Why are guys always so pushy for sex? Like I've been dealing with legal proceedings all day today and having to argue with a bunch of managers that have screwed me over in front of a damn attorney, as well as dealing with the possibility that my grandma might die in the near future, and my bf keeps on pestering me for sex even though like I'm dealing with some serious shit rn and am just absolutely not down for it and I've been rlly clear about it that I dont want to have sex tonight. I think he's propositioned it like 6 or 7 times tonight, and has been rlly gropey, and whatnot today and it's just like I am absolutely not down for it and I just don't think that he gets it no matter how serious of a situation I'm in. He kinda just keeps blowing it off, and seems to forget in less than 20 minutes that I said no and just keeps pushing for it, and just like I need space and I can't seem to get through to him on that.It doesn't help that he got rlly drunk tonight as well. Idk I guess I just wanted to vent.
>>80074073Stressed out is the best time to have sex though. The more anxious I am, the more horny I get.There's even studies about this too. Anxiety and arousal correlation.
>>80074073Sometimes you have to think about people other than yourself
>>80074110that's REALLY hard for them anon
>>80074073well i think he's being entitled and you should probably tell him he's being a childish faggot
>>80074073Why do women make sexual compatibility the underpinning of every relationship and lose attraction to men who don't fuck them on the first date?
>>80074073>Woman dates sociopath loser>"errmm men bad"Date better men.
>>80074095>Anxiety and arousal correlation.Really? I just start making a suicide plan. I'm thinking carbon monoxide asphixiation is the best option, I have a small room.
>>80074139Well most of my anxiety stems from the fear of death, so root causes could be at play here.
>>80074073sounds like he doesn't know your mental state that well. this is a failure of sexual mastery on his part and shows he's constructing his role in entirely the wrong terms, seductive power is more general than just sex and in an ideal case he should be able to use it to make you feel better in a situation like this. it's not hard to balance that against his own horniness and find ways to make you comfortably aware of it without adding stress.
