Thoughts on having children? I dont have a good job and i have severe anxiety and schizophrenia so im probably not going to have children.
>>80090213I'm married with a kid. Don't do it. I love my daughter, but I'll be honest I am utterly miserable.
>>80090213I'm a wizard but I couldnt if even i wanted to
>>80090235I dont have a good job and probably not going to get one by going to college. People say if you dont have a good job dont have children. Also i have mental issues, like i said. I also dont feel very good in my life.
living in the living room is more profitable than living in your bedroom
>>80090247Yeah I'll be honest doesn't sound like you'd handle being a dad very well in your current situation. Do you want kids or not?
i have no thoughts on having childreni dont think about it for a goddamn second
>>80090264Kinda but im not getting a good job. Also i am hated by everyone. I have a fucked up mentality. Take antipsycotics.
>>80090213If you want a companion just get a pet (low maintenance) like a lizard or cat. So you don't have to become a slave for 30 years to a kid
>>80090281I want a cat so bad. Are you having kids, since you said dont be a slave?
>>80090292Obviously no, the average age of departure from a parent's home is growing every year. I don't want a 30 year old man living in my house like a teenager, especially when I'm the one supporting that lifestyle
/r9k/ convinced me to never have kids. i love my bf and would love to have daughters with him, but i don't want to a potential son to end up like one of you.
>>80090330Since youre not having kids, dont you feel like you failed since you arent continuing your family bloodline? Do you have a good job?
>>80090213I keep telling myself it'll happen one day, but realistically, I have horrible genetics. My brain and body are both completely deformed. Poor kid I'd have.
>>80090213>>80090382my fiance is 6'3 and hot so my kids would have pretty good genetics but i'm worried about the future more than genes
>>80090213I don't want children and I hear a lot of women say they don't want children, but women would still rather get with chads who pressure them to have kids than settle for incel nice guys who don't want kids like me.
>>80090280You sound reasonable in this thread at least.>>80090247I think having a good job is overrated, all these people complaining how expensive children are are doing shit like sending them to private school trying to get them become 1% top earners because they'd be ashamed of them otherwise. If you're fine with only having an ok job, your children will probably be fine with it also because they share your genes.But if you don't feel good, about this or anything else in your life, your children probably won't either. So probably not a good idea to have any.
>>80090213I want to have a lot of children and raise them to become the best at whatever they want to do. I've got the genes, status, and financial resources to do it and tbqhon America needs a new great dynasty for these trying times we're headed towards
>>80090213idk future seems grim so i think i'll pass. otherwise i might have given conceiving a child a thought
>>80090359Thank you, I wish more people behaved like this. So many people talk the talk of men are trash at best and evil at worst, and it's not entirely wrong. But few put their money where their mouth is and stop making more of them.
>>80090438I grew up with parents that had ok jobs not good ones. Thats why i said people say have a good job or dont have them at all. I feel very bad in life too. I have anxiety, paranoia everything. Schizophrenia is also genetic.
>>80090213Uhm, if God wills me to have children I won't really have a choice, but, I don't really wanna bring children in this world, without me being the best version of myself and my wife being the best version of herself. And even then I am worried.I'd still get married and fuck like wild animals, but I'm not betting on that happening...
>>80090395>fiance is 6'3 and hotAnother forced red pill, thanks anon
>>80090481Why not just start killing them? What's really holding you back?
>>80090213The idea of passing on my absolutely crippling OCD genetics is absolutely abhorrent to me, the thought of inflicting that on someone else feels like a deep crime and morally evil.
>>80090522What, killing random men? Seems like far from the best thing someone can do to make the world better. But if people stopped making them, it would probably help.
>>80090538I have schizophrenia so like i said i shouldnt have them. I have a hard time in everyday life. People also see me as a loser and outcast.
>>80090609But if you could get away with it, you would. Wouldn't you. Because men are evil, and deserve to die. It's ok, you can say it. Say what you mean. You don't have to hide your hatred. We agree with you here anon!
>>80090614people who are mentally ill shouldn't be allowed to pass on their shit genes imo, myself included
>>80090700What illness do you have?
