>be me 20yo (f)>decided to open dating app for frost time ever >Most of guys are in their 40/30s and youngest one is 32>Immediately deleted account and appHow am I even supposed to meet men in their 20s if I'm a neet who kinda lives in shit hole? Damn I need to move out and go to university I guess.
frost time. heh
Why do you want a 20s bf if you're a neet? An older bf will have the money and stability to take care of you.
>>80078014You know you can filter by age, right? Stupid foid. Just gimme your phone, I'll do it for you
>>80078014Lower your standards and date us unattractive guys in our early 30s. Stop being so picky. It's not fair that you deny us the chance to date women.
>>80078014Yeah, people in their 20s usually just go to college so they're surrounded by opposite sex people to hook up with.Dating sites are for once you make it out of your 20s and no longer have contact with your friends from college because they all got married or killed themselves or became shut-ins like you.
>>80078014im calling bullshit. i am 26 and i have some trouble dating 19-22yos on dating apps because they see me as 'daddy' or something dumb and interact with me awkwardly. the amount of dudes your age on the app far outnumber older men, mainly because virtually everyone at 20 is single and searchingyou know you can set age ranges, right? youre not dumb, yeah?
>>80078014men in their 20s completely left the apps, dont really go out, dont really try anymore lol
>>80078026God I'm retarded >>80078028Uhh because I fear we won't understand eachother I talked with few guys in their 30s before and it's completely another universe most of them as well seem to be already fed up with life >>80078032I did that and only got two guys who also seemed older as I said I live in shithole stupid moid>>80078036Most of them were attractive for their age I heard age gaps relationships don't work out well though >>80078038>Yeah, people in their 20s usually just go to college so they're surrounded by opposite sex people to hook up withIn other words I need to stop being shut in neetDamn, time to go to university >>80078041I already said I live in shithole I guess all younger guys go to bigger cities because of universities I should too time is ticking, not going to uni in my 30s>>80078043Huh? Why?
>>80078014What's wrong with older guys? Are they automatically failures in the foid mind if they haven't already taken care of a relationship by their twenties? This is why dudes be grooming teens, you give them no choice.
>>80078014Most men who in their 20s are single, shouldnt be too much of a challenge.
>>80078096>I already said I live in shitholei live in a shithole too. i can still filter by age. i dont get it, increase the range a little bit?
>>80078096>Most of them were attractive for their age>I heard age gaps relationships don't work out well thoughWell I'm unattractive. Date me and it would work out fine. Also you could date other guys too. Stop being so picky.
>>80078096>I live in shithole stupid moidwhat country? It's not worse than mine, guaranteed
>>80078113Because I heard age gaps relationships suck ass and after interacting with few older guys I realised we live in completely different realities not to mention they're already fed up with life and have job, cars and possibly already divorced meanwhile I basically just jumped into adulthood idk >>80078132Ok where do I find them I never leave my house due to being neet >>80078144I set up >19-26Maybe I should try other app idk >>80078146>Date me and it would work out fine.>Also you could date other guys too. HUH??>>80078158Not America
>>80078174>Maybe I should try other app idk tinder is the biggest one where i live. i spoke to some dude in russia and apparently there they have something else.i DOUBT you will run out of 20-somethings in any dating app. youre doing something really wrong. i am from a small city in brazil and i dont.
>>80078174>Not AmericaSame. Europe? West europe? If you're in Schengen, wanna move in with me tomorrow and cuddle?
>>80078174>>Date me and it would work out fine.>>Also you could date other guys too.>HUH??Just do it! Please date me, stop being so picky
>>80078174>I never leave my house due to being neetI mean same, im 27 myself but every girl who adds me either here or on /soc/ always ghosts in like 5 minutes before we even get to talking. Like 90 percent of people get into relationships online these days so talking to people here or some place else should be a decent bet, provided they actually want a relationship.
>>80078190Oh ok then I will just try tinder I guess??>>80078199Yup EU but not west EU But close>>80078200>Date me and it would work out fine.>Also you could date other guys too.>HUH??>Just do it! Please date me, stop being so pickyYou want...me to date you and to date other people as well? >>80078209Yeah honestly I would never do e dating it sucks and is probably full of larpers/trolls this is why I'm specifically looking for guys in my area
>>80078225>Oh ok then I will just try tinder I guess?try the largest one in your region. it tends to be tinder, but as I said about russian dude, it can be something elseedating sucks, yeah. never ever do it. look for something irl. make a decent profile and you should be good to go
>>80078014i'm 20m and i have the opposite problem. i can't find girls my age on dating apps it's only old women
>>80078014Let me guessYou're in EE and all of the men in your town either left for Germany or for regional capitals to study or work because there is no fucking jobs in your hometown
>>80078225>You want...me to date you and to date other people as well?Why not? I'm not very attractive, so it could make it easier for you to stomach dating me, if you could also date other guys and experience more attractive guys (or girls or enbies if that's your thing). I don't care if someone I'm with sees other people, I'm not the jealous conservative type, I just want to not be alone
>>80078014>be me 22>do account aswell>swipe for women for a few days no matches>accidently do a tranny get matched>all the app shows now is trannys and men>delete accountTis why men dont waste time on em, its either abunch of girls with insta in bio (ads) or they have tattos/piercing so it was over before it began.
>>80078225>Yup EU but not west EU>But closeokay, so? Pack your bags, get a plane ticket to schiphol airport, i'll pick you up tomorrow and we can play vidya together in time for lunch.
>>80078242>edating sucks, yeah. never ever do it. look for something irl. make a decent profile and you should be good to goAbsolutely >>80078245>i'm 20m and i have the opposite problem. i can't find girls my age on dating apps it's only old womenWhere r u from? Are u also a neet or?:P >>80078246>You're in EE and all of the men in your town either left for Germany or for regional capitals to study or work because there is no fucking jobs in your hometownHonestly idk can this be considered EE but yeah they all left to larger cities Seems like it>>80078247> I don't care if someone I'm with sees other people, I'm not the jealous conservative type, I just want to not be aloneThat's literally fucked up. Are you a cuck or something?>>80078293>or they have tattos/piercing so it was over before it beganI kinda want to have earrings or that one on eyebrows. Is that bad? Men don't like it ?>>80078300You're a troll aren't you.
>>80078451>You're a troll aren't you.no I'm completely 100% real and serious. But are you?2v2 rocket league side by side couch coop? lets go
>>80078451>idk can this be considered EEGreece or Polandcall it
>>80078451>Honestly idk can this be considered EE but yeah they all left to larger citiesplz be in bucharest
>>80078293Where are you from? Because I have the exactly. Same. Problem. I get a shit ton of trannies and gay old men sending me likes on tinder. It's so annoying and I feel kind of molested
>>80078451>That's literally fucked up. Are you a cuck or something?Cuck is a fetish of people who actively get off on the idea of their partner seeing other people, often with aspects of humiliation or racialized stuff or whatever. For me, it's none of that, I'm just not jealous or conservative.
>>80078469In what part of western EU are? Don't have to tell country just what part/area>>80078476Close I guess I am in EE :/>>80078477No>>80078502It's still weird as fuck. Sorry.
>>80078526Slovakia or Estonia
>>80078526>In what part of western EU are? Don't have to tell country just what part/areabenelux area. but i mentioned schiphol airport so you can probably figure out what country
>need dating advice>hm i think i will go to 4 chan dot orgwhy are you people like this
>>80078014>claim to be 20>posting immature roblox shitYeah.
>>80078526>It's still weird as fuck. SorryLower your standards And stop being so conservative, sorry. Fuck your chadsexual standards
>>80078581not OP but 4chan is the only place who has people in similar life situations as me. If I tried asking normies for help I don't think any of their advice would apply to me
>>80078589sorry libcuck, chudservatives get the girl
>>80078585What do you think 20 year olds are now?They're either pretending to be 30 or doing shit like this.
>>80078485Here from Israel, as you know here tends to follow american trends but slower, so that stuff is wide spread here aswell.>>80078451Do men like it? Its a good question as every guy ive personally asked said no, in my opinion the reason women do it is to feel different/special so theyre not like every other girl but they infact become every other girl lmfao, women are like sheep after all and they will follow the herd. And if you dont believe me try talking about traveling to them, most will be enthralled by this but get disgusted by video games/anime.
>>80078615Females should stop being such conservative bigots
>>80078675>Here from IsraelKek anon I read a thread on /int/ that Brazil and Israel had a lot of similarities in their architecture but I had no idea we had similar cultures as well. You don't really see it if you go outside but Brazil feels like it has a tranny pandemic going on right now, if you don't believe me go to the /soc/ brazilian thread and ctrl f "mtf" 'trans'" or femboy
They gave up. Don't worry millenials gave up too. Everyone gave up, as they should. Until your rights get stripped and you have to rely on us to protect you, us as individuals and not the system we created for you where we become numbers, then things will work out better for all.
>>80078561Netherlands? Damn that's fucking beautiful.>>80078581I'm shut in.>>80078585Yes I'm 20. Yes I still play Roblox. Cry me a river.>Roblox chads rise up
>>80078894Roblox became unworthy of even visiting after they removed the forumsIt was the last fun part of the website
>>80078888>Until your rights get stripped and you have to rely on us to protect youWhat did I do?
>>80078096>Uhh because I fear we won't understand eachotherI fear this will come across as if I'm an old out of touch guy, because I am, but I'm not saying this because I'm salty because I'm not dating or trying to date anyone right now, butANTA BAKA?!When I was like 25 or something, the person who most understood me, bar none, was a 15 yr old I met. Nothing really happened there for obvious reasons but to this day I'm still amazed by that.I'm now in my 30s and most of the people I've met in this age have not matured since their 20s in any way.Age increases, maturity does not.>>80078174>Because I heard age gaps relationships suck ass Hearsay.> after interacting with few older guys I realised we live in completely different realities not to mention they're already fed up with life and have job, cars and possibly already divorced meanwhile I basically just jumped into adulthood idkThat's just your experiences, which is fine, I won't begrudge you that, but going off that logic all women are trash because the ones I've met haven't been any good either, which isn't true.You can find the perfect age, interests, and everything else on your check list, and run into hundreds of trash guys that will sour you on dating, due to their being millions of them.I'm not even trying to get you to date older guys, just trying to give you some perspective here. There's a reason the majority of relationships across time has been older guys and younger girls. What you're experiencing isn't a "older guys are trash" thing, it's a "guys are trash" thing. Men simply suck today. I mean, women suck more I think, but yeah men suck too, welcome to the world.>see this is what I meant when I said they were jaded and giving up on life!I will concede that a bit, but having acquaintances who are in their 80s, the dating market and such things are objectively worse now. It's not jaded or cynical to acknowledge reality of the situation, only jaded to have "given up", I feel.
>>80078911Nothing you did personally, same as me. Yet we still suffer in this system.Tell me honestly: Do you like being accountable for every decision in your life with a good likelihood of having to do everything yourself and end up being alone? Or the idea of having a family while getting home from work with little time to do anything but chores after? It used to be only the male working. You could have had a life where someone takes care of you and you take care of the home because it was financially viable. Now it is not because we are both expected to work, all for the freedom for you to whore out or be an anxiety ridden mess. (not you specifically, unless you have that too - definitely speaking of most girls though)
>>80078969I personally would love a world where i get to be a house husband doing chores and playing vidya games all my life while wife is bread winner but for some reason that world could never exist while it is the other way around. It is what it is though. Also what you are saying is not exactly grantee to happen but did happen already in history so who knows, id say just enjoy life as much as possible as nothing you will do will either accelerate or deescalate the future outcome.>>80078894Based roblox enjoyer, still playing it from childhood aswell.
>>80078906Wdym?You can still chat with other people?>>80078932Tik tok ruined my attention span years years and years ago, I literally can't read thisIt literally hurts my brain, so many words>>80078969Uh yeah I know system is fucked though, it's been like this since I know for myself The fact that I'm a neet doesn't really make it better I wish I have a chance to move out and to find a job or go back to school >>80079012Based, been playing Roblox since 11/12 :P
>>80079049Would you accept a different system if your rights were take away?Serious question. And outline key issues that make you say no.
>>>/soc/ is that way niggernot original btw
>>80078894>Netherlands? Damn that's fucking beautiful.no its soulless. but if you wanna come here, all you gotta do is get on a plane/train.of course, only if you actually wanna meet and date people.
>>80079111What rights specifically I guess?>>80079141I would like to live here but it's just fantasy
>>80078597op is a woman anon>>80078894>I'm shut in.youre a woman
>>80079049>you can still chat with other peoplebut the culture that was there with all the different subforums is goneIt was a different place
>>80079193you're in schengen, living here is a matter of 'do you have your bags packed and ready to go'discord sorokara4 if you're serious
>Gen Z men demoralized and their lives unable to start because the job, housing, and education markets are all in a death spiral to the bottom, see no point in even enduring the humiliation ritual of online dating>Millenial men, the ones who were lucky enough anyway, to just now begin building their assets to allow themselves the luxury of looking for companionship, are over-represented on dating apps because their lost decade never afforded them the opportunities their female counterparts enjoyed of being able to date and hook up while moving through early adulthood.Sorry OP the shop is all out of empathy for (you) today and I'm going to be real with you, I wouldn't hold my breath waiting on a restock.
i have never used a dating app in my life. i'm sure there are zoomers on there since they are big in the states. any anons want to confirm?>t. 22 yo
>>80079202So what if I'm a woman? I still never leave my house.>>80079207Well, generations change >>80079223Uhh I don't have a disc do you have anything else?>>80079242Honestly I wish I was millennial in my 30s. I would already move out. Have job. My own house. Etc. Being a zoomer fucking sucks.
>>80079141>no its soulless.That's the most retarded complaint I've ever heard about their own country. Who the fuck cares about soul if you have a better quality of life than 99% of the world just because you were born inside this imaginary line.
Are you Eastern European cause it explains why
>>80079282Typical dumb materialistic bitch.
>>80079268>I would already move out. Have job. My own house. Etc.LOL believe me zoomie you're suffering from acute survivorship bias.
>>80079314You are so coddled you can't even fathom having to care for your basic necessities. Kill yourself faggot
timepill is getting brutalby the time I'll be in a position to have children I'll be 30 minimum, but then young foids won't be interested in an LTR and I'll have to settle for some fat bitchthe world is literally rigged against us as men
>>80078096this is useless if we don't know where you live dumbass, every place is different.
>>80079320Well I can't become older chick over night so I have to deal with being a 20yo zoomer neet waste. Born in wrong generation.
>>80079353>as soon as I get older I'll have a job that will allow me to afford a houseThe only that would change if you were a millenial is you'd be older and uglier and more tired of everything.
>>80078014I am a 22yo (m)
>>80079382Millennial are the last generation that can afford family houses.This world literally hates zommers and want us all dead >>80079408Hemllo
>>80079419>Millennial are the last generation that can afford family houses.I know zoomers that own houses and I'm living at home closer to my 40s than I am to my 30s. You're not necessarily wrong but again, severe survivorship bias. The vast, vast majority of my age cohort are living at home or permanently renting.
>>80078014>too retarded to figure out age filters>20 year old femalechecks out
>>80079193The right to vote, own land, work, or divorce (divorce I am split on. If you divorce, it should be known for more accurate decision making. Same goes for guys.)
>>80079419>HemlloHi how are you today?
>>80079346>timepill is getting brutalby the time I'll be in a position to have children I'll be 30 minimum, but then young foids won't be interested in an LTR and I'll have to settle for some fat bitchBeen saying for years that "younger woman x older man" is becoming bullshit in modern days. Especially in last 10/15 years. Every time I go out I see young women with men in their 20s. It's literally most common couples nowadays. Young women who are with in their 30s/40s etc become more and more rare.Boomers and baby boomers were most successful with this. And maybe few gen X leftovers. Because back then women actually loved male form.HUGE majority of young women today (zoomies) are attracted to more effeminate men and most of zoomie males are effeminate. Even on r9k, right now, you can find few threads about foids wanting to fuck "twinks".Women really aren't attracted to masculine or older male from anymore. Times are changing and so are standards. And some reasons are due to feminism (masculine older men are considered scary pedo perverts).If you don't believe me go on tiktok and other similar apps. You can see its true.And not only times are changing but most of young women are consuming anime, kpop and other shit nowadays so now its logical they feel more attracted to men with that look and mentality.(For example in 1950s they almost always put Marilyn monore in some love show with older guy, in modern times its rare)Just kpop alone brainwashed 98% of young zoomie foids into chasing more effeminate men and "eboys" in general.So yeah, timepill is real.
>>80079268maybe you should try getting a job?original
>>80079268i don't have anything else. also everyone uses discord stop the larp>>80079282whats my quality of life if I die alone because this country is too normie and conformistic to have any unique people who are compatible with me?i'd trade my life for living in the US immediately. don't care about guns or danger.
>>80079534As well as womens tastes changing over time, its also the reality that most of the single guys on boards like this and out in the world in their 30s and even 40s are nowhere near as well rounded as the guys were in the past.It was an expectation that guy in his 30s would have certain things acquired over time, like lots of friends, life skills (fixing the most basic shit), good careers and all the visible things that would come with a good career, like having a nice car, a home.I've worked a few jobs over the past 5 years and in every one there were guys in their mid 30s and older who were broke, couldnt drive, could barely carry a conversation. Sure they looked ok and were mostly in good health but their lives were indistinguishable from the 21 year olds.
>>80079815Yeah, combination of women changing tastes, somethings becoming less socially acceptable and media forcing effeminate men through kpop, anime and kpop it's not really shocking young women would willingly choose guys in early 20s over ones in 30s. So yeah best thing you can do is just fuck woman your age because with zoomers girls it's just going to be waste of time for you.
>>80078014>>Most of guys are in their 40/30s and youngest one is 32i'm scared of dating apps >t. anon
>>80079902Why anon? >Not op
>>80080006>Why anon?i don't want to get catfished. i also can't trust people
>>80080069yes, i trust my family and friend. just weird to trust people on a dating app
>>80079441Can confirm. Also millenial. At first it was to save money, but then I stopped giving a shit when my wage couldn't keep up with inflation. I'd rather get dopamine and blow my money then save for a nebulous "good future" where I will be alone regardless.
>>80078096gap relationships are great anon. Let's add each other, fall in love, and get married. I have a ton of money so I can just go out to visit you in whatever shithole you're in.
>>80081271You won't fuck her, robot.
>>80081508You don't know that for sure, I've met up with 3 girls from here
>>80082314what was his name, fuckin fag
>>80082642I wouldn't touch a tranny you disgusting filthy nigger.
>>80082314Girls? More like "girls".>>80082743The fact that you react like this shows it all. You're fucking troons. Disgusting faggot. Stay away from real girls they don't deserve to catch a aids from tranny fucker.
