She absolutely right 35 is literally way beyond over territory. Youve missed out on 14-15 years of compound interest.You cant be 30 and still fuck 18yo teens.Thing get exponentially harder after you pass certain ages, 30yo is the age where life challenge goes parabolic, when it is dating get 10x harder by 30, 100x harder by 40 and 1000x harder by 50.If youre parents didnt taught you financial literacy and compound gains in HighSchool. Youre fucked.
>>80072134my dad was 60ish when he married a 20 year oldidk broI feel like this is mentalcel territory
>>80072134>Niggas be 35Why do American blacks talk like pirates? Is it like a meme?
>>80072134It's definitely impossible to change course as you get older because lowered neuroplasticity. If you want to learn piano at 35 it's impossible, you'll never be a concert pianist. If you start investing at 35 you'll be better off but the guy who started at 20 will retire before you for sure assuming the same risk profile.
It's even more fucked if you are almost 40 and I do not mean money.>Socially anxious.>Divorced.>Constant inferiority.>Fat, poor health.>Chronically pornsick, literally stopped trying for real women and just jerkoff and pay for OF now.>Daily fear of death.>Lonely.My problems were the same when I had four figures and now I have seven. Just seems like past 30-35 everything is set in stone, neuroplasticity I guess. I could wake up with $50 million dollars tomorrow and everything would still be the same. I would just be able to fuck off slightly more than I do now.Even when you make big money, there's no playbook that tells you how to use it to unfuck who you are. My life lesson is you need to fix your demons BEFORE you get rich or they will continue to eat you right up.
>>80072157>It's definitely impossible to change course as you get older because lowered neuroplasticity. If you want to learn piano at 35 it's impossible, you'll never be a concert pianist.Sure, but you could still learn to play the instrument. Not doing something because you can't be the absolute best at it is silly.
i just got approved for a house at almost 40
Hokusai at 35 was a no-name artist, all his famous works are later and most of them came from when he was an old man
>>80072360This. Fuck this defeatist attitude. It's just an excuse to give up and avoid life's challenges and rewards
>>80072383That's the average age for first time millenial home buyers
I'm going to banging prime teenagers when I'm 60 dawg. Fuck you and your black pill bullshit lol
>>80072602The unfortunate reality is that we live in a society that does a lot to limit your options as time goes on, and learning things does become more difficult as you age, but it doesn't mean your life is over. As long as you just focus on the things you enjoy and have realistic expectations, you can still get a lot out of life. If you start playing piano at 35 you most likely ever be as good as Martha Argerich, but that doesn't mean you can't learn it well enough to play some songs that you like.
>>80072134i didnt get my shit together until i was 30now i travel around asia while i work online, have sex with women in their 20s, and a have a casual thing with a literal asian popstarnice demotivational though, giving up will certainly help
>>80072909im 31. never had a relationship. i live with my parents. do you think itsd possible to turn my life around
Wrong. I got my shit together at 30yo, and now Im doing better then my normie relatives. It just becomes harder to do it, thats all.
>>80072924>im 31. never had a relationship. i live with my parents. do you think itsd possible to turn my life aroundYes because i did at 35yo. Im 40yo now. Heres a before and after assesmant:>before: 320 pounds, lived with parents, virgin, never had gf, dropped out of hs decades ago, no money.>40 yo: 165 pounds and fit. Have a associates in computer whatever, own my own townhouse and car, have $180,000 invested. Have had 7 GFs one was a stalker. Lost virgininty at 37yo.
>>80072924Absolutely. Shit, it's possible no matter how old you are. I've seen homeless junkies in their 50s get their lives together. It's natural to think about what you've missed, but that's also unhelpful. We just do the best we can with what we've got, taking it one step at a time.
>>80072394The obsession with youth our society has is really weird. Creating something good always takes time. You are not supposed to have anything special by the 30s unless you do sports for profession. In everything else you will be better the older you are due to collection of resources and experiences slowly piling up over decades. Modern motherfuckers be like oh I didn't achieve success in two years of trying it's so over. Bitch what. It takes decades to build yourself up.
>>80072155Niggas be saving conjugating for the prison trailer, they can't be wasting it on no verbs
>>80072146>just become a Boomer, bropost time machine
>>80072383>approved for a houseYou got approved for bank rent. It will never get paid off, and you will sell it to cover healthcare costs in 20-30 years
>>80072394>>80073879Hokusai was an artist nontheless. The problem was discovery. You have to be cultivating those skills obsessively in the meantime.
>>80072394>Starting as a young child, he continued working and improving his style until his death
>>80072146Yeah and how old was he when your mom had you?
>>80074929>>Starting as a young child, he continued working and improving his style until his deathdid *YOU* have/cultivate absolutely no skills in childhood/high school? there must be something
>>80072134>paying attention to a THOTNigga you NGMI
>>80072146For starters getting a young girl at 60 sounds like hell if's your first time, and even with multiples I can't fathom wanting someone that's younger than kid/could be nearing grandchild age just for some mediocre sex because I'm old as fuck. Shit at that point you should be evened out by all the pussy you were getting young. >>80072157And Relationships are a death sentence at those ages. Anything worth loving already has a spouse/bf or just won't out right date old men. Kind of teen girls that date 35+ yo men are the type that either see them as a bank account or are so unstable the dude is going to be dump in a week.
I have never seen a vagina IRL and never kissed a girl.People around me are more mad than Im.Not sure how that calculation works out.
>>80073879>You are not supposed to have anything special by the 30s unless you do sports for profession. IAverage age of Manhattan project was 25. Average age of their most important trio (Openhimer, Fermi, Teller) was 39.>else you will be better the older you are due to collection of resources and experiences slowly piling up over decadesMan mental capabilities go downhill since 24. Accumulating experience is relative, you don't need just do it but do it faster than competitionvid you aim to be special and brains slows down after 24.
>>80072134>teach
>>80072134>You cant be 30 and still fuck 18yo teens.Says who lol I still do it.
>>80074941I played chess been brought there by parents, got to 2000 ELO in high school, absolutely hated it and dropped later.
>>80072134This is a woman's train of thought, women are easily discouraged and self curious about their age or how they look to other people.Women try to get themslevss together for how people perceive them. Men do it because they want a better life.It's never too late to get your life in order.T. 30 in the process of getting my life together.
>>80072134My dad didn't start his business until he was 39 and he's a millionaire. It's not too late until you're dead
>>80074949You're wrong about alot of things but espeically the teen girl thing. Teen girls can be some of the most adventurous kindest open minded people you will ever meet.
>>80075073Female mental capacities go down hill at 24 male mental capacities go up and don't start declining until very old age.
>>80072970did you begin to turn it around at 35 ? what was the first step ?
