I just like the idea of being needed and relied upon on more than an emotional level
You'll get tired of it.My older sister has multiple sclerosis and epilepsy and her ex-husband started beating her because he got tired of waiting on her all the time. Leave it to the professionals.
>>80086014being needed is like on the same level as 'having shelter' when it comes to need. yeah i wont die, but boy am i fucking suffering, not being needed...
>>80086014I have cerebral palsy but I would hate to make a bf my caretaker essentially.
>>80086056so what, you plan on being married and having some paid extra guy come over all the time?
>>80086043>>80086054many if not most blind people are perfectly capable of being independant.
>>80086121yeah, i know. same goes with most other kinds of women too. doesnt make me feel ok
>>80086115I would want to be able to take care of myself as much as possible, and only rely on him when .i absolutely need to. But men's nature means he'd feel the need to go out of his way.That, or just get a female caretaker. And he can fuck her if he wants to, so long I can watch.
>>80086140>he can fuck her if he wants to, so long I can watch...... is it not possible for you to have sex?..
>>80086121certainly but its the extra little things like grabbing my arm to walk around easier or asking what is going on around us.
>>80086163shes got cerebral palsy so its like a built in vibrator
>>80086163It is but having another woman so closely involved in our home life, maybe he wants to fuck her? I'm not a man to say so
>>80086184>built in vibratorayo? what does this even mean bro come on...
>>80086200>maybe he wants to fuck heri know there are many voyeur foids, many enjoy group sex, and are totally fine with me doing that kind of thingbut for me, and i assume for everyone else, if i wait a bit, and dont try to orgasm and have sex as often as possible, its always 10/10..
>>80086211>he doesn't know about cerebral palsyJust know it'll really shake up your love life.
>>80086320>shake up your love lifei googled, is it a progressive disease?i think, im just not near enough to any of yall, to fall in love with yall..
>>80086320>im just not near enoughlike, idk where id go? do i need to become a doctor? hahaha
>>80086014lilly best katawa
>>80086356It causes involuntary shaking. There, now I've ruined the joke, are you happy?
paraplegics have to finger the poop out of their bum
>>80086543>ruined the jokemy joke? i had no joke anon..i dont go anywhere, or really see anyone, this is as close i am to any of you..
>>80086560>ywn literally fuck the shit out of your parapalegic waifuWhy live bros?
>>80086573I'm sorry you're retarded AND disabled
>>80086599>I'm sorry you're retarded AND disabledthis is why i dont go out, try to be kind, fail, and just get insulted by people im trying to connect with.kekmy shotgun wants me to give it a big ol kiss right now holy smokes
>>80086014Anyone who genuinely feels this way needs to never approach another human being, like ever.If you meet someone and they have a disability and you love them regardless of their flaw and are willing to put in the extra work to be there for them when they need you to, that's one thing.Actively seeking out a disabled person so they can become completely dependent on you and seeing it as wholesome or good is just a serial killer tier lack of self reflection.Also, yay. I've had this image forever and FINALLY have an appropriate reason to use it. Thanks OP.
>>80086770>Actively seeking out a disabled personok, i wont seek out anyone anon :D>inb4 volcel REEEEEEEE
>>80086770>HOW DARE YOU WANT TO CARE FOR SOMEONE, YOU ARE A HORRIBLE PERSON, THE WORST KIND OF PERSON, YOU ARE LIKE A CEREAL KILLER IF YOU WANT TO CARE FOR SOMEONE WHO ISNT REALLY ABLE TO CARE FOR THEMSELVES, YOU HEARTLESS BASTARD
me scooping a girl out of her wheelchair to take back to my gamer cave where she will be forced to watch me redo my gleba factory
>>80086865:OHOW EVIL OF YOU ANON, THATS SO FUCKED UP, how DARE you imagine a sweet and loving relationship, YOU MONSTER!!!!!111
>>80086043>ex-husband started beating herNot everyone is a psychopath, Jesus
>>80086796Exactly, just laugh at the physically and mentally handicapped, don't try and help them. What are you? Some kind of sick weirdo?Naw, but for real though, that is some seriously redflaggish shit. It's normal to have a soft spot for the disabled but to actively want to put yourself into their lives specifically and solely for the reason that they will become completely dependent on you is about on par with something like Munchausen by proxy syndrome.It's an incel power fantasy at best, legitimately psychopathic at worst.You don't value the person, you value the reassurance that they can't leave you, even if they want to well easily being able to convince yourself and others that what you're doing is genuinely extremely wholesome.I mean.... What are you going to do when you ask your blind gf to make you the dino nuggies and she accidentally makes the car shaped ones and you don't want her anymore but she literally can't function without you?
>>80086954I think youre projecting a little bit
>>80086954>It's an incel power fantasy at best, legitimately psychopathic at worst.can i not have one shred of dignity within myself? can i not have one little piece within me, telling me, "yeah, id be willing to fall in love with a disabled lady", can i really not have this?dom i have to say that im better than them, i deserve so much better than them? is it really that bad for me to desire someone who needs me? is it really evil to desire to be needed?
>>80087011Am I though? I dated one autistic girl once like a decade ago and I felt like a complete predator when I realized just how much my words could influence her, and that one just kind of happened. I can't imagine actively seeking out that kind of relationship. I want a partner, not a pet.>>80087019No. you're a man. You have to feel like everything you do is wrong and evil and bad and you are never allowed to be happy, even when things go right. Sorry about that.You're ok man. All joking aside it's not the worst thing, just be careful with what you wish for. Even when you mean well you can find yourself in waaaaay over your head and end up doing more harm than good.
>>80087046>No. you're a man.i know, this is why im alone and cant even maintain a normal friendship. but i can give the foids here, who need the hope, a fantasy that i can conjure up, that they might find someone in their life who can love them and just care for them. im to broken and fracture to actually be him, any of the "him".but i am very good and becoming him, so that they can see a him that is at least partially real, so when they do find him, they have hope and can smile for him, and love him, and he can love them...
>>80086014Yeah, only a blind girl would date you.
