I actually don't want a girlfriend because it's another person I have to take responsibility for.Am I coping?
nahi cant even take care of myself, having an entire bitchy human i need to take care of too sounds like a disaster
>>80079813You're coping. You can set your own rules and regulations for your relationships.
>>80079813Not really. Life is a constant battle between being lonely and not wanting to deal with women
>>80079813>Am I coping?Yes. You just realised your not datable or worthy of reproduction so now you're doing "women/gf/wife suck" cope.
>>80079813but you get to have sex
>>80079813Yeah. Any woman worth dating is one who is capable of taking care of themself. Anything less is a child and why would you want to be a single parent to a grown woman?
yeah because you're just gonna pay for all her shit, she's almost definitely gonna cheat on you, and she'll poison your brain with regret for the rest of your life
>>80079813>be me>5'7" mixoid mutt stem major>want gf>hang out around math department>filter by 3.8+ gpa students>filter by qt3.14 status>find adorable asian girl who is very serious about academics and is very professional>ask her if she wants to study>she says yes and we start studying>eventually start dating>avoid literally every problem of the roastie/normie foid because i selected a self-assured, mature woman from my available pool>she cares about me very much>have literally never been happierthis took basically no effort too.
>>80079989>A life of comfort and convience or one with problems and SEX!Hard to decide.
>>80079813Cope. Any woman who actually gives a fuck about you (because she physically desires you) is going to be accommodating to you and wont require you to take care of her like a helpless dog. She'll happily split the bill with you and wont nag you about bullshit you have to do for her
>>80080443Sure but how many women are like that and also >becasue she physically desires youWhat about all the normal relationships which is the standard? I doubt the normal relationship is that beneficial or I am coping hard.
>>80080697>normal relationshipsidk what point mutual physical attraction became abnormal to you anon
>>80080725I thought maybe you stated that the relationship were built on just only physical attraction my bad
>>80080766I'm >>80080697 and not the anon you were responding to but I didn't interpret it that way at all. Otherwise, I would surely like to see these relationships that do not require physical attraction on some level.
I thought I made my peace and was comfortable in my situation, but an opportunity presented itself and now I'm terrified of blowing it.
>>80079813Women worthy of being girlfriends are incredibly rare, and the ones who are worthy likely won't have any interest in you unless you're 8+/10, wealthy, etc. For the average man I could only recommend forgetting about women entirely or committing suicide
>>80079813No it is in fact perfectly reasonable and there is a reason why men who have been put through the ringer will say shit like "don't get married" while it's incels who idealize and fawn over the idea of having a woman. Because people who haven't dealt with them on a constant basis don't understand that if a woman goes bad on you it can turn your life into a living hell. And even if they don't if you lock down a "good one" there are still going to be times when she pisses you off, disrespects you, screws something up, or just plain gets on your nerves.
I get it OPhave a wife and I love her but I keep worrying about her health issues and such
