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post here if you’ve ever met someone from 4chan romantic or nonromantic

share your experience pos/neg anything and everything what made
you meet someone irl from 4chan

USA to Czechia F20 M22

also aua (ask us anything)
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Pretty good, we worked out, had dinner and hung out for a couple days. Gave her a hug when she left. Might meet soon a few more 4channers. We have known each other for years so we are pretty close.
Nothing sexual because she is just a dear friend you degenerates.
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>>32985220
I met a few in the real world
the most recent girl was fat, and she had facial hair
very unattractive
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>>32985245
do u just ghost those women after or
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Met a girl off this board once. We had sex but idk if she was into it, we ended pretty abruptly. Idk, after that we watch some sorta true crime show and she smoked weed. Hung out once or twice after that and pretty much all she did was smoke. Not very fun, the pot had eroded most of her personality. That stuff rots your brain worse than porn.
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>>32985232
>Nothing sexual because she is just a dear friend you degenerates.
its over for lil bro
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Met some fat American dude I used to game with, tried to make him walk up a mountain. Didn't go well. he had some kinda breakdown and started sobbing. Showed me unfunny memes irl on his phone.
That's the last time I ever met anyone from the internet that wasn't a girl pretty enough to make up for the inevitable mental illness
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>>32985220
met my ex from here. we were together for 6 years until they cheated. I then met my now husband 2 years later from here.
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>>32985220
No experience myself in that regard but if anyone has any tips on how to talk to people on here I would appreciate it. Kind of wish those dating related threads could just have you include pics since I get a lot of attention on all the dating apps I signed up to but I feel like I could only connect with someone on here or a similar site. Managed to get one person to add me so far in the span of a week but I’m too shy to initiate any conversations so it’s just given me anxiety so far and a small bit of hope that’s probably going to get dashed soon I’m sure. Don’t want to sound entitled but I feel like most of the people on here shouldn’t somehow be pickier than everywhere else.
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>>32985220
Met my current girlfriend on here, as crazy as it sounds. Funniest thing is that it originally started through an abusive relationship thread, where basically all she wanted was someone she could abuse. Eventually it became something more and we met irl

Never lose hope bros you can make it
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>>32986167
if im being honest i met my bf from one of those insane people dating threads and always posted a pixelated pic of myself desu cause posting non pixelated scared me for some reason but yeah, it’s hard to find people who are actually decent on here but i did it’s just hard but if you post on those threads people will talk to you- but the adds on disc are mostly degens looking for free nudes
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nice sanrio plushie

i met my fiance, 5 years ago now on here. it was very lucky and coincidental he lived in a city less than an hour north of me, at that time. It was in a standard discord friends thread.

he had previously adopted a fat chicagoan neet from /aan/ and was on adderall and kinda just going crazy being lonely and watching crypto charts but I fixed him enough to be functional and he's happy and all now
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Met a girl from here about 2 years ago. We had very intense 2 weeks of chatting which eventually escalated into meeting in person for a weekend. We then chatted for another few weeks and I broke it off before we met again. Things were starting to get serious, like meeting her parents and whatnot, but the more I got to know her, the more I realised she is not my type of person. It was a good experience and I learned better what I like, what I dislike, and what to look for in future partners.
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>>32985220
I don't want to share because:

1. She might still browse here
2. It makes me depressed
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>>32985519
this depressed me
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>>32985220
Bad sex, doomed to autistic nympho status
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>>32986309
did he adopt you?
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>>32985220
met my current texan boyfriend here but i don't know if he's truly into me for a marriage
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met who i thought was the love of my life but she had an abortion and is in a mental hospital half the time, then she went on some weird trip and prob is getting passed around by druggies, she just went nuts i guess
other one was rich and fell bad into drugs then cheated randomly
so yea, stay away from girls on here no matter how good it seems
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>>32985220
I met my ex gf from r9k. She was wonderful and we dated for about 3 1/2 years. She was far away, I put in lots of effort to go see her and she wouldn't come out and see me, even when I offered to pay for it. It's been about a year and I miss her a lot, I wish things could have been different because I wanted to marry her but things are what they are
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I've really only had experience with girls I've met on /soc/.

Met one girl and we dated for about two years until she cheated on me.
Hooked up with another girl shortly after that.
Met another and dated for six years, lived together for four. Mutual breakup.
Dating another girl long-distance for about the past year and we see each other often.

All in all a mixed bag.
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met a friend at a con last year, she was cool and we're closer now. she was who she said she was too so thats a nice surprise
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>>32985220
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>>32987297
Apparently i can't type

Met on soc, probably a california thread. Wanted me to let her act like she was a succubus. Said just overtly sexual and demonic things.

Met up at a park, walked to a dugout and she to her credit almost sucked the soul out of me. Never got it as good as her. Its been like 7 or 8 years.

Then she ghosted me. Sad day.
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>>32987300
brutal yeah, i feel like having a super memorable one off experience can def haunt worse than a more protracted thing. Though some people are just haunted by "what could have been's" in general.

>>32985220
I've known a girl from here for about 4 years now, and a year ago she was in my state on a layover and kinda let me know jokingly like "you coulda hung out with me oh well, better luck next time :^)" but I wanted to strengthen the relationship or show sincerity or somethin, so I got off a work shift at 1130pm, drove 6 hours north and hung out with her for 30 minutes in the airport before she caught her next flight. She was really cute and sweet and dorky, the whole thing, drive included was a really fond memory. She's really busy workin hard at school but when she gets enough of a break I'm gonna visit her and we'll hang out in earnest, which im real excited for.
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>>32987800
I just realized what made it so sad in the end.

She kept saying she could be a sugar momma if she wanted. I dared her to send me 200 bucks to cover a phone bill.

She totally sent it. Not that I would have taken her on as one solely for that but it could have helped
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>>32987300

Also I was talking to someone now from one of the contact threads.

Exchanged some fun photos. Seemed totally legit.

Was supposed to come back to my state this week and i got ghosted last week.

So that was another bummer.
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Yup. Like 13 years ago, in Portland. I think about the time very fondly, and how much of an idiot I was. I hope she's doing well.

Also I met up with someone and played DDR with him.
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>>32989561
>>32989568
It really is the unrealized what could've been. you gotta be able to be more aloof, but its tough, it feels nice to be sincere and forward.
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>>32985220
I'm from the U.S. but lived overseas for a long time. I've met at least three anons in real life: one in Turkey, and two or three in India.

I'd summarize my meetings along the following lines:
>Indian Anon #1: short, effeminate dude who was super nice in person. Stopped talking to him after he got drunk and sent a bunch of rambling messages about how he'd masturbated to pictures of my (Indian-American) girlfriend. Apologized profusely, but he'd done some other weird shit--like posting his cock in a group chat--and blocked him.
>Indian Anon #2: met eight years ago, still friends. Cool dude, if mildly autistic (aren't we all). Gotten drunk together lots of times, done some horrifically degenerate shit. Stayed with him for a month at one point, usually meet up whenever I'm in the city.
>Turkish Anon #1: I've been to Turkey a handful of times and lived in Istanbul for a year, too. We hung out a lot when I was living there. Again--cool dude, but mildly autistic (but aren't we all). Got shit-faced more times than I can count. Favorite memory is when he decided to walk to the metro, got lost, and called to say he had to crash at my place. Dude got completely fucking lost, couldn't explain where he was. I was standing outside and looking around, suddenly he says "I'm at... uh... uh... fucking Obama, man." And then I see a black dude walking down the road and realize he's at the end of the street, kek.
>Indian Anon #3: Met once or twice, can't remember. Were going to meet again last year, but I was busy with personal stuff and couldn't cut the time. Again, cool dude, sort of autistic. Smoked some cigarettes and walked around, haven't kept in regular contact but have tentative plans to meet up when I'm back in town.

I'm married and not a faggot, so it's only been platonic meet-ups. Can't complain, and have been friends with two anons for 6-9 years each, respectively. Three out of the four were reasonably normal, nice, and chill people.
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He broke my heart. Never again.
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>>32994232
no one likes you anyways fatass
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Yup! Once spent a night with a guy from here for a threesome. Green text time

>Me and the bf were in a phase of trying out a load of stuff.
>Had a handful of threesomes and loved them.
>Get chatting to a guy on here who was going to the same anime convention as us.
>Fun chat, light bit of flirting, "joke" about how he could join us for a night.
>Meet at the con, he's really nice and we have a couple of drinks together on night one.
>Keep bumping into him throughout the weekend. Always a fun chat, getting on really well.
>Sat night party, few drinks, meet him again. It gets quite flirty.
>Give him our hotel room number and tell him to come over in about 20 mins
>Knock on the door
>Answer it wearing just bra and panties.
>Pinned against the wall within seconds of the door closing
>Spend the night getting spit roasted and then taking turns on me.
Fucking amazing night, still gets me worked up
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>>32985220
girl from a discord server flew across the country to take my virginity. we flew out to fuck a few times then stopped talking. she let me cum inside and everything. pretty cool
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>>32994261
Based!
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Met a guy on a cuck thread through kik that turns out to be a pretty chill guy aside from our entire dynamic and all.

Early 30s smth white dude (10yrs older than me) with a pretty good build

His job meant he tend to travel around Asia so he got a chance one time after chatting a few months to visit.

Stayed at my place and we spent like a week itself having late night talks and playing smash.

Also a bunch of horny stuff that were just lowkey fulfilling our fantasies like having him meet my girlfriend or jerking off and stuff.

Was less horny than I thought but made a best friend that actually want to rape my gf so thats nice.
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>>32994286
thanks, you too
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I really want to meet a guy from 4chan and slowly fall in love together. We start edating and when we meetup it would be the best thing ever. We would hold hands and hug and just be comforted in eachother's presence. Every guy I've tried to meet from 4chan or online has just used me for esex and ghosted me, though. I'm a retarded gullible autist so I trust people too easily. Never met up with any of them. I want love !!!!!!!!!!!!! Reading all of these stories makes me happy.
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>>32994302
This sounds like a dream, too good to be true. Add me. Discord: mello_129
I couldn't ask for anything more then having a loving partner by my side, enjoying life and each others presence together. I'd want to show affection and for us to be comfortable in each others company like picrel (⌒_⌒)

>>32990726
>>32992860
Above is me
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>>32994660
Although I might fall asleep too sometimes (*ノ∀`*)
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>>32994232
You broke my heart first
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>>32985220
Romantic: met up with a tranny I had been calling with for a few months. She made me wear a blindfold so I couldn’t see her, while she blew me. We did this twice and the first time she did it twice so she’s done it 3 times I guess. Before she did it I was so horny I was just acting like I knew it was a woman when really I had a lot of doubt I just didn’t care, based off her voice and interest and way she spoke. We met up and cus of the blindfold I couldn’t see her. I’m straight btw. She had big man thumbs and house was kinda messy and smelt of man smells and she had a thick spiky mustache. So made me think she was a guy. I had to imagine it was some MILF porn star blowing me the first time to cum and the 2nd time had to imagine I was being jerked off by a colleague and jizzing on some girl. Either way, used up old whore good for bj’s but not much else. Good luck sticking with a man for more than a few years before u cave in and blow some rando again, T, you wrinkly old slut.

Non-romantic: I traveled to Ukraine last year a few times, and advised a guy who wanted to go on an adventure there, how to do it basically. We met up once and had a dominos. After my fiancé (who I met in April) kicked me out of her house in June, he let me stay in his hotel suite for a week and we basically hung out, it was really chill, and we should hopefully meet up again sometime in the future.

Romantic/Non Romantic: met a cute femboy on Omegle, this still counts as he browsed 4chan. I was mainly his friend but also had a minor crush on him. I traveled to Utrecht and Amsterdam in the Netherlands and we hung out for a few days, but I secretly hoped he would invite me to his home to blow me, and for I to blow him (he’s a femboy so it’s not gay) but alas, he never did.

I’ve met a few people irl who happen to browse 4chan but that doesn’t really count I guess.
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>>32994302
I won't hurt you as long as you keep posting cute pics like this.
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all my best friends are from 4chan
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>>32994300
Got a Kik at all?
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Met a mid-30s woman off of /soc/. We bonded over pissplay. Met up once in a park. Did lots of heavy petting and fondling but nothing more. Ghosted me after because I was very young. Good times.
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>>32994302
tfw when she never added you.
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I am in a different city state supposedly meeting someone I been talking to since November as friends that I planned 3 weeks ago. She ended up playing a video game with her other friends than seeing me. Yeah, I am the biggest fucking loser of all time and have been screaming into my hotel pillow. I am such a fucking loser, an absolute fucking loser.

I coped by making arrangement with another friend and we had a few drinks, didn't share how much of a fuckup I am about why I'm here. Made some excuse that I'm here to do XYZ and he bought it all; didn't want to trouble him with my retardation. Went around the city looking at historical places because I like History, but now I'm in the hotel accepting how pathetic I am.

I really did just want to meet her as a friend, she made it abundantly clear she was not interested anything more than that and I told her I accepted that. Still, she blew me the fuck off... Over something I planned 3 weeks ago to play video game with her friends.

I hate myself, I hate myself a lot. Always have, always will.
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>>32998435
Your mistake is that you arranged a meetup with a woman that clearly wanted distance between you and her. She probably liked the attention online but had no intention to commit. Bonus points if you bought her stuff or listened to her as if you were her personal therapist. Next time you proposition romance and a girl friend zones you, just leave. Being “just friends” with someone that you are actually deeply attracted to almost never works. She clearly saw you were trying to make things more serious and she bailed. She doesn’t care about you man, sorry.
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I've been waiting to post this story somewhere but never had the chance. It's honestly just too bizarre.

In an unrelated thread to either of our interests, some guy who lived in the city next to mine DM'd me on discord and said he was nearby and we seemed similar. Honestly, I'm a bit of a weird guy and I tend to attract... unsavory people, into my life, so I should have known maybe there was something up with this guy but I really am just the type to open myself to any connection and see how it plays out.

I'm pretty sure this guy had some extreme mental illness and possibly psychopathy; just from the state of his apartment alone there was something totally off about this guy. He knew it, too.
We formed a close friendship and started working together on some local video projects. Nothing too crazy, but we found in each other a similar inspiration for stacking that cheddar and making it out of our crummy little area and shitty dwellings (his situation far worse, grosser, and moldier than mine but regardless).
We ended up drinking one night together and I picked up one of my girlfriends that lived near him. It took him all of a day or two to snatch my girl form me?
This was after months of us hanging out all the time and me being pretty vulnerable with this guy - which is of course my mistake.
He came out of the blue and appeared as the perfect boyf for this girl I'd been obsessed with (and fucking) since highschool. They're still dating, and I even got cucked by my other girlfriend.
Shit sucked, total freak, this is really just the tip of the iceberg of weirdness. He might even see this, as I'm sure he still browses this board, which if you do hi K i hope you enjoy and don't commit any crime
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>>32998445
I appreciate your sincerity without humiliating me anon, really, thanks.
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>>32998451
>one of my girlfriends
Fuck you man. Reminding us of the absolute retards out here who can get a girlfriend while I'm here alone.

How the fuck you had more than 1 girlfriend at a time plus managed to get cucked by both.

atleast on the bright side if you managed to get multiple gf's then there is hope for the rest of us that have an above room temperature iq.

Nvm i'm not mad anymore, sorry for the mean intro. Can't be fucked to rewrite this shit.
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>>32998473
you're calling me a retard is it cuz i got cucked or...?
i think an incel guy who's upset at men for getting play is obviously a secret femcel and should just transition and get ready to get borked by the real chads.

I'm glad you're not mad anymore but I wish you'd just let me give you advice because it is easy to get pussy it's more about an internal thing rather than focusing on what the women are doing. IQ lol
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>>32998435
Is what it is bro. I wouldn't have went that far but I can understand why you would.

Just make to sure to learn from this mistake.I wish you a speedy recovery. Don't let this get you down champ.
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>>32998473
I got cucked by this dude because him and my ex gf/mistress both had BPD, apparently
The other cucking was because I had gone through too much spiritual gnosis and I didn't understand the true nature of reality or sexual fetishes yet
I got cucked by a mullet-stache chad on hinge
Both of these girls were hot skinny blondes
The ex friend/ex-gf pair are both anorexic lol im sorry i shouldn't be sharing this but they're just both so psycho
I fucked up by saying "you guys are perfect for each other" after they had the same indie emo music taste and they both used that to gaslight me by saying i wanted to get cucked and they both lied to me about their affair. but the aforementioned burgeoning spiritual gnosis allowed me to immediately sus it out.
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>>32985220
Met up with a guy I met on here a few years back when I was pretty low and miserable. We got a hotel room together, and I let him fuck him. We stayed from Friday to Monday morning and by the time I went home, I was sore, had numerous bruises and bite marks and felt exhausted. Can't say it was bad, and I agreed to it, but looking back it makes me feel gross as hell. He came so much and was super creepy.
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>>Men I've Met
Met a gay guy on /tg/. Still talk now and again 10 years later. Nice guy.

>>Women I've Met
Met one who went to my college. She was very pretentious.

Met another one who lived nearby. Went to meet her and she was kind of boring.

One ended up not being from 4chan but had her contact posted there. Ended up together for 10+ years. Ended the relationship because, despite being more normal, had become very entitled, spoiled, and basically turned asexual.

Met one who was pretty and nice enough but was planning to cheat on her boyfriend with me while he was gone and ended up getting super drunk and high on mushrooms. Spent the whole night talking with her about her traumas, etc.

Met another one who I dated for a little under 2 years. She was a legitimate psychopathic narcissist who ruined my life. My head and my nervous system are basically destroyed from her. Not sure I'll ever be normal again. Sucks.

Met one who I told I did not want to date anyone because of said trauma who invited me over. I told her I was not going to be acting normal because of the stuff I was going through and because of the medication I was on at the time. Proceeded to get drunk and get super upset that I wouldn't just fuck her. Then acted super drunk and like she needed to go to the hospital to get me to put my fingers in her throat to help her throw up. Found out after she has a 'gagging/throwing up' kink.

Met another one who acted decent online but in person was super weird and immature and gave me red flags that made me think of my abusive ex.
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>>32998485
I'm just still salty that a chink turned me down when I asked them on a date. Was my mistake for even asking a chink, I should've known they're all super selfish and delusional. This was months ago desu don't know why she's living rent free in my head, I guess because she was below my league that's why I'm extra salty.

I wouldn't consider myself an incel or femcel.
>>32994660
^is me, so you can laugh.

I mean share your advice by all means. But it kinda sounds like you attract crazy bro, I don't know how you can get yourself in such situations. I'm kinda looking for something bit more substantial.

And yh I came down too harsh on that post without even having much context. soz.
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>>32998512
That was a wild ride my man. Based on your pic and what you wrote about yourself it's definitely your own choice to not be drowning in pussy. I would say the racial attitude is throwing me off a bit? Maybe it's different overseas since I'm in America, but I'd drop the schtick or find a girl that likes race-play.
Your read is spot on and your surprisingly lucid in the thread once you got going. I added you to give you some advice hopefully, I think that your heart and mindset are definitely in the right place but you'd do well to put a better foot forward (coming from someone who likes to lead with opposition and deviance)

Try meditating or picking up a new hobby or journaling or something. It's not gay cuz you're an artist. Don't let any bitch live in your head it's not worth it and will ensure you attract the same type of bitchery again. t. living example
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I found my ex BF on 8ch in summer 2018. He has ruined my existance and caused me to become almost homeless, now I pay over 10 K rent debt he left me (in total) so I have about 200 (2022) to 300 (now) € to live off each month. Never again.

The only good thing is that he motivated me to start stealing, now I became very adept in it but otherwise I only need to do it because of him so it equals out.

The other person I met here was 11 / 10 as bf / husband material but unfortunately again has the wrong nationality so we can't be together anymore.
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>>32998631
I'm sorry for your loss. but this reads like one of them chad memes the incels always joke about.

Was he like way out your league, used you then dipped? How did you even end up in that scenario. Why are you in debt? You were spending money on him. Isn't it supposed to be the other way round?

Also isn't 8ch the one that makes 4chan look tame, I swear it's only on the darkweb now. If so how do you find a bf from the darkweb in europe no less. Do I have a better chance on 8ch then here?

Also what do you mean the wrong nationality?!?!? Do you need a green card?
>unfortunately again has the wrong nationality
>again
how many bf/ husbands have you turned down because of nationality.

Please tell me I'm reading this the wrong. Please give me hope.
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>>32998495
>He came so much and was super creepy.
lmao this part is so funny for some reason. did the cumming make him creepy or something else?
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>>32998706
Lol not the cumming itself, more of his personality and demeanour and how he talked to me. Him cumming like a fucking fire hydrant was just kind of gross since I'm not a huge fan of it on me and he was super into it and kept asking to do it.
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>>32998730
that fucking sucks, hopefully you gained some self-preservation to not do something like that with someone who is creepy again. the cumming is hilarious though, makes a gross situation funny at least because it's so absurd
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>>32998495
Kek.

Thanks for the laugh.
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>>32998740
Yeah, it's something I definitely wouldn't do again, at least not with someone I barely know like that. I was younger, depressed and had a ton of self-hatred, but it would have been all too easy to end up missing. I think my outcome was honestly probably fine considering the alternatives. And yeah, It was almost unbelievable how much this guy came and how even after a few orgasms, he'd still be shooting ropes.
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>>32998747
Welcome to the cum zone
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>>32985220
Only actually met one so far, but my 3 best/closest:
1 - the one I met, she lived 45 min away, we already sexted but she wanted to have a "platonic" date first before doing anything irl, so we got dinner and drink after a work day, it went ok, she had fat tits that I groped in the parking lot which she liked. Was supposed to continue meeting but I didn't message her for a couple days and she freaked out. She was poly and married to a cuck and I wasn't interested enough to keep pursuing that lol whatever.
2 - Very attractive but autistic/neety as fuck 19 year old living at home, lived 1.5 hours away, we sexted hard for a while and discussed meeting up but she was very nervous about it. One day she sperged and deleted her discord and I haven't heard from her since. I had good intentions not to fuck with her, still it's probably for the best that we didn't meet up cause she was super vulnerable and probably would've ended messy, still she feels like the one that got away I really wanted to meet her.
3 - Currently talking to mentally ill (classic) late 20s girls near same age as me, actually feel a connection with her and want to meet her, but that one would require a plane trip and she is being incredibly retarded with her communication. I want to meet her but I feel like she is dong everything she can to self-destruct the situation and not let it formalize. Hopefully we do meet eventually but idk we'll see
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>>32999970
He really took advantage of the time we spent to get out as much as he could, I really wish I knew just how much he spent
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>>33000037
What’s your ASL?
Would you meet up with anon again?
>i fucking hate this new captcha wait 60 seconds to post bullshit
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>>33000063
I'm 25, East Coast USA, and I wouldn't meet up with him again. I'd still be open to meeting up with people, but it would be a lot different than that time.
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>>33000068
Oh ha yeah I meant like meeting up with different people, you clearly have no interest in seeing that dude again. Did you have a room because you were traveling or just at the time neither could host
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>>33000079
A little bit of both, neither of us could host (or wanted to in my case) and we agreed to meetup sort of between where we lived, so it would be easier travel and we just kind of picked a decently sized place. I honestly thought it'd be nice to go out and do something, but obviously that didn't happen.
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>>33000089
I’ve done the all day bang sessions in a hotel before. They’re great but like.. I don’t know if I’d want to do them anymore. Gotta get out and do something, eat something, drink something, see something. And then come back and fuck
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>>33000094
That would have been nice for sure. At the time I kind of just went along with it, didn't voice that I wanted to do other things, and I felt like I deserved to just be treated like that for the weekend. Now if I met anyone in a similar way, I'd definitely want to get out and do some fun stuff or sight see.
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>>33000118
You seem to have recovered from that mentality at least. Was that the only time you’ve met someone from soc? Do you have any contact info?
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I recently met up with a guy and desu I don’t wanna be too specific for that reason but he was just so, so awkward. I knew he wouldn’t be the pinnacle of neurotypical extroversion because we met on 4chan but fuck, man. Glad we don’t live in the same state.
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>>33000140
Yeah, looking bad on it is kind of rough but I agreed to all of it and did enjoy some of the sex so it wasn't all terrible. That was the only time I met up with a contact in person, and what an experience it was lol I might drop my throwaway kik later when I can remember what the hell it was
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>>33000155
For fun, how would you have preferred for him to finish? I don’t fire hose cum myself desu, sounds fun but messy, but I’m a male.
>trying to remember throwaway kik info
God me too senpai
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>>33000170
I usually prefer inside of me somehow, and I was on birth control at the time, so it would have been easier if he just came in my pussy. I'm sure it would have presented its own issues but it would have been better for me and it's not like we really left the hotel anyway. Definitely not much in my mouth, because he did that a few times and I wanted to puke instantly, and I'm not usually bad with cum in my mouth. We did anal a little, but he never came in my ass, that would have been fine too.
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I met a guy from Soc. He was older and way more experienced, and I didn't want to seem like I was lame, so I pretty much let him do whatever he wanted to me, which was everything. A 40 year old guy fucks way different than a 20 year old, and I had multiple orgasms. I still get off to the entire experience, and I haven't had another like it, but ifni could change one thing, I wouldn't have sucked his dick after he put it in my ass.
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>>33000192
As a 40 year old guy, this reminds me of a meet up I had recently, but she wasn't able to cum at all. Only been with one girl that self conscious before. But I tried for days, literally. We still both had a great time but it would be nice to find a girl more local, and more interested in an ongoing or committed thing. Glad you had an unforgettable time. I did too.
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>>33000184
All of this is right up my ally, damn. Especially a chick into butt stuff. P in V raw is the best but the option for a little ass play is cherry on top. Do you have a pic you can post of yourself femanon? Censoring any part you don’t want shown of course
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Haven't done it in a decade, but I fucked one girl I met through /r9k/ and arranged a threesome with one of the camwhores from here. First girl was an enjoyable person: good conversation, similar music tastes, and almost killed me via suffocation of her tits while slamming down on my cock in a parked car under the sun. Met a couple times after but some other anon knocked her up and went to prison.

Second was sweet and I basically had the place to myself for the weekend so I fucked them while they ate each other out. Our living situations were unstable so we didn't go more, but the experience still lives within me. Now everyone either works too much while still being poor or they have no means to travel. Sorry if your experiences weren't fulfilling; you never know how compatible you can be with strangers even if it's just physical.
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Met up with someone from here, we hooked up and dated for two weeks before he ended up blocking me for intruding on his privacy.

that's my most recent and more memorable ones, now I'm long distance dating again but I prefer someone close to me in location but beggers can't be choosers since my real life boyfriend blocked me.
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>>33000211
lol to be fair It's more like I'm okay with the butt stuff rather than super into it. And yeah, raw sex is certainly the best, I hate using condoms so I got on bc but haven't been on it for awhile now, so back to condoms sadly. I think I'll wait on the pic, at least for now.
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Met up with a girl I contacted in the southeast us thread. We met at a local favorite bar of hers because I just happened to be passing through her town while traveling, she was incredibly sweet and cute with stunning blue eyes. Bought us a few drinks and food and we talked and walked down to a nearby river for around 3 hours before we had to part. I thought about kissing her as we hugged goodbye but didn't want to make things awkward yet later I asked her about it and she said I could have so I feel like an idiot for missing out but we plan to meet up again sometime soon. Overall a great experience.
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>>32985220
Emma, Marie, Miranda
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October 2018. Ran away from my abusive home a few weeks after my 18th birthday to go and be with the man I loved, a man I met from 4chan.

I was legitimately street homeless for about a month, then got taken in by a friend I made and ended up breaking up with the guy I left for and lost my (or our, I should say) virginity to.

I’m fine now and that whole thing is behind me now, but it’s almost like a weird fever dream because my life as I know it today wouldn’t be the way it is had I not made that decision, irrespective of him.

I wrote to him a couple of Christmases ago and he never wrote back. Is what it is.
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>>32985220
how do people even meet other anons on here? id be way too scared to do it, shit is embarrassing too
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>>33000192
As I get closer to 40 I'm way more interested in making it interesting rather than trying to cum. With my wife I bend her all kinds of ways and try new lubes and toys all the time. The way I fucked when I was 20 wasn't bad but this is better
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met the only real love of my life here in august 2018. i think i posted my discord in an ideal bf/gf thread and he was one of the (many) boys that added me and the only one interesting enough to keep in touch with. by jan 2019 i went to paris (where he was living) and studied abroad and basically lived with him the entire time. we were off and on after i went back to america may 2019, ended up moving back out to france (this time to the south, where he was living) as soon as covid would allow, which was sept 2021 to may 2022.

pros:
>genuinely was the love of my life
>never felt intimacy like that
>learned a lot about myself, the lengths id go to for love, what i want and need from a partner

cons:
basically long distance doesnt work if you both arent 100% invested in making it work. i always knew what i wanted and how much i loved him and i was willing to pick my life up and move to him multiple times, but visas only last so long. i wanted him to marry me, mostly just so i could stay and we could keep growing our relationship, but he was wishy washy and didnt want to commit to that. it was the hardest breakup of my life. ive dated others since him (even before him) and no one compares. its been nearly two years and im still not over him.

but i dont regret it and i guess the romantic in me keeps hoping maybe one day he’ll reach out again
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>>33000878
Damn, raw sex is best sex, fucking love when a chick says I don’t need to wrap up because she’s on BC. Bummer about being off it but stay safe senpai. Keep the mystery alive! But do reply if you remember the kik
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i feel like most people here are serial killers or it would just be awkward af lmfao
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met some psycho bitch on here who went state to state having babies and abandoning them with you retards
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>>33001339
That’s rough. As an American I would personally never seriously consider dating someone from here unless they were pretty much a one in a million case by my standards. On the off chance they’re okay physically, the same doesn’t usually apply mentally. Just telling doctors I’m not on drugs for any mental issues gets me a lot of disbelief these days. You would probably be better off staying more local.
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>>32998501
>My head and my nervous system are basically destroyed from her
Elaborate.
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>>33001141
Talk/ voice call for a while, eventually arrange to meet up. That's it
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>>33001339
>gets American to fly across the world to be with him
>she's literally begging to be married
>refuses to marry and American has to go back home
>she still wants him to get back to her

wtf am I reading. Was this dude an aristocratic french prince living in a luxury villa in the south of france or something?

Also sounds too much of a coincidence that you were studying in france at the same time, If i'm reading correctly you studied in france so you could be with him more.

How is it even possible for the relationship to be so one sided from the female. It's understandable if you're from the third world and get with a frenchie but you're american. The only other time this dynamic plays out is in some traditional countries in eastern europe or khazakstan,etc where the females value is tied to the man she marries, in them kinda places women are desperate because if they miss out on a good man you're life can unironically be over.

he didn't travel for you nor did he help you on staying any longer. reads like he only kept you for company. Did you not want kids or some other deal breaker? I'm genuinely curious why he turned you down, generally men will turn you down if you won't be a mother or he knows he can get better, in which case he was above your league. And considering he hasn't talked to you since he has succeeded in finding better.

I want to know more about this guy, he's literally living rent free in femanons heads. The french king of rizz.
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>>33002529
it seems pretty simple anon, they formed a strong bond and she became attached. From the way you're writing about it it seems like you have this idea that all women are more aloof and generally calculated about relationships, but you know they're just like you or me. They can fall hard and have a love that burns beyond reason. I know I've felt how she's feeling, it's a tough thing to go through.
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>>33002551
Yh now that you mention it my view is a bit fucked. I guess it's cause no one gets attached to me nor have I been able to attach myself either.

I just want love dammit (ノ_<。)
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>>33002622
I'm sorry anon, I know it can be tough, and I wasn't trying to be antagonistic. I would just say that that sort of assumed delineation can show through when you're talking to people, and it's not a great look if ladies get a whiff of it. It's tough not to get jaded if you've been out of the dating game for a while, but the best thing you can do is approach with sincerity and build a foundation of comfortability within yourself and life. If it's clear that each date or interaction holds too much value for you, like you need it, its intimidating for the other person, and can sort of hurt your chances. It's tough when you really want it but you gotta be of the mindset that its ok if it doesn't work out. Besides that the best thing you can do (imo) is lead with your interests and be genuinely passionate about them/ generally warm. The rest is up to whether there's a connection or not.
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replying to the replies i got on my post but if i get a new ID i swear im the same person im just on my phone lol

>>33001570
not sure if this wasnt obvious but i am american so im kinda confused by your reply? unless youre trying to give my french ex’s POV? also desu after spending so much time in europe, i think i do want to move there and raise kids there, so it kinda poses an issue with me trying to find any longterm relationship while im still in the US. hopefully can move there forever by the time im 30 (at least thats the goal)

>>33002529
nah, he was no aristocrat. i think he just had standards i didnt meet. we were admittedly toxic. and i dont think he was sure of what he wanted in the future like i was (marriage, kids, etc.) or maybe he was sure that he wasn’t sure he wanted that with me?

re: studying in france, i had specifically mentioned in my post that he originally added me from that i was learning french and had just come home from a summer doing an immersion school there. i was in between applying to study abroad in paris or dakar, decided on paris because of him and my family really didnt want me to go to dakar. but he wasnt the sole motivation, it was already in the works

ive always wanted kids, im not sure if he did (he went back and forth on it a lot.) i think he just didnt like certain qualities about me (thought i was too predictable, thought i was lazy, thought i was undisciplined, thought i was annoying at times.)

he was admittedly more conventionally attractive than me but when we first met i was the one who had been in previous relationships, was in school, had made a few great academic accomplishments, had many friends, and he was a virgin NEET. since we broke up, he made friends, is employed, obviously isnt a virgin… i think our relationship helped him more than it helped me, and i gave him the confidence to realize he could have a more fulfilling life, and then he wanted better than me. but idk maybe im being too hard on myself
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>>33002551
thanks for being understanding, i appreciate it
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>>33002655
I'm an ex salesmen. I know it too well the affects of desperation, people are repulsed by it. They can feel it the moment you lock eyes.

It's kinda funny how nature works huh, when you really need something to happen, when you're jobs on the line, when everyone's lost faith in you, when you're working unpaid overtime every fucking day, all you can feel is desperation, just one fucking deal, just one person, just one phone call. Yet if you cave it's already over.

instead you just act like nothing is up, like you are the top dog and everything's under control.

I've been doing this all my life yet the girl in the white dress never show up. "out of the dating game" I was never in it.
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>>33002529
also, not to keep saying more on this, but i do respect him for cutting ties with me. he knew i loved him too much to ever end the relationship and he knew he didnt love me enough to give me a real commitment.

i dont think people realize how stressful it is to be attached to someone that lives in another country. even when we could be physically together, there was always a looming expiration date that coincided with my visa. i think part of that scared him as well because we couldn’t naturally see how things progressed with time, and i was very aware of the fact that i only had so much time with him and put immense pressure on him because of it.

i do wonder how things couldve turned out if we were both local to each other and could just revisit our relationship without the anxiety of visas or the need to buy a flight to see the other. and obviously i was hyperaware of the fact that he never bothered to come and see me and i was always the one flying to him.

if he were local, or even just lived anywhere in america, i think our relationship wouldve played out a lot differently because i wouldve just fully moved to where he was and there wouldve been less pressure on both of us
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>>33002725
I don't know if I can fully relate anon, I did date in highschool and a lil post college, but I have also faced a season of loneliness. Grappling with the onset of bpd and refusing to accept it led me to self isolate for about 4 years, not dating, not socializing, not knowing what I wanted to do besides feel better. I lost the rhythm to the way I spoke and the understanding of why people interact at all. My point being, many people find themselves in the pit. I say this not to make light of the pain you're in but to show that there's a well worn path that leads back out. Focusing on finding a fulfillment within yourself is an important part of that. If you think you have depression you should seek help for that as well, or you may find that dating is not the full fix when you do finally get it, and then you'll feel more lost than you ever have. I don't think you have to fake wellness, I think you're better served sincerely pursuing it. I hope you can find it within yourself to start heading that way, anon.

>>33002722
Of course, anon. And just to speak on your post a little bit, I think it doesn't help anyone to think of the post relationship as a matter of being at odds. I know how tough it is to come out of a relationship and feel like it left a hole in you that can't be filled, whereas the other person walks away as if they didn't feel anything at all, but you just have to not focus on that aspect. You are in part a mishmash of everything you ever experienced, including your time with him. The best thing you can do for yourself is to try to accept all of that, and look forward. It's ok to mourn what could've been and miss him, that's human and important, but you've gotta try to see a path forward, even if it seems unclear or isn't as pretty as that dream of getting back to the guy. All things pass, even the really hard things. Today and tomorrow and the day after are all new day's, and I hope you'll find your way to them.
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>>33002720
>wants to raise family in europe
I'll give you an easy out if you will have 5+ kids.

I can accommodate you in Europe and give you the ability to live here permanently, you wouldn't have to work etc, just abit of housework. have other family residences in other parts of Europe. One of them being on the Mediterranean sea. Kids can enjoy the beach life wouldn't have to be all doom and gloom here in england.

You can judge/laugh at me here
>>32994660

But from how it sounds you will die with this guy living in your head. With that I can't fix nor help. I can kinda understand now when all the schizo anons go about only marrying a virgin, seems like you have romanticized him so much no man will fulfill that for you even if he was better.
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>>33002751
thanks for the advice. i guess ive been trying as hard as i could to move on, but ive struggled to find anyone that even slightly compares to him. i wish i could stop comparing people to him, but i feel like its a good metric. i dont want to waste time on someone that cant meet my needs as much he did (or ideally surpass him.)

ive dated since him, but it’s just been a bunch of duds. i want to fall in love again and am open to it, i just dont want to waste another 4 years on someone that isnt serious about me. that scares me more than being alone; falling in love AGAIN and going through the pain of disentanglement AGAIN.

>>33002760
sorry anon, not interested in having more than 2 kids and not interested in someone desperate enough to simp for someone they know barely anything about. im also not sure i see myself as a SAHM, at least not for forever. i currently make $85k and would like to work, in some capacity, even after having kids, or i might go insane
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>>33001611
PTSD from abuse. Mental health is now garbage now. Went from being a normal healthy person to being suicidally depressed. Don't see value in myselfl anymore. Self image destroyed. Barely see myself as a person anymore let alone desirable.

Nervous system is no longer regulated. Responds to everything in unexpected ways. Will just be sitting around and suddenly I feel like someone is trying to kill me. Went from being a leader in my communities and very successful to not being able to go outside without breaking down and screaming or crying. Went from being very social to being stuck pacing around my home crying and hitting myself, etc.

It's hard to explain, but it feels like my emotions and responses are basically no longer connected to anything logical or under my control. Just feels like my body is flipping out in fight or flight mode all the time.

I'm better now. Tons of therapy. But still very much nowhere near where I was, etc.

Can't help blame myself for staying in the situation, despite everyone telling me it isn't my fault, etc.

Less emotionally disregulated now, but pretty much always isolated and alone now. Getting more used to it, but it has been really hard learning to adapt to the new 'norm'.

All in all, a big price to pay to learn that some peoplel are just plainly evil.
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>>33003002
Oh, and I'm not nearly as sharp or clever as I used to be. Incapable of focusing on things or studying too.

Apparently long periods of abuse can lead to actual brain damage. Yay.
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>>33003009
You took the vax didn’t you? Kek
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>>33002952
I thought as much, although I didn't expect for you to respond. I offered just to see if my hunch was correct, sadly it is (-_-). Although make no mistake what I wrote is true, just not applicable to you.

kinda feel for the poor french dude. Sounds like he managed to put with with alot. fair play to him. I couldn't. Probs why I'm alone.

>$85k
Why do some women like being wagecucks so much? Is you're life so dull and uninteresting that the only value you can bring is working for another man? As men it's rock bottom working for someone else, you have to do as your told and be someone else's bitch. If you've seen the movies with successful men one thing they have in common is they are making there own decisions are in a position of doing as they please. Toni montana, rocky, michael corleone, etc. I don't watch many films anymore tho :(

Did you ever stop to think about making your bf feel like a man? You sound like you want a reddit tier husband who's just there to support you with you're career and fulfill your Disney dream of living in Europe while you offer the least amount possible to the household, anything he says to you will be met with "I make $85k you clean the dishes this time" just like your reply

>Also with the tone of "I don't want to waste time on someone that can't meet my needs"
sounds like when husbando is unable to meet your needs anymore you will move on, so much for loyalty. Sounds like frenchie bent down too much for you.

you view relationships like you're a man.
>not interested in someone desperate enough to simp
I offered what you asked, with the only ask being you give children and don't work for another man. For people like you that brings absolute horror. I don't know if it's simping if I don't even know what u look like. And going off "he was more attractive than me, he was a virgin NEET" I don't think I should get my hopes up. I hope you read the bible or something and find some inner peace. I'm sad people think like this
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>>33003127
genuinely one of the least intelligent posters i've ever come across on this site, and that's saying something
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>>33003127
your response is funny to me… i only brought up how much i make to show that i really dont anticipate needing nor wanting a man to provide for me. ive only been out of college for 4 years and im well on my way to making 6 figures before im 30. my dream relationship and future isnt that of a SAHM. i value having a career. if my husband is financially able to support the entire family, id still want a job once the kiddos are out of diapers and in school. id never want to be a dotting barefoot and pregnant type.

i dont think ive ever emasculated any man ive been with. but i think marriage should be an equal partnership. is this what you take issue with? that i dont want to simply be a maid?

i dont want to be with someone that doesnt meet my needs for obvious reasons. i dont want to waste time on building someone up again just for them to leave me. im older now. i have higher standards. im looking for someone ready to love me and ready to marry me and ready to have a family with me. i dont want someone thats a work in progress thats gonna leave me as soon as i help them better their lives. i want someone thats serious about me and in a position to be serious about me. im done with falling in love with someone for their potential.

im not desperate enough to entertain being with someone just because they have my desired arrangement. love is more than that. i want us to want the same things and i also want romance, intimacy, understanding. do you not understand this?
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>>33002952
I understand trying to hold people you date to a standard and that is a good thing, but you also gotta understand that no early dating situation will compare to the throes of a relationship. You gotta find someone you're fond of, or have a crush and foster that and see where it takes you. I get that it's tough and feels more perilous cause there's no guarantees there, but taking that gentler path will give you more time to cultivate love for someone. This isn't to speak on the dudes you've tried dating, if you say it hasn't matched up I believe you, I'm just trying to give my perspective on putting a relationship together when you really miss and yearn for someone, cause without doing it carefully you can self sabotage in ways that are not easily spotted.

>>33003127
ok man I was softballing it a little before but you're being really unpleasant. You've got so much vitriol for a complete stranger after a literal no stakes rejection. The way you think about these things is clearly poisoned from too much time spent here and likely in similar communities, and if you want to have a chance at a sincere love you need to look inwards and rehabilitate your attitudes and resentment towards women.
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>>32998435
Get a grip on your life.
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>>33001339
Went through almost the same as you but genderswapped and in central europe

I also identify with using her as a metric to compare against future relationships. been 1.5yrs since it ended and I still don't know how I'll ever find someone that I can connect with as well as her; intellectually, emotionally, or physically.

where am I gonna find a girl who's intelligent, weeb/nerd, well-read and well-educated, went through serious hardships and understood mine, same sense of humor, beautiful, big boobies, tall AND interested in me? I run those numbers in my head and it looks grim. Oh well, here is my litany:

>But to imagine that I should bear you a grudge, Nastenka! That I should cast a dark cloud over your serene, untroubled happiness; that by my bitter reproaches I should cause distress to your heart, should poison it with secret remorse and should force it to throb with anguish at the moment of bliss; that I should crush a single one of those tender blossoms which you have twined in your dark tresses when you go with him to the altar.... Oh never, never! May your sky be clear, may your sweet smile be bright and untroubled, and may you be blessed for that moment of blissful happiness which you gave to another, lonely and grateful heart!

My God, a whole moment of happiness! Is that too little for the whole of a man's life?
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>>33003374
youre really thoughtful and well spoken. i know what youre saying is true and thank you for believing me when i say that my recent dating just hasnt been fruitful. i do try to keep an open mind and was even in a situationship (it was complicated and not worthwhile) for a few months. im trying to keep hope and keep putting myself out there. its just hard, but i know you get it. if anything what i hate the most is knowing i have a biological clock (re: childbearing) that makes me want to give men less second chances than i gave my ex because now im 26 and dont feel like i have time to waste on men that are still figuring things out or dont know how to be a good partner in a relationship. in a way, i feel like i know my worth now and dont want to be stuck in a toxic cycle like i was with him, but it almost feels like it could be at the cost of finding someone to start a family with before its too late. but i guess i dont want to have kids with people like that anyways? i guess im ranting now, but i appreciate your perspective. im trying not to be hopeless and still think the world is my oyster and that i’ll find another great love (this time one that reciprocates).. we’ll see if it happens
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>>33003434
fuckkk why did it give me another new ID!!! i hate using 4chan on my phone hahaha whatever
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>>33003434
the world is your oyster anon. The biological clock angle is tough, I would encourage you to freeze some eggs. I know that's not as much of a for sure thing, but the less stressors you have hanging over your head the less you'll have to worry about your judgement being clouded while on this search. Taking your time with this sort of thing is the best policy, not that it has to take a while, but it may. I hope you find what you're looking for. It seems like you've got a good will to not settle, which is important! I've enjoyed talking to ya, one of my fav aspects of /soc/ is just having longer conversations with people about the current time in their life.
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>>33003336
Thanks for reminding me, yh i'm probably not very smart at these things nor am I very articulate. You all here are good at writing. I probably should read some books or something to improve.

Anyway I just wanted to say your post reminded of picrel, would be cute if someone used it. Initial D is so cool (>_<)
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Probably close to a decade ago, I started talking to a girl in an area thread. Turns out she listened to the radio show I was doing at the time. We went to a couple shows together and would text once in a while, then a bit later started mind-blowingly hooking up. I went exclusive with someone and we'd pop up in each other's socials once in a while, but she seems to have gotten off them a while ago. It'd be cool if she saw this, but I just hope she's got a good life. Really cool talented person
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>>32998698
No, he was a barely 18yo polish femboy with severe mental issues. He attempted suicide once during our relationship.

I'm in debt because I registered him legally on my adress and my funds got denied. Obviously he had 0 income or money and we used to have to live off 10 € for a week together, what obviously made the mental situation worse.

8ch was just 4chan many years ago, it doesn't exist anymore. Although 4chan is also pretty dead and shitty except of /soc/. I only come here because 'normal' dating is for 'normal' people and I hate "matching" and "swiping". It ruined all of the experience, you can also no longer make profiles and don't even know if these images it shows you are real.

Two so far, the Polish included. Although it was also his issue. The Peruvian used to visit me but now he can't anymore, the police caught him on the border and returned him. It only fuels my hate for the shit country even more because they let half Africa in with no ID, while someone who possesses a legal ID gets denied because he has no visum. I pray that WW3 starts soon so everything can finally be purged in cleansing fire.

There is a reason why I seek for "EU only" and selfsustaining when it comes to dating. The Polish person would have normally been legal, but he was deported because I tried to get him welfare. All he had to do is keep his 185 €/month Minijob that I secured him and he failed due to his mental issues. He had no insurance and a lot of physical health issues as well. I learned relationships won't work like that. I will never do any kind of work, applications or such shit for someone else again. Why should I? Did they do it for me as well or helped me in the dire and dark times? No, thats why they can prove themselves. I don't expect them to sustain me either. Such relationships are always uneven and parasitic. And no more sub 20s. When I was younger I hoped to find one for eternity, never needing to search again, but I was naive and deluded.
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>>33004452
I'm a bit confused sorry are you a boy or girl?

Also If you don't mind sharing what country is this that it's so strict (o_O) I assume eurozone, but the border isn't that harsh in mainland considering there is no border anyway. I'm assuming it's a country on the eastern side that borders non eu countries if I had to guess. But I might be totally wrong.

Only the uk is totally secluded from the rest of Europe. But still if they really love you I think it's £5-10k to cross on boat, but I might be wrong.

>4chan is pretty dead and shitty
I dunno about the other boards but /ic/ is pretty cool, and the other hobby ones are nice. If anything /soc/ comes off as the most degen.

Maybe the political ones are bad idk, I never visit that side

Also did you meet the peruvian here on 4chan. Sorry if I'm asking too many questions you've got me curious I don't hear stories like this everyday.
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>>32985220
In 2011 I met a girl at my college through anonidate
Disgusting goblin whore but I hit it for a few weeks
Dead fish in bed but had the hardest orgasm deathgrip that has ever made me concerned for my dick's structural integrity
Also she lent me some addies before an exam and introduced me to weed after I broke up with a straight edge long term gf
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>>33004563
I am male and from Germanistan.

And no there is only hate now - No forgiveness. I unfortunately send them stuff even after this happened, as a thank you they almost made me homeless (which I can only prevent by paying this shit month for month and then "live" off 250 €) and blocked me. But I know in the final days everything will be repaid. They likely still live near Belarus which is likely what gets annihilated first when the coming war starts. I will prepare and if no one comes, survive alone, as usual. The new reality may hold a worthy companion, its unlikely to find one in this ruined end time reality anyway. Dating is completely broken.

Politics + 4chan is and was always bad. But its similar anywhere. Especially if it has the typical "left" "right" flavor, like you need to choose a side but cannot have opinions independant of this concept.

And yes the Peruvian is from 4chan. It was like a dream but of course there must be something preventing it again. Thats why I call this the torture reality. It gives you what you desire for a limited time, then takes it away to make the loss even worse than not having it in the first place. Its cruel but also hardens, maybe its part of my survival training for the coming futures. At least soon its growing season so I won't have to stay sober for all to long.
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>be me
>meet a person in my area(female but that's not really that important)
>after long convos we arrange a meetup
>it's at a club and i don't like crowds
>get there in the pissing rain
>get there too late and the bouncer says there might not be enough room for everyone
>see my 4chan bud
>try to say something to get her attention
>can't
>get told the venue is full
>go home soaked, tired, and unhappy
>get ghosted not long after that, after trying to explain what happened
i'm cursed to not have friends
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>>33004740
These are sad to read. I hope there's a light at the end of the tunnel for us.

My situation doesn't look much brighter. But we're gonna make it. With persistence and determination we'll make it. It's the only thing I can think to say even though doubts keep looming. The only thing we can control is our actions and outlook on the matter.
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>>33005037
as much as i want to agree with you i have lost the urge to even make connections with people so i have my doubts
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>>33004728
Reading your posts sound like you've hit rock bottom. In the way you express your frustration, I see a part of myself. Maybe because I'm also just a suffering Germoid.

NGL, I don't think you'll respond to this message but it would be cool if we could get into contact to talk a bit.
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I see a recurring theme in this thread. Everyone here is either from a first world country, or moved into one. Thats cute, thats awesome, and im glad for the people whom it worked out. But as the disgusting, low life beaner i am "e-dating", no, scratch that, just have ONE FEMALE FRIEND will always be a pipe dream.

It is my fault, anyway. Whenever a girl shows interest in me I fall in love and fuck things up. Oh, and for being a brown beaner living in the middle of bumfuck, mexico.

I hope you guys realize how lucky you are. Tinder here sucks.
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met my boyfriend on a board here. we hit it off really well at first then he ghosted me for a very long time, then popped up months later!
we met irl months afterwards (we lived in the same country but quite far from each other). i moved to a city nearish him for the summer and we met quite often and officially started dating! we did LDR for a while but now we both moved to the city where we first met and live together!
I wouldn't ask for a better partner. :)
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>met a guy on the midwest thread
>we are casual at first but become bf and gf
>meet his family and friends, he's over at my house a lot, go on dates, play game together, many deep talks, so much laughter
>support him when he's in the hospital, am by his side the whole time
>a week after he gets out he breaks up with me by blocking me on everything
Haha from july to february then poof like I was nothing to him. I honestly hope he kills himself
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>>33006579
>>33006588
The duality of man. Happy for you/sorry that happened to you
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>>33006649
He'll ghost her too, he was chasing other tail during that period he ghosted her. I'm done with you men. and if I ever see my ex on this god forsaken website again I'm unleashing everything so he better stay away. Find a different fishing ground the well is poisoned
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>>33006676
I had this in my post and maybe it can help you too; it's just a few pages, and the overarching narrative is a loner falling in love with someone who really loves someone else but pretended to love them back.
https://www.online-literature.com/dostoevsky/4394/
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>>33006470
I just one you to know as British girl living in North America, I very much like Mexican guys and if i wasn't taken, I would happily marry one to give them citizenship (providing they treated me well). There is hope for you sweet anon and I hope you find her soon.

I will say though, men on /soc/ are trash but occasionally you meet a gem who treats women well. If you're one of the girls that has ever been exposed/posted on here against your will you would understand the hostility.
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Anybody else met her from here ? She was pretty active idk 3 years ago..
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>>33003992
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I met a few people from here over the years. People I met about 10 years ago, in fact.

I met two within the same week back in 2016. I went to the east coast, rented a car, took a long road trip and just met them along the way. Had a good time with it and we're all still friends to this day. It's actually pretty cool, since one of them came out about a year ago to visit here.

I also met one and ended up having a year long romantic relationship the next year. It didn't last as they claimed asexuality but then on the side they were fantasizing about other sexual things. The fact she went to someone else almost immediately after I called it off made it clear that I wasn't actually valued for anything more than my financial status and career path. Haven't met anyone else since.
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Met neet girl in MW thread as 25 khhv. both of were socially retarded, but I have a decent job and live alone, so let her live with me for almost a year. Did drugs and Cuddled all the time, but rarely did sexual things. Neither could really socialize sober. Started doing things together less, though anytime we did do something I had to initiate. One day just said she was leaving and that was that. Never once brought up anything beforehand, just immediately leaves. Placed blame on me for being distant as if she were a victim.
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Almost a year ago, I was contacted by a boy on a meet up thread. He lived a couple hours from me.. We’ve hung out 5 times since then and have texted almost every day. We’re not in a relationship, and we haven’t had sex, but our relationship is romantic/sexual and I hope we can be together some day.
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>>32994259
>Uhh, why do you even care about her past, chud? Insecure much?
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>>32985220
Technically my boyfriend though I'll meet him soon this year. I didn't meet him on here but he uses it and I knew this as soon as we started talking
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I'm in 617 Massachusetts if anyone wants to hang out. I like hitting the gym, music, good movies, and games of all sorts (sports, darts, pool, chess, vidya, you name it.). And, if you're in a wheelchair, I'm wheelchair accessible too. We could go to a museum or something. Or if you're deaf or have a lisp or stutter, I won't make fun, I promise, I really really really like those things but not in a bad way. I'm 27.
Discord me: LastNameAsWhole#6999 it's a stupid name inspired by a stupid movie, space balls.

Anime Boston is next week
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>>32987305
this is why you stay a lurker when you are underage. you turn out fucked up way too soon if u dont.
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>manage to have sex with pretty hot /r9k/ crazy girl a few times

>get head from awkward r9k fags a few times

this site can work in your favour for no strings attached stuff if you play the numbers game.
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>>33013255
worst fucking numbers game I have ever seen
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I've met 2. But I was actively dating both
One guy, who was a huge nepo baby had some pretty prestigious parents, and so I was extremely intimidated to meet them. Turns out I didn't need to be worried because the entire house (worth over million) looked worse than a fucking decomp scene. Massive hoarders, entirely broken kitchen they couldn't use so they resorted to a shitty little microwave oven type of deal. I ate dinner with them but I barely picked at the food concidering I know where it came from. Really unhealthy place. Went to his old childhood bedroom and it was a fucking mess as well. Idk how any of them thought it was appropriate. His mom is a huge vaxxer with 90 stickers on her van, I should've ran sooner. I was forced to wear a n95 and ended up getting not only a minor lung and throat infection but my eyes swelled up shut and I tried to tell his mom but I was ignored. My flight was the next morning. There was no affection or anything and I slept in the basement that I was told was currently infested with rats but "don't worry about it".
The next guy, at least his parents house was clean but his dad's a rapist so shrug. Pretty normal. Both didn't really use 4chan too much compared to me. Pic is first guy, sorry if you see this M you were lovely but you ghosted me after a really pitiful breakup.
Tldr : maybe don't invite a woman to your parents house if it's a mess
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>>32985220
>hit off pretty well in chat and then realize shes only ~80km away from me
>meet up and fuck and cuddle afterward
>catch feelings for each other and start relationship
>her mental health declines due to drug use and other factors (i dont like drugs)
>we break up but still stay friends due to a lot of shared interests
>her next partner is a toxic fuck'n dump
>she tries to kill herself over her
Im hoping the next jackpot im finding here is at least not an addict
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>>33013457
noticed "fun with a pencil" and "drawing the head and hands" by Andrew Loomis. They're nice books, and good at helping fellow artists.

If you'd still give an artist a chance add me on discord: light5144

I'm a hopeless romantic, I like to paint girls cute flowers.
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Went to a show in Texas with a guy from here. It was chill, he was chill, but then we just stopped communicating. Idrc that much, the concert was fun and I did something out of my comfort zone
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Went to SF
Went pretty good got along with her, now we don't talk
Adopted a NEET, got along with him, got him on to Colorado
Went to India to meet someone stayed with her for a few weeks went really good, she's not a romantic interest anymore but we are still friends
Never had anything bad happen
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>>33006470
holy shit it’s op they might give me a new ID but anyways im also mexican and my bfs family is hella racist and they hate me rhere is still hope bro
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>>32985521
I doubt you'll see this, but I still regret it. Even if we split, I shouldn't of did what I did, it's still the biggest regret I have in life, dispite how unhealthy our relationship was.
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>>32985220
bump
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I met a guy in chicago once and we had pizza out of pot lids while watching transformers 4 in spanish
We don't speak Spanish and you're a fag
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>>32994302
probably bait. but i have nothing to lose so here's my dc: Volta#8968
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>>32986487
you might be protecting her for some legit reason but, don't avoid saying bad things about people who have ghosted you and who make you unhappy. don't accommodate arseholes.
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Met a bunch of girls when i was in Melbourne. Probably half i fucked, a few im still friends with and the rest were fizzers. Pretty much tinder for weirder girls.
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old/M/UK
met a femboy from here. really unassuming post but he was EXACTLY what i was looking for. super cute. amazing bj skills. we dated for a bit, we had a really cute relationship, lots of really beautiful lovely moments. and he threw it away and left me for another guy. still miss him. but I don't think i'd get back with him unless he made it up to me.
met one more guy, turned out he kind of mislead me so i didn't do anything with him.
However, I've met all my best friends through 4chan, just posting on a blue board, made a thread having fun and doing what I love and they reached out to me. now I see those guys regularly and I've made some of the best friends i've ever had in my life.
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>>32998435
>I hate myself, I hate myself a lot
you hate yourself? she let you down. SHE let YOU down. hate her. tell her so.
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holy fucking shit WHAT THE FUCK.
i assume you are a femanon right? ... how do you put up with such shit!?!?!?!
just a word of warning to other posters:
ACT ON RED FLAGS.
>massive contradictions like owning a house worth millions but letting it rot?
run.
>living in filth
run
>make you sleep in basement infested with rats
run
>his dad's a rapist
RUN FASTER AAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
I'm going the fuck outside. I can't sit here and read more stories about women dating absolutely horrible guys while nice functional guys whom they could have a nice time with sit lonely and alone.
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>>33013141
i agree, but i was a dumb teenager. taught me some valuable lessons, was character building, etc. put enough effort into self-awareness and recovery that it doesn't have a negative impact on my life now
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>>32985220
I've been dating a guy (I'm a biological female) I technically met off 4chan for 2 years. Technically we met in a discord server that was linked in an thread, but I don't know if that kind of technicality matters. It's been going fantastically. We live together now and plan to get married soon. I'm on of the few success stories I know lol.

I've also met 4 other people from online, 1 girl and 3 guys. The three guys came in a group together to meet my boyfriend and I (it was a big meetup since we were all in that discord server together). Two of them were pretty cool. One was a slightly spergy boxer, the definition of a gentle giant. The other guy was pretty average and played guitar. The last guy was really an awkward mess and a dysfunctional NEET. He was friends with the gentle giant and tagged along for the trip. It would've been a way better trip if the NEET didn't have to stop and rest every 5 minutes because he couldn't walk for long. He wasn't that fat, he just never went outside.
Anyway, the NEET ended up freaking out and cutting everyone off because of his own insecurity. I don't talk to the other guys anymore since we all drifted apart after that.

The girl was scary. She was way way taller than me and about thrice my weight. She had a pretty face and blonde hair, but it didn't really help. She looked like she was some kind of monster that ate a princess. I later found out that she was a. unironic BPD self-harmer. We met for coffee once and never again.
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>>33001535
>tfw no stork gf
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After a bad breakup, I met some girl on some discord thread and hit it off well, we were supposed to meet but covid ruined that and then we stopped talking. After covid died down we reconnect and met. Got a hotel, hung out. Had her naked in the bed but her pussy smelled something awful and couldn't even try to get past it. Ended up not doing anything and still hung out / stayed in contact for some time.

We no longer speak. She was my dream girl but the way that thing smelled completely ruined my entire concept of her.
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Met up with my ex from here was a really great time, I was worried at first because of the internet, a part of me was like "do I really know this person?", but it turned out better than expected, my family loved her. Unfortunately we aren't together anymore but we are still very close.

I also met two girls that were 14 when I was also 14, one was back in the good old skype days, the other was attention whoring it up in a thread posting vocaroos until she said she was hopping off to go onto omegle, I got on omegle and connected with her. Got fairly close with both of them and talked to them on and off for 12 years now. Never met up with them but has been interesting to see how their lives have changed over all this time.

I also metup with a based Norwegian dude super friendly, handsome guy, so cool i couldn't believe he posted on 4chan. He was visiting nearby and we metup and hungout for 3 days and it was awesome, he's not someone I actually talk too at all but if he ever came back and wanted to hangout I would for sure.
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>>33025671
You found those people on this board or some other ones?
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>>33025696
I met all of them except one on /soc/, my friend from omegle was posting on /b/. I have made friends from other boards though, one of the girls I mentioned before met her boyfriend on /wg/ if you can believe that, don't know how wallpapers can bring two people together but it happened.
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I’d love to do it

>A/S/L
18 femboy uk Dumfries

>Hobbies/Interests
video games, music, night walks,

>what traits you look for in a partner
preferably over 35 but close is fine. Looking for incredibly controlling men. Aggressive men. Men that don’t care about my well being

>long distance?
Perfectly fine

>Looking for
Long term extreme TPE owner.

To control all decisions such as what I eat/ if I eat. Bathroom breaks, what I wear what I do in a day. Even extreme stuff such as what I do what I watch when I’m allowed to switch YouTube video ect

Or I’d love even more extreme where I have to ask to change a video or to turn a light on

>Dealbreakers/Not looking for
below 28. Shy guys. People that can’t hold a chat. Vanilla people

>Kinks
I love basically all kinks. You’ll come to find there is very little I won’t do or at least try.
My personal favourites are; flashing, pain, embarrassment, risk, exposure, blackmail, online/game humiliation


ALSO!!!! looking for a cult that I can be forced and blackmailed into and forced into a way of life I shouldn’t

>Contact KIK
KittenBabyy69
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>>33025766
stop spamming everywhere jesus christ, I'd have added you if you didn't spam so much.
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>agree to meet up with someone
>ends up being skinny black girl
>fuck her in a public park as families walk past
>lost touch with her for a while
>she finds me on skype and asks me to fuck her

She was in a serious relationship at that point "I love him and would never leave him but I can't forget your dick" kind of shit. I didn't go through with it because I didn't wanna do that to the guy.
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Ive had quiet a few.

>i was underage but lied. met a guy. he was really weird but i tried being nice. we went for a walk and get in his car and starts peer pressuing me to suck his dick.
I said, "NIGGER I DONT OWE YOU SHIT"
then walked home

>met a gay guy (he lived on one of the seattle islands) and i dont think he had much experience with alot of people. but he was cool asf. we drank, talked shit, and even stayed a night at a hotel together and talked about twinks. i miss him. we lost touch. :(

>met a guy in the city with my boyfriend at the time. the dude looked like a mass shooter. i think we made him nervous becuz he had a seizure.

>met a guy that lived 6 hours away. we dated for abit. he came over pretty often. the sex was fucking great and we had alot in common hobby wise. but i didnt care for talking him. we didnt have chemistry amd he thought women were just holes.
Based. but yeah i dont need to be suppressed.

theres 3 more meetups but just incase they stumble onto this thread id rather not share. but they were all really good. and one im dating now which was the best thing in the world. but im afraid we probably wont last. :(

Also plan to meet a girl soon :D she wants a cool girl to hang with and so do i! I hope we got thrift shopping!
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how does one meet here?
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>>33029513
Depends on what you're seeking.
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>>33029516
like generally... frens, intrest group, dating etc..
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>>33029949
Probably meet someone from one of the threads and, if you hit it off, generally one person offers to meet
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>>33029513
exchange contact details, talk for a bit online to make sure they aren't crazy/fucked up or basically not what you are looking for. then arrange a meeting, one time i spoke to some guys for ages, hadn't even seen thier faces, nor they mine, invited them directly to my house. we're now best friends, but i vetted them a lot and vice versa.
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i've met two women off soc over the years.

one was a serbian poet, used to hang out a lot. her body always tasted like sugar. she ended up getting a boyfriend who sold shitty drugs and i think was jealous of me or something idk. we ended up drifting apart and she ended up moving to another state and got some birds. nice person. her lesbian sister lives nearby, strangely enough. i still have the copy of siddhartha she wrote poetry in.

the other girl was this french art student. we got a hotel room and hung out for a long weekend. she lived in another state and i guess wanted a relationship by the end of it, but i didn't see it being practical so she ended up ghosting me. funny girl. cute eyes. bit loud. loved perfume.
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>>32989903
Same, I met up with someone I met on 4chan and talked with on discord back when it first came out and we played DDR at one of the beaches in New Jersey.
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>>32985220
I've met up with two people from here mostly out of bicuriousity.

First one was a twink boy, we didn't have anywhere in particular to go so in the end he sucked my dick in a Mcdonalds bathroom, which was... novel. This was also my first less-than-straight experience, so I had mixed feelings about the whole thing, but honestly I haven't ever had a better blowjob. It was the first time someone ever managed to get me off with their mouth alone, the homos really know how it's done.

The other time I went and visited some tranny's house for an overnight stay when they had the place to themselves. I was looking forward to getting some ass and doing all sorts of kinky shit, but after I arrived (s)he started backpedalling and complaining about haemorrhoids. I got my dick sucked again at least and we did some cuddling, which was nice I guess. I left pretty disappointed overall since I was expecting much more, and I discovered that trannies still just smell like men, and apparently I'm not into that.

That was the end of my gay experimentation, I've only fucked girls since. I still haven't fucked a cute boy in the ass though, I'd try it at least once, especially if they have a small feminine penis.
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Im Belgian, in my 30s, and I met a 20 year french trannie on 4chan. She was kinda cute and i was going through a dry spell and i was passing through brussels where she was living so we met up. After a short drink and walk i kissed her and pulled her hair and that made her invite to her place where i fucked her face pretty rough till she bled and plowed her ass till i came. Decent experience, only time i met someone close enough.

I say she cuz she cut off her dick.
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>>33033251
You fucked a man’s face and asshole.
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Yeah and I regret it.

I met a demon from prague. Do not meet the women here because they have some serious defective issues and theyre also good at manipulating and hiding it until it bites you in the ass. This ho was a constant dramatic and emotional drain.

Turns out she runs financial scams and she is ugly in real life.
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>>32985220
25m in US, met like five or six people that I hang out with regularly now from 4chan. Of the six or so, one started as e-dating but ended up just hanging out with IRL, and everyone else I've met has been chill.
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>>33006470
I hope you realize how lucky you are that girls show interest in you. I've never had it happen to me.
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I've met three people from 4chan. The two from from /soc/ are cool as fuck. One of them's chilling at my place now, the other's coming over tomorrow. The guy I met from /b/ is a total unreliable flake who I haven't seen in over a year, but he did show me American Psycho at his place, so respect for that.
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about 15 years ago I met up with a dude from 4chan when I was a lonely 18 year old, hung out, smoke some weed, got In n Out, never saw him again. 10/10 interaction
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>>33030107
>exchange contact details
Bold of you to assume some of us can get this far. I know by now I’m not the only one who hits it off with people who then disappear forever right after. Not really sure where to find people online besides here though yet so guess I’m stuck for now.
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>>33012105
Didn't realise this thread was still going! For what it's worth, I'm still with the same guy 8 years later.
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>>32994660
mello you CSM avatarfagging scumbag
take your lolicon shit somewhere else
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I wasted 5 years of my life and lots of capital on a gay relationship formed from here; so bad in fact I don't wanna date guys anymore. That is all unless you get to know me. Just got outta that relationship but still pretty hurtie internally
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>be me, 22
>move to new state in 2021 w gf at the time
>can't have friends bc she's a jealous cunt
>she ends 6-year relationship bc cheated with a nigger at work
>browse /soc/
>find meetup server
>go to first meetup
>had the best time of my fucking life singing MGS songs at karaoke and doing key bumps with one of the OGs
>really vibe w about 5 people, 14 at first meetup
mfw no one is horrible
>started FWB situation that didn't end with her foiding and self-destructing the server. still cool w each other
>4 months later, the 5 are still my closest confidants that aren't family
>server is still going strong
>join even more servers to have more good times
literally have had no problems meeting people from here. maybe I got lucky, but if you're a cool person, feel like you aren't weird enough for 4chan but don't fit in with normies, keep an open mind, and don't be a fucking weirdo you'll have great success making friends on here.
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>>32986567
I met up with people from 4chong to go up mountains and had an amazing time with them, if you're in need of hope
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>>33035568

bro....

don't waste money on your bitches.
you've never heard of dollar menu joke from mcdonalds have you ?
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>>32985232
cuckold
>>32985220
Yes, I am dating Snurly
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>>33040400
>Snurly
(an autistic tranny obsessed with snails)
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>>33042550
What a catch.
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Wife and I used to host Los Angeles meetups at the Denny's on Roscoe Blvd. in the SFV. We also used to meet with girls for threesomes. Good times on the old soc.
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>Be Me
>1 year ago
>185 lbs security guard
>Going through Divorce
>Suicidal
>Post on /b/ looking for anyone to come fight me in a parking lot
>Enter the clown
> 5'2", 110 Green-haired kid, 19
> Too nervous to fight in public.
> go back to my place
> Wrestle him to the ground with almost no effort
> and thats when I found out he was an FtM
>fucked
>slept over at my place a few times
>Still hang out sometimes, he's a good kid, just took him out for his 21st last month.
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>>33035362
(o_O)
The manga isn't lolicon
Also why did I make u angry?
If u r wondering no one added me so don't worry I'm still alone.......
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I've had relationships with two girls I've met on 4chan. Both I met on r9k. I wasted so much time and money on them with the constant flights and texts. They were both extremely mentally ill which I knew about in the beginning but it just progressively got worse instead of better. And the worst part is I don't really connect with non-chan girls. I want to meet another weirdo and do it all over again.
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>>33044055
this is really hot, I wanna wrestle and fuck a small ftm dude
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>meet cute girl that's not too far away
>get led on for 4 years
>get replaced with no notice after spending a month apart for work, next time I saw her was with another guy
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NTA but I wanna hear the dollar menu joke
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Not yet but I'll meet up with a euro guy, I'll take him out to kebab and baklava.
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515-215-3282

26M to F looking for role play love
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yes, long friendship with benefits
was good
back in anonidate days ha
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its extremely cringe, i was 17 met up with a 30 something yr old and touched a penis for the first time in his car and lied about going to work and then my parents found out and called the cops
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i met a guy from a european shithole here a few months ago, he came to visit me for 3 weeks. it became increasingly obvious that he was attempting to use me for a marriage visa. he admitted to never liking me much, yet rushed the idea of getting married. i was so lonely and desperate that i almost took my chances, but i would rather find a guy that actually likes me
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>>33006470
fell in love and fucked it up :(
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>>33040284
Look it was more then that. When I first met him we had dreams of moving in together and we were right on the cusp of it when he just stopped being emotionally connected with me. It was a slow painful drain for both of us but me more given I was doing all the work pretty much in the relationship. It was nice while the magic was still there. So tldr go fuck yourself thinking I was just dateing some ho you downright degenerate ass hat. Stick the dollar menu up your filthy dick hole
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>>33049520
a shame, I'm from a european shithole too but I wouldn't do this, hope you find someone better
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Someone from an area thread added me. He didn't have really anything to say over discord, didn't seem interested in talking at all. If I wanted dry conversation with a stranger I'd download tinder thanks
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I've met three guys from here and had all different results:

1. I met up with a guy who was in town for the week, and we went out for dinner and watched a movie and it actually went pretty well, but just decided on friends after.

2. I was pissed at my bf for cheating on me and in a stupid moment arranged with someone from here to fuck. He came over while my bf was at work, but he brought his friend too...

3. I arranged to meet someone local at a Starbucks, but I got there and waited like half an hour, and no one showed, but there was a guy sitting in the corner table who kept looking at me and I think he just chickened out...
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>>33050352
>33050352
meet me online, my kik is peter_h57
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Met current gf here, there's a chance for everyone
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Met a tranny with a fat ugly bastard fetish. She never showered and lived in trash. I left after about an hour. She was hot but greasy. But the squalor was unbearable
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Met a sweet and somewhat shy autistic guy on here in the past month off a random Hail Mary add when I was looking to make some level of friendship.

I'm feeling a spark. We make out and stuff so at least a potential fwb situation brewing or even more ideally a relationship on the horizon and dear god do I hope so. I could hear this man talk about mechas with his cock in my mouth any day.
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met up with e-bf of 3-4 months, lost my virginity to him, kept on dating for a year, broke up when i started high school.
i think i would have been a better person today if i hadn't met him but cest la vie
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I've met up with gaming friends on 4chan, those experiences were positive
we just hung out like normal, got food, walked around
I have never, ever had a relationship with anyone on /soc/ lasting more than 24 hours in the 13 years that this board has existed
the guys who say they're just looking for friends seem to only do that to fool themselves that they aren't coomers
the gay men and mtf trannies are all braindead coomerd
the girls who say they just want friends are really screening for a boyfriend and stop talking to you when they lose interest, which is usually in about 20 minutes
the girls who say they want a relationship get inundated with attention and unless you tell them everything they want to hear or be their sugar daddy (or both), they will block you in 10 minutes
it's just like regular online dating where they SAY they want to talk about their interests, but then they get bored when you actually do what they ask and ghost/block you
the ftm trannies are always just sad women who are too brainwashed to realize that being a man sucks and no one cares about ftm trannies, so talking to them is depressing and bipolar
95% of women on /soc/ have BPD and will never have functioning relationships, EVER
95% of men on /soc/ are incompetent, porn-addicted incels who will never change unless they get over that one girl in high school/college who rejected them
I'm not saying this board is impossible to find success with, but it's like trying to find a gold bar in a mountain of shit
I ended up just using OKC to find a girl (been together 6 years, married for 2) and stuck to making friends through multiplayer video games
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>>33051815
jesus
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>>33051847
why are you still lurking then and is okc viable today
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I was 21 year old, I am f from Taiwan.
Met some American mutt here who was 22 at the time.
We both liked anime and played switch games together. After 3 months I ask him to meet up and he actually comes over.
We bonded well but we didnt do anything sexual to take things slow but we watched hentai together. First ever exp to share something sexual in real life with someone.
He goes back and fast forward a year, we decide to do ldr.
2 years pass and he hasn't visited me. I grew verh frustrated and downloaded Tinder behind his back. Met some Japanese/Dutch mixed dude who ended up head over heels for me. I never had this much attention from someone irl before, I lost my virginity. It felt good but the Japanese dude ghosted me. I started to feel regret and admitted to my bf for having cheated.
He ghosts me in return.

I still miss you Tom.
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i met my girlfriend (and soon to be fiance but dont tell her that) on a femdom thread here about a year ago. we've met up irl 4 times now, and we talk for like, at least 4 hours almost every day. i've never been happier and its all because she liked the plushies in the background of a pic i posted in the thread
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>>32985220
met my bf in the aussie thread last yr and now we are going strong and gonna get new apartment in july :DD
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>>32985220
I've had lots of success meeting folks off /tg/. A few in person, and even more that I play board games or RPGs with. Only other meetup I've ever done was hiking w/ someone from /out/ when it was new. We had a nice hike but didn't keep in touch or anything.

Most 4chan folks who are going to meet up are pretty much just normal folks, in my experience. No less mature than people I've met from anywhere else on the internet.
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>>33052006
what state u in
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Is it bad to not share nudes when getting added by anons here? The past few girls, except this cool Korean chick who unfortunately just started ghosting me after christmas:(, asked me for nudes straight away. And while they liked it and all I just felt dirty because I didn't want to send anything lewd so quick but I figured they'd just ghost or block me if I didnt.
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>>33006435
Up to you, discord sphereoflight

Most people don't understand my way of life either, I love binging hallucinogens/alcohol and playing all the time, but you have to set yourself goals to accomplish. Just no wageslave "work". I would likely do that if it wouldn't pay less than my disability welfare, its just not worth it. Its still a lot of work, but not tax paying and mostly inefficient medieval efforts because of the poverty. It may be hard but still better than rolling cigarettes and watching shit TV shows like other NEETs in my position would.
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>>33051980
What's your situation like now?
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>>33052111
did they share first?
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>>33052111
It's okay to do things based on your own comfort level, anon. Just keep in mind that some people may not want to talk to you if that's what they're looking for, but you should value your own comfort and boundaries first.

>>33051990
This is very sweet and I'm really happy for both of you, wishing you both lots of happiness in the future.
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I met the love of my life on here.

>was in a really abusive IRL relationship and was trying to stick it out

>started coming on here to find people to talk (he spent all his time on discord and talking to other girls)

>met some cool people, but ex would make me block anyone he felt threatened by even though we weren’t technically dating anymore

>added a guy on discord and quickly realized he was the most incredible person I’ve ever met

>before I knew it I was head-over-heels BPD obsessed

>ex kept trying to make me block him, but this time I just couldn’t no matter how much he hurt me/tried to cut it off

The first time we met up, (he lives about 6 hours away, and I was helping a friend move) I asked him to meet up because I wasn’t sure if I’d ever get the chance to again. My love was getting understandably pretty sick of my shit for aforementioned reasons. He said yes though, and we met up while he was running errands. I was so excited it felt surreal, he was everything he said he was and more and was nice to me even though I was autistic and I spent the entire time too nervous to tell him how much I wanted him sexually

We said bye and parted ways, but messaged eachother as we were leaving and I finally plucked up the courage to tell him I wanted to give him a BJ. So we wandered into the woods behind a supermarket and I got on my knees in the dirt and he came in my mouth (and all down the front of my dress which I didn’t realize until I got out of my Uber home).

Things weren’t smooth sailing from there, and it took a while to get away from my ex, but my love and I have been talking for over a year now, I’ve driven down a couple more times, and even though I’ve always hated idea of the marriage/family thing, I want those things with him more than anything even though I know he’ll probably get bored of me before then. He’s the sexiest smartest most masculine man alive and I want him to impregnate me.
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>>33055052
Hot. Taking applications for this right now. Im happy for you
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>>33055052
He let you blow him in the woods behind a supermarket. What a gentleman.
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>>33055052
Chad-only thoughts, lel
He'll dump you
Then you'll blame beta men
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>>33055237
thank you! :>
Good luck with your application process.

>>33055247
Right? A privilege honestly

>>33055503
I get the middle line but how are the other parts related?
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>>32994302
Hey maybe we could click, I've been in an extremely long term relationship for a while, and i wouldn't mind finding a woman worth loving, I know the discord is cringe af but hey anything is worth the risk.

Discord : hornyanddesperate

Disc :
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>>33055614
>>32994302
>every guy uses me for esex
>hornyanddesperate

The jokes fucking write themselves. You two were made for each other, youre an autist and hes fucking retarded lmao
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>>33054907
no they just asked me for it off the rip. and again I didn't want to, but I know how it usually goes if i don't cause then all interest is lost and then im ghosted
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>>33056853
yeah fuck that then lol, not worth doing something you don't want just to ingratiate yourself with someone who you don't vibe with.
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>>32985220
i literally cannot imagine any woman would make an effort to do this unless she was severely mentally ill and did not have a single shred of self preservation. Anyway any woman who would do this wouldnt last because she would get killed



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