Why don't you just pay for sex, anon? It's not a big deal
>>80130089I've already done that, I think i'm good for now. I don't need to. It can get expensive and these whores don't believe in doing their job. They get greedy and that is when you know you're getting ripped off.
>>80130089expensive + illegal + it'd be a hassle to navigate things to ensure I get a good experience, but I might do it anyway because the actual sex part could be very fun under the right circumstances. I think I have some idea of how to wrangle whores.
>>80130111>these whores don't believe in doing their job. They get greedy and that is when you know you're getting ripped off.what specifically transpired to make you say this?
>>80130089Because you can't buy love. They'll just see you as less than because you had to pay for it and didn't earn her companionship. >>80130128This too. If you get caught for it, it'll always be on your record and everyone will know.
>>80130089I will, just not directly with cash, and for a brief session. I'll be paying with love, and attention, and kissy kisses. For a long term session.
>>80130155Some whores specialize in faking love, anon. Male loneliness is nothing new and It's not called the oldest profession for no reason.>>80130128see above. As long as you're nut just picking up any whore like in GTA you can get exactly what you want out of it
>>80130089I hate w*men so the idea of giving them money is disgusting to me
>>80130199I'm not convinced your love and attention is valuable enough for that. only certain people can offer that a la carte and get takers.
>>80130155>This too. If you get caught for it, it'll always be on your record and everyone will know.This only happens if you're soliciting prostitution in the street like a coke addict. You can just get an escort's number and arrange whatever you need. There are no cops arresting people hiring prostitutes unless they're looking for minors or sex slaves to abuse
>>80130089it's officially illegal in my country. The most I can do is go to Asian Massage Parlors and enjoy as much intimacy as a masseuse can provide. Maybe occasionally hire a private escort to spend time with me. It's all so lonely. I wish paying for sex was legal
>>80130089i don't want sex more than i want to keep the money for when i have a wife.
>>80130089>It's not a big dealillegal and will get you placed on the sex offender registry
>>80130089I did and I regret it deeply. Not worth the risk of catching a STD
>>80130266Let me guess you live in an islamic country.
>>80130089in my country it's legal and very cheap. i've hired hookers a few times and the sex was always subpar and i always felt bad after.
>>80130285Close, I live in the USA, one of the many states that have it banned
>>80130089Who doesn't pay for sex though? Sure you may not call it payment for sex, but there was sex and you paid...
I have and it sucked. I kept paying for it hoping for some fireworks moment and ended up spending like $1k on hookers in a 5 day period. Waste of money. I mostly couldn't cum, amd felt terrible after.
>>80130251That's fine you're not convinced, I've already convinced women before so I'm all good.
>>80130265that's a shame because those street hookers are a lot cheaper and don't ask for your ID, but I guess it makes sense.
>>80130136Paying for sex more than once. The law of diminishing returns. You gamble every time you pay for sex. I don't mean with the law, they don't give a fuck unless you're trying to meet up with underage kids, but i mean with the sexual encounter. There is no guarantee you will get a good fuck, and that is what you're looking for. What you get considering what you pay for is not good. I've paid for it and i'm not against paying for it but I want the sex to be good. Simply putting your cock in a woman alone doesn't constitute good sex.
>>80130089Because I want loving sex a gf and marriage. Like, hello?
>>80130348it's up to you to make the sex good, same as with a civilian. of course it's trickier with hookers because they're jaded but there are still things you can do.
>>80130391Such as? I'm open to suggestions and information, as long as it increases my odds of getting a good nut out of the ordeal
OP Here:You guys watch too many movies. Literally every titty bar in the western world is an undercover brothel. You ever wonder why "guys would go there to get horny and not do anything else" Well it's because they do do something else. They fuck the girls. They set them aside in the private rooms and pay them to fuck. Every sex adjacent place operates like this, yes even massage parlors, burlesque clubs, hostess bars, anything like it has the potential to pay for sex if you just ask, the caveat often being they have to like you or you have to make them horny enough but it's not a big deal.There are no cops trying to arrest any of these people no one gives a shit about it. If you're resolute to not pay for sex then power to you but don't fucking obsess over sex itself it's the one thing you can just go and buy even if you want a 300 lbs woman or a 60 pound petite woman or a dominatrix or a full gf experience or even if you're a KHHV there's a whore out there that would give you what you need and treat you with kid gloves as long as you pay.Now as far as STDs there's no going around it it's risky to fuck a prostitute no argument there. Only way around it is paying an expensive escort that has constant STD check ups and then you'd be in as big of a risk as a tinder hook up.
>>80130457thank you for telling me this, I already knew it about strip clubs but I wouldn't be comfortable in one of those but a titty bar sounds a lot more doable and it wouldn't have occurred to me that that exists, sounds very boomer. how do I look for places like this?
I have nine dollars.
>>80130089I've considered it. My biggest concern is unwittingly contributing to sex trafficking.
i am deeply autistic and fetishbrained so id live with shame for all my life
>>80130089I get overwhelmed going to the grocery store, there is 0 chance I can navigate setting up and meeting a stranger for sex without melting down and going into flight mode
>>80130735>I get overwhelmed going to the grocery store How old are you because I remember being like that when I was younger. And I have some good news because it may be that you can prevent that from happening by changing the way you think, or by using some tricks.
>>80130781I'm in my 30s with diagnosed autism and social anxiety, have been through CBT and benzos, barely makes a difference
>>80130787Get a job and suffer through it until you can handle it.t. in my 30s, autistic, and used to basically be unable to go to the grocery story at all
>>80130787>CBT I've never done that. What's it like? Did you learn anything of value or was it just crap? Did they say anything about how to think about stuff or teach you any tricks?
>>80130111First post best post also it's illegal for some reason in weimarmica even though everything else is basically legal. Actually I know the reason why (it's niggers it's always them)
>>80130457>titty barhow much groping is allowed at these places before you have to go to a private room?
>>80130128Just set up a camera with the prostitute so it becomes a porno?