I messaged a girl on Interpals but after "hi!" she never read my messages again. This same thing happened wih 100 girls after her.HOW do I get and then KEEP their attention? I even have several fake profiles with Chad pics and the correct age etc. and I try different approaches but nothing works. Every fucking sockpuppet profile of mine gets ghosted.I have no idea what kind of fucking demigod profile they actually talk too.
This wasnt even an issue in 2014Then something happened
do you just say hi? you realize they get 100 hi's a day right? why dont you tell them a little about yourself or why you are messaging them in the opening message?
>>80086125>HOW do I get and then KEEP their attention?you dontgo outside
>>80086178This shit about telling them about yourself right at the start is a retarded meme, no conversations I had during MSN days ever started with "Hi I'm X and I like Z Y and W". No successful long-term interactions I had ever started that way. No one does this in real life either
>>80086195>>80086178In 2008 when I actually did get girls, I went straight to "hey bby *slaps ur BUTT* xDD"Literally 100% of my convos were just sex and it later on devolved into a meaningful friendship. Not the other way around.
>>80086195>>80086221idk i am an online friend collector (i'm male) and i have atleast 4 women messaging me multiple times over on a daily basis at any given day. i meet a decent amount of them on /soc/ and i always start by letting them know WHY i'm messaging them in the first place. i usually say something along the lines of i'm bored and looking for more people to talk to and that i saw that they have x hobby or are into x thing and that i thought i was interesting or i also like it.
>>80086259I dont like /sock/ and I have no idea how to talk thereMy threads often get deleted on there tooSome fucker actually posted MY photo in one of the looks rating theads
>>80086125Maybe you need to work on your social skills if even your chad sockpuppet gets ghosted
>>80086303I'm sick of the "it's you" theoryWe're SO past that. It's 2024, we already KNOW that it's the women's fault for cherrypicking too hard
Just messaged a girl who's terminally onlineRead my messageDidnt respond
>>80086316Good luck finding anyone if you refuse to do any self reflection then and choose to blame everyone else for your shortcomings instead.
>>80086316They're non-exclusive conditions you dumb fuck. Stop being autistic or rope yourself. >>80086259This nigga does it right naturally (I assume). You need to answer this questions as quickly as possible or you'll seem like a loitering nigger at 10AM outside without a job:>the 'what'What you're going to talk about, in case of the other anon>i'm bored and looking for more people to talk toNo nigger, saying 'hi' doesn't count as a 'what'Then>the 'why'Why are YOU talking to HER >i saw that they have x hobby or are into x thing and that i thought i was interesting or i also like itAnother example, the classic IRL opener:>hey I saw you from over there and thought you looked cute, and I wanted to come talk you Can you retards identify the 'what' and the 'why'?
>>80086125op, if you are this behind the curve for getting girls attention, you are better off just focusing on yourself, hanging out with friends if you got em, hobbies, vidja, school, exercise, etcgetting girls at a young age is just a meme for most of us, try not to make yourself suffer more than needed
>>80086410Are you capable of self reflection? You're completely ignoring women in this, like they were perfect by default.
>>80086509Can you control or influence women's behavior?Can you control or influence your behavior?In which of those cases you think your energy is better expended?
>>80086528So you're saying accept that women have become tyrannical overlords and it's "manly" to just accept it and spend 5 hours a day trying to find a gf which took 5 minutes before social media was bornThis was caused by technology.We need to remove the technology.
>>80086528>In which of those cases you think your energy is better expended?no orig responderhow far must i go to just get a crumb of foid attention? what is acceptable amount of "bettering myself", ie simping like a fucking weasel, til i can have a wiff of some coochie?
>>80086613>>80086626Then don't "better yourself" and keep complaining. Either way will get you no pussy based on your reasoning. Others such as my introverted manlet self choose to believe your efforts brings rewards eventually, and guess what, I've gotten pussy. Action vs no-action, but that dichotomy doesn't make sense if you think both options yield equal results. There's plenty of ugly motherfuckers with girlfriends, and plenty of cold approaches from pajeets or asians on YouTube as well. You're just an autistic loser, and it's draining even to try and give you hope with stern reasoning. I can't even begin to imagine what a woman must feel when you talk to them, in case you even do that. And I thought I hated women heh. Never change 4leafs
