How do you feel if youre an outcast and people see you as a loser? How have you dealt with not being a so called cool person?
>>80072712always been a outcast loner, money used to make me feel better, then i got depressed and pissed it all away. no money no people no life
>>80072712>How do you feel if youre an outcast and people see you as a loser?ive always been like that>How have you dealt with not being a so called cool person?i dont know anything besides being a loser. i guess i would feel bad if i used to be a normie and become a loser, but ive always been an underperforming trouble maker. i used to get in trouble for random squabbles in elementary school all the time (and usually i was the one that would start them) and i had bad grades in math. in middle school i became a nazi larper and i got suspended for a week for doing the roman salute in class. i had bad grades in math and science but As in history in english in high school i became an isis larper and id do nothing but watch goatfucker propaganda in my room all day. now im a college dropout NEET. idk what it would even be like to be a "cool person" im a failure of a human being, im human garbage that would historically have been hung in a gallow or something
I simply live with the pain>5 foot 6>ugly>acne>skinnyfat>small pencil dick>dull personality>only make $17 an hour>depression, anxiety.And of course all of my family and peers are mentally stable & successful. Fuck.
you have to let go. the more you focus on things like these the worse your life will be. placing yourself in scenarios where you are constantly comparing yourself to something else is unhealthy and will never help. If you continue to dwell on such things you will never be happy. It is a choice to think about these things. It is a choice to suffer over such things. You dont have to be called cool by anyone else. Do cool people care about it? no, they dont give a fuck. You need to find your own happiness and your own way to carry yourself in a way that makes you happy with yourself and fulfilled, not doing it hoping to appeal to others
>>80072752>I simply live with the pain>>5 foot 6who cares>>uglyobjective, and not the point of life>>acnewho cares>>skinnyfatwho cares>>small pencil dickobjective, and not the point of life>>dull personalityobjective and masculine>>only make $17 an hourvast majority of the world lives in poverty, often times this vast majority also lives happy fulfilling lives. Regardless of how you feel about your income, you can always take steps towards a better you, and that includes your income. nothing is hopeless.nothing.>>depression, anxiety.it happens to everyone. you cannot let it define who you are as a person. You cannot lose yourself.>And of course all of my family and peers are mentally stable & successful. Fuck.perfect. you are who you surround yourself with anon. you need to seek guidance from them, try to learn from them and their lifestyles. I often times wish I had more friends, especially successful ones. you have everything you need to be who you want to be
>>80072723money is not what gives us happiness in this life. everyday is a new day, a blank slate. Try to live a new and different life each day or week. Eventually you will find something you like. For me I really enjoy spending time alone to think to myself. I found out when I tried fishing and now I love doing both. People CAN be what give us purpose in life but not always, in my case I enjoy the opposite
>>80073080>money is not what gives us happiness in this life.lol lmao eveni say the same shit over and over again, from people that live way nicer lives than i do coming from upper-middle class families making an upper-middle class income. no wonder you think "money is not what gives us happiness", because you've never had to worry about it: you take it for granted
>>80072737Anon, youve made mistakes but you recognize them. That is the hardest but most important step. Imagine if you continued to believe the same things you used to. Imagine if you were still a nazi or isis larper. You would have a significantly harder time becoming a successful or respectful person. Youre halfway there, your fight is only over when you give up. You are only a loser if you truly do nothing for yourself to become the person you want to be. What I see is tremendous growth and maturity. for most of my life I felt like I was way less mature than my peers, a few year behind in that regard. Everything has a reason and I think having this difference made me appreciate my growth much more. You may not see it now but you are already a much better, respectable, worthy person than before. Please dont give up on yourself.
>>80072712Oh noo, me so sadddd, me so sad the whole ass evil world I live in doesn't like me? Oooohhh NYYYOOO ME SO SAD AND LONEYLY, ME SUCH A SAD SAD BOIIII:l
>>80073098if you always have this outlook, I cannot help you. If thats what you took from this youre admitting you have it worse and want to keep it that way. Not only do you not know anything about me but you think youre a victim. Like I said majority of the world lives in poverty, if you think youre too cool to make your situation better because of money other people have then goodluck to you
>>80072712I stopped caring what most people thought years ago. The only opinions I care about are ones that directly effect me. Such as my own, my boss and my mother. I have also just stopped seeing myself as an outcast and that's because I am simply better than many people I could compare myself to in one way or another.Also I play my Vidya and if I ever fully stop playing Vidya it means I am about to kill myself.
>>80073098literally everyone who has ever had money ever has said money doesnt buy happiness>muh they dont get it because they started off better than me>muh I would totally be happy with money
>>80073136based. this guy gets it
>>80073104thanks anon, i really appreciate it. im trying to get back on my feet now by getting a security job because i dont like being a deadweight burden on my family. i still have no idea what i want to do long term, ive thought about learning a trade or doing online college. i still havent told my parents ive dropped out, they still think im going to school lol. my mom would probably explode if she found out, she really wanted me to be a doctor or lawyer.
