Halfway through another January edition
questions to get us started:>are you shipped up>do you own your own place>where did you meet most of your friends
>>80090303>do you own your own placeI do not, sadly.>where did you meet most of your friendsSchool like most people. Now to add to this list. What skills are you guys trying to learn in your 30s? It could be something for the sake of money or just for fun.
>>80090303>are you shipped upNot sure what that means>do you own your own placelmao I'm Australian>where did you meet most of your friendsWork and pubs
>>80090342>Not sure what that meansshipping is when you prefer a specific romantic pairing over other ones. you DO have multiple romance pairings, right?
>34 khv neet>spent 90% of my twenties doing god knows what on my pc and the rest going out with friends doing boring shit wishing i was someone else with different people>deep fear of driving, have my license but i always get panic attacks and freeze on the road, haven't touched the car in 5 years>still stuck at uni, enrolled at 28 but i'm taking 7 years and more for a 3 years degree, and the worse part is yet to come, did all the programming stuff but postponed all the math, now i have 8 different math exams to do>poor af, living with mom, she is getting older and sicker, almost broke her back at work, no money for a place of my own>all my i do is trying to study till i feel hopeless and depressed, then play some fighting games till i feel angry and depressed cause i still suck then i sleep 16h a day, sometimes i try to jerk off but i don't feel anything>venlafaxine numbs me to everything but without it i would already killed myself>losing my good look, deep dark circle have formed under my eyes and i cannot get rid of them, at least i don't have wrinkles cause i don't go outi can't even say i wanna go back cause my youth have always been boring and pathetic. I never felt comfortable in my own skin and wished i was someone else. I just want to sleep
>>80090303>>are you shipped upNo I'm alone for now>>do you own your own placeNo I live with my parents>>where did you meet most of your friendsHigh school, high school was literally my peak
>>80090303>are you shipped uphaha>do you own your own placeno but i'm starting to save up>where did you meet most of your friendslowbred yokelish internet communities
>>80090303>shipped upfr no cap i don't know what this zoomer slang is. it's straight up not bussin the skibidi riz, senpai.maybe rewrite that in millennial words so, like, i cant get what you're trying say, homeslice.alright keep it real. peace out.
>>80090384>shipping is when you prefer a specific romantic pairing over other ones. you DO have multiple romance pairings, right?I have a wife if that's what you're trying to ask.I've never known a 30 year old to speak like you.
>>80090430finish your degree little niggawhat country?
>>80090303>>are you shipped upI fell in love with a lesbian back in 2007, does that count? We were in this awkward love triangle with our WoW guildmaster for a while. When I said I wanted my life to be like an anime I should have remembered to specify "but not a retarded one". Oh well. >>do you own your own placeYes, believe it or not. It's a bland condo in a bedroom neighborhood but I own it free and clear. I can't take much credit for that, it happened because I got an inheritance from my grandfather. >>where did you meet most of your friendsThey all drifted away long ago.
>>80091125he did phrase that weirdly but also meaning and culture and language are collapsing, people our age know skibidi brainrot fag shit
I got selected for habitat for humanity house at a super reduced cost just this week . I'll finally move out from my mom's this year,
>>80091227>I fell in love with a lesbian back in 2007, does that count? We were in this awkward love triangle with our WoW guildmaster for a while. When I said I wanted my life to be like an anime I should have remembered to specify "but not a retarded one". Oh well.i think i remember an anon telling this story. you met in 2009 right?
>>80091655I think I've mentioned it here before at some point. we did go and visit her in 2009I guess maybe I ought to stop whining about my past if anons are starting to recognize it
>>80090336>What skills are you guys trying to learn in your 30sI'm planning on baking a cheesecake tomorrow, I can cook basic things but I've never baked.Started a new job which involves A LOT of Python coding so I should be pretty good by my 40's.I would like to learn some basic conversational Japanese so next time I go I'm not a rude cunt.
>18-29 >fine being a comfy kvh burnout on autopilot >30 >immediate panic mode, realize I have to make an immediate U turn with literally every aspect of my personality unless I want to be broke and alone forever it's over
>>80092329I'm realizing that at 39 and having a mental break. Pissing off my friends and family, looking for excuses to lay in bed all day. I need to get a fucking gun so I can do what needs to be done.
>>80090303>are you shipped upWhat? Does that mean in a relationship? Then no>do you own your own placeNo my parents pay my rent in a studio apartment>where did you meet most of your friendsI don't have any friends
>>80092329>>80092350I'm worried what I'm going to wake up one day wishing I had resolved 10 years ago to do... Perhaps learn to drive?
>>80092329im experiencing this rn except for the job part
>>80092329I bet you were also smugly dismissing the anons warning you about this when you were younger. This is the fate that awaits all the "I don't get why you normies want gfs??? I'm fine being alone" and "I have transcended the need for a gf" threads posters.
>>80092820It's more ignoring the countless other people who say the exact same thing.
>>80092820>I bet you were also smugly dismissing the anons warning you about thisoh were you one of those anons?
Im 37. All I have to say it happened way too fast. One day I was 17. Then the next moment I was 27. Now Im 37.Thats it. Thats the post.
>>80092845I'm not sure what you mean, countless other people as in normies warning about this? I don't think normies even know this sort of predicament exists, they all have experiences in their late teens at the latest.>>80092868Possibly.
>>80092909>Possiblyyou're a bluepill
>>80092909>I'm not sure what you mean, countless other people as in normies warning about this? I don't think normies even know this sort of predicament exists, they all have experiences in their late teens at the latest.>>80092329>>80092350>>80092799Three posts in this thread alone.If you see something like that from 20>30 you should think "I should avoid" and act on that thought
>>80092921I'm just older than you and have seen what happens to men in their 40s and 50s without a woman. Keep babbling about memepills and you'll turn into one of those too, at least you won't make old bones if you walk that path.>>80092945Ah. Well but as we can see here all the time, when you're young you think that you have time. I think that's one of the main differences with normies, they get out into the world and immediately work on goals and stuff while people here get paralyzed in their comfort zone and keep collecting justifications and copes. "I have anxiety", "I'm autistic", "I'm short", "I still have time I'm only 25", etc. Then they wake up around 30 because that's when you're officially not young anymore. There's no doubt about it, you start seeing the outline of your own death over the horizon, and looking back for the first time you notice the sheer size of the pile of squandered youth, opportunities and potential behind you.
>>80092998>I'm just older than you and have seen what happens to men in their 40s and 50s without a woman. Keep babbling about memepills and you'll turn into one of those too, at least you won't make old bones if you walk that path.>Ah. Well but as we can see here all the time, when you're young you think that you have time. I think that's one of the main differences with normies, they get out into the world and immediately work on goals and stuff while people here get paralyzed in their comfort zone and keep collecting justifications and copes. "I have anxiety", "I'm autistic", "I'm short", "I still have time I'm only 25", etc. Then they wake up around 30 because that's when you're officially not young anymore. There's no doubt about it, you start seeing the outline of your own death over the horizon, and looking back for the first time you notice the sheer size of the pile of squandered youth, opportunities and potential behind you.Why are you so concerned with what others are doing?
>>80093025Why care about anything? Why do anything? Why are you quoting my whole post? Why don't YOU care?
>>80093088>Why care about anything? Why do anything? Why are you quoting my whole post? Why don't YOU care?focus on yourself
l'm a 36 year old (autistic) man, but I still feel like a little boy inside.
>>80092998>"I still have time I'm only 25", etc. Then they wake up around 30Yeah I don't get this. I was a neet who had WoW open at least 14 hours a day for 5 years. I didn't just suddenly wake up. Each day (or rather night) fed into the next. I didn't lose time I just wasted it. I was sick of that at 20, at 24 I knew if I didn't start moving I'd be wanting to kill myself at 30.Over several months and years I enrolled in a CC program and got a casual job, hit up the gym & brought books that would make me think. I used every small bit of chance and success to make me do something more because anything was better than staring at my WoW character
>>80093208Also speaking of WoW, does anyone here use a SPP?I really want to setup a FFA with playerbots and have it as a survival but too retarded/busy to sort it out.
>>80092945this is the truth. please never quit, anons. you'll start praying for a terminal disease because time doesn't give a fuck
>>80093208>Over several months and years I enrolled in a CC program and got a casual job, hit up the gym & brought books that would make me think. I used every small bit of chance and success to make me do something more because anything was better than staring at my WoW characterwow that's like so inspirational
>>80093271No, it's just further adding to my thoughts that no one "just" wakes up several years later.
>>80093208>I used every small bit of chance and success to make me do something more because anything was better than staring at my WoW characterThat's cool. You just decided one day to stop playing wow 14 hours a day and did it? Way better than me. In case you're wondering what would have happened to you if you didn't stop: I have 22 max level characters, 600+ mounts, 1200+ pets, 700+ toys, and I still play 3-4 hours a day. I'm poor and fat and nobody likes me.In hindsight, your choice was better.
>>80093671>I have 22 max level characters, 600+ mounts, 1200+ pets, 700+ toysDon't know what any of this means, but it sounds valuable. Could you not sell some of these things for money and use the rest to invest in yourself in some way?
>>80090303>are you shipped upWhat?>do you own your own placeMaybe in 6 months, I just started a new job.>where did you meet most of your friendsI havent seen my only IRL friend in like 10 years but we still talk online.
if you are under 30, you are too young to be on this website. you should be on tiktok or something before that happens it can't
>>80090303i will rent until I'm dead because the opportunity cost of owning a home is higher than keeping the money in ETFs and stocks
>>80090303i met most of my friends on tinder
>>80090303>Shipped upWhat the hell does that mean?>Do you own your own place?Home, car, and land paid off. >Where did you meet your friendsI haven't hung out with a friend in probably 8+ years.
>>80090260I need spring to come so I can get out of the house and start biking and losing weightI was thin in my 20s but got fat later and I can't stand itI hate other forms of exercise, I'm lucky I like this one
>>80093671>You just decided one day to stop playing wow 14 hours a day and did itIt was a little more gradual and as above I'm still interested in SPP versions.
>>80090303>are you shipped upNo.>do you own your own placeNo.>where did you meet most of your friends>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>implying I have friends
