Have any of you managed to escape inceldom?
>>80125159I'll never escape because I'm an unattractive nice guy and I will never make the bullshit extreme effort needed to make females like me. Females expect so fucking much it's ridiculous
I'm 37 years old, indian, 5ft5, and I used to be an incel, I was depressed all the time but thanks to therapy I'm no longer incel. I mean, I'm still a virgin but now I understand that women just want someone who is polite, caring, and sincere. All this "lookism" stuff is just bullshit, man. Crabs in a bucket. since I started therapy I also managed to make a lot of female friends at work and they all tell me they'd love to date a caring guy like me, just not me specifically, because right now they're busy trying to stay afloat, make rent, and so on (the economy is in a really tough spot right now) and they just don't have the time and energy for a relationship.just the other day I was finishing my shift and waiting for the bus, a female coworker was waiting nearby for her BF to pick her up, he arrived and I saw that he was a 6ft8 muscular blonde guy. 10 years ago (before I started therapy) I would have felt intimidated by him but now that I know that lookism is bullshit it didn't even phase me. He even came up to me and said "Hey little buddy! Do you need any help reaching the top shelf?" and started laughing. 10 years ago, i would have taken it personally. But thanks to therapy I understood that he was laughing WITH me not AT me! So I started laughing too. See? It's THAT easy to make friends. Later that day I phoned my therapist to tell her about this huge milestone. She told me she was incredibly proud of me, but that we still have a long way to go. therapy can take as long as 20, maybe even 30 years.We're all going to make it, bros.
>>80125423This is unironically your average redditcel
>>80125423Best pasta on this board rn
I did. Wish I had just stayed an incel sex is overrated. Genuinely a C tier activity.
>>80125159Yeah, I was KHHV until 27 and then lost all of the letters with a girl Ive met. Like winning the lottery. Pure luck, little else to it.
>>80126958I agree. Feeling big tits is the best part but otherwise I can take care of myself
>>80125159I have only lost the "V" in KHHV because of a BBW escort with huge tits. I'm pretty sure everything else will stay the same until I die.
I was an incel until I was 20. I had sex, even had a gf for a while. I still hold the same beliefs though. All women suck and will treat you like trash given the opportunity.
>>80125423>i m still a malnourished nigger but i m not inhungry. All this nutrients stuff is just bullshit, man.
>>80125159Yeah, I lost mine at 23I joined the Army and read the memoirs and forums of some GenX chad, Tucker Max. I basically started acting like him in public until I got laid, then I got laid again, and it just kept happening. I got my body count to the mid 20s before I quit doing it and became a recluse.The only thing I gained from all that was a healthy dislike of the female gender
>>80125159Yes but only because I got lucky
"I really want to remain deluded" is what op pic is sayingIQ is real.
>>80125423kekyeah this is how they sound. Not an ounce of pride or even righteous anger. Just acceptance of bullshit.
>>80125159>inceldomThis wasn't a word when I was 20. Women are the gatekeepers of sex. If a woman that I'm capable of living and she is loving me, is willing to have sex with me, then I'll "escape" inceldom.
>>80127971>The only thing I gained from all that was a healthy dislike of the female genderDemon maxing is real...
>>80128132Well it's like racism and antisemitism, the group's own actions cause it
>>80128198I have no idea what you mean anon
>>80128209Why don't people like blacks>black actionsWhy don't people like jews>jewish actionsWhy don't I like women>female actions
>>80128217Oh I mean, demon maxing to fuck women. And then you get to see who they are
>>80125159I like the comments on that reddit post
Uhhhhh my negative beliefs towards the world just broadened over time and now vaguely targets almost everyone. I'm still delusional enough to believe in finding love but not without cynicism and disbelief as a guiding hand.
>>80128322It reads like a desperate cry for help, honestly. They're so deluded they can't do it on their own, to see reality for what it is and take steps to change it (revolt, forceful eviction of government, strikes, sabotage etc)"im so happy and thankful to be alone my whole life because I love my grandma and it means I can't hate everyone else"If he and his grandma were both young she would have 100% ignored him. Its fucking comical.
>>80128263>demon maxingI don't know what this meansI was basically a polarizing dickhead, I HAD to make sure you either liked me or hated me, and pretending my life was one big party or that I was always busy with something or another when I was just at home playing Mount and Blade or whateverWomen are retarded and fell for this
>>80128322This is the type of simpcel that will jump at the chance to be a beta provider for the first single mother to so much as glance in his directionchudcels may be cringe, but at least they have a tiny shred of self-respect. simpcels have nothing. and both groups get the same amount of sex (0)
>>80125423did you try taking baths in bleach?
>>80126958>>80126980>>80127163>>80127994How many rejections prior to having sex? If the girl approached you then you're well-above average and were never even close to being an incel.>>80127971>turboslut (former incel)I doubt you even believe this obvious lie.>>80125423If you can learn to be happy being an incel, then that's good. If you looked at the average 5'5 ugly guy you'd assume he's an incel but he's probably had sex hundreds of times with various women. You don't need to be le epin gigachad to be happy. That's just a highschooler mindset.
>>80129461>turboslutI forgot to mention I'm 38A body count of 25-ish from 23 to 38 is not that high for a dude. Also I'm a man, I can't be a "slut."
>>80129506Anyone who has casual sex is a slut. It doesn't matter if you're a man or not.
>>80125159I was an incel until I was 20. My appearance didn't change at all, but I had a drastic drop in inhibitions. After that it was easy. Women are only difficult until the first time.
>>80126958>I did. Wish I had just stayed an incel sex is overrated. Genuinely a C tier activity.you have an agenda
Nigga I cant even get a full time job
never escaped. just accepted the volcel route. never really considered myself an incel, though am by def. people attach a strawman caricature to the label, rather than taking the term for what it actually means - involuntarily celibate. some like to argue that a person must exhaust all options or put in extraordinary effort to rule out the involuntary aspect. worthless argument, considering the nature of a relationship involves mutual attraction. you cannot make other people give you a chance.i was a khhv until around ~33/34. still am a virgin. never tried - thought it'd happen by chance. i watched everyone i know seemingly get married/have kids while I had yet to even hold a woman's hand. comparing to peers, they weren't better looking or more successful. i was more fit/etc. i had a decent career. simultaneously, i am plagued by a sense of impostor syndrome and a feeling that the grass is always greener elsewhere. perpetuated feelings of inadequacy. I simultaneously viewed something being fundamentally wrong with me while never being able to identify what it was. my own introspection was the issue. the depression and over self-consciousness were. I don't have a warped self-perception, but I acknowledge I ruminate and introspect more than others. That holds me to inaction and avoidance.I waited for years for a relationship to seemingly happen by chance. thought if i met the right girl, things would click. never happened. i was always too passive, and the societal expectation is on the guy to make the first move. not going to happen when i view myself negatively. the closest I got was a female coworker (who likes me) ended up making out w/ me (we went out for drinks). she had made the move - i was trying to console her at the time (she was upset over something). I let it happen - instincts took over.My mental side ruled her out though. I didn't want to complicate job. I didn't think I vibe with her well enough to date. i'm afraid to put myself out there.
>>80130849>the closest I got was a female coworker (who likes me) ended up making out w/ mehow old was she? if you had to rate her out of 10 in the looks department what would you give her?
>>80125159I'm in incel purgatory where i'm still incel and weird to be repugnant to women, but I've paid for sex so i've cheated my way into fucking a woman and over time I'd say it has calmed me down. I'm still weird and unsuccessful with women, but i am not angry, I don't hate them, I just am incapable of attracting one and nowadays they are men to me. If I don't fuck with you, it is as simple as that. If you don't fuck with me, it is as simple as that. Only difference is they have a pussy.
I just started calling myself celibate and moved on. Ill never be rich either its no reason to call myself involuntary poor. You just don't always get the things you want.
