I'm 38 years old and I've never been in a relationship or had sex. There is no way to fix this.There are too many problems. It's not that there's something wrong with my looks or personality. In my age it becomes so much more than that. For instance, women my age are too old, but I cant get anyone younger because I'm old myself.But then there's a new killer part: I'm exhausted. I'm literally too old to go through the mood swings and drama that falling in love creates. There's always a certain stress and uncertainty that comes with love. As you get older, your heart can no longer take it, and you feel that puppy love is a bit too childish for your mature taste anyway.I cant believe I was incel for long enough to become incapable of dating. Does this feel like release? Not exactly. There's no catharsis. I dont think I'll ever find happiness. I'll probably complain about not getting laid even when my test levels hit zero and I dont even want sex anymore. It's a mental thing. Knowing I'm missing out on the biggest thing in life is traumatizing even if I didnt want it.
Women your age are not too old. They are your age.
>>80066460A woman my age _is_ exactly too old. She's wrinkly, jaded, used up, has 5 children, can no longer have any new kids etc. Not only half of this applies to a 38yo guy
>>80066460I'm not op, but come on man. Most of us want the young cutesy teenage love that others got to experience. Its not our fault we're emotionally stunted at 19 years old. We just want young gfs, not overweight 40 year old hags who have multiple baby daddies.
>>80066433I'm 38 too and the desire for a relationship just faded away. It sounds exhausting.
>>80066433I'm 38 and have an autoimmune disease that destroyed most of my intestines and I don't have issues with being "too old" to handle feelings of love. You just made up some weird narrative in your head. It isn't a physical problem.
>>80066493That's not being emotionally stunted, that's being a pedo.kys pedo.
>>80066497Yeah sure it fades away, but does anything replace that void?No. Just like OP described, it's like people with impotence who still crave sex even though they physically dontYour mind will not be able to move on to anything elseYou're stuck chasing something that no longer exists
>>80066525>that's pedoThat's just a modern liberal feminist leftist way to whitewash everything into "LE BAD!"I wanna punch people who modify the meaning of pedophilia at their own disposal just to get powerFact: pedos dont want anyone older than 10 years oldIf you want 13yos you're already something else than a pedo
>>80066433>I'm 38 years old and I've never been in a relationship or had sex. There is no way to fix this.correct. I'm 28 and I've already realized the deep psychological impact this life style has had on me. Its basically already over. I've literally turned myself into a schizo psychopath through social isolation. Even if a 10/10 gf fell into my lap and begged me to impregnate her I don't think I would ever feel love for her. I would never feel a deep bond or connection with her. To me, she would always be a stranger I live with, not a close family member. However, its important to remember that many people in the past have lived celibate intentionally. Perhaps you should try to find god or spirituality to cope.
>>80066525I can't wait till you zoomer faggots grow up and realize you're 40 and still attracted to 20 year old girls.
>>80066525>19 is pedo territory nowOkbuddyfuckyou
>>80066565Twitter generation has whitewashed "pedophilia" to mean being attracted to anyone younger than you even if she's 30 years old
>>80066493I don't understand this concept at all as a late 30s guy who did have sex in high school.If I didn't have sex in high school I'd just focus on having sex at whatever later age I was able to get it at. I don't get why sex with women in their 20s, 30s, or 40s would be seen as radically different from fucking your high school girlfriend. It's not different.
>>80066433>I'm literally too old to go through the mood swings and drama that falling in love creates. There's always a certain stress and uncertainty that comes with love. As you get older, your heart can no longer take it, and you feel that puppy love is a bit too childish for your mature taste anyway.this thread makes me glad I had a super cringe e-relationship with a tranny from 29-31 when I was just barely young enough to feel pure things and passions even though the whole thing was disastrous, because I got over it and now I feel totally capable of having normal relationships without any of that baggage even though I'm still technically a virgin. I was pissed at her for stealing my innocence but it was a blessing in disguise.
>>80066596You wouldn't get it cause you're a normie. Not speaking for anyone else, but for me I want a chance to do the cute young activities that you and others like you got to do when you were young. I want to go to the fair with my love at night. I want to go to the movies together. I want to go to arcades. I want to meet her parents. All while being two young people in love. Doing these things as young lovers is completely different than as two old fucks.
>>80066596U trolling? You answered your own question. You got to experience it, so of course you dont feel the trauma of not having experienced it.Damn bro how dumb can you beIt's like married people saying loneliness isnt that bad"I'd still be happy and myself" No man you'd kill yourself
>>80066596the physical act itself is the same but the context and emotions of when it occurs is different. And in any case it's like applying for a job. Once you're above college-age you're expected to have experience and know what you're doing and be at least somewhat cynical about the whole thing.
>>80066686>>80066652These guys get it.t. OP
>>80066433im 23 and im at that stage where i dont care i die a incel for life at least ill finally be free from fortune only thing that pisses me off is seeing 16 year olds with gfs holy shit do some normalfags have it too easy
>>80067395Same, it's pretty nuts seeing immature 16yo idiots live the good life
>>80066596>It's not different.Teenage girls are much more likely to be virgins. You can grow into all of the relationship stuf without pressure or expectations because you're both at the same level.Statistically 95% of women are no longer virgins by 25 and less than 1% by 30. So it's extremely unlikely you can find a women that's at the same level as us old 35+ virgins. At our age the best you can find a girl that's either had a one night stand or some other thottery just to lose it which is disgusting or a woman that has had a long term relationship making her much more experienced and the relationship much less equal.
>>80067856This is why I still chase after young girls.I'm a virgin myself so I'm not interested in experienced girls, I cant relate to them for the same reason young girls cant relate to me, ironically
>>80066433It's because you're a hateful, racist piece of shit who won't shut up about immigrants. You had 30 years to figure that out.
>>80068428STOP filing EUrope with immigrants for FUCKS SAKE
