Comfy late night movie watching with nonas edition.Previous : >>80008866 https://desuarchive.org/r9k/thread/80008866Rules:Ignore impolite moidsQUESTIONS:>Favorite comedy movie?>Favorite romance movie?>Favorite foreign movie (anything non-anglo is fine!)>Favorite movie treat or snack?>Do you sneak drinks into the cinema?FAQ:>What is this thread?A place for biological women to talk about their lives.>Why aren't you on Crystal Cafe?It has been aggressively raided for years and is dead.>Well, you're raiding my male safe space!r9k is not a male board. https://wizchan.org/ is.>I'm a man, can I post here?Please don't, but if you are going to anyway, be polite and indicate your gender.>I'm a tranny, can I post here?No. Die alone and loveless>What does nona mean?Anon -> Nona>I want a holeThis is not >>>/soc/>How do femanons feel about (random hypothetical moid scenario)?This is not /ATOGA//biofem/ OP Copy+Paste:https://rentry.org/biofem_OP
Thank you for the thread, sisternona!
A wife's cooking is poetry for the soul, written with love.
>>80060556>Do you sneak drinks into the cinema?no only snacks
>>80060556Tha know you for the new break sisternona.
p8 where is everyone
>>80061500Arguing in the book thread.>>80060521
>>80061500I'm here but not sure about anyone else.
>>80061573answer the thread questions maybe
>>80061573>>80061500None of the nonas wanted to date me so I refuse to bump the thread now. Why should I bump the thread if you won't date me? I'm not letting you cuck me. All my niceness is wasted if I pour it all into you then you go on a date with someone else after I was nice to you. Wasted niceness.
What's the weirdest dream you've ever had?
>>80061971>Wasted niceness.typical nice guy
>>80061987>typical nice guyniceness is a resource. It can't waste it on women who will return zero value to me.
>>80061987If women think all men are rapist, why should he be nice? Sounds like they just want a punching bag
>>80060556hi nonas, i hope everyone is having a comfy night :) >Favorite comedy movie?i like austin powers a lot :) do any of u like the venture bros. or metalocalypse? what did u think of their movies? i liked them but it made me miss those shows so much haha >Favorite romance movie?her (2013) made me cry. the moon song is so cute>Favorite foreign movie (anything non-anglo is fine!)i liked portrait of a lady on fire, parasite, and promare ^_^ >Favorite movie treat or snack?i prefer drinks desu. i like mixing drinks on this machine! my fav is coke zero with lime ^_^>Do you sneak drinks into the cinema?yes! desu, i haven't gone to the movies in a long time, but i have this memory when i took my niece and little cousin. i took them to a candy store and a convenience store so they could pick out their favorite treats before going to the theater :D we made a day of it.
>>80060556Thanks for the bread, sis!>Favorite comedy movie?It alternates between Young Frankenstein, Dr. Strangelove and UHF depending on the day and mood I'm in.>Favorite romance movie?The Before Trilogy.>Favorite foreign movie (anything non-anglo is fine!) Parasite.>Favorite movie treat or snack?Popcorn is pretty up there. A theater I've gone to several times also sells fish and chips, and I've gotten them each time I've been there.>Do you sneak drinks into the cinema?No. But I have been to theaters where they serve alchohol and have enjoyed a Mai Tai or two while watching a movie.>>80061971>>80062249>Wasted niceness.>niceness is a resourceNiceness is transactional. Kindness is a virtue. Nice guys get nowhere because their behavior is conditional on positive feedback rather than just being a kind person. Stay maidenless.
>>80062371>Stay maidenless."just be nice to me for no reason while I go date someone else sucker.".Kek, I'm not letting you drain all my niceness away for free. There's a few nona I owe some niceness to but you aren't one of them. Besides why should I spend niceness anyway when even you are telling me my niceness will not earn me any love and affections? It's all a scam to get free niceness from nice guys like me.
>>80061971you really need a new schtick, man
>>80062412this is beginning to feel like you guys are putting cat toys that act like real animals in the enclosure for us to chase and pounce on, but it's too convenient... are you just trying to play with us?
>>80062439Sis, we both know moids aren't capable of things like that. What purpose would it even serve? I try not to think too deeply on why moids act evil or stupid and just accept it at face value.
>>80062439Is this a reference to that zoo comment? I miss op1, she did a good job keeping the horny moids in check.
How's everyone this evening? I'm having a quiet night myself. Didn't do anything too eventful. Did anyone else do anything fun?
>>80062710Mine's been good so far. I went out on date tonight to a really nice seafood restaurant and had a lovely swordfish steak with rice and roasted asparagus Now I'm waiting on a final load of laundry before I head to bed.
>>80062934That sounds very nice. I drew a little planted begonia seeds and now working on a little board for something that got damaged. Headed to bed after.
>>80060556Why ask these questions?
im on the internet all the time due to being a NEET and seeing men being misogynistic daily is killing my interest in ever dating one. building a life with someone who sees me as subhuman just sounds unappealing. tell me what is it actually like? i'm an autistic zoomer who never dated before.
>>80063007She got asked about movies in the last threadI stopped watching when I realized I just go to the cinema with the motivation to eat junk food so it's no good
>>80060556These questions are difficult I haven't comedied or romanced so I can't relate
>>80063079Imagine someone who's always there to support and comfort you. Always sees the best in you and actively encourages you to try even when you think you can't do it. Someone who you eventually even like the smell of their sweat and feel safe with. Who excites and challenges and leaves you satisfied physically. Even just sitting around watching shows or movies is nice, and you can have fun just walking around and laughing together. That's what it's like to date me.
>>80063079Why not marry a 6'5" guy that reads feminist literature?
>>80063079I feel the same ever since I discovered lolcow. I feel like most women want a companionship relationship based around respect, attraction and mutual self-improvement. Which kinda what I want.But all women seem to approach men as inherently lustful, violent creatures. Like all I ever hear is how "I'd never trust a moid". Always judging, waiting for the 'ick'. It feels so apprehensive and rude to me. Like every girl I'm ever around with is constantly judging my 'performance' as an 'acceptably-hang-around moid'. I hate the internet.
>>80063079It's hard to explain since it was more of a feeling. Just listening to him talk. His smile. Wearing his jacket and being covered in his scent. His voice when he would hold me after a bad panic attack. Damn thinking of this so late.
>>80063079>building a life with someonego get your own money free loader.You're not getting a cent of my money to spend on >muh make up>muh restaurant>muh children!>muh mortgage!!5000 a year. That's all I'm willing to earn.I am not working full time for the whole year.
eurobump pour les fembottes
>>80060556>favorite comedy movieA Woman is a Woman, I love it so much and I watch it at least twice a year>favorite romance movieUnironically, When Harry met Sally>favorite foreign movieAlmost all the Beck movies (Basically Swedish James Bond but more boring)>favorite movie treat or snackI'm trying to lose weight so right now nothing, it used to be popcorn>do you sneak drinks into the cinemaYes, I've sneaked in redbulls etc
>>80062710I made dinner; schnitzel with fries and mayo (everything homemade, I don't work so I have thr time for it) for me and my boyfriend and then we just watched a movie together
>>80063079like playing Russian roulette
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>>80060703>A wife's cooking is poetry for the soul, written with love.I don't want to cook. I want a slutty man to cook for me.
>>80063877>Do you sneak drinks into the cinema>I am a law abiding citizen...
>>80063884That sounds like a really lovely night. I'm a little bit jealous about it. Finally just woke up myself still sleepy though
>>80060556>This is not /ATOGA/I have a ATOGA question.What are the biggest red flags on a dating profile assuming all the filter stuff like age/height/job/good picture etc is filtered to your preferences?I mean in the bit where people write about themselves, all I have is>Hell my name is _____.>I have my own place, its clean.>I need a girlfriend because its starting to get a bit cringe when people invite me to things and I have to go alone.>Don't ask me about pineapple on pizza idgafTheres obvious things I can understand like not declaring myself an Evolian anti human super-fascist (or any politics) but is there anything besides that I should avoid when rewriting.
>>80066088Most guys make the mistake of writing too much, it's not bad too write a lot per se but not everyone is going to read all that.Just write down your basic hobbies like; I like going to the gym, cooking, whatever hobby, etcJust my preference though, you can also write about if you have any pets or stuff like thatAnd desu I don't think I would swipe on any of those bio suggestions, maybe the pineapple on pizza one.The best is to fill in the conversation prompt questions and click in things you're looking for like "longterm relationship", "anti-smoking", "non-alcoholic", etc.
>>80066196>or stuff like thatYou mean the stuff I read on everybody elses profile? I'm not asking that question in a snarky way, is it really what people want to see? For me the main thing that tunes me out of reading women's profiles is the little list of cut and pasted interests. The pineapple on pizza thing I have on there as my hint to it, could replace that line with anything related to skydiving or movies.I don't mind being disingenuous if I have to be to play the game but there has to be something on there that says along side it that playing the game is all I'm doing, please can we move beyond that.
>>80066335>please can we move beyond that.Thats not a request from you btw thats me hypothetically telling my future girlfriend can we please not do the dating app bs.
>>80066088Don't ask me about pineapple on pizza!
>>80066345>is on a dating app>is on a dating app>he still is, on a dating app>he's retarded
>>80066335It's on everybody elses profile because it works, sorry anon but it's trueIf you don't want to write down just the interests you can also write down what you especially like etcI understand that you're not asking in a snark way and it's what most people want to see, though I used to enjoy reading long bios that's not most womens cup of teaYes, I understand what you mean but it's how it is nowadays I guess unless you want to meet people here or in person
>>80066356Sure its not very disney fairytale romance but its a thing that exists and its where single women are.Even if its cold and transactional in nature but why not try it.>>80066357Heres a no-go, got to know a girl frim here on discord and although we were madly in love with one another (or whatever delusional state 2 people imaging a person behind a voice can find themselves in), as soon as I saw her it was done for. Dating apps seem to get straight to the point, they even have that advantage over irl meetings (though you miss the chemistry), some girl isnt going to randomly see me in the street and tell me that she loves reading old scifi stories.I'll just need to find a list of stuff I do, can I include browsing r9k as "socialising with friends"
>>80063189>go get your own money freeloaderif you think i am a NEET by choice you are sorely mistaken>just got laid off a retail job>>80063124that sounds ideal compared to the relationships i've witnessed>>80063142they dont need to be an activist just someone who doesn't look down on me for things i can't control like race or gender >>80063156so instinct? fair enough>>80063154>But all women seem to approach men as inherently lustful, violent creatures. i disagree with that notion, but i assume you're male so i can give you some insight on that behavior. it's because of bad experiences. the majority of women have been sexualized by adult men as children at some point, to the point where fearing female puberty is a common thing for that very reason. imagine as soon as you hit a certain age strangers want to touch you or say weird things about your body that give you a sense of dread/endangerment. it's like that. it's also in part of girls looking up to women with extremely obscure standards and using them as a reference in dating to the point they end up passing guys who aren't that bad.although this is probably hypocritical, i'm just very risk-adverse and don't care about "icks" beyond basic hygiene like washing your hands after wiping the shit off your ass.
>>80066441go find an unstable cliff and dance on it
>>80066807>i disagree with that notion, but i assume you're male so i can give you some insight on that behavior. it's because of bad experiences. the majority of women have been sexualized by adult men as children at some point, to the point where fearing female puberty is a common thing for that very reason. imagine as soon as you hit a certain age strangers want to touch you or say weird things about your body that give you a sense of dread/endangerment. it's like that. it's also in part of girls looking up to women with extremely obscure standards and using them as a reference in dating to the point they end up passing guys who aren't that bad.I guess I understand that, I've read Lolita. I just hate being the guy that gets passed, it's driving me insane. Insight is worthless when I haven't even done anything to anyone to deserve that apprehention, fuck.
>>80066441>as soon as I saw her it was done for. Can you explain a bit more? Was there a problem?
>>80066807>race or genderI hope you aren't saying you aren't a biological female. I don't think many would have a problem with your race, I know some only want their own race, but it's not like your race is looked down on. Most look pretty favorable on yours for being attractive and exotic. So, that's kind of a plus unless you don't want anyone to choose you specifically for that. >wiping the shit off your assTake a shower after pooping! I will NOT be giving you backshots if you smell like poop.
>>80067148She was just ugly. She was honest in describing herself as a list of stats and traits (ie eye colour, height, weight etc) but when we finally started sending each other pictures she was just not attractive at all.She looked older than she was claiming (she said 19, I was 27, she looked older than me) and the bad skin I would've been fixable but she had a weirdly rounded face, might sound like I'm being nit-picky but honestly her head was like a fucking circle.
>>80067266The sucks. I don't think I would mind too much if our personalities got along.
>>80066916i've dealt with racial profiling so i understand in a way, but there are definitely women out there who are looking for guys like you. i had a college friend who found her boyfriend through shared hobbies even ones that are predominantly male like video games.she went to a convention in matching cosplay with him and it was cute. helps if you ask them what they are comfortable with so they can trust you with more ease. >>80067205if i was male i wouldn't be posting here, but also>Most look pretty favorable on yours for being attractive and exotic. So, that's kind of a plus unless you don't want anyone to choose you specifically for that. im leery of race fetishizers due to being sexually harassed for being mixed race when i was a teenager. of course if i were to date someone i'd want him to find me attractive i just don't like my race being hyperfocused on. >Take a shower after pooping! I will NOT be giving you backshots if you smell like poop.wait what, do you shower every time you poop? i shower daily but i don't do that unless i had diarrhea or something although i can see why people do it before sex.
>>80067485I didn't think I would mind either until it did, I already know the biggest reason I've ended up an r9kcel at 30 despite having some basic requirements for a woman checked off in not being a complete sperg irl, holding down a good job and staying in shape, is that I way way overthink.When I'm talking to a girl for the first time I'm not stuttering through words and blubbering getting lost in the moment, I'm standing there like a scientist trying to figure out if my non existent future kids will have circle heads with this one.I'm not exaggerating it was like a soccer ball.
>>80067518also i realize some of this makes me sound super spergy and offputting when this is just me dumping my unvoiced thoughts in an anonymous forum. my recluse personality is something i am trying to work on.
Good Evening Nonas. I hope you've had a pleasant day! I'm cooking sausages right now. I fancies bangers in carrot and swede mash with a bit of gravy. I'm planning on watching Symphony of the Heart tonight. I hope it's good!
talk about cute and romantic movies, as intended
>>80067756>cooking sausages right nowPost pic?
>>80060556>Favorite comedy movie?Rush hour 1&2>Favorite romance movie?Pride & prejudice>Favorite foreign movie (anything non-anglo is fine!)Dunno>Favorite movie treat or snack?Popcorn>Do you sneak drinks into the cinema?Yup and snacks
>>80065674Thank you, it was really nice actually, he works in tech so we don't spend that much time together. Hopefully your day will be good too!
>>80060556crashing the foid thread to call you all sluts and let you lust over me being such a bad guy.Fuck yeah
>>80060710Urgh, warm coke.
>>80067801Sorry nona, those sausages are making their way through my digestive system. If you're interested in my cooking I have posted pictures before in other threads.
>>80068024>he works in techhe isn't wfh?
>>80068111No, he works at a startup so he can't do that unless he's sick or when it's planned that they all wfh
It doesn't matter how many straight A's you get, your gender will always be an F.
>>80067756hey SN, yesterday you said you have no friends. Is that also self-imposed or you can't quite connect with people?
>>80068420Hello, I've never had an easy time of making friends and I went through my entire school career without making a single one. I've never quite been able to connect to people. I think they feel my apprehension and awkwardness and feel put off by it. I'm way better at dealing with people these days and in a professional setting I'm very good, but if someone tries to invite me out or something I just refuse. I've been down that path many times before. Both online and in my life. It never works out well.
>>80068707>if someone tries to invite me out or something I just refuse.Didn't you have a good time yesterday >>80058246 ?
>>80068770That wasn't a one-on-one nona. Those are the worst. You can blend into a group easily enough but when it's just you and another person, that's tough to deal with.
What are the nonas up to?
>>80069798Being double penetrated by Chad XDDD
Chad had FOUR (4) cocks and 3 PAIRS OF BALLS (6 balls in total!!) He is also a vampire. Deal with it, moids
fembots, have you ever thought about becoming a hikkineet vtuber?
Having a rough day AND my favorite nona isn't posting, what do bros?
>>80060556>>Favorite comedy movie?Ruthless People.>>Favorite romance movie?Not really my genre. Enchanted, maybe?>>Favorite foreign movie (anything non-anglo is fine!)Hero!>>Favorite movie treat or snack?It's cliche, but I love a good buttered popcorn. >>Do you sneak drinks into the cinema?I do not. >>80061500>p8 where is everyoneSorry, been busy. >>80061980>What's the weirdest dream you've ever had?Eh, that one I had not long ago about nearly being blown out of an airplane but being more sad about losing my breakfast biscuit was up there. >>80062371>Young FrankensteinThat might be my 2nd fav. Sometimes when someone in my RPG group says something really dumb (usually me), my GM will pause for a moment and then incredulously yell "SEDAGIVE!!??">>80062710>How's everyone this evening?Back on the boat, but overdid it a bit today; so taking it easy and getting caught up on the thread. >>80062934So happy things are still going good for you. >>80067756>I hope you've had a pleasant day!I have; thank you; and I hope you enjoy your viewing.
>>80070715Take it easy Florida-chan. My friend finally logged onto a the game so I got to talk to her. Doodled a little more and worked on my dad's shaver.
>>80070791Did you finish the videos about job search? What did you think about them?
>>80070791>My friend finally logged onto a the game so I got to talk to her. Awesome!>Doodled a little more and worked on my dad's shaver.Uh-oh; what's wrong with it? Or are you still diagnosing?
>>80070829No I didn't but I did download them so I didn't have to rush through them. They are interesting but I feel like it requires.more social skill than I have.
>>80071182Uh well the original issue was that he let the battery drain and it wouldn't charge. Typical battery mishandling. So I charged it because it was still able to be saved. I just don't know if it charges and there's corrosion in spots. So have to go through it more.
>>80071256>They are interesting but I feel like it requires.more social skill than I have.It doesn't. Keep watching them and give me a report by Monday on your thoughts on it and how you can incorporate these techniques going forward.
i've been feeling very lonely. as well as the usual feeling of guilt for simply existing/being human. i think it's because when i travel with family i am not allowed to live the life of a young adult woman
>>80071380Again, just get an older daddy to sugarbabe for.
bumping thread but too tired to talk
>>80071970What did you do today that has you so worn down?
>>80071993i woked up... and then... i was waked...
>>80072001Dang, that's rough.
Expressing an unoriginal emotion
For unoriginal reasons
In an unoriginal manner
bibisi slut thread
Because some unoriginal playground bullies would rather shit themselves to death and pollute the whole tank than leave me and a few other fish to enjoy our humble but life sustaining 2D fake gravelSomeday your rot will stink badly enough that the big mesh scoop in the sky will be forced to scoop you out of this place and then I can go back to dreaming of plastic kelp. And when I learn to trust the plastic kelp, I may even someday grow strong enough and learn to feel safe enough to dream of a world outside these panes of glass, even if I never make it outside of them. It should never have been too much to dream that I might one day dream and your whims aren't justified just because you are capable of having dreams. You don't deserve to dream when all you do is take from those who have less than nothing
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>>80071264>So have to go through it more.You got this!>>80071380>i've been feeling very lonely.*hug*
>>80072193I'm not who ever chapped your balls. Isn't it a bit ironic to blurt out your assumptions any time you see someone who reminds you of the person you hold resentment for? You ever heard the phrase, "Rent free?" You're the one who sounds schizo. You also sound like a moid. You shouldn't be here in the first place, and if you are you have no justification for trying to drag strangers into your tragic e-drama. Get a grip or gtfo, shrimpdick. I just want to commiserate with my fellow chronically online femcels.
These are the type of scrotes that swear we're the ones with special snowflake disease but they think anyone that even slightly reminds them of their doomer zoomer ex e-gf must literally be her. Ffs.She was a dime a dozen, and I'm a dime a dozen, but that doesn't make us the same person. Dumbass. It does make you someone who clearly gets uncomfortable at females venting their pain. Your triggers aren't my problem. Tell it to a priest or a therapist, or stop acting like a pitbull that needs to be euthanized every time you see someone talking about the ways they've been hurt that evidently remind you of the ways you've hurt others.
>>80072245What's the best way to trick a girl into liking you back if you've been chatting everyday for the last few weeks?
how can you even tell if the people posting in your thread are women? do you just hope they are and settle at that? just curious. i know some girls ive met from here or other discords who are always looking to meet more girls online but it seems like a hard deal especially these days with all the trannies who will raise their hand if you say youre looking to meet girls. and saying NO TRANNIES! gets you blacklisted in a lot of groups
>>80072355Men can't tell because they're men. Look at all the delusions they echo and affirm for each other all day in other threads. There's even an OP up right now clowning on them for it.>>80072005Autism isn't even an excuse. In fact, I think women with autism are better at noticing patterns because they have to be to survive better in a society that expects them to mask harder. It's not even that moids don't have the ability to deduce what's going on, they just prefer their delusions so they choose them over anything. I can tell someone's ethnicity by their vocal tonality even if they don't have an accent when speaking English. It's pretty easy to check someone's vibe enough to tell at least if they are a male or a female.
>>80072445thanks for the thoughtful answer well thats nice you can carve out a space on the board for yourself ill tell my friend about this general
>>80072355I guess I'd say the only thing that's actually difficult is trying to do a deep enough vibe check on other girls to figure out if they're really competitive or a pick me. Platonic love bombing happens too. I've ended up befriending quite a few women online who seemed amazing at first, could relate to all my issues and had interests in all the same hobbies or subcultures, and then turned out to be total nightmares just because they prioritized male attention and validation over anything else. When the mommy issues trickle into the autism it makes me like stupidly blind to female red flags. Telling a man or a tranny from a woman is a cakewalk, telling a good friend from a bad friend is it's literally so over mode. Yahweh is fucked up for making people who experienced the same trauma as you almost indistinguishable from people who will inflict the same or worse trauma as you've experienced.
>>80072320>She was a dime a dozen, and I'm a dime a dozen, but that doesn't make us the same person.It takes a lot of introspection to reach this conclusion, I was starting to think I was the only one.>>80072445>Autism isn't even an excuse. In fact,Mansplaining moid
>>80072445>In fact, I think women with autism are better at noticing patterns because they have to be to survive better in a society that expects them to mask harder.its funny because this is not true but for some reason you believe it is true
>>80072476I think if there was any carving to be done it wouldn't really be possible. We just came along and occupied a dilapidated and vacant hovel and now we have squatter's rights. Fauxbots act like we pushed them out, but the only ones saying that are newfags who pushed real robots out during gamergate. They're also the ones who simp and goon all day, so they have to act like they're forced to look at our threads because they can't imagine exercising the self control to just ignore us. And because they can't ignore us, they straight up cannot imagine us doing things for our own sake. They think everything must be a secret ploy for male attention. Men are truly the projector gender.But yeah. Send her over.
>>80071318This sounds like homework now.>>80072245I wish but I got distracted. The head dev patched in my change and I couldn't stop laughing. The chaos it caused. He said I did a good job so I've been glowing for awhile now.
Those boys sure are bad news, right fellow nona's?
>>80072522It literally does not, and if you had to tell yourself that was some deep philosophical shit just to make yourself feel unique or superior to others you could stand to introspect harder. Every human being is special, and no one is defined by the images they post or the aesthetics they favor. However, when moids tweak out about surface level traits like "posts memes" or "likes goth music and fashion" hoping it's someone they know, they're just showing how they see women as shallow sets of traits instead of for their personalities, or dreams to call back to my earlier post. This is why they accuse so many women of being shallow. It's an admission of guilt. They accuse women of only caring about shopping and sex because they only see women for their clothes and makeup and their tits. It's not even as simple as that meaning that moid also only cares about clothes and sex. I'm not saying something as simplistic or generalizing as "All men only want Stacy". But it's about the way they digest and categorize the world and the people around them. So by extension, women who don't wear makeup or who have quirkier hobbies don't immediately get sorted into some category in their heads. Men seem to seek subtle novelty, emphasis on the subtle. If you're too different, it sort of like fries their sensors and sets off alarms that you are a Trying To Be Different Girl. If you fly just under their radar, they're intrigued and you become a genuine Manic Pixie Dream Girl to them. Men are easily impressed because of this sorting system. As long as you don't immediately register as any stereotype, positive or negative, they'll usually project positive associations on to you or see you as unique. Being a manic pixie dream girl just means dressing in a way or liking music or movies whatever moid is looking at you has never seen before or has never associated with a woman who either turned him down or couldn't even be bothered to notice he exists.
>>80072522As always #notallmen, sure. But when you're dealing with the majority whose brains do work that way, it's much better to be written off by them as a clone or a poser or whatever because they leave you alone. You do not want the attention of someone who thinks they are selecting for a unique friend or mate when really they've just deluded themselves into equating their tastes with someone's objective creativity, intelligence, or individuality. >>80072531It has been true in my experience and in the experience of a lot of other friends, acquaintances and girls online I've talked to. I probably couldn't break myself out of the pool the algorithm has decided for me if I wanted to though so yeah, I'm not claiming to know everything and how it all works. But just like above, I can only express what is the closest I know and assume to be true based on the commonalities in every experience I've ever had. People who have a problem with that usually just secretly really badly want their experience to speak for everyone else's. My experience and yours are both contained within whatever above them happens to be the highest truth to all human sociology and psychology.
>>80072612>This sounds like homework nowBecause it is. I'm just trying to encourage you to finish it since it's like it could be useful for you. Better to give you a reminder than say nothing.
>>80072531Women with autism tend to do a lot better job because they have to over-analyze and copy others to fit into their mask. The problem with that is it becomes extremely tiring and why the mask cracks an falls off. When it does, they're usually diagnosed with depression and anxiety. When the meds do not work, they then go for a psych eval which then shows it.
>>80072691>It literally does notI know. I thought it would be amusing to double down on the "we all fit into boxes" mindset and end it on "I thought I was unique".>If you're too different, it sort of like fries their sensors and sets off alarms that you are a Trying To Be Different Girl.I can't imagine what it's like to have to inhibit your true self. I'd rather be alone than conform to someone else's ideal partner. I do find it very interesting hearing you talk about this, thank you for sharing.>If you fly just under their radar, they're intrigued and you become a genuine Manic Pixie Dream Girl to them.>Being a manic pixie dream girl just means dressing in a way or liking music or movies whatever moid is looking at you has never seen before or has never associated with a womanFrom my understanding a manic pixie dream girl is an exciting assertive quirky girl who is what every introverted depressed moid looks for to bring happiness to his own life because he is incapable of doing this on his own. What you seem to describe is the "cool girl", the type of girl that's a pick me who enjoys male hobbies, watching football, drinking beer etc. Either way, I don't like to label anything; Especially humans. I find your view on dating dynamics very interesting, how did you come to this conclusion? >>80072696>when you're dealing with the majority whose brains do work that wayI don't think this is a male specific issue, but merely a normie one. I'd choose misanthropy over misandry/misogyny, but I understand that our experiences with the opposite sex are limited. I don't fault you for that.
>>80061980I dreamt of a desert with floating white painted adobe house all flaming infernos as I walked beneath them in all white linen outfit with a red sash and a straw hat on. And at my waist I had a navaja. My hair was straight down and I had no makeup. The sun was high but I had no sweat. There was only the sound of the cackling fire from the floating houses above.
>>80073081>It's another I was only pretending to be retarded episodeMy favorite, how nostalgic. You're mistaken in what you've inferred from that sentence. What were we just talking about the other day, the way moids hone myopically in on whatever suits them, whatever will give them a reason to rattle on about what's already on their mind? Sigh. You talk at people, not to them. It's very tiring. We're not a captive classroom for you to lecture, and your takes are so shit you'd never be allowed to spew them in any lecture hall anyhow. Once again, please seek out the listening ear of a professional who can be monetarily compensated for enduring your self-aggrandizing pseudointellectualism. You're not charming, you're neurotic.For benefit of the doubt and "doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results" sake... I was making an observation on the logistics of why or why not a woman is perceived/categorized in that way by that type of man. I was laying out the modus operandi of the man, which requires taking an omniscient narrator's perspective of the situation. It does not make sense that translated to you as voicing the hypothetical woman's or my own personal perspective. That's more than misunderstanding the model presented to you; it takes active participation for you to reshape the model into what you not just assumed but desired it to be.Nowhere did I state or imply that I take measures one way or another to appeal to or escape those sorts of men. The only thing that arguably came close (not really but allows me to see why you would be inclined to turn it into that) was when I essentially said I take it as a blessing when those men do happen to write me off because the alternative is bothersome.
>>80073081The only catch is sometimes a very specific sort of man with a very specific pathology will be caught in a schism. He will insist you are trash, nothing, not worth even his derision. And still, he will stop at nothing to demand your engagement and approval. When they don't care, when they are satisfied in having written you off as just like "all the rest" or just like all the other "bad" women, they act like it. When they're lying to themselves, they can't lie to you or anyone else around them. They tail after you like dog. But maybe like the one from the movie "Up" who has that translator collar on. Every attempt to accost you, every time they slither out of the woodwork while you're minding your own business to insistently and brazenly shout, "I don't care about you! I don't even think about you. Stupid sluts like you aren't worth my time. Do you guys know this person? Have I told you before what a stupid slutty evil bitch they are?" the translator transmits,"MOMMY! MOMMY! MOMMY! MOMMY!" MOMMY!" If you want me to entertain further.. 'misunderstandings', you need to graduate from this lesson first. You're still struggling with the fundamentals. I can't promise to keep watching you for much longer. It's getting to be a bit depressing. It wouldn't be right to give you more homework when you're struggling to keep up on what you've already got, Anonymous.
AhemFriendly reminder that drug addicts are vermin and deserve to be exterminated.
If one of you can post proof you aren't a tranny I'll drop my female hate right now
>>80069798Making breakast
>>80073372Oh, but Anon. What if I'd rather show you just how much of a tranny I *really* am?C'mere, you
plap plap plap plap get mpregnant get mpregnant
>>80073620No! No god damnit! Don't rape me!
i FUCKING HATE people who snore, but i especially hate men that snore loud and like pigs. just how i hate men that practically yell just to sneeze.
>>80073733>just how i hate men that practically yell just to sneeze.I didn't think it was that bad, it's just sneezing
>>80073733but its so manly! doesn't it also turn you on when they remove the muffler from their car? so loud and hot!
>>80073733females should lower their standards and stop being so fucking picky. i personally always hold my sneezes in, and ive had women tell me that its weird and gives them the ick. you bitches get icked over everything.
>>80073733Consider the following: The sound levels of a sneeze can't always be reigned in, and attempting to do so hurts like hell + leave you with a longing physical feeling similar to a cancelled yawn.t. loud sneezer
>>80073766you should get a permanent vasectomy
>>80073770moids always make excuses for their behavior, ranging from obnoxious to rude to evil. women are always the ones who have to change their ways for minor things that don't affect anyone else, why cant you sneeze quietly, ugly?
>>80073773nah, females should just stop being so picky and should date incels they arent attracted to, no matter how much this disgusts them
>>80073733Listening to sleep ASMR of snoring is the only way I can fall asleep lol
>>80073781>why cant you sneeze quietlyI just told you why - it's beyond my control. It's like asking why you make sound when you cough. Why can't people like you, who are ready to accept e.g. people can have different degrees of eyesight, accept that bodies vary in all aspects and regions? Some people have larger larynges that make louder sounds.
im trying to sneeze quietly but my larynx is DUMMY THICC and keeps alerting the femguards
>>80073923The larynx doesn't affect sound, the vocal chords do.
>>80073830thats retarded lol u think I'm gonna believe that
>>80073956>https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8716178/You don't need to believe me, you can read this study and see for yourself.
>>80074017>umm ackchyually here's a study on why i'm a retard with no control of my own bodylol
>>80073323>>80073329I inquired about the sources of your claims because I questioned your validity. The categorization you described fascinated me, as I've experienced that type of behavior plenty. Please don't insult my intelligence when I'm trying to clarify your statements before responding, something others either lacked the courage or brain capacity for. This narcissistic tone explains the insulting demeanor you exude, which is why you attract those types of men. I should not have assumed your underlying reasons for sharing your frustrations, you can't fault me for assuming you were just as lonely as everyone ITT.Yes, it takes active participation from the one being projected a personality upon, but, like you admit yourself, delusions and schisms are common, especially online. The female archetype that moids desire is the same one as the majority of foids project onto men and it's equally tiresome. According to many relationship experts, every relationship consists of the adorer, and the adored. These two roles require an equal amount of effort to maintain a healthy relationship. Men were the primary ones being adored in the past as they were the ones with power in a relationship. Now it's no longer the case so more men are becoming adorers and it's why so many women are frustrated, their desire to be coddled by the other sex is nearly impossible now as men desire the same. Don't use this board to measure the optics of the male species, their low sample size is stuck in a gender war with a small percentage of foids on social media. If I am mistaken, and you are recalling these myopic allegations from real-life events instead; Then I can only assume you rejected them and it hurt their ego, causing them to lash out, something that happens to both genders as you so clearly demonstrated in your reply. This entire board is already an echo chamber, your attempt at trying to create another one is beyond my comprehension.
ez 2 electric boogaloo
when op1 dies in Minecraft /biofem/ dies in real life. And that's a promise
>>80073733Nevermind I take it back I sneeze loud as fuck, how did I not notice this before
backtracing and triangulating moid's sneaky boipussy until there's not a crack or crevice left for him to hide in when the tempest of your retribution scorches the earth
>boipussymale hands typed this post
and by moid i mean the evil that sleeps inside every one of you which you cannot claim even if it has commandeered your tongues and your lungs to swear fealty in its namei will purify you. just hold on. just keep holding on. i'm coming for you fren. i know you're strong enough to keep fighting it
>>80074586i ain't exactly a collective but we ain't exactly a woman
>>80074591>cryptic schizo speak
>>80073830as someone who has enough lung capacity to do opera, all females have been taught how to restrain our sneeze sounds to quiet levels, the ick is seeing a dude being loud when he could simple sneeze normal, your throat isnt special learn to be polite instead of making excuses to why you decided to be annoying.
>>80074912Thats right cuck. Take up as little space and be as unobtrusive as possible. People will absolutely treat you better if you do...
eurobump fur meine kleinen Huren
>>80070705https://youtu.be/Q53u2yRcPNk?si=CxoGJrX1uXOVvahO
>>80074069>>80074544I demand an apology.
>>80074912>dude being loud when he could simple sneeze normalBut we're talking about sneezing normal and that normal sneeze being loud. I have no control over it.>all females have been taughtWell, then teach me? You claim this is a teachable thing but offer no solutions.
Don't teach her. Let women have their unique little quirks, it's cute. I'm so tired of seeing the same inked pierced blond-dyed-hair foids.
>>80075680Don't tilt your head backwards, don't breath in all the oxygen in the room before sneezing, simply do little sniffs with your mouth closed and cover your mouth with your arm or hand when sneezing
>>80070595Thought about it. Then I realized I'd basically be working two jobs and not having any free time.>>80070715>That might be my 2nd favThere have been many times in my group where we've woven in references here than there. We've had a "Put. the candle. back!" moment or two, or a "what knockers...". I've lost count at this point.>So happy things are still going good for you.Thanks. I'm still busy, but things are hopefully concluding here in the next few weeks.How has your trip been thus far?
Your favorite nona doesn't shower after she poops, my favorite nona does. We are NOT the same.
>>80075790>simply do little sniffs with your mouth closedThat is terrible for you, don't do this!
Ah have to work on this big project and I don't want to yet. Still waking up. Not sure why I get like this. Like yes I know something hard makes me less willing to want to finish but if I have a valid and clear path forward why do I stall? Ah well I'll get to it but first I need to doodle before then my head is already all swirly.
>>80075790I waited until I had to sneeze before replying:>simply do little sniffs with your mouth closedThat hurt like hell and I'm never doing it again. This is exactly what I'm talking about. You evil women are trying to gaslight us because you can't wrap your head around the reality that male anatomy is different (for some inexplicable reason). Reminds me of the whole "manspreading" thing.Anyway, I'm glad I proved you're just seething retards.
>>80075810>How has your trip been thus far?Other than feeling a little wrecked yesterday evening, I've been having an amazing time. I wanna marry this boat and have its babies. Today we're just cruising, tomorrow is the last big day; at an island I've been to before but I really love. So looking forward to that, but also starting to miss my friends really bad. I'll be back in Florida early Saturday and then back home either Saturday evening or Sunday morning.
>>80075863>>80076421whinny sirtch samefag
>>80076798Way to prove me right.
>>80060556What do girls think about guys who drive forklifts?
>>80075790I know you are just trolling to annoy the retard, but closing your mouth can genuinely be damaging to the ears when sneezing, so don't lie like that.
>women lie to annoy men at the expense of their own health/biofem/ in a nutshell, really.
>didnt sageToo obvious
had an inkling to write a fucking essay about how it seems like i have an issue with sensitivity to potentiality, (awareness of things that COULD be as if they are extant objects hurtling towards me, like a ball i need to dodge), which causes me to never have a moment of peace because there's no situation in which nothing might be coming, which drives me to fill my head with anything BUT reality as a way of stifling the compulsory future prediction and compensation i can't seem to escape, which ends in effectively me trying to kill my consciousness so i can live in passive emotional nearsighted reactivity which is the closest thing to a form of peace within my grasp, but then i found a video of some autist with a pretty voice describing the statistics of playing roulette (my favorite gambling game) so i'm just going to play that and not think about all of that stuff after allAHOYhttps://files.catbox.moe/922msf.PNG
>>80077936>which causes me to never have a moment of peace because there's no situation in which nothing might be comingAnxiety.>but then i found a video of some autist with a pretty voice describing the statistics of playing rouletteDistraction is good. I tend to notice my brain being at it's highest performance after consuming alcohol or depriving it of sleep. Those are the only moments of bliss I experience.
>>80077936any recent outings, berries-chan?
>>80078051the idea of anxiety feels too lacking in control and focus to me. clinically you are probably right, but i don't feel anxious, i feel vigilant. i deal with potential problems efficiently and systematically. i don't just worry, i act. most examples of anxiety disorder i've seen are people who worry themselves to paralysis which i don't relate to much.i'm always sleep deprived. i wonder if that's why my brain always goes so fast.>>80078071nothing big since the concert in december. i still go get groceries.
>>80078100 v/>i feel vigilantSame. Look into adrenaline addictions. I'm not sure about your upbringing, but growing up in an unstable environment causes a state of vigilant that is subconsciously addicting even when you're safe.
>>80075672I'm sorry you think you deserve an apology
>>80078214so you're not anxious, but overly defensive
>>80078437You insulted me several times over something you already changed your mind about, so yes, you do owe me if you're an upstanding person. If you don't apologize, you're just admitting you're a wastoid.
>>80078475Agoraphobia is classified as an anxiety disorder, but yes, I sometimes struggle with crowded places and prefer my back against a wall with eyes on an exit. I did this subconsciously as a kid without ever realizing. I share your capability to push through so I can overcome obstacles. I sometimes struggle to sleep until I finish the things I need to get done and it has lead to multiple burnouts. That's more likely an OCD thing though.
>>80078593I'm not the other anon I'm >>80073744, so no I think I won't be giving an apology lol
https://youtu.be/wXi1_AcT2YI>>80078214an adrenaline addiction makes perfect sense. a good while ago, i saw a car crash happen in an intersection right in front of me, and i ended up helping, but i didn't really feel concern for anybody involved until i had calmed down. i wasn't really motivated by goodwill, the adrenaline just felt amazing. it further tracks that i'm trying to get lost in things that are exciting. my favorite recent read goes back and forth between "intense combat scene", "super tense politics", and "oh my god are they finally going to kiss??" with little downtime. i have some adrenal issues too, so really that all makes sense.
>>80076965>closing your mouthIm bad at giving instructions, only close your mouth when breathing in, not when the sneeze is happening
>>80077482do you pick up on everything because you're chronically refreshing this thread?
>>80078999Thus Spoke Zara-trips-ta
>>80078978Do you have any interest in learning to paint or draw? Maybe learning a new language? Or just going back to the gym regularly.
>>80078972Why did you reply to me if I wasn't addressing you then? No way you have nothing better to do.
>>80079014i've tried to learn spanish in the past, and i've tried to learn to draw well. the first escapes me because learning a language without anybody to talk to is painfully lonely, and drawing pisses me the hell off because the fact that i can perfectly envision lines i want to draw in my head, like, 100% accurately simulate what a drawing would require to exist, one line at a time, but find myself unable to actually draw the lines, is so infuriating i can't stand it at all. the learning curve is impassable because i am an impatient perfectionist. i don't have much motivation to do anything when i am alone.
>>80079050>Why did you reply to me if I wasn't addressing you then?because you were demanding me to apologize lol>No way you have nothing better to do.bingo, I got nothing better to do, just shooting the shit with randoms
>>80079070draw yourself trying to learn spanish
>>80078978Mhm. When people think of adrenaline addictions they think of skydiving or roller-coasters, but our bodies release it during our daily lives too. I remember reading this blog of a woman who explained what she went through in her daily life that I completely related to. She said that whenever she was walking down a path and someone would walk opposite of her going the other way, she would start feeling vigilant. She would prepare herself to move to the side so they could pass, way before they were even close to her. Then she would hyper focus on her movements and prepare to say a greeting to them. As soon as the pedestrian had passed her, she would feel this wave of relief wash over her.I have no idea if there's any medication or treatment for it, or if it's even recognized as an actual disorder. The woman from the blog was very... spiritual. I just try and force my body to relax in the hopes I don't die of a heart attack one day in my 40s.
>finally get sonny angel>idc if it's fake >really hoping for one of the cute animals like the deer, lopsided ear bunny or lamb >open bag>it's this ugly duck from picrel>realize he chose me and i shouldn't think of him this way>now i have a baby with a duck hat attached to my pink phone with no idea how to make it match also i would like to add on the sneezing that it's not about the sneeze it's the noise. surely you don't have to go "AAAAAAAAAAUGHHHHHHHHHHHCHOOOOOOOOOOOOO" every time you sneeze
>>80079080That makes no sense, I never addressed you. Nobody replied to you until you just replied to yourself to clarify who you where.>I got nothing better to do, just shooting the shit with randomsAlright, carry on.
>>80079095okay.>>80079150oh. yeah. that play by play chess mindset is exactly how i live. the way i used to describe it was saying that whenever anything happens, i write a script out in my head to follow so i know what to do, if that makes sense. i feel sort of lost without a plan and everything could be a problem so the best thing to do is just choose a future and aim to achieve it. i rehearse greetings to strangers before i'm even sure if i'm going to have to look them in the eyes (and thus need a greeting) or not. do you know the whole "haha, now you are breathing manually!" joke? i am always breathing manually. part of why sleep is so hard for me is because i have sleep apnea, not because anything is catching in my lungs, just because it's so hard to transition to automatic breathing. i have to be basically fully unconscious to do it. it's in the back of my mind, it's not like it's hard to breathe, but it's definitely *in my mind* and not thoughtless. i always used to say, i don't have an autopilot at all.
>>80079231> it's not about the sneeze it's the noiseDuh.>surely you don't have to go "AAAAAAAAAAUGH....The point is that different people ---naturally--- sneeze at different noise levels, and that men, having a naturally larger larynx and vocal chords, will always, on average, sneeze louder than women. Nobody, including the original complainer, is arguing about people who go out of their way to ham up their sneeze, which is a rarity to begin with.
>>80079367kek that's a funny doodle
Is 21 too much late for university?
Foids, you ever scratch your butthole and smell the finger?
>>80079095You are not me.>>80079070>i don't have much motivation to do anything when i am alone.At least you have r9k. and if you chose you could join other communities even if there are downsides to that. >>80079070>the first escapes me because learning a language without anybody to talk to is painfully lonelyThere are apps and sites you can use to speak to people who are looking to practice like duo lingo but I worry you'll fall in love with randoms who talk to you >>80079070>but find myself unable to actually draw the lines, is so infuriating i can't stand it at all. the learning curve is impassable because i am an impatient perfectionist.I saw a video on this that describes a guy doing an experiment on two different pottery classes. In one class he tells them to make a perfect cup or bowl or something and at the of the semester they'll be graded on the bowl they turn in. In another class he tells the class to make a certain number of bowls every week. By the end of the course, the class that made the most bowls made much higher quality pieces than the class who focused on making a perfect bowl. All of that is to say just keep making shitty art, and slowly you'll notice your skill improve. Were you immediately good at any of your other hobbies or did you slowly get better at them too?
>>80079367Funny picture tbqh
>>80079370anon the original complainer is me
>>80080244I'd believe if it wasn't for this post: >>80074544
Good Evening Nonas. I hope you've had a wonderful day. I'm about to go to bed. A busy day always leaves me restless. I hope you're all doing well.
>>80080511Good night, Sisterchan!
>>80079578It is never too late. Just make sure you are doing an applicable degree, and ignore all those telling you could get [x] job with your degree since those jobs are something you work up into.
I think I need to stop drinking monster and other energy drinks
More men need to go out in public in their work uniforms. I think men are the hottest when they are working. I think this is why the catcalling construction worker trope is so vile because construction workers should be working their asses off (they literally build this shit) and the media reducing them to lazy, disrespectful beasts is so vile. How can construction workers possibly be so antisocial when they build our society and interact with it everyday? The unemployed are celebrated while the workers are treated like shit. I see the appeal of communism everyday
>>80074589What the hell does this even mean?
Fellow Nonas. We should keep accepting more moids into our general. Diversity is our greatest strenght!
Ive never been around so many women! idk what to say >-<
>>80082013>acceptingThis is a free, open, public imageboard. Anyone can post in any thread they want. With that said, this is the first time I've posted here and will abandon thread since I have no interest in it beyond correcting your entitled perspective.
>>80060710this turns me on as a moid because my girth exceeds a soda can during sex and it always amazes me that it fits.
Women like a guy who can be a complete asshole to them, but softens up a bit while still being stern as the conversation rolls on. I know because that's my game and it works.
>>80082042>publicWell I'm not seeing enough wagie moids doing any work to make my life better. So get going and do your duty!
>>80082042i have the autonomy to shit on your face that dosent make it accepted. t. white knight
>>80079370sneezing loudly is fun, is a declaration of power like those super saiyan thingies.
>>80066196is it a good idea to tell them my size? a lot of them swiped right and then some of them get shy The sluts all ask for photos and to meet up immediately. What do you think?
>>80079367Half the anons you talk with here are south american (spanish language natives), but if you don't want men you can always tell kpop
>>80072518you're so right, I was in a discord with this group of women and the one girl was coding me as her mate/husband and the other women were all talking about banging me in front of her. I'm so grateful I was born a man.
I bet the foids here are the same type of women to hate on men while deliberately choosing drug dealers, deadbeats and fuckboys as their bfs.
>>80076533Glad to hear you had a great time. You were certainly missed. Hope you've had some awesome jerk chicken out there.>>80076924Forklift Certifications make me moist.>>80077936This sounds like anxiety and likely ADHD. Considering you also had a TBI recently, I'm sure that's also exacerbating it.>>80079578There were people in their 30s and 40s in some of my university classes. It's never too late.>>80080881>I think I need to stop drinking monster and other energy drinksYes, drink black tea instead. Same amount of caffeine without overloading on sugar or dehydrating you.
>>80076924This forklift is the red blood cell of Managed Democracy, conveying vital necessities to wherever they are needed.>>80082351>You were certainly missed.I missed you to. Going to bed now.
>>80079367Do you feel this with other things? I feel it with singing, not going to pretend is anything other than a skill issue though, the mind with another conjob
stinky mixed race teenage moids in hoodies with low taper fades following you through the GIRLIEST aisles of Target whispering and GIGGLING to themselves shooting GLANCES at you...Lets Be So Frickin' Forreal You Are Not Looking At The Candles And Throw Pillows My Guy(s)>n< why do they gotta doooOoooOooOOO that?? i like don't even wanna talk about some of the.. tHINGS they were sAYING and jokes they were making. The world is scary I just want to look at all the cute Valentine's stuff bcos it's my favorite holiday because it reminds me of,, somthin,,,.. hav u been to tar-g'et tarjche taaaahrrrjheyyyyheheyhyxjzjbsklj the zhey of Tar lately? Nononona? Does the hum of the incandescent lighting soothe you? Do the scents and shapes and colors transport you into a consumeristic b l i s s ~?
oopes i greened. Greened on myself.Greened all over the place sorry about that.about the greenalso look at how stupid freaking cute these cat toys were. I don't have a cat but I almost bought them just for myself. If we can play with random brightly colored amalgamations of plastic as long as it's branded as a "fidget toy" or "stress relief knick knack" or whatever why can't i crinkle some catnip and bat some feathers while I'm studying at my desk?????
Good Morning Nonas. I hope you have a wonderful day!I dislike shopping in supermarkets and spend as little time as possible in them. I really dislike how insidious they are. I'm also the worst kind of consumer and go to the grocery store with a list, buy only what is on that list, stick to mainly cheap produce instead of packaged pre-prepared foods and buy fresh meats and fish. If they're going to keep pumping up the price of food, I'm going to buy as little as I can, focus on the foods with the least profit margin and hurt their bottom line as much as possible.
/x/ being so slow makes me so upset.
>>80083553Same here. I really hate shopping, esp around people. I kind of wish the places went back to allowing people to shop in the middle of the night, but since the coughy, every place no longer allows midnight shopping. I have to go with a list as well or I'll just impulse buy thinking I want it for later.
>>80083237yeah they are, those cute things got everyone on hold.Still remember when miniso opened here, was quite ridiculous
>>80083553Is buying online from the supermarket not a thing there?
>>80083553i saw this pic, and almost instantly responded without realize "foid space">NO PANTS????>WEAR SKIRT THEN, THANK YOUi shall leave now
>>80078051>implying i had any potential to waste
>>80083606Here in Ireland there are a few supermarkets open late like ALDI. I like to go on a friday night around 9pm and get all of my shopping for the week done. With nobody crowding the isles it can be done very quickly. Sometimes within 20 minutes. ALDI is my favourite supermarket as the main stock rarely changes and the meat/produce is generally high quality. The only thing I'm really guilty of impulse buying is wine. They sometimes get in really nice stuff. It's easy to say no to chocolates and sweets because I prefer to make my own without the preservatives and additives.Off to work soon. My schedule is packed full of stuff I don't want to do. I'm kicking off the day with a 2 hour meeting... At least it's friday!
>>80083648I dislike feeding into the home delivery/super-convenience/pod-life stuff. It's a harsh opinion, but the world would be better off without UberEATS, JustEAT, DoorDash, Deliveroo and all of those other services. lazy people letting corporations vaccum money out of their pockets by exploiting low-skill, high-yield labour are the worst. I know it's mean but if you want calorie dense, nutrition deficient junk food the least you can do for your body and mind is get off your bum and go get it yourself. Don't let some poor fool on an e-scooter deliver it to you and create yet more meaningless jobs.
>>80081818I get hit on all the time when I'm in my work uniform
>>80083728>get off your bum and go get it yourselfPpl with a social life don't have the time/energy for that sometimes. Don't be so harsh..
>>80084233They don't know how to do time management if they cannot find the time to do so.
>>80083686Aldi here even in America is not open late. The Walmart here was great when they were open 24/7. I could go there at 3am and do my shopping without encountering anyone except the workers, parents doing an emergency diaper trip, or even rare once in a while a college student who liked shopping at night. There is hardly anyone around and it is peaceful.
daily eurobump
>>80083640it's hard to explain but some of the boys in my area do this rly specific flirt-bully thing in public places. it seems like a cultural thing. it was that, not the other thing which i also see but what i would describe more like guys who don't have their own apartments yet trying to find somewhere that passes well enough as a third space so they don't annoy their parents or have to censor their jokes or volume levels while trying to goof off with friends in parents' house. i definitely see plenty of others do that thing where they entertain themselves by just wandering around a store using the items as improv comedy prompts to riff off of or just conversation starters. i wasn't saying no men anywhere genuinely browse effeminate products but if you've experienced what i'm talking about it's like a rlllyyy specific behavior! it's very childlike honestly. trying to sort of talk almost diagonally toward you in a way that seems as if they're making remarks amongst themselves but leaves room open for you to reply to them or make the interaction more overt? like the way maybe a nice lonely boomer mom or grandma would be like "isn't this cute!" in a store to no one in particular, but totally open to having a convo if someone chimes back at her. but for different reasons and with a different tone. does that make more sense? maybe? :owhat sort of ways did you notice people adapting to the miniso when it opened? it's funny to see taobaocore go mainstream and become so accessible. makes me wonder why if it was ever going to take off with normies it took until now. obv tiktok was a big part of exposing people to the wonders of temu tier shiny hip new hyper trendy asian gadgets and gizmos and accessories, but i still never expected for what used to be my niche /cgl/ tastes to trickle out to surface world to the extent that it has lol
>>80083553awww, a shop is just a shop, though! does the whole supermarket really qualify as insidious just because some of the shelves contain some goyslop? grocery shopping is comfy to me but i guess it's what you make of it and what you choose to focus on and let color your experience, just like anything. i understand not finding any personal value in romanticizing your healthy and modest choices if you're also picking those options as an act of resistance, though. sometimes it can feel like romanticizing our cabbage and gruel is exactly what they'd want. i respect a certain level of undying rage and indignation, i guess i just always hope it's truly an informed choice that someone has made when realizing they are also perfectly capable of looking at things in a more positive or whimsical light if they wanted to. i also love a good late night shop if i'm actually shopping, but the target run for me was re-integration after one of my standard agoraphobic episodes. i distract myself with the 'designed by dark wizards of marketing and color psychology' goodies, let my brain have some dopamine hits for the trouble while i reacclimatize myself to society. otherwise even if i do a ghost town hours eggs, milk, bread grocery run i'll be shaking like a leaf just from even the sensory stimuli of some night stocker employees puttering about. my nervous system is insane when I finally leave the house again after a few months or however long, so it's nice to have a place with really controlled conditions and things to distract myself with to do those first dips back into the hustle and bustle of being alive! do you have any sort of trauma or anxiety that makes you not want to deal with others when shopping or is it mostly just from a place of annoyance with normies and not wanting to be held up by crowds?
>>80084310on the topic of the exploitative gig work economy, i'm glad it signifies an inability for them to even revert back to those hours. if 3am wallyworld days come again i want it to be with proper compensation to the night shift workers. otherwise i would rather it never come back at all
>>80082477It wasn't just me. Other anons seemed to notice your absence too. I guess it's not quite teh same without you.>>80083553Making food from scratch most certainly helps protect you (somewhat) against shrinkflation since a bunch of celery or a head of lettuce is still that, even if it's more expensive over time. It's definitely pushed me to discover how much I can make on my own now (bread, chicken stock, etc).It's a great reason to get into gardening too. I probably save hundreds dollars on just tomatoes, lemons and peppers and fresh spices alone, and that's from a relatively small deck space with planters. >It's easy to say no to chocolates and sweets because I prefer to make my own without the preservatives and additives.That's a big statement considering I know from first hand experience that chocolate in Europe is far more regulated and uses more better ingredients than whatever biohazard we have on the shelves here in the US. I don't enjoy chocolate often, but maybe I should look into making my own.>>80083728I've stopped using apps altogether considering almost every restaurant that does pickup/delivery near me has their own ordering system. I could do pickup for those orders, but lots of places use the young members of the family as delivery drivers, and I like to present them with a cash tip so I know they're getting a little extra and not just having the tip jar going toward business expenses.I'm going to be leaving later today for a bit. I'm flying to another state to pick up my new car. If I can tough it out and drive straight home I should be back by tomorrow evening.
Nonnas what are your thoughts on big age difference? I'm 20 but I really really really really like this guy who's 37 but when I suggested he should ask me out he just said "i think you are a bit young for me" (even thought she implied he thinks I'm pretty more than once) and then we got interrupted and I didnt have a chance to change his mind. Should I keep trying? he's exactly what I imagine prince charming is like: He hates vulgarity, never swears, doesn't watch porn, doesn't do flings or hook ups, likes cats, is sweet and tender, likes to hold babies and wants to have a large family (literally said when asked "I'd have as many children as my wife wants to gift me"). I dont want to come off as superficial but he has very thick lustrous hair with no signs of thinning or that arching thing, whatever it's called, so that's a plus.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-WVKrCGNtR8>>80079806>>80082103neither of you get what i mean about spanish. it's not just "i don't have a responsive puppet who responds to spanish", it's "why am i learning to communicate in a new way? i don't even Have Someone in english."obviously it makes some sense to learn it anyway (like what if i met someone who knows zero english and we could be a good match or even just friends) but it's just very demotivating, and i hate staring at my phone.also, like, i know practice makes perfect, but drawing something i think it shitty is acutely frustrating so all of the practice from now until 'good enough' would be miserable. i don't think it's probably a good way to become an artist. angrily.>>80082828that is how i live all things. >>80083553that's a very specific way to shop, kek. i don't like supermarkets either. they are build in such a sterile way, it feels like the idea is to make the workers inside feel hopeless. i think stores should have big skylights. i like to go to the farmers market whenever i can since it's a lot more soulful to buy from people who you know pulled this stuff out of the ground have little roadside stands along a street. they also make really really good horchata. so good. i buy a lot of canned meat at the supermarket so i get what you mean. i would prefer to go to four smaller stores with different things they sell than one huge one that feels like a warehouse. i feel bad for people who work there. i said that to a store guy once and he gave me that "you are a crazy person" look.>>80086312i dunno man. the thing i always see people say about age differences is that they would have nothing in common, but i don't have much in common with most people. the other thing is there could be manipulation, but young men can be manipulative too. i think it's just up to your judgement. i think i would struggle with it because if my husband died before me i'd never forgive him.
>>80086534>i said that to a store guy once and he gave me that "you are a crazy person" look.your takes ain't the most accurate.should've asked instead "what's it like, working in a store like this?"
also, reading stuff chapter by chapter isn't so bad when i'm expecting it to be slow, kek. i do hope they end soon though. the slow pace would kill me if they both go on for years.>>80086561no offense but i think that would probably also have gotten me the crazy person look.
>>80086183>pick up my new car.What is it?
>>80086312Try going with deeper signs, everything that you mentioned is shallow. I think you won't be able to change his mind anyway. The different stages of life thing is almost always spot on
>>80086013Your post seem familiar yet new. Reminds me of this.https://youtu.be/giEN6bbtnNE?si=-Q8Ri7XuINVXc62t
>>80086013Never see that here, just your typical broccoli head guys stuck to their smartphones.Yeah those things spread like wildfire, probably due to cost too. Small places paid the price sadly, but no matter what you do you aren't beating then sweatshops and you get cute things at very reasonable prices. Might be thanks to tiktok as you say, that and instagram reels it's the way things are pushed lately.I don't use either and the last time my sister suggested trying something she saw in one of them ads I had a bad time lol, marketing is shit but alas, it is necessary shit
>>80086312You would basically be getting groomed as you have very little life experience and maturity at that age.
>bewitched moid enslaving itself to make me happy
>>80086312>the thing i always see people say about age differences is that they would have nothing in common, but i don't have much in common with most peopleExactly! I literally know no one in person I share hobbies with in the same way I do. The hell am I going to have in common with some broccoli head that listen to trap music and only watches fotm anime?>the other thing is there could be manipulationWhat does that even mean? I always see people (almost exclusively women) say stuff like "power dynamics" or "manipulation" or "grooming", but they NEVER elaborate on what that entails.>if my husband died before me i'd never forgive himHe does look very young for his age. When we met I thought he was 26 or 27 at most. He has very nice skin.>>80086648>different stages of life thing is almost always spot onWe want the same things in principle though? To marry ASAP and have a bunch of children. Don't get me wrong though I don't want to marry and have a bunch of children... I want to marry and have a bunch of children WITH HIM. It's not like I'm desperate to get married and be a mom.>>80086712What does that even mean? Maturity in comparison to what? 30 year old neets that never had a job? Your words are empty.
>>80087029>Maturity in comparison to what? 30 year old neets that never had a job?Is he a neet? Maturity compared to him obviously. Your very response shows your lack of maturity. It's not just your immaturity compared to him but also from his pov compared to other women he could potentially date. women who are closer to his age. The odds of you being as mature or having anywhere near their life experience is low.
>>80087197>Maturity compared to him obviously.By that metric no women should ever date any man who isn't strictly vetoe'd by a comittee that can properly assess each party's level of maturity.>Your very response shows your lack of maturityConvenient non-response.>It's not just your immaturity compared to him but also from his pov compared to other women he could potentially date. women who are closer to his age>Maturity compared to him obviously.So (1) not "obviously" then? and (2) the 30 year old NEETs are the women I was referring too. Is he "grooming" another 37 year old woman if she's a NEET? You sound like a moron.> life experienceWhy would I want to be with a man with less life experience than me? I need a man to pamper me and protect me, not the other way around.
Good Afternoon Nonas. We've finally made it to Friday afternoon. I plan sleep in tomorrow. Do you have any plans for the weekend?>>80086090I wouldn't attribute my annoyance with busy supermarkets to any sort of trauma nona. I just dont think it's natural for humans to live on top of one another as we do. I really don't like having strangers hands reaching around me to grab a packet of cream cheese or get stuck waiting behind several people because they've all decided to park their shopping carts in a way that blocks the aisle. I'd say you were spot on with the latter reasons nona. People are irritating and inconsiderate.On your first note however, I really hate the amount of chemicals that these companies are allowed to pump into our bodies via the food they stock in supermarkets and I loathe that everyone is so trusting of government agencies to safeguard their health. We're talking about governments who think a certain percentage of ground up insect and human faecal matter is acceptable in food. Not their food I'm sure, just the stuff that you and I eat. Armed with that knowledge I'd rather cook everything myself. I don't need 20 extra ingredients when I make cookies to ensure they stick around on the shelves for a year. I just need flour, butter, eggs, sugar, milk and vanilla pods. If they go hard after a week my neighbours dog doesn't seem to mind when I throw them over the fence for her.I'm sorry you have issues with agoraphobia nona. That sounds pretty hard to deal with. Are you speaking to someone who helps manage your condition? Do you typically go out with company when you're able to go out?
>>80087300As a man, it's hilarious to see women over and over and over and over seethe uncontrollably whenever a young woman expresses desire over an man significantly older than her. Reminds me of pic related.
>>80087560As a young Christian woman picrel is so true lol. Huge part of the reason why society is the way it is now. It's sad.
>>80086312>thoughts on big age difference? I'm 20 but I really really really really like this guy who's 37It won't work at all. You're still young enough trying to figure out who you are for maybe the next decade while he is firmly who he will be and you likely do not have the experience to recognize any problematic behaviors if there were any.>>80086534I know you're averse to using discord, but there are language learning discord servers where you can do immersion learning as well and probably get better results for free.>>800866222022 Honda Civic6-speed manual, 7k miles, 1.5L 4cy tubro, original warranties.4d, leather interior, all the modern horseshit, and a sunroof.Sold for 25K. No reported damage or major imperfections.Only major concern is it was a rental car, but considering the mileage it probably wasn't rented that many times. I could have found the same car closer, but for maybe $4k more and with more miles.>>80087309Pick up my car and driving home tomorrow. Sunday is back to work for a bit then the gym.>>80087560>asks question>doesn't get answer they want>must be seething>seething
>>80087300>You sound like a moron. You sound extremely unpleasant and immature. I hope this guy doesn't ruin his life by choosing you to bear his children.
>>80087654to me it reads like a moid asking a question he thinks will make women say The Thing That Pisses Him Off, ignores all of the answers that aren't harsh "no way"s, then goes TYPICAL WIMON" when someone finally answers close to the way he expected. doubtful that it's a woman atp.
>>80087029It means you have your whole life ahead of you, he doesn't. Same answer in a yes/no question is obviously not enough, he knows it. What else do you want to do other than having kids? It would be a burden to you, it wouldn't be a symmetric relationship as you're maybe not financially independent enough, etc. Plenty of dynamics can be problematic very easily.
>>80087733My parents married when my mom was 19 and dad 29. They have their life together. If the both know what they want and are in a good place financially who cares. It's her choice she's an adult.
>>80087753>I am a pedo's offspringThat's not really relevant.
>>80086312Nona, this isn't a good place to ask for advice at all. You are an adult. You know the situation best. you should keep getting to know him and see if it can go anywhere. I say this as a femanon too. He really sounds like a good man, so if you can you guys should talk more about it privately and what you want out of your future.
>>80087772My dad isn't a pedo. They have mutual respect and if anything my mom is the more dominant one in the relationship in the sense her house her rules, they rarely argue and they arent abusive at all. Get off of twitter and go outside for once. But I can't expect much from 4channers.
>>80087801My question is, why ask a question if you have already made up your mind about this? It doesn't seem like you are actually looking to take any advice or listen to anyone's opinion. So why ask?
>>8008631217 years is a lot, but I think you should just blatantly ask him out and see what you have in common besides family goals. He might be the prince charming you've dreamed of, but he might be not. Don't listen to anyone talking about grooming / manipulation, as if women can't be manipulative and as if even nonnas here don't revel at hearing a scrote getting manipulated out of all his life savings. Follow your gut first and foremost (including its warning signs!!!).>>80087560It's more like people just repeating the same diatribe to fit in rather than genuine envy, imho.>>80087654>I hope this guy doesn't ruin his life by choosing you to bear his childrenWait a minute... first nonnie is in danger of being ~groomed~ by this scrote, but now he's the one in danger? Please make this make sense to me. NTA >inb4.
>>80087818Forgot to say NTA btw
>>80087818She didn't ask any question though
oh how i hate being a stereotype but oh how i have daddy issues. jesus. it hurts realising my dad is such a rotten disgusting man. >>80086312honestly i'm not one to give opinions because i really like older people. i believe as an adult anything can work but you need to keep your eyes open for red flags even more than you should for someone your age
>>80087839She asked if she should keep trying. Her exact words: >Should I keep trying?
>>80087818Maybe she did want others opinion's, it was her mistake asking here for sure, but you guys are calling him a pedo when he's been kinda adamant about being with her, doesn't even watch porn and is a modest, respectful man. It'd be completely different if he WAS being sexual with her and stuff but he really isn't pushing any boundaries.
>>80087844Have you been a good girl today? Are you excited for Jungkook being discharged?
>>80087844Fellow creepy-chan enjoyer (>ToT)>>>80087856I invite you to read the chain of replies again. That poster didn't ask that question. Please exercise a modicum of reading comprehension before replying to people; it's not that much to ask of someone.
>>80087753my granddad met my grandma the same way, and he took care of all of us, idk why it's such a big deal, as long as they both are taking care of things and are happy then it's a nonissue
>>80087844Heal and dont share that with men, they could use you for it and hurt you even more.
>>80087863>but you guys are calling him a pedo when he's been kinda adamant about being with herAre any of you even reading the post????? she wrote:"when I suggested he should ask me out he just said "i think you are a bit young for me" (even thought she implied he thinks I'm pretty more than once)"
>>80087844Hey kpop, you sound like you need a spanking
>>80087876Exaactly. Yeah there's some sickos out there but this guy sounds good.
>>80087705>doubtful that it's a woman atp.I thought the same thing immediately but chose not to start a witch hunt.
>>80087890Pedophiles are attracted to minors. She's an adult retard. I'd be a little concerned too with the age gap cause of different experiences maybe but if they both share values it can work.
>>80087866>Have you been a good girl today?it depends on your conception of being a good girl. i stood up against my dad and got treated quite harshly for it. i also just now downed a bunch of 8% vol alcohol gin mix to make up for the stressful afternoon i had.>Are you excited for Jungkook being discharged?i hate boy groups>>80087874she's very pretty. i wish i could look unsettling like her. >>80087880men have little interest in keeping me around even if it is to manipulate me. the psychological abuse i'm put through is also beyond what any chad wannabe could even make up in his mind. it takes a truly sour rotten aged soul to be like my dad. >>80087895i need enough pain medication to sedate me through the night and the legal right to murder someone
>>80087753Your mom got groomed lol>>80087844>i believe as an adult anything can workBut you aren't an adult. Besides saying your age, in what ways are you an adult? Emotionally, maturity, financially?
Can someone pick a number between 1-3. I need to make a decision on something but I can't decide. TwT
>>80087904me either, but they turned openly hostile, so turnabout is fair play.granted, i'm unsure if the seether is the original asker, who really knows.
>>80087919I can be your loving dad
>>80087936you rolled a six which means two.
>>80087916Sis.... you wrote:>he's been kinda adamant about being with herShe wrote:>he just said "i think you are a bit young for me"He's literally, LITERALLY.... <<<<<NOT>>>>> adamant about being with her. READ BITCH READ AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
>>80087935i believe as an adult (the following implies that both the nona and the man she is seeing are adults) anything can work>>80087941i don't want a dad and i don't want a lover either. i want a normal life.
>>80086712(male post) it's funny how you say that like it's a bad thing>bridegroom: a man just married or about to be married>groom: 1 : to clean and maintain the appearance of (an animal) especially : to maintain the health and condition of the coat of (a horse, dog, etc.) by brushing, combing, currying, or similar attention>2 : to make neat or attractivean impeccably groomed person>3 a: to make (someone) ready for a specific objective : PREPARE
>>80087844Your dad is not rotten you're just a teenager. Give it 10 years.
>>80087970And it can be >Grooming is when a person builds a relationship with a child, young person or an adult who's at risk so they can abuse them and manipulate them into doing things.
>>80087935>Your mom got groomed lolTo be groomed is to be taken advantage of. Gosh you twitter retards love calling everyone pedos and groomers and not know its meaning. They are in a healthy relationship. My mom wanted kids and they both love us deeply. My mom has total freedom to go wherever and he's never laid a finger on her out of anger. And not verbally abusive either. Touch grass.
>>80087844Whats picrel name
>>80087705>>80087904I'd agree if she (or he) had been mean to all the replies. Seems to baity to be actual bait, if that makes sense.
>>80087990>>80087970Do you ever get bored of arguing on the internet all day? Is there anything more productive you could be doing with your life?
>>80087987>>80087935Here retardnon this is the definition. My mom is perfectly happy and so is my dad.
>>80087952Okay thank you >>80087995creepy chan I think? TwT
>>80087995Allison Harvard aka Creepy-chan.... come on now, you need to lurk for 10 years before posting
>>80088007You are on 4chan telling me this lmao. That's all you can say when your argument clearly loses. Cope
>>80087964Nah you want the influencer stuff, that's not a normal life.
>>80087984my professional psychiatrist has classified and diagnosed my dad as psychologically abusive and as the root cause of many of my illnesses. fuck off anon with your devil advocacy.
>>80087995lurk moar newfren
>>80087990to be groomed it to be worn down The>taken advantage of Is the final result. Marriage. Shes tied down to him now. Shes his. you said married at 19 and 29 respectively, when did they start seeing each other?
>>80088033I know her just couldnt remember name fren
>>80088023I'm on zoom and have another meeting an hour after this one. Meanwhile you are very likely spamming porn images in multiple threads and gooning.
>>80087987yes that's the new fake boomer definition because they can't bring themselves to say "homosexual" (in the usa) or "pakistani" (in great britain) in a negative way
>>80088043Feel the reason that was more accepted in the past is family networks, meaning pedoman wasn't the internet stranger I met on discord, but the friend of a relative of which I know his family and there are good relationships and he seems ok, etc.That safety net is not there anymore. Not even due to internet, people are more reserved in general. I don't even know all the neighbors in my floor.
>>80088031Blaming parents is an easy cop out. Give it 10 years, it will suddenly no longer makes sense to do so.
>>80088043She wasnt worm down or taken advantage of. She wanted marriage too. She wanted to have children. You really think marriage is like a prison or something? Is your definition of freedom hooking up like a whore? My parents aren't about that lifestyle. They're perfectly fine and happy together. I don't want to give tmi but they have seen each other when she was 18, but they didn't date until much later, sometimes these things do work. The difference between a pedo is that they want to take sexual advantage of someone, and relationships where one is groomed are toxic and abusive. Their marriage is far from that and they've been together for about 20 years. And they waited to have sex after marriage.
>>80088088NTA. Your parents and how you were raised does affect you for the whole rest of your life. And if you were raised poorly, or abused, that will cause life long problems
>>80088031>professional psychiatrist has classified and diagnosed my dad as psychologicallyHas your professional actually spoken with your dad at length or did this diagnosis through your descriptions of him?
>>80088079It's completely different from that. She wasnt groomed. My dad has never mistreated her and it's been 20 years. The marriage is still going strong and stable.
Heading out now. All you wonderful nonas have a good weekend.gimi
>>80088180Safe flight and good luck with the car!
>>80088180Can you stop by and see me on your way back? Let's eat chocolate and coffee
>>80088031Hey you might know this. Could you please spoonfeed me a quick rundown on what happened to momoland? I've been living in a tower and just found out they're over. Was it a natural end?
There's a certain board I need to get away from because it feels like it poisons my fucking mind.
>>80088259I can take your mind off of anything t. heroin
>>80088180Best of luck with everything nona! Please let us know how it goes!
>>80088294I'm 30 and never done drugs but I do wonder how it feels sometimes
i thought this was pretty funnyhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kSuV87yQ_H8
>>80088321sisternona's weekend plans?t.moid
>>80088375Need a boyfriend that will do that for me. Mine get so bad. Like my entire body hurts, especially my arms and boobs, for some reason. But my stomach as well, it hurts so bad I throw up a lot when I'm on my period
>>80088100>She wasnt worm down or taken advantage ofits hard to say >You really think marriage is like a prison or something?Yes thats exactly what i said!>Is your definition of freedom hooking up like a whore?My definition of freedom exceeds your brains capacity for understanding but being made to believe a 29 year old is perfect for you does not fall under my criteria.>They're perfectly fine and happy togetherIs that what they tell you? Does your mother, 20 years later still see things thru those groomed glasses? Or do you think shes sparing you her true feelings? How old are you anon?>The difference between a pedo is that they want to take sexual advantage of someoneYou dont think he could be getting that same gratification in other ways than purely sexual? >and relationships where one is groomed are toxic and abusive.The abuse and toxicity isnt always over the top and on the nose. >And they waited to have sex after marriage.Considering>she was 18, but they didn't date until much laterHe didnt have to wait that long And he trapped her into marriage. Fairly quick before she realized what she was getting into. <3
>>80088399I can e console you. Do you have disc?
>>80088327youve never done anything? what board are you trying to get away from?
>>80088455Technically the only drug I've tried is cbd and once accidently had it laced with something that made me trip for 12+ hours. You really wanna know which board I'm coming from? /vt/ I'm really starting to fucking hate it there.
>>80088476lol how did you accidentally do that? Ive never interacted with /vt whats making you mad?
>>80088506i bought it online and no NOT from the darkweb, the wedsite was or still is clear as day. maybe it's better you don't know about /vt/ but hey, if you really wanna know more about me, dig thru /vt/ /corpo/ and /eiex/ archives
>>80088017https://youtube.com/shorts/tIqJ7aNtNZM?si=2oYDCCXKIUaP4EF_
vtubers, that what fucking /vt/ is and I'm starting to wonder why I even stick around. specifically on /corpo/ and /eiex/ threads talking about Nemo Nevermore. She struggles very severely from mental illness and I'm just trying to encourage her.
>>80088402>hard to sayThen explain what's your definition of being "taken advantage" of>Yes thats exactly what i said!Well that's sad. But that's your opinion. Not every marriage is abusive, and abuse doesn't have an age preference. >exceeds your brain capacityYeah right. So tell me then, is it sex? What can you do outside of a marriage that you can't in one? Be a slut? what is your criteria if it's not that? You didn't answer my question.>is that what they tell you?No. It's what I see. It's how I was raised genious. Never fought, my mom can go out by herself, he doesnt verbally abuse her, or degrade her. They love and respect each inherent just like a normal, healthy relationship does.>You dont think he could be getting that same gratification in other ways than purely sexual?Since you totally know much more than me, can you be more specific or atleast provide an example cause all you do is claim but never back anything up.>isn't always over the topProvide me examples.>consideringWhat?>trapper herAgain, she wanted marriage. She knew much before meeting him she didn't like sleeping around. If thats *your* definicion of freedom that's just sad. She's still perfectly happy and they're always there for each other emotionally and everything. Something you would never come to understand if you keep sleeping around without committing, degrading yourself, and not knowing what a real relationship looks like. Modern "feminism" is a bunch of bs.
>>80088573>definicion of freedomESL DETECTED!WARNING!ESL DETECTED!
>>80088584Stop avoiding the topic and answer. Otherwise you just prove point. Your so called "freedom" is being a whore.
>>80088536How would i single you out in the archive? Is there 30 total posters that would make it easy to infer?The darkweb isnt really that scary and shuld be less taboo they dont really arrest individual recreational users who buy drugs so if you want i could doordash you some drugs and we could get high together ive never really done anything ither than e-weed a wouple months ago.
>>80088644i dunno, have hardly ever used the adxhive for much really. maybe just type nemo (my name). yeah i told them my real name lmao... how addicted would i be after just one time?
>>80088632>Your so called "freedom" is being a whore.Cool it with the misogyny.
>>80088565>>80088707So you were talking about yourself here?
>>80088740Cool it with the buzzwords and answer me. same goes for either genders.
>>80088745No, there's a vtuber girl I've been trying to give emotional help to... Oh I see sorry you thought when I said "nemo (my name)" that I meant... Fuck it, my name's Cody. Nice to meet you.
women should be locked up for telling you they love you, giving you their love and then changing their mind years later. Federal offense towards my heart and feelings. sentence: forced to commit and love me forever as was promised or death. This is only fair.
>>80088707>>80088780Im confused but addiction is a lie and easy to beat
>>80088857Kinda cringe and still wouldn't work because she doesn't truly love you. Move on and find someone better and know not to make the same mistake.
>>80088864What does taking heroin feel like?
>>80088584This isnt me. I dont stalk threads waiting for a response. And i wouldt resort to an adhom.>>80088573>Yes thats exactly what i said!This was a joke thats not what i said>You didn't answer my question.Her autonomy was stripped from her shes now under the thumb of your groomer father. >They love and respect each inherent just like a normal, healthy relationship does.Sure they can appear cordial now and maybe your mom dosent know what happened to her. But the manipulation and coercion can still be there.>Since you know more than me, daddy, can you be more specific????You dont think people can like having or asserting power over others?>Again, she thought she wanted marriage in her infinite 19 year old wisdom!
>>80088946>This isnt me. I dont stalk threads waiting for a response. And i wouldt resort to an adhomSure.ESL DETECTED!
>>80088925pure euphoria
>>80088893what's the mistake, failing a coin toss? Nobody sane enters a serious relationship thinking it won't last, yet it happens every time. Time on earth is limited, I.vwsting years into people just to get your heart broken multiple times is devilish.
>>80089010>euphoriaI can get that from my own post or performance in video games.
>>80089066You feel euphoria when you post on 4chan?
>>8008906610x fren. What do you play?
>>80089222you dont, anon?
Think it's time for an original commentSex with Op1
>>80089235I feel something, but I wouldn't describe it like that.
>>80088383Good Evening moid. I think I'll spend the majority of my weekend reading and cooking/baking, I also may go to the beach again if it isn't too cold. and you?
>>80089286especially when you bait (you)'s mmmffhgg Im biting my lip and curling my toes just thinking about it. I think my dick twitched a little too.
Is it a crime for me (a man) to be here?
>>80088770I was being sarcastic nonna. Like when someone says "you just want to rob people" and another replies "cool it with the anti-semitism".
>>80089306>beachare you a baddie, nona?
>>80089306sisterchan, i need your height and bra size for the spreadsheet
>>80089222Occasionally, especially if I'm baiting.>>80089225With young women's hearts.
>>80089363can you play mine instead?Im 18 and breadable Ill give you exctasy >t. moid
>>80089406>Ill give you exctasyNot interested in being given HIV from homos.
>>80089330A baddie? As in a bad person? Yes. I am.>>80089359Haha. You're joking aren't you? What good would that do you, moid? For what purpise?
>>80089434>For what purpise>purpise ESL DETECTED! WARNING!ESL DETECTED! CAUTION!
>>80089434>For what purpise?just /biofem/ statistics, don't worrry about it..
>>80089453youre insufferable >>80089434nta but are they big im drooling
>>80089434>Yes. I am.Do you repent?
>>80088946You're just retarded. That's all I got from this. You can't fathom the possibility of people actually wanting to be married and have kids. It's always pro women's choice until a woman chooses something other than hooking up with multiple men.
>>80089481Oh. In that case I'd prefer not to disclose that information to you. I don't wish to encourage rude and flagrant moid posting like >>80089492 and >>80089453. and with that I'll bid you a good night moids.
>>80089539Ugh fuck. I often wonder what women look like behind the internet persona. Its always disappointing so i dont know why i keep wondering.
>>80089562well, she's disclosed previously she's quite a stunner and has very long hair
What does moid actually mean?
>>80089585This isnt good for my mental. Fuck.>>80089591Lurk or google normgroid
>>80089597ah i see. lemme ask this, who benefits from all this gender wars bullshit?
>>80089538>You're just retarded.thats not niceplease curb your misandry im sorry i turned out to be a moid. but i was enjoying out constructive conversation. If i made you feel sexualized or misrepresented your point or acted in bad faith i also apologize but i have feelings too and this hurts me deeply.>That's all I got from this. Its fine if your comprehensive skill arent your forte but dont rag on me because of it. Im simply trying to introduce different possibilities that you might not have considered other wise.>It's always pro women's choice until a woman chooses something other than hooking up with multiple menI just think decisions through coercion isnt true free will
>>80089591It originates from "femoid", from pic related... but once upon a time an anon shared a (much reshared) story about getting divorced and his ex-wife pushing like no tomorrow in court to keep their dog, which he had bought and unilaterally cared for. She won, got the dog, put the dog down (killed it), then let the ex-husband known. One of the replies was about how this person, this creature, couldn't be considered human anymore, and donned her a "femoid", as in female humanoid, as in less than human.Eventually, thanks to tourists and invaders, the "incel community" took the word to gayddit and like everything else they ruin it by regurgitating it to refer to all women. Once "women-only" (top kek) boards like Lolcow, Crystal Cafe, and forums like Pretty Ugly Little Liars (PULL) got wind of it and cried for months about it, they decided to turn it against the "incel community" by extracting the "fe" and leaving the "moid".For some reason they think this is a nuclear insult, or a gotcha moment... when the reality is that it ironically and paradoxically proves the "incel community" (emphasis on the quotation marks) right by showing how women dehumanize men by default, meaning they're no better than the "incels".Personally I don't use either term. I just call everyone a nigger.
>>80089691I dont understand what youre saying or getting at do you mind elucidating?>>80089751>Personally I don't use either term. I just call everyone a nigger.Are you a foid? I think i love you
>>80089788>Are you a foid?naww, nigger
7 hours until I can see my bf. I think I will spend the entire time waiting playing Spyro on the switch and getting high
>>80089846>until I can see my bfare u gonna have sex?
>>80089788I'm saying both genders have serious fucking issues because culture is no longer under the direction of common people.
>>80089900Now im wondering what this has to do with >>80089597 youre going to need to really break it down so i understand.
miss moidchan
>>80086183>It wasn't just me.Yea, that hit me right after I posed. : )>>80087309>Do you have any plans for the weekend?Catch up with friends. >>80090075Me too; I hope she's doing great.
>>80090075Who is she and is she hot
>>80090237yeah, she's a 10/10
>>80090274Post picture desu
>>80090278>Post pictureok
>>80090361Has she never posted herself?
>>80088104of course, when i started treatment i was still a minor so for the consultations they had to be there with me. my parents that is.for some context my dad will blame issues on me. snap towards me like a dog to get my attention. yell constantly and make fun of my interests. refuse to apologise for his actions. and that's just the stuff i feel comfortable spreading around on the internet to a handful of strangers.>>80088258company mismanagement + a big wave of hate on top of them for alleged plagiarism >>80088864exactly i'm not addicted i can stop whenever i want i just don't want to stop! 99% of gamblers quit before they win big!!!
>>80089747My mom chose to date him geniousThis is 4chan. Everyone is retarded. Grow up if you can't ha dle someone calling you retard online. Grooming is to take advantage of that, and you can't comprehend that. So it's always "GROOMING GROOMER PEDO GROOMED" I know when it's grooming. I've seen it happen to others and this isn't a case of it. My parents dont even watch porn and they share very modest values even before meeting each other. I'm also simply trying to introduce you different ideas, maybe,... just maybe.. get this.. they actually love each other?!?!?!?!?!!!!!!! WOAH WHO COULDVE GUESSED??!
>>80089747Amd also, like I keep repeating, he doesnt have "power over her" if anything my mom says what goes in the house.
>>80090510need another fresh start, far away from him
>>80090530youre very stupid and emotional on top of being already emotionally invested in your narrative cant you can concede anything. If you want to discuss this further we could chat on discord or something as to save face and keep away from prying eyes.>>80090510haii kpopnona i thought you were sleeping or something. How are you? Are you a fan of men? >t. icky moid>>80090565I understand your frustration. you feel like you cant get it through my head?
>>80090361would so muchshe needs pats
MOIDS LEAVE
>>80090616NOI am here JUST to spite u!
>>80090632True t. moid
>>80090616oh sure, i'll just go talk with stacy. fuck no im not a normie and normies don't want shit to do with me.
>>80090648why are you sperging out nigga they dont like that shit
>>80090510>my parents that is.>for some context my dad will blame issues on me. snap towards me like a dog to get my attention. yell constantly and make fun of my interests. refuse to apologise for his actionsSorry to hear that. It makes me want to groom you and take better care of you.
>>80090682Based whats up with the moid take over tho
>>80090616Ok, but don't cry that the thread feels dead later.
>>80090667what do they like
>>80090701Talk to them about them. Theyre very one track minded and me me me pilled.
>>80090689Deal. Take your buddies with you.
>>80090730i have been trying but unfortunately she is a small indie vtuber
>>80090733>Implying that I know who these retard esl incells are
>>80090742She didnt imply thats what she said exposed self hating esl laughing out loud
>>80086100Every night shifter I know gets pay differential which means an increase in pay compared to other shifts. If they didn't give you that, then you worked at an exploitive place. The ones who work midnights here work midnights specifically for that reason: they get a lot higher pay. Walmart can afford it no issues.
>>80090741you have to try with a lot of different ones. Some wont like you thats fine. Happens to everyone.
I'm starting to get sick and tired of all the beanmonkeys in this thread.
>>80090767so you don't think trying to form friendship and maybe (emphasis on maybe) more with a small indie vtuber is a bad idea?
>>80090496Never a full face picture, but she did post in a photofeeler thread.
>>80090565i'm a bit jealous ngl. all my mom does is the usual woman married to shitty man behaviour (excuse all of his actions) >>80090587agree but i don't have the funds to do that>>80090594it's early to be asleep desu.>How are you? pretty apathetic if anything. craving a drink but dad probably won't let me leave the room>Are you a fan of men?i'm indifferent towards men until they prove themselves as either normal functioning humans or weird creepy/rude/etcetc. >>80090682man i just want girl friends
>>80090757>buddiesYou are now Implying that people do not know their buddies. Because you are a retard esl moid monkey.
>>80090594Writing in caps doesn't mean I'm mad lmao. This is just a dumb argument my point is>atleast in my parents case, she wasn't groomed, she was an adult and both agreed, consented, and dated for like a year>they waited to have sex after marriage>they were both very poor/low income so there was really nothing for my dad to "gain" or exploit her for.>they've been happily married for 20 years now>they've never been abusive towards each other. Always communicate. >my mom isn't dependent on him, she has her own job>my mom is free to go out when she wants where she wants>they are both loyal to each other>my mom is confident, happy, and organized. Taught me good morals.Grooming and pedophilia is a completely different thing. They are both wary for me and wouldn't want me dating an older man concerned of grooming, because they know a lot of guys take advantage of young girls for sexual purposes. They've taught me to make sure to find a good man and not sleep around and such., which I also just don't want to do as my own choice. I've heard both sides and that's not a lifestyle I'd be happy in at all. I don't have a high libido anyway and I too want to wait until marriage, preferably someone closer to my age. Also, "grooming" can happen to anyone at any age. Wether it's one year apart, two or more. It's just manipulation.. but my mom was fully free to choose. And I personally want to marry aswell. It is not a "prison" to want to commit to someone else, and love them purely, not just sexually, but build a life with them. Pedophiles are attracted to young girls. My dad is really not. Before my mom he dated a girl his age and she almost ruined his life (tried to end her own because they broke up and would always fight him, batshit crazy). Believe it or not some young women (me included) just aren't about that promiscuous lifestyle. We want to commit to someone and we find joy in building a family with someone else and only one person. That's it.
>>80090786i mean do what ever you want. Its bot my scene but if i has to guess youd have to stand out from all the other simps (i dont mean throw money at her) so itd be herder than regular person.>>80090787Post
>>80090801I'm sorry that really must suck. I'm trying to explain my dad is not like that at all and also treats us his children very well. Hope you're able to heal from that
>>80082072>sex haverGet out my man
>>80063079I will be your Prince Charming if you are a Redheaded virgin.
>>80090801youre dad dosent let you out of your room? Feelsweirdd.. >t. icky moidu-->>80090811Youre a retarded illiterate faggot shut the fuck up
>>80090890>spoonfeed meLrn2/archive: the thread was >>78369253
>>80090894thank you. and i believe you. there's no age for men to be abusive partners, older, younger, there's enough cases to show that age doesn't seem to be a factor >>80090935not my room but our shared hotel room. conversation would go as follows>im going out>why? >i want to buy a drink>are you crazy? it's too late. you're not going. i dont care what you say. i have the money i decide what you can and can't buy.
>>80090964Np. This. That's what I'm trying to say.
>>80090951>i cant upload a jpg>>80090964You must feel so controlled.. and i dont mean to pry but do you live out of a hotel room? if not what are you doing in one?
>>80090935Which South American country do you hail from moid?
>>80091002all the time. i have little freedom in my family. olga can testify for how often my privacy is violated with no warningi'm on a trip. and honestly i can't wait until i get back to my own room and my weed.
>>80090801>agree but i don't have the funds to do thatHow could you become financially independent? And if you were do you think you'd continue to live with your family?
>>80091013im not a spic. Curb your projection.>>80091034Thats rough. that must feel stressful. are you enjoying your trip? Dad aside. How old are you they let you smoke?
>>80091079>How old are you>>80091002>You must feel so controlled>>80091002>dont mean to pry but do you live out of a hotel room? if not what are you doing in one?>>80090496>Has she never posted herself>>80090237>Who is she and is she hot>>80090278>Post picture desuYou are a weird creepy fuck.
Whoever chose number 2 when I asked for a number earlier, thank you. It was a pretty good outcome
>>80091101Wall of yous @_@>how old are you Relevant question meant to build a further connection, as im obviously trying to groom her.>you must feel so controlled Its called emotional labeling. Im trying to comfort her in the best way i can. Sort of like a therapist. So she believes around me is a safe space. Then i can ask more of her since im grooming her.>dont mean to pry but do you live out of a hotel room? if not what are you doing in one? Obviously weird grooming question and not curiosity.>Has she never posted herself>Who is she and is she hot>Post picture desuIsnt moid chan a 40 year old woman?All and all yes im a groomer and im grooming kpopnona!
>>80091002>I cannot archiveI found it just by searching her name in the name field and photofeeler. I literally gave you the thread. You are just lazy.
>>80089306what do u like to bake, do u like feeding ur baked goods to ur bf...
>>80091132ya welcome chief
>>80090871ok i understand. if you want to keep talking off of here let me know. i can be your knight in shining armor as if shown im a gentleman and im not with the new gen ideology of promiscuity.
>>80091325Sorry Im currently talking to someone. But i wish you well fr
>>80091034>my weedah it's just withdrawal
How good is posting on /soc/ to meet women?
>>80091563good probably if you want a passed around treesh
>>80091572I'm not delusional enough to think I have a chance at finding a virgin. Odds are higher getting slot jackpot.
>>80091600For you? pretty good. Go there and never return to /r9k/.
Are there any genuinely progressive, feminist women around here? Practically every every woman I talk to from here ends up either being conservative, apolitical, or some sort of weird "feminist" who actually ends up being a RedScare style esoteric fascist. I know females love to assume that nice guy incels cant really be leftist and must just be predatory alt right nazi sexist monsters, but I'm genuinely not and it would be nice to get to find someone who actually shares my values
>>80091634You sound like a little sissy. Go away.
>>80091672You sound like a conservative. I bet you are happy Trump's back and going to make a lot of marginalized people hurt real bad
>>80091634God i just want to fuck the trad out of one of them.Ive seen what youve done for others, god.
>it's yet another "scrotes with personality disorders literally can't stop themselves from creeping on this thread and scaring nonnas away" episodeWhen will it end?
Skinning moids alive with toenail clippers.
>>80091804not sure if me being here is a problem, i just wanna get honest opinions from women in a comfortable and safe place.
>>80091807You wish, you stupid fucking whore.
>>80091807I need a violent fembot like this do you want my discord
>>80063079https://youtu.be/ScpHQPtseq0?si=oWeePdn5V2mG-zg2
Why are these disgusting moids talking to me?
>>80091896because my favorite nonas aren't here today. So I'm making due with you.
>>80091895What kind of mouth-breathing retard links a youtube video of picture you could have just posted (which isn't even good)? Can you losers go back to gayddit or wherever the hell you came from?
>>80091896Please reciprocate i love you
>>80090208https://youtube.com/shorts/S1bHX_a_okU?si=yFD3d9NMqHzOlsbZ
Pretending SisterNona is my sister and playing doctor with her.
>>80091688>going to make a lot of marginalized people hurt real badOfc you believe that bs LMAO. Do some research instead of getting all your beliefs off of the libs echochamber.Relax. Hes not taking anyones rights away. He was president once and if he wanted to he wouldve done it by then.
>>80091767Wtf. Youre never doing that lmao because Im waiting for sex till marriage. Good luck with that.
>>80060556What is even the group of girls here? I thought it was HoloMyth and then I thought I saw Kita-chan and now I'm just confused
>>80092447pretty sure it's nonspecific AIslop.
>>80092447>HoloMythhow many girls here watch vtubers?
>>80092581makes sense>>80092830i don't know lol
When I try to fit in with other women and pretend to be someone I'm not, it feels suffocating and wrong.When I do just act as myself and get called weird, stared at strangely or insulted, it breaks my heart.If I keep being myself despite being treated like a weirdo for it, I wonder if I'll gain enough self-esteem for insults and weird looks to not bother me anymore. Sort of like exposure therapy? I don't know. I don't know if I'm just mainly surrounded by mean girls either.I can't act like it doesn't hurt me when it clearly does.I've tried very hard to befriend other women only to get ghosted, end up liking them more than they like me or just be seen as weird and be pushed away. I am tired. I'm not a tranny but things like this always make me think I should have just been born a man.
>>80093458Did you grow up with both parents or any siblings? Did you have friends in school?
>>80093479>Did you grow up with both parents Yes until my mother died when I was somewhat young.>or any siblings?Two half-siblings (different dads) who are much older than me and I never really liked them. I am completely cut off from all family members now.>Did you have friends in school?True friends? Not really. Depends on your definition of friends. I had people I hung out with who seemed to like me but I couldn't connect with them and ultimately didn't like them. Why do you ask?
>>80093458It's not any different for men lol. That meme of us bonding deep friendships over a simple beer while women stab each other in the back while pretending to be friends is pure bs.Keep being yourself, not because at done point you stop valuing others opinions so much, bit because it increases your chances of finding people who happen to like you for being yourself. It's the best move
>>80093557Trying to figure out if you have poor social skills compared to women your age.
>>80093589Yeah, I know being a man isn't a walk in the park or whatever but I feel at the very least I'd fit in more. These feelings of how badly I desire a female best friend yet cannot connect or meet one would just be replaced with tfw no gf probably, which would make me more normal. My dad always wanted a son. My mother treated my brother far nicer than she treated me or my sister. In the past girls around me joked that they wish I was born a man. All of this (amongst other things), even if they're just jokes, it has worn down on my soul over time.I'll keep what you said in mind. I'd love to meet another girl like me. She has to exist somewhere. At the same time, to open up yourself a bit to someone- to share a bit of your soul and be vulnerable- only for them to spit on that, I think that's genuinely damaging to the soul.It's scary.If that happens too much to me I'm afraid I'll break as a human being.I don't want to become jaded.Despite everything, I still want to be a loving and kind person who can be on the optimistic side.I keep having to tell myself that I mustn't isolate myself away.>>80093590Probably.
>>80093706why not make friends with the girls who post in these threads
>>80093765If any one of them can relate to me and wants the same things out of a friendship then I do then sure but I don't think there's anyone like that here. I don't post in this general often because when there's a general that's full of already established namefags and tripfags it makes me feel like I'm late to a party that's already started or something. And I like being anonymous. Last time I tried to make friends with a girl from here she refused because I wasn't a man. Which fed back into that cycle of insecurity I was just sperging about. I don't think I fit in even here.
>>80093786>If any one of them can relate to me and wants the same things out of a friendship then I do then sure but I don't think there's anyone like that hereWhat do you want out of a friendship?
>>80093825Talking everyday about literally anything, having similar interests and being overall similar people, wishing each other good morning and goodnight everyday, being ourselves around each other and doing things together.
>>80093864Can I ask how old you are and if you've had a boyfriend or girlfriend before?
>>80093870I'm 18 tehehehehehe
>>80093870Why are you asking these things?
>>80093458Nona I'm in my 30s and it wasn't until around my mid to late 20s that I truly had the emotional epiphany that I don't owe anyone an explanation or apology for who I am. The logical realization was much earlier. I like reading and cooking, which are widely viewed as feminine traits. I also work out quite a bit which is fairly masculine, I also enjoy anime and light novels and have a few other traditionally masculine hobbies. If I always held myself back in consideration of those who don't know me then I'd likely sit and do nothing at all for fear of being mocked or shunned. I've never really had close friends and at my age you realize that people come in and out of your life quite frequently, caring about their transient opinions is a waste of your time.
Which kinds of men do you like and what are deal breakers?
>>80094076That sounds nice nona, I have heard from many people of all walks of life that when they hit their 30s specifically is when they started enjoying being themselves more, so that's something to look forward to I guess. Well, I think your interests sound nice. You should be proud of yourself for working out. I don't think I'll ever stop desiring close friendships though.
>>80094090This is not /ATOGA/ or /soc/. Please respect the thread rules or leave.
>>80094076>work out quite a bitglutes in tip top shape?
>>80094102ah... sorry
>>80094102>This is not /ATOGA/Preach it.
>>80094095What are some of your hobbies and interests nona? Also, why do you desire close friendships? I have always been of the opinion that there are two types of people. Those who can only have deep meaningful friendships, and those who can't, with the majority of the world being the latter. I myself had my big brother William when we were kids and I found that once I was able to trust him and open up to him I considered our sibling friendship a close one. I adored him and I got the feeling that he was as close to me as a boy that age could be to his little sister. I've not had a friendship that close since and even in my adult life I've kept those around me at arms length largely out of fear. Sometimes I'm desperate for a close and intimate friendship but to establish one of those at my age from 0 is a lot more difficult than it would have been in my teens and early 20s. If it happens, it happens, but it won't if I don't find a way to let people in and risk getting hurt. For that you're probably more courageous than I am.
>>80093706>These feelings of how badly I desire a female best friend yet cannot connect or meet oneI feel this so much. I've always wanted a female best friend but every friend I got either stabbed me in the back or got a boyfriend and started ignoring me.I just wish there was true female friendship, I don't want a moid friend. I just want a female friend that likes the same things that I do and could talk with me for hours to fill the void.>My dad always wanted a son. My mother treated my brother far nicer than she treated me or my sister. We have lead the same life. I wonder if this is true for more nonas.
>>80094180>My dad always wanted a son.My dad didn't want me. I haven't seen him in over 20 years but I can still remember every horrible thing he said. I can only hope that he hasn't hurt anyone else and I'm ashamed to carry his worthless genes. If I never end up becoming a mother there will be at least some relief that his lineage ends with the daughter he wished never existed.>My mother treated my brother far nicer than she treated me-My mother thinks the sun shines from my brothers backside and had treated him like royalty the moment she laid eyes on him, 100% out of guilt for abandoning him when he was a baby and running off to the USA to marry a shitbag who beat her, stole from her and ruined her ill conceived second chance at life.... and have me.
>>80094166>out of fearWhat kind of fear?
want to fix sisternona with lots of cuddles
Men aren't allowed here are we?
>>80094210>blah blah blahwhores that end up here have a bunch of issues we know, save your fake and gay sob story, trauma dumping retard>>80094269you are a faggot
>>80094269There's nothing stopping you, we just that you don't.
>>80094300>don'twe're the ones bumping and larping as foids to keep it going, bitch
fire evacuations are a biiitch i'm probably not gonna get back to any of my (yous).....please pray for the cute fluffy animals who don't have cars and alert systems and respirations to deal with this stuff nonas. why is there so much loss in this life
good job you enabled the incels and now they think this is a dating thread!