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Any other men can't form friendships with other guys? I don't know what my fucking problem is but it just seems impossible for me. My only friends are women and I larp as a gay guy because otherwise I know they'd stop being my friends and I would be utterly alone.
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no i can only form friendships with men
women treat me like you'd treat a dog
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>>80079054
I wish we could teach each other.
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>>80079039
You are maybe a woman yourself?
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>>80079087
I'm pretty sure I would know something like that.
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>>80079039
i know for a fact that i just can't put up with the friends of my friends
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>>80079103
Many don't realize that until later.
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>>80079039
are you super feminine or something?
What are your interests?
In what contexts do you try to make friends with men and in what contexts do you try to make friends with women?
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>>80079152
Idgi
>>80079154
I don't relate to trannies at all
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>>80079192
>Idgi
you will if you ever have male friends
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>>80079190
>Super feminine
Define "feminine".
>What are your interests?
I like drawing, I collect fountain pens, and I like cooking. I've met most of my friends from cooking and drawing classes. I try to socialize with anyone around me and whoever likes me enough I befriend. It's only worked with women I guess.
>>80079208
Godwilling.
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>>80079039
Ignore the frail masculine comments calling you feminine, I lost almost all of my male friends when I dropped vidya, anime and other male oriented hobbies. I started learning to cook and improving my life and suddenly all my friends were female. I would never larp as a gay guy, I just tell them I don't wanna date.
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>>80079287
>I started learning to cook and improving my life
>I lost almost all of my male friends
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>>80079287
Sooooo... I should become a weeb or play games all day and I'll finally have male friends?
>I would never larp as a gay guy,
I do it to avoid problems with BF's and a lot of women are very onguard around straight men.
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yeah other guys try to get on to me for being a singer and liking gardening even though both of those activities are historically male dominated/pioneered
retards are just trying too hard to be masculine these days and end up being soulless
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>>80079287
sounds like your friends are fags. I wouldn't lose my friends even if we didn't share hobbies, in fact for the most part we don't.
Also is it just me or are normies sort of starting to invade 4chan? "Frail masculine", like, what are you, a woman? Anyways
>>80079219
Feminine just means girly, like anything that's far from competition or any hard shit. I'd call drawing a somewhat feminine hobby even though it can be sort of competitive. Yeah your hobbies are feminine. That isn't a bad thing by the way, it's just what you like and there's nothing wrong with that, I draw too. If you want male friends it's ez just join any discord server ever and talk to the same people consistently and play video games with them, unless you hate video games i guess then skip that last bit. If you want IRL male friendships it might do you justice to get some male hobbies, anything martial arts related or like bouldering has left me with positive experiences in that regard. Any thoughts?
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>>80079347
>like anything that's far from competition or any hard shit
Well I'm allergic to competition lol. Fuck my life. Competing takes all the fun and energy out of anything for me.
>That isn't a bad thing by the way, it's just what you like and there's nothing wrong with that
Kind of something wrong with it if it prevents me from making friends with other guys.
>If you want male friends it's ez just join any discord server ever and talk to the same people consistently and play video games with them
I've tried that but most people seem to just play shooting games or history boardgame simulator looking things
>If you want IRL male friendships it might do you justice to get some male hobbies
I've thought about trying this but man... So many male-dominated hobbies are just too competitive for me. That, or way too expensive
>Any thoughts?
I thank you for the effortpost anon, I really do. I hope I don't sound like an asshole dismissing ideas out of hand. I just feel like I'm in a hole.
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>>80079313
L + higher T levels + bigger cock and balls + can lift more

>>80079317
>I should become a weeb or play games all day and I'll finally have male friends?
Not guaranteed. Adding some guy on Steam who I got along with in a video game was how I made a lot of male friends.
>I do it to avoid problems with BF's and a lot of women are very onguard around straight men.
Makes sense. You think they buy it? They can tell when you look at their boobs anon. Has there been close calls?

>>80079347
>"Frail masculine", like, what are you, a woman?
The irony. I'm tired of anons calling OP gay for wanting to cook instead of eat goyslop everyday. Letting others dictate how you live your life is exactly what normies do, you can be into the most girly hobbies and still be a man.
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>>80079463
settle down nigger, i'm not saying that op is a faggot or less of a man for being into feminine things. I'm just saying that he is into feminine things, and thereby is less likely have many male friends as a consequence, since he into different things than men. And I'm DEFINITELY not calling him gay for liking cooking, that's a valuable skill..

>>80079423
hey bro i appreciate you specifying that you don't mean to dismiss my ideas out of hand, and also i get where you're coming from.
You should be able to make friends regardless of video games played. But if you want a game that's specifically not competitive then you should play vrchat. I heard some anons make threads on here for vrchat on saturdays.
Just like, be cool and funny or something. That's generrally enough.
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>>80079078
i mean we can
just speak to men like you always knew them and they will like you or at least tolerate you
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>>80079054
>women treat me like you'd treat a dog
They pet you, take you on walks, call you a good boy, put a leash on you, feed you and you're COMPLAINING?
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>>80079039
No because I'm too afraid I'll fall in love with them
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>talk to men
>feel like shit
>talk to women
>feel terrified
Oh nooooooo
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>>80079649
>just speak to men like you always knew them
THIS! THIS SO MUCH THIS!



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