>Hey so how do I get girls?"Self improve!!">Did so, what now?"Go where the women are!! Put yourself out there!!">And where's that?"School">Finished it"Workplace">Only men and married women"Bars, clubs and music festivals">Yeah those just sound like places to meet drunk whores, I'm trying to find more than a hooker"IT'S ALL JUST LUCK MAN, JUST GO BE OUT THERE, JUST TRUST ME BRO"Why are they all so retarded?
>>80128059>Finished itYou have a doctorate? Wait, no you don't, and neither does any incel. They haven't even completed an associates degree. Typical incel mentality, shoot down every instance of advice, then ignore every instance where the advice is applicable and hyperfocus on nonsense scenarios, and then complain that you can't get what you want while blaming other people for your own non-attempt. You get what you deserve.
>>80128087Yeah op should just work at panda express and marry a fat immigrant coworker.
>>80128059i hate THESE NORMALNIGGERS too op, good posts asking the real QUESTIONS
>2025>Not putting yourself out there
this is a gross oversimplification. But I feel you OP.Where are all the women?where are they?In my small town it's all dudes, when I go into the city, it's all dudes. I go out to the mall, the park, a bar, the bdsm club I'm in, fuckin conventions, other hobby groups.... 85% guys.I was in some thrift stores and a fragrance/makeup store picking up some for myself on a weekday and I noticed the store was like a ghost town, one or two older ladies milling about and the cashier. Are all late-millennial/early zoomer women just neets staying at home?I want to put myself out there romantically (and not just sexually like I usually do through kink), but I literally can't find any girls. Even on dating apps there's like 7 repeating ladies within 50 miles who all don't even check their accounts. I just want to romance and care for someone, but it feels like the state I'm in is a ghosttown for women my age. :(
>>80128185ive seen older millenialls and xers call it the death of the 'third place'. Outside of bars people dont go out to particular places to hang out. Also the internet and immigration has made people distrustful and people arent community oriented now
The humans tend to be blind to other people's pain and are quick to offer bad or only facially acceptable solutions, what's new. I'd know, I visit this board often.Anyways, the incel position (involuntary celibate, not the expanded definition involving every single mentally ill and lonely person, nor the normalfag derogatory "I DON'T LIKE YOU" version...) is not enviable.It'd basically be having your happiness tied to something that is entirely out of your control. The worst type of "out of your control" too, the one dependent on other people. There are two good resolutions, one of which you have somewhat described, but a psychological problem having an obvious solution doesn't make it any easier to execute or bear through.I won't bash you or pretend like I know what I'm talking about, it kinda just is what it is.
>>80128059There is no answer stop asking normalfaggots kid. Get used to living out your life alone.
>>80128208This. For most of human history basic survival necessitated you were part of a community you interacted with every day. Most young guys have no community or social circle anymore besides school and work and immediate relatives which are usually useless to meet women by your 20s.
>>80128087I have a Bachelor's and most friends I made at uni either have one too, or have a master's after a few additional years. Still the same issue. Insanity is the act of repeatedly doing something that doesn't lead to results hoping to get results out of them, and going back to become a doctor for no tangible reason would be exactly that.>>80128180Fr Ong no cap>>80128185Yeah, it's weird. I think it's just a cultural divide in male and female spaces that makes it impossible to interact with women unless a woman either lets you in on them or you're attractive enough to constantly end up in them without knowing how
>>80128208The third place is online. The problem of people is that they should move it to face to face asap
>>80129038I have never been able to make a lasting connection online.
>>80129038I dislike this line of advice too>You can't meet them IRL anymore?"Yeah! Just meet girls online bro!">Like on dating apps?"No, it's all men there, way too hard to find a partner">So on Instagram or TikTok?"Only if they aren't huge accounts and they're from your area">How would I even filter for such accounts, especially considering a lot of them are private?"Hmm, just use Snapchat then">Well, I'd already need someone's number for that"Facebook worked in my time">Nobody uses it anymore "Meet them on Discord!">They have tons of orbiters and simps"Video games!">Am I supposed to just queue forever until a female voice picks up and then start begging?"YOU DON'T GET IT, YOU'RE JUST NOT TAKING THE OPPORTUNITIES YOU HAVE!"
>>80128059Girls don't fit in a nutshell retard
>>80129105They can if they want to >:(
>>80128059>see cute girl>approach heris this, really that hard saar?
Randomly be born tall, broad shouldered, and exceptionally handsome. Also have an 8 inch dick if you want continued interest.
>>80129374People in a very general sense do not want to be approached by strangers. And never throughout the history of mankind, with the exception of a very short time in Western history, was it the norm for couples to meet this way. People have always been in community spaces where they would constantly meet people of both sexes and build their connections that way, bit by bit.
>>80129402Not OP but I literally am all of those things with the exception of dick size, last time I checked when I was 18 and my dick was 7 inches back then. Either way, my mom was a model and I got a bunch of her genes, and my Dad is 6'2 which I also inherited. I'm jacked, 200lbs, in uni, have long curly hair that women love complimenting, and even I have no clue where to meet women I could be interested in. Shit's brutal.
>>80129465People dont want to be bothered if youre quick and straight forward youre hardly a nuisance. but i would imagine older women would reciprocate less.
>>80129743Ehhh, disagree. Romantically approaching someone out of nowhere is too personal and too big of a choice than something like "oh, can I have a quick second for my petition?"
>>80130180>be dykebot>wake up sad as per mdd>eat the same sensory safe meal>hop on 4chan>get reminded you sound retarded, youre annoying, told to kys a couple times and reminded your girlfriend cheats on you with other non walled women>now youre really sad>you want a smoke>go to 711 >another costumer starts talking to you>turns to flirting >you reject advances politely, get cigs and go homedykebot now in an elevated mood is reminded shes desirable. although she dosent like moids she wasnt disturbed by this encounter.Unless youre creepy nothing bad can really come from trying. Both parties win shes now happy and you got some practice in.
>>80128087mfw incel w/ associates
you know how you get women?>have basic social skill>look as good as you can or passable>just talk to them like you would a dude>don't be overly sexual, but just be chill and interested in them as a person>have a backbone>talk to them about stuff, listen and ask questions>if they're interested sexually, they'll drop subtle hints>see the hints she would bang and push into them a little bit with tact (women are socially covert and subtle as to not feel like or be accused of being a whore)>????>sexual profit (they'll do the rest of the social work to make it easy for you to fuck them, just follow the script they lay out and don't be a pussy faggot)that's the closest you'll get without being toxic dark triad chad. be a normal dude.
>>80130525Most retarded shit I've read
>>80130525>you know how you get women?don't care didn't ask
>>80128059if youre still acting like this and you think you're improved then ive got some bad news for you there budwhy in the fuck would anyone want to be with somebody who acts like you're acting right now?
>>80130525this dude knows where its atbasic shit is all i have as a poor person, and ive found amazing women because of it
>>80130791>amazing womenoxymoron
