>>79509836
"Cope until you rope" - anon
never been anything else

this is suicide fuel. i will ascend or i will kill myself on at 30

Calm down with the death anxiety, friend. You're going to die just like them all the same.

>>79509836
Ever notice how these guys say they don't have any partner, friends or relationships but somehow all the money they "saved" makes up for it? What's the point in having all that money then? Just consoom until you drop?

>>79509836
Unironically, try to become an immortal.
If you aren't part of the fabric of this world, a breeding machine, then try to gtfo. Everything else is like being a guest in some families home. It just gets more uncomfortable and weird the longer you stay.

>>79509882
anon forgets enrichment can happen without sex part 45488585858357483949349983498348975898793843094380248083-02349-0940-93243249342-03409-3490-09324-903930029093-0909423-30329449039804823948932544329432093409

>>79509959
Anon forgets how to read. I never said sex. You can have relationships without sex dingus.

>>79509871
i care about the physical aging that i care about more. i work with guys older than me and i see the lines and fat displacement on their faces. there's not much i can do to prevent it and its killing me everyday.

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>>79509882
its the brain using a self preservation tactic called 'coping'

>>79509836
im 22 and i never developed a sex drive. my body is normal, i live a healthy life, but never have felt sexual attraction or desire. i cant relate to what motivates most people and a lot of the time life feels pointless.

>>79510158
do you find pleasure in certain activites?

>>79510173
i find satisfaction in my work, and enjoy peoples company, but i dont really have hobbies or cool interests

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>>79509882
>What's the point in having all that money then?
Live life? Do things you like such as listening music, doing charitable work, playing an instrument, woodwork, birdwatching... jesus christ theres so many things to do on this planet and 100 iq niggers can only think about sticking their protruding body part in someone else's cavity its depressing desu
Impression III (Concert) (1911) by Wassily Kandinsky, which was inspired after hearing Arnold Schoenberg's concert

>>79510189
if you enjoy work and like socializing then gmi. the only thing you should be concerned about is how youll feel at once you reach the top.

>>79510191
outside of video games i honestly dont. maybe its video games maybe its depression but thats why i decided to remove it from my life but now i feel more empty than ever.

>>79509836
I feel like one of the shitty things many incels dont want to accept is that they are not incels. Elliot Roger was not some unfuckable gross freak. He looked fine. Incel's are just submissive and passive. Our human sexuality is breaking down and men are becoming more feminine in general.

Ive been kind of realizing lately that Im basically asexual. Sure, I have sexual desires for women, I jerk off to plenty of femdom and harcore and/or cuck porn. But I dont act on my desires. I dont pester women endlessly playing the game. Im not sending dick pics to women constantly begging for a crumb of their attention. I dont really even think that much about fucking women with my own dick, my fantasies are more sensual.... bitch coded. And often I just want someone else to degrade women for me.

Pay attention to 'chads' for once. They are hyper aggressive with women. I just dont do that. Im too nice, too respectful, too empathetic. Being aggressive is almost required, wanting to fuck women is required. It doesnt matter how attracted to women I am. . I dunno... I have it kinda bad so maybe you wont relate. But maybe this is a hint for that worm in your mind. I cant even bring myself to sign up for a dating site. Like what would I even say to a woman. I would feel so bad for wasting her time.

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>>79509836
As someone who's been in relationships and has had sex many times and who is now experiencing decreasing libido I can honestly say that sex doesn't matter that much. Friends, family and a sense of community are becoming more important to me than ever.

>>79509882
Peoplr think I'm crazy in saying sex selective abortions of male fetuses will happen, but it's inevitable. Parents and governments will see male outcomes in all aspects of life dragging behind compared to women, and wiill react accordingly.

Fertility rates are dropping everywhere - soon enough even Africa will be below replacement. After a period of population decline, many two parent families will be both women.

>>79510437
This feels like I just wrote it. I can't even imagine myself finding any pleasure in having sex with a woman. The whole concept just feels alien.

I know I still wish for intimacy with someone though.

>>79510437
Women are turned on by dominance and status - this is increasingly going to women. Men's superior physical strength is a major factor, but you will see more and more lesbian/ bisexual women. This'll be a major factor behind society switching towards something like a 3: 1 female/male ratio

>>79509836
My meds did that to me, it sometimes feels liberating.
>>79511184
This too. Before I had ever dated I thought the girl would fix all my issues but it didn't. Nowadays I value friends more.

>>79511276
you do want intimacy. You want to be fucked, and you want to be submissive. You want a woman to chase you and fuck you like guys chase women. I bet you avoid eye contact with women the same way women avoid eye contact or smiling at guys in public.

Youre a bit of a bitch, literally. And you didnt get the dysphoria or gay shit so youre stuck in hell with unrealistic fantasies. There is no one for you.

Oh... if you manage to get rich, aggressive women might fuck you and this will bring forth the matriarchy of dominant women e.g. weezer, greenday, linus tech tips, etc.

good luck with that tho, your passive nature probably has cut you from taking risks and capitalism has been cutting out the good jobs for stable hard working men.

wish I had a real solution for ya. I dont.

>>79509836
>i dropped everything thats pleasurable
>realized that theres nothing to live for.
woah, truly shocking. you took all the joy out of life and suddenly it's not fun anymore?
>>79511455
shut up with the demoralization bullshit.

>>79511544
yeah sorry. I left out a lot of the positives of being free from it all. We get to choose our own lives

i'm 34 i never had sex and already lost my libido. One thing less to worry about i guess

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Give it like 10 more years till the spectre of death gets closer.
You'll learn to love the taste of food, a funny shitpost, a comfortable sleep, a good conversation or whatever.

>>79512255
out of the frying pan and into the oven i guess

>>79511455

It's true. This is exactly how I was until a BPD whore with a virgin fetish decided to target me. Your system just needs to be kick-started. Once you've nutted raw inside an eager woman a few times you subconsciously understand how purposeful it feels, and that it's more than just getting your rocks off.

The only solution is to fuck a woman. Achieve the masculine prime directive a few times and you'll realize the juice is actually worth the squeeze. Yeah, you're gonna wish she grabbed your hair more firmly when you're going down on her and squeezed you tighter when as you climax inside, but it's not nearly as disappointing as it sounds. It's not my preferred role, but at least I have a role.

>>79510437

> I would feel so bad for wasting her time.

That's for her to decide. You can achieve some decent results just by existing in proximity to women and interacting with them in a platonic way. They often want what they can't have, so acting normal around them gets them to chase. Don't have to be aggressive, but you can't be passive either. You just have to be "active".

you are supposed to raise family, go Genghis Khan mode, or go monk mode. Fucking baka's...

>>79512713
or there is "wizard mode" or find tantric relationship or whatever

>>79511455
>You want a woman to chase you and fuck you like guys chase women.
No, that would be weird.

>>79511455
>you do want intimacy. You want to be fucked, and you want to be submissive. You want a woman to chase you and fuck you like guys chase women.
NTA but this is absolutely true for me. I want to be a sex object like girls are.

>And you didnt get the dysphoria or gay shit so youre stuck in hell with unrealistic fantasies.
Also true for me.

i'm a 32 yo virgin and still horny err day like these lusty green goblins that fuck elves every day like in my favorite anime
i imagine your mental state has a lot to do with it and your genes probably play an even bigger part in it
but yea i wouldn't wanna live without a sex drive it does seem kinda pointless

You are a sad, vacuous person, OP. I'm a 35 year old virgin and I wish there were more hours in the day because there are too many things I want to do with my time. You have nothing to live for because you never cultivated an inner life, you exist purely as a meat puppet trapped in sensory experience. I've loved reading books since before I could walk, I've always been introverted and preferred being alone. I knew I would never marry or seriously pursue a romantic relationship since I was 13, and I prepared my life accordingly.

I do feel pity for you, though. You lack the introspective abilities to be comfortable with yourself, so you're trapped running on a mindless hedonistic treadmill. You can't channel your restless energy into anything productive or intellectually stimulating, and you're too lazy to just go work out like the other brainless gym rats.

>>79510191
>Live life?
>proceeds to list charitable work which requires having a relationship with SOMEBODY
Do you guys read the entire post and ponder it for a few minutes or do you just start tying at the first thing that triggers you?

>>79514826
>>proceeds to list charitable work which requires having a relationship with SOMEBODY
Excuse me? You need a girlfriend to do charity work? What am I missing? OP complained about not having a sex drive, you need that for charity? For being depressed and with low libido OP may actually have low T levels or whatever, but wanting to want to have sex has nothing to do with charity or having a fulfilling life, you guys really are slaves to your genes trying to propagante itself aren't you?

36 year old virgin and my libido is still very active. Wake up with morning wood every day, and if I don't make a point to jack off on a regular basis I start having intrusive sexual fantasies and thoughts while at work. This is a real problem since I actually need to think to do my job, and work in an office so having a tent in my slacks is gonna get me sent to HR if I'm not careful.

Despite my body still being this active, I mostly find it a nuisance. While sometimes I do get in the mood to enjoy a good fap, most of the time it's a chore I try to get out the way as quickly as I can.

>>79514890
These types are failed normalfags. They think about nothing but "me want fuck girl". That is their entire life. But for whatever reason they failed socially and can't breed. So they slowly self destruct due to being too stupid to give themselves another reason to live.

>>79514893
Huh, this is normal anon. Unless you're low test, fat, or a jeet, you should be having morning wood well into your 50s.

>>79510437
>They are hyper aggressive with women. I just dont do that. Im too nice
I am not a chad but the last chances I even had with women it seems to me being nice is the only way I would have ever gotten with any of them. I did for one of them. Nothing I was ever taught worked for me. I just had to really be myself for lack of a better way to put it.

>>79510437
Dude, please stop. Stop it. I've tried to explain it to them until I'm blue in the face. You don't get it. Incels *want* to be pathetic.

Guy #2, 59yo could be awash in delicious 20s pussy just by spending a little money on arrangement bitches. It's so stupidly easy when you have a little money and your own place.

And the funny thing is, regular whores (you do kinda make friends after a while) and arrangement pussy help socialize you so that regular women are easier. You'd be shocked at how much pussy you can get over a year period for $10 - 20k. And then you're ready for regular women. Simple as.

>>79514736
>feeling pity and acting high and mighty to people that are not asexual
Create a society of cultured intrinsic genius non-meat puppets like you.

Ah wait, you can't and don't procreate, thus you are unable to progress anything.
Did you know sex having animals had you? Crazy, right?

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>>79509836
I have a sex drive but I think I am considered demisexual - that is I just can't sleep with strangers, or that I find sex with people who I am not "in love" with to be off-putting.
I have had sex once with a girl who was my physical type but there was nothing there emotionally for me and I didn't enjoy it much. I haven't had sex since and that was more than 5 years ago now.
I don't really plan to sleep with someone again until I meet a life partner pretty much - though I am not really sure if I ever will at this point.
I don't think that my life choices since the end of middle school are helping much either (I went to a technical highschool with no girls, then to a male dominated field of study at college and then now I work in a male dominated field).

>demisexual
fuck off discord trannies
Get The Fuck Out Of My Board
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

>>79515352
Its just a convenient way to describe the situation.
It is more or less just not experiencing the same sexual stimuli as the majority and valuing the emotional connection more above other things.
Go read about it - but its simpler to say the thing and someone will understand than to explain all the above every time.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demisexuality

>>79511265
It makes from a survival standpoint. You know a daughter will easily get you multiple grandkids, but having a son is risky and will nowadays lead you to no grandkids. Why waste resources on potential genetic dead end. However, instead of aborting fetuses they will probably do selective insemination with a sperm that is female.

>>79511184
As soon as my friends get girlfriends, they forget about me. I'm pretty sure all of them would step over my dead body to get laid. It seems like I'm just a placeholder for my guy friends until they get girlfriends.

I have had an insatiable sex drive since the day I hit puberty, I am 34 now. Nothing makes a notable difference. I've gone 3-5 year stretches without sex, I've been in committed relationships where I've had it all the time. It's unceasing, I hate it. Every day I wake up rock hard and I would literally bash someone's brains in just to have sex right then and there.

It gets even worse if I go from having it regularly to not having it at all, it's torture. I wish I could switch it off; I'm jealous of people who have very little sex drive.

>>79509836
>there's no purpose in life if you cant have sex

This is true. Everything else in my life can become boring yet fapping never gets old. I eventually want to stop for a bit because its how our bodies are built but eventually I will get horny again and want to fap. I would imagine sex is just a more pleasurable step up from fapping. It also feels like with most things do I necessarily actually need a body to do some of these things? What if I was just some ghost and can do things such as watching movies or playing video through some other means? Like with your ghost spirit powers? It makes sense to me this could be possible. But not with sex though. Its all about bodily pleasure.

Reproduction makes no sense if you actually think about it.
>dude make more people so they could struggle to survive and eventually die of heart disease or cancer or some other horrible thing
For what purpose? You don't lose anything by not being born, because without existing, you can't have any desires/needs.