it's so sad watching the cycles and being helpless to stop themanxious attached low (no) self confidence abuse victim falling for the covert narcissist love bombing thinking "someone just like me! :D" and then the avoidancr or dismissiveness starts and the abuse victim says "it's my fault! I attract evil people! I have horrible taste in (wo)men!" or even just goes full sour grapes and dismisses the entire opposite sex as evila new thread every day with someone describing this EXACT relationship, and since r9k is all teenagers now it's just happening fucking en masse and most people are so broken their only helpful advice is "yeah me too lmao"here's some real advice:love is real, but you won't know how to spot it until you truly feel it... you have to educate yourself on what love ISN'T, pay attention to red flags, and give NO QUARTER.Stop being so blown away by the idea another human could tolerate you that you run head first into love bombs. You deserve love, REAL love, and that means if you don't FEEL loved you have every right to say thay and if they aren't willing to adjust to that you have every right and I would argue the RESPONSIBILITY to leave.Learn about attachment theory and try to understand compatibility beyond just liking the same fucking anime!
>>80071358Omg OP... ur so smart and observant wow... Are you like my soulmate...? Omg...
>>80071567I don't care how obvious it is, it should be pointed out more often. There's a new human born every SECOND, sharing knowledge isn't a sin.unless you resent people pointing these patterns out because you're a covert narcissist and seeing your strategies put on display makes you insecure.......
>>80071844Nah it was a joke, omg ur like, wow, so perfect, let me love bomb you baby girl
>>80071358>Stop being so blown away by the idea another human could tolerate you that you run head first into love bombshave you ever been lovebombed op?
>>80071358You have good intentions but it's sort of hard for people like me to apply this knowledge you know. We are desperate for connection.
>>80071358>love is real, but you won't know how to spot it until you truly feel it... you have to educate yourself on what love ISN'TWhat even is love, at this point? So many people say they love someone, its all bullshit. Only way I could believe two people "loving" each other is if they were content with putting up with each other for a long time.
>>80072938the """love""" of a narcissist is so much worse than being alone, genuinely an AI gf is leagues better than that.
