a lot of text to cope with your delusions. A female having any power in society, over men, is because men allow it. The only place you need to look for proof of this is the middle east.
>>79187481simply untrue, men and women have always been opposite sides of the same coin. we complement one another as God intended. men's leadership has always been more overt but balanced by the way a woman can control the man who loves her. "behind every strong man is a strong woman".
>>79186301>For the bots into femdom, what do you like about it?All of it. None of it. Thoughts of femdom can get my penis excited... for about 30 seconds. Then my brain remembers "Actually, that's probably a bad idea, and you wouldn't really like that", and then my erection disappears.What I need is a vanilla relationship with a woman who has a femdommy sense of humor. She's assertive and strong-willed and likes to joke about femdomming me, but at the end of the day we're still equals who treat each other like equals. When I'm deferential and I carry out her whims, when I do whatever I can to make her happy, we must have a relationship where she recognizes that each partner works for the other partner's happiness, that it's not a follower obeying a leader, no matter how much she may tease otherwise.Of course, I can never have this. It's a more impossible dream than finding a woman who performs femdom. I can't just say to a woman "I'd like you to joke about femdom without actually performing femdom" without her thinking that I'm lying and that I want her to perform femdom. You see these words all the time, but here I'll say them again: It's over.
>>79186301>girl in latexwhy does that look so hot?
>>79187618>behind every strong man is a strong womanThis is about the supportrole of women and how them keeping the home and tending to their men makes men perform their best.
>itt spergs argue whether women can be dominant or notwhy can't nobody if you fathom that femdom and bdsm are just a big larp
>>79186301I love corruption of any kind and mental games and kink in general. I'd like to have a relationship where the sexual dynamic is almost like a game. Where the woman uses her charms to manipulate me. And I push back through wit, physicality or whatever other aspects my partner is into.Kind of like a struggle where we exploit each other's fetishes like weak points.
>>79186301I love it...but it will be the death of me. I'm in debt and bankrupt over it. I want to escape my femanon dom's clutches, but never am able to.
>>79187880>findomewww
>>79187806And that's precisely why it looks so retarded.
>>79187906Sounds like you're a spergy trad larper who can't imagine people having fun occasionally
>>79187882Yeah...it sucks. I don't even get dommed or humiliated by her much anymore, but still buy her anything she wants. It's a lose-lose situation for me.
>>79187919People like you and the bbc chastity tards made the whole thing even cringier than it already was
>>79187915Nothing more cringe than some woman taunting a guy twice her size going like "heheh you're my bitch >:3"No cunt, I'll pin you to the floor and rape your pussy.
>>79187948>some woman taunting a guy twice her size going like "heheh you're my bitch >:3"That sounds so hot though
>>79187967It's fucking ridiculous.
>>79187948>No cunt, I'll pin you to the floor and rape your pussy.oh no mr keyboard warrior one day you'll get me
>>79187972No I think you just cant handle a little banter and fun
>>79187976I see we're we're all set up for the punchline.>>79187981On the contrary, I think it would be extremely fun to put some uppity "domme" into place.
My girl and I got into it because she is the bread winner, my job is to look after her and she will look after everything else. Mostly that comes down to rubbing her back, rubbing her feet, making sure she is warm and the fire is lit etcIt also involves making her cum, she likes to pass out after an orgasm so I often eat her pussy (or fuck her good and hard if that's what she wants) and then don't finish myself and go jack off while she falls asleepShe likes to dismiss me sometimes after I've eaten her pussy and tells me to go jack off In the last year she's put me in a cage a few times too which has been loads of fun, she usually puts it on about 6 hours before I'm to eat her pussy and she teases me the whole time asking me if I'm looking forward to dinner while rubbing my cock through the cage, after I make her cum I get to bust then and the cage comes off
>>79188103>On the contrary, I think it would be extremely fun to put some uppity "domme" into place.i encourage you to do that but since you're a pussy irl i don't think that will happen
>>79186672>- Knight/princess dynamicHoly shit I want this so bad but dominant women don't exist and I am not nearly masculine enough to be anyone's knight.
>>79186301feminization is the main thing i'm into and i much prefer a female dom to a male dommale doms tend to do feminization in a very demeaning way which personally i don't enjoy
>>79188253You should get her pregnant
>>79188529I already did, 4 times. I miss drinking breast milkWe obviously have to keep our kinky shit down low because the kids are always around
>>79188253so based dude, what a dream. I miss having a domme gf. it was truly heaven looking back. dont let her go please. its really hard to find someone like that again.
>>79187105When you have a girl that has to stand on tiptoes to see over your shoulder, theres something so overwhelmingly erotic about kneeling down to her. Unless you are mentally ill, like this guy said, femdom is the man ordering the woman to do something to a "sub" that could easily overpower her the second he wanted to. The fantasy and pretend act is what makes it hot. I want a girl to sit on my face, and girls sexuality as we all know is centered around being desired. So she will be flattered and enticed by the fact that she can be so adored by doing these weird acts Just dont be weird about it yourself, tell her what you want and start small.
>>79186967Newsflash: sex always looks retarded.
>>79186301it's hot bc every man myself included, has mommy issuesit's hot to get brutally fucked, abused, and raped by women. it's hot to worship and be degraded by womenit's hot to lick her feet, lick her leather boots, whimper on her leather boots, sniff her feet in tights, lick her legs, get used by having her shove her snatch on your face, meow for her, call her mommy, fuck her thighs, fuck her armpits, clean and service her holes, etc.the best world to live in would be the "Let's Start an Inn on the Dungeon Island!" world bc only women can use magic, women rape men, women are also physically stronger than men. it's hot bc then i can just starfish and have a bunch of hot mommies fuck me. imagine being in a fantasy world where women can use magic to endlessly fuck you, use magic to remove your refractory time, use magic to mind control you, use magic to clone herself to gangrape you, you can get fucked by monster girls, demon girls, etc.however, anyone who unironically wants findom, caging, mutilation, feminization/sissy, cucking, etc. should kill themselves. pegging is questionable, but it's fine compared to the ones before since futa hentai is hot and i would assume that sadistic women can use magic to become temporary futas
>>79189139Fuck you about caging. Having a woman having the ability to take away your manhood. Prevent you from pleasuring yourself without her permission, using your growing need and lust for her benefit is hot as shit.
>>79189258You're excusing your fetish to a dude who wishes magic futas were real so he could feel real flesh cocks with fat ballsacks and stinky cum without it being gay.
>>79186301I have low self esteem and my parents never really loved me that much or gave me attention so I try to find love and validation from other people, especially women because I'm straight.I like femdom because it's a kind of dynamic where I feel like I can give more than I take. I always feel really insecure about being an annoyance to other people, I never ever want someone to feel like I'm too demanding or whatever. There's a lot of femdom that I don't like at all because it feels like the male gets more than the woman, I'm more into specifically stuff like non reciprocated oral and free use/cnc and being physically hurt and degraded and stuff.That said, I feel like women that are into femdom are so rare that I've kind of psyoped myself into liking being dominant, because I see so many women online saying how into that they are. I just really really really want to be someone that a woman likes and has enjoyable sex with, I would do anything to make a gf happy.
>>79186301For me it's the psychological aspect of being submissive, being vulnerable and at the whims of another person, being used for their satisfactionI'm into all kinds of things, but what matters is the psychological part, i don't care if my fetishes aren't fulfilled or if she's doing things i don't like as long as i am being put into that submissive head space
It's just the aspect of pleasing a woman and made their life easier or better. I don't particularly care about kinks, all of that is just lame roleplay that most of the time is so poorly executed you end up just chuckling
I'm a switch but I used to do Catfish Findom for money when I was broke. In general, I think femdom is about interrupting and denying desire. You are presented with an object of desire in the form of a woman you want to have sex with, but she denies you the pleasure you want, instead presenting a series of games/tasks to tease or humiliate you. This teasing combined with rewards/punishments serve to heighten desire. It's basically a complex form of edging/denial, which is why it's ultimately almost always a male fantasy, it's totally centered around male sexual desire. All forms of femdom pretty much take this basic form. "Be a good boy for mommy and then you will get rewarded" or "losers don't get to touch goddess, just stare and sit in with your cock cage". It's the same basic game, but more hardcore subs are more into being denied and humilated.
>>79186301I'm a male switch and I'm really just obsessed with pleasing and impressing my partner, in either role. I don't like the mindset some people bring to sex where the man is the consumer and the woman the provider; that kind of dynamic has its place, but for some people that's all there is and I find that really bleak. so while I'm good at pressing women's buttons with mdom dynamics, I'm really pretty flexible and it can be really nice when women take initiate and have assertive or even objectifying desires.
>>79186301people in these threads need to learn the term "service top", which is a good description of what japanese male sex workers are doing for their clients: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BeGijF0e6WYit's a good concept to have in your vocabulary and what a lot of men who see prodommes are looking for as well: paying for a trusted expert service rather than for access to someone's body like a normal john. the truth is that both men and women often fail to have their pleasure emphasized in normal sex because the script is focused on male desire, not female desire or either partner's pleasure.a lot of people fail to understand femdom just because they don't know enough words to clearly delineate different types of dynamics and end up talking past each other; they don't have a firm grip on what the "atoms" of sex are and how to recombine the elements. femdom is confusing because there is no standard cultural script and you have to fend for yourself.
>>79190859forgot timestamp: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BeGijF0e6WY&t=609s
>>79187284All she has to do is a swift knee to the balls and I'd be on the floor.And it's not all about physical domination. A lot of it is mental domination like wanting to submit and be defeated.It's like the valiant hero that goes on a noble quest to defeat a witch. When he finds the witch, he instead gets put under her spell, and through whatever seductive tactics or mind games she uses, makes him surrender to be her slave forever and fail his quest. Probably would only work with subs and switches like me.>>79188253>cum I get to bust then and the cage comes offHow intense is your orgasm after being teased and edged for 6 hours?
>>79188792>When you have a girl that has to stand on tiptoes to see over your shoulder, theres something so overwhelmingly erotic about kneeling down to herYeah wtf that's hot as fuck.>girls sexuality as we all know is centered around being desiredThis is true and why I think women would be into femdom. The idea of an attractive guy submitting himself to a woman and only that woman should be appealing to women. I feel women would like that. Heterosexual relationships are kind of like that already.
>>79190395>I think femdom is about interrupting and denying desireFor me, it's more about an assertive woman that has an interest in me and then not being afraid to act on her feelings for me. She confidently takes what she wants, and what she wants is me.She's a powerful and dominant woman. Then through some way she gets me under her thumb and I can't escape or get out. Not being able to resist. It's frustrating. It's hot. That just does it for me.Sex and power struggle go hand and hand. Both sex and fight-or-flight are regulated by the sympathetic nervous system. So to wrestle or fight such a woman and then get owned is arousing to me. Then she takes me back to her lair to feast on me cavewoman style. It's something primal and a deep and ancient part of our brains.
>>79186534this right here is in fact it.Most of the enjoyment of the idea of femdom is tied to that. Really want someone to feel a bit possessive over me.
>>79191449>Then through some way she gets me under her thumb and I can't escape or get out. Not being able to resist. It's frustrating. It's hot. That just does it for meThat's exactly what I mean by interrupting and denying desire. Your desire to fuck her, cum, etc is interrupted by her desire (to wrestle you, sit on your face, edge you, whatever), which builds up some kind of frustration and desire making you want her more and more. The reason I say femdom is usually a male fantasy is because the category of "the dom's desire" is generally something that is agreed upon beforehand, and actually something that is performed for the sub's benefit. "Oh no, please don't make me lick your boots and call you mommy!"
>>79187053Very interesting, I have a few more questions but I dont want to seem like im doxxing you, im very much into learning about people and metanarratives. I used to do some work as a PI, and narratives and characteristics that make people tick was part of the job. Very interesting. Im >>79186758 Hope I hear from you, if not, it was a good convo, thanks.
>>79187236>>79187233>>79187236>>79187274Its not a "projection". Women are sexual and have degenerate fantasies, but they DO fantasize about romance way more than men, which is why its always women constantly complaining about men using them/pumping and dumping them, men "not caring about feelings etc". Even in the 50 shades thing the woman is in an actual relationship with the guy, they arent just fuckbuddies. Extreme female sexual fantasies dont exclude the sappy feelings. Also several women are into femdom, a few of them are in this thread. Tons of women have fun with it. Again, my point is that all fantasies have both sexes fantasizing about them in some amounts. Can you think of a female-only fantasy ? I bet you cant, just like there arent male-exclusive fantasies. Saying femdom is a "male fantasy" sounds like a misandrist talking point to de-legitimize the fantasy as something "bad" , when its just a fantasy that can be enjoyed by both sexes
90% of what people consider 'femdom' is pretty cringe. I don't need someone to direct my life, rather someone to serve. I'd gladly take initiative and responsibilities. Unburden her
I used to be into femdom. It was a combination of porn addiction and believing it was an easier way to get attention from women. I realized it's actually harder to get a domme's attention than a normal woman's, and I stopped watching porn except rarely, and I no longer have a lot of interest in femdom.
>>79191449fucking latinas man they're nuts
>>79188253giwtwm minus the cage though
>>79195091sorry the cage is mandatory sweetheart
