>be me>low key incel. The only virgin in the friend group and never had a female friend or a girlfriend despite desiring one.>I don't have autism but I have a hard time being friends without common interests and majority of women fail the friend check>via mutual friends, met with a Qt3.14>against all odds, she was fun to hang out with because her interests were similar to mine which is vidya and not fucking shopping and eating out>she was also a goth who looked kinda like Mavis Dracula who was my fictional crush for a while>all of that made me develop a huge crush on her>ffw to present day>decide to ask her out whilst trying to fight my shyness >getrejected.exe>I got the usual monolog about her seeing me as a friend at first and not looking for a relationship but later she changed her reasons>she then proceeded to tell me that I am not her type and she prefers confident men>she then offered me to become friends with benefits which meant I'll lose my virginity but we won't date>I declined politely because I want my first time to be with a girlfriend and I find sex with no strings attached to be quite disgusting anyway. Anons am I still an incel or did I lose my membership?
incredibly based and i'd do the same thingthe incel term isn't used properly most of the time anyways, if you aren't actively pursuing sex and or a gf then you are a volcel
>>80064074>>she then offered me to become friends with benefits which meant I'll lose my virginity but we won't datepity sex, what a slut
>>80064074have you tried confidence?
>>80064099I don't pursue sex (I can just fap it out) but I do pursue a relationship. I want to have sex but I find sex without love to be disgusting and I never understood the concept of one night stands/prostitutes because why would you stick your penis into a vagina that you don't feel any love towards.Meanwhile my friends called me a retard because apparently friends with benefit relationships eventually become actual relationships which imo is a sex addict cope>>80064110Why would she do pity sex but not pity relationship? I'd even accept a relationship without sex because sex isn't the most important thing in life imo. >>80064137I find confidence without reason to be retarded. I have nothing to be confident over other than my nerd hobbies which apparently wasn't enough:(
>>80064146nta but maybe she didn't want to ruin her status by openly being in a relationship with you
>>80064339Maybe this. She is way out of my league. I guess all the talk about leagues existing was real and I have to look for an equal. RIP my dreams of irl Mavis Dracula GF
