Thread for anons looking for affectionate/gentle/loving BDSM relationships.>Role (dom/sub)>ASL>open to long distance (y/n)?>physical description>life situation>hobbies/interests>religious beliefs>political beliefs>dating experience>looking for>not looking for>contact
>Role (dom/sub) dominant into CNC, intox, hypno, conditioning, cuckquean, misogyny, degradation, humiliation, collaring, outfit control, pet play, free use, exhibitionism, anal training, choking, light impact, aftercare >ASL 32/m/md >open to long distance (y/n)? n but open to travel and host short term, and more long term >physical description tall, blue eyes, brownish hair, beard, glasses, tatted, thick, resting dork face >life situation live alone, cushy work from home career, lots of free time and only a little mental illness. i'm posting on soc on a friday night in my 30s anon what do you think my life situation is. have some tact >hobbies/interests photography, photoshop, audio production, writing, cooking / manga, boomer games, psychology, history, space >religious beliefs i am open to joining a death cult if any are recruiting >political beliefs progressive, apathetic, cynical >dating experience too much i'm afraid >looking for a submissive woman seeking someone worth worshiping. an intimate long term partnership open to incorporating other group dynamics (i.e. not strictly monogamous). chemistry, communication, connection. >not looking for men, LARPers, non-americans, puritans, underage >contact disc: pos.ses.sive >>33083065 (OP) was it intentional to not include a kink question on a bdsm thread? great pic btw
>>33083065>Role (dom/sub)Dom.>ASL21/M/Canada>open to long distance (y/n)?Initially yes but not long term.>physical description182 cm tall, white, glasses, brown hair, on the thinner side but recently started working out. People tell me I'm reasonably attractive. I'm willing to share pics of myself on Discord.>life situationI'm a CS student at a good school. I'm interested in working in the US in the future.>hobbies/interestsI read a lot, mainly fantasy and sci-fi stuff; I like researching European history; programming; hiking; travelling to new places.>religious beliefsNot religious.>political beliefsRight leaning.>dating experienceNo experience.>looking forI'm looking for a serious, long-term relationship with a dom/sub dynamic. My ideal partner is a loving, submissive girl I can take care of and protect.>not looking forI'm straight and therefore am only interested in women.>Discordw.w_w_w
ASL29/MtF(post-op)/Oregon/NEET>Favorite sub-genreMetalhead/goth>Favorite band(s)Ghost, Depeche Mode, Ozzy Osbourne, etc>Favorite show you’ve been toGhost, Deadmau5, Rob Zombie, Alice Cooper>Favorite MovieGhostbusters, Back To The Future, Beetlejuice, Batman 1989, Christine>Physical descriptionWhite, 5'11, dirty-blonde hair, some tattoos on my arm, glasses, blue eyes, deaf (I wear hearing aids and have the accent). I dress like a typical metal head in all black. >Looking forA biological woman to date in Oregon who (preferably goth) is loving/caring/compassionate/snuggly. I can be very clingy, so I need someone who is dependable and attentive. I do well with people who have a fucked up sense of humor (or at least tolerate off-color statements, (I make them all the time). I like nerds too and horror movie enthusiasts. I enjoy cosplay even though I can’t afford cons and don’t look good in cosplay or know how to make it. I’d like to go to thrift stores together n look for collectibles.>Not looking forMen of any kind, full stop. I cannot stress this enough,this might sound hypocritical, but if you're MtF also, I won't be interested at all. People who smoke cigs/vape/weed. Dog owners, taller than me, outspoken leftoids, weird fetishists, Blacks and Mexicans/muslims, gun owners, woke people, delusional religionist’s, unshaven armpits (poor hygiene in general), fat chicks>Contactsimdabat95
>>33083065>SexMale /m/>DescriptionLooking for a bisexual, straight or even lesbian girl (biological female) who is into 2D loli, and wants a relationship/family with a man. Contact me at rel587@protonmail.comI am wealthy, come from a good family and some attractive women have found me good looking. Not larping, I just want to find someone who is like me, but that has been almost impossible.If you want to contact me anonymously, just make a protonmail. It won't ask you to use a phone number nor alternate email account
>Role (dom/sub)Dom, not entirely against switching it up though>ASL26/M/Sweden>open to long distance (y/n)?Yep>physical description188 cm, 105 kg, kind of a dadbod. Mildly hairy body only shaving pubes and pit, willing to change based on partner preference. >life situationSingle living in own apartment, full-time job>hobbies/interestsGaming, music, trivia and a bit of light coding>religious beliefsAgnostic deist, or atheist if you want to simplify>political beliefsLeftie>dating experienceOnly really started post-COVID, i.e. not many>looking forWoman with subby tendencies for long-time relationship>not looking forMen>contactatwahrNice thread idea OP but this template ain't it
>Role (dom/sub)Switch but I lean heavily sub>ASL20/M/East Coast USA>open to long distance (y/n)?meh, im not picky>physical descriptionslim, short, classic skater nerd>life situationcollege student, not a neet>hobbies/interestsskating, music, vidya, lots of other sports. I have a gaming pc as well>religious beliefs>political beliefsChristian but idk if you are or something else>dating experienceextremely limited, want to get out there more>looking forany cis/trans women or NBs who are a switch or doms. femboys are ok as well. not picky, im open to most unless you're a guy haha. especially if you have interested in bondage, domination, stuff like that. add me if you want to know all my kinks>not looking forguys, and 100% subs. I dont mind switches at all. just no guys and no subs>contactAnonmosity on discordThe thread is new so I hope people see this. Also cannot upload a file, when you add i will show what I wanted to send
>>33085397messed up with religious and politics. im not political but i have some libertarian views
>>33084430>(post-op)ugh
>Apologies for the heavy offtopic here.>The person who I feel is the love of my life contacted me from one of these.>Now she's gone and I keep waiting for her to reach out (an IRL 3 year relationship)>Don't ever think meeting someone in here can be harmless.
>>33085529We are all just the sum of our experiences. What feels like hurt and hardship now will soon be the foundation of your next relationship. You're a bigger, better person now than you were 3 years ago regardless of how it ended.
>>33085529Are you sure it's a she? lol
>>33085692i would say reflection matters as much as experience. it's not just the raw input that shapes us but the way we process it. >>33085529you don't have to forget her and you don't have to fill that hole with another partner, either. so long as you do something to feel fulfilled, you're moving forward.
>Role (dom/sub)Dom>ASLM 26 from the northeast US>open to long distance (y/n)?Yes>physical descriptionWhite, brown hair, blue grey eyes, trimmed beard, glasses, broad shouldered/built (can show build in kik)>hobbies/interestsPlenty, just ask>dating experienceHad a few short things and hookups, one long term loving BDSM relationship of three years>looking forWomen, age really doesn't matter as much as getting along and everything lining up>not looking forMen, sorry I'm straight>contactKik: Tossout42
ASL: 33, bi m, 714 (California)Role: Straight acting submissiveOpen to long distance: yesPhysical description: 6ft, white, 190lbs, average buildLife situation: steady life, just looking for someone to fill the hole(s)Not looking for: findomContact: kik silentswede
>>33087941>>33088632Why advertise these servers here? These servers have nothing to do with the topic of this thread (despite your vague claims).
>Role (dom/sub)Bottom, mostly submissive>ASL31/AFAB/Midwest>open to long distance (y/n)?Y>physical descriptionTall and chubby/curvy>life situationLive with family at the moment. Working full time and going to school. >hobbies/interests>religious beliefsSpiritual but not religious>political beliefsEh>dating experienceHad two long term relationships, one with a female and one with a male>looking forRelationship, someone to help me explore my sexual nature and gender fuckery.>not looking forFuck buddies, purely sexual without getting to know each other>contactdiscord - ai.doll
>Role (dom/sub)Dom, sadist>ASL36/Male/Florida>open to long distance (y/n)?Yes only temporarily, and only with the express intention of meeting ASAP. >physical description6'5, strong, clean shave, long hair, very fat cock>life situationI live in a house by myself. I have two cats>hobbies/interestsLifting, rock climbing, photography, music (listening + making), vidya, technology. An assortment of interests otherwise>religious beliefsI'm agnostic/atheist. I don't personally believe in anything but don't have any strong attachment to it. I do not judge people for being religious personally, but I do find myself fundamentally incompatible with most religious people as our values and ways of thinking greatly differ. >political beliefsLiberal leaning, anti-extremist. Most liberals wouldn't agree with me on a lot of things, but most conservatives would blindly brand me a libtard. I think most people are fucking retarded when it comes to politics. >dating experienceI've been in multiple serious, long-term relationships, and I've casually dated>looking forWho fucking knows man. Someone with a good head on their shoulders. Someone who isn't too much younger than me that's intelligent, funny, passionate, kinky, etc. A bunch of shit I'm not going to find here, but I'm typing this anyways.>not looking forAnyone but biological females, underage, etc. Obvious shit, try to not be a retard.>contactwhythehellamipostinghere
>>33083065thats a really nice pic
>>330906187 replies during 20 minutesthen she ghosts you when you are about to start the fun stuff
>>33084430You’re a male. You can’t become female. You will always be a man. You don’t like that? Too bad bucko.
21 MLooking for girls or femboys who are willing to be my plaything and sext with.disc: jhin_lover
>>33090907That degenerate creature has as much merit to exist on this board as the average trad dom maleoid #372788 the way I see it
>>33090966lol based
>>33090967No but really, if they are such alpha doms, they should fuck off into IRL and actually approach real girls, and girls that look for big daddy doms should fuck off into IRL as well and wait to be approached. Soft but non-faggot guys are the only ones with an actual excuse to be here, that being too autistic/pussy to approach a woman IRL and women never approaching guys first IRL even if they know they are mutually interested, because >man's job
>>33083065>Role (dom/sub)dominant>ASL29/M/US, East>open to long distance (y/n)?yes, within the US.>physical descriptionpasty white guy that's 5'10" 160 lbs. short brown hair, green eyes, glasses.>life situationcustomer service wage-slaving until I can afford to go back to school and finish a degree in biomed tech. because of the customer service work history, I despise most people. if I'm talking to you, I think you're worth the time.>hobbies/interestsvideo games, weird movies, traveling, 3d printing, hamsters, rabbits, beekeeping.>religious beliefsnon-denominational christian.>political beliefsconservative, but I do not enjoy discussing politics.>dating experiencetwo long distance to IRL relationships>looking fora 23+ white biological gal that's a sub or switch.>not looking fornon-whites, normies, ham planets, dudes, trannies, political-brained idiots, etc.>contact.tucker94
>>33090907I’m a female. Not a man. U just mad I don’t want u
>>33090994having a domination kink is not the same as having a dominant personality typethese two things don't really get differentiated often online but it's plenty common for sexual submissives to be loud mouthed and fiery, or for dominants to be subtle and withdrawn.
>rolesub>ASL19, female, Finland >open to long distance?yes>physical description bit chubby, lots of scars, E cup, 5'2, bangs, pretty cute looking ^^>life situation not doing much atm, I live alone but don't go to school or work, tho that might change at some point >hobbiesvideo games, anime, vocaloid, drawing -religious beliefsnot sure, somewhat spiritual I guess, but not to an extreme at all-political beliefs anyone can do what they want as long as it doesn't harm other people, I don't like how important money is to everyone nowadays -dating experience a few ex bfs>looking fora man who's dominant, into mind control, maybe even sadistic, but I'd like to get to know you and actually talk, develop a deep connection, understand each other. I'm mentally really fucked up, and need alot of attention, in return I give you everything of myself, but only once we've got a connection. please take care of me. >not looking for anyone who doesn't want to actually get to know me, and will ask for nudes immediately, submission is a gift, I'm not yours immediately >contact my discord is mimiset
>>33090739Because I'm looking for a *relationship*, not fun.
>>33084430No one wants you here especially with you spamming every fucking thread on the board. Your TERF girlfriend is not here. Move along unless you want to continue getting ribbed on and made fun of everytime you post.
>>33091472yup that is what I am looking for too, but girls won't stick with a man that can't give her orgasms and you didn't even stick around to see my tricks or get to know meso fuck you I hope all your future dates are smaller than me
>>33091442Then why are they so loud and proud about being dom?
>>33091675You can act however you want on the internet. And they're not going to find the kind of subs they want by being timid about their desires."I'd like to control and degrade you...um...i-if that's ok with you." "S-sorry if I came on too strong. I'm not crazy, I swear." "P-please don't leave."
>>33091675sometimes it's just their personality. sometimes it's performative mimicry. sometimes it's masking insecurity. for the most part though it's just people who can't distinguish between "this is a dynamic that i enjoy as a part of kink" and "this is how i want my partner/dominant to be all the time". even if the end goal is a 24/7 kink dynamic, you still need to respect your partner enough to set limits, negotiate, etc. before jumping right in. and there are absolutely subs on the other side of the equation who seek that kind of behavior and want a truly toxic relationship rather than a normal, healthy relationship that explores toxic elements in kink. but i suspect that for a lot of them it's the exact same thing, they lack the experience and self reflection to differentiate between "being degraded gets me off" and "i neither want nor deserve respect as a human being". generally the former is more interested in short term or pick up play til they get bored or hurt (or harmed), and the latter in building healthy long term dynamics.given this is supposed to be a loving bdsm relationship thread i agree that the toxic dom stuff is especially a red flag here. it's just not inherent nor exclusive to us average dom maleoids.
>Role (dom/sub)Dom>ASL30/M/EST>open to long distance (y/n)?Y>physical description6'0" White guy with athletic build>life situationSix figure salary doing cyber security. Own a home and pretty comfy. Very stable life working out and making money. >hobbies/interestsCombat sports and technology. Also into typical 4chan stuff like anime and video games. >religious beliefsChristian, Bible teaches women should be subservient to men>political beliefsConservative>dating experienceLots>looking forSubmissive girl in her twenties looking for either a fun VC session or something more if we click. Would love a long term partner who wants a traditional relationship where she's provided for. >not looking forMen, trannies, people outside the US>contactwinnerlife93
>>33094035based as hell, this shit should be at the beginning of every "-dom" thread
>>33091455Sent you a message on discord, pvrsiMaybe we can get to know each other?
>>33083065>>Role (dom/sub)sub>>ASL30/f/arkansas>>open to long distance (y/n)?yes, but i'd like to relocate eventually>>physical descriptionfat, white, shoulder length brown hair5'4. 230lbswill send pics if you want, tho no nudes for a bit>>life situationcurrently living with family trying to scrape my life back together after i had a car accident that caused my car to be totalled, subsequently lost my job for being unable to perform for 2 weeks due to head trauma, and the only 2 friends i had up here abandoned me after i had a mental breakdown over it.i do have BPD, i understand that's a dealbreaker for most. Please have some knowledge of BPD or be willing to learn.>>hobbies/interestsi play video games occassionally, i like true crime, i do like to get out and be in nature, walking is just hard because of joint issues (not related to weight, though i am trying to lose weight), i also enjoy a form of taxidermy, making wet specimens>>religious beliefsi am norse pagan. please do not try to convert me. i am happy to discuss other religions but don't try to change my views and i wont try to change yours>>political beliefsleftist? if you can even call it that. the left has moved so far that even being center now is extremely politically left. i honestly cant be fucked dealing with politics. i have too much brain damage.>>dating experienceive had a few long term relationships, the majority of them being heavily bdsm influenced>>looking fordom man, around my age, at least 21+ though 25+ would be ideal. i like skinnier or more fit men (i know, i know, hypocrite), height isn't an issue, race isn't an issue though i do have a preference for white or asian men.>>not looking foranyone under 21. people who dont want to build a connection, racists, homophobes, ect. nazis, women>>contactdiscord - zephyrgore666
18 femboy uk (Dumfries)Looking for:Over 30 man, into a lot of kinks someone preferably quite controlling and strict ish. Prefer a gamer cause I game a lot too.Not looking for:Less than 30. Vanilla men. People who don’t speak English nativelyKinks: I basically love every kink. You’d struggle to find one I don’t like. However my favourites are:Flashing, public/online exposure, public/online humiliation, breathplay, finDom’d, blackmail, risk, petplay About me: I’m a gamer and play quite alot. I’m s neet so 24/7 available. I like overwatch, lol, RuneScape.I can’t wait to here from you and I hope you message me soon :)Discord: fishenjoyer69
>>33094559BPD isn't real you fat slag. Invented nonsense for spoiled girls to avoid emotional growth. Most terrifying thing about this post, if there are two chickns, there could be many.
>Sex27/M/straight>LocationNew York - but travel occasionally.>What are you looking for?Born in Russia, immigrated with my family to NY when I was 6.I work as a programmer, remotely from home.I also have my own small company that I started 4 years ago, making video gamesSo I do okay financially. But I live a pretty frugal lifestyle. I'm introverted so I mostly just stay at home, watch Youtube or play games. Walk my dog.Sometimes I like to travel, bounce around different countries, spending a few weeks or a few months in each.Recently I visited Dubai, India, and Vietnam.It doesn't matter what country you are from, I would be interested in getting to know you and talking to you. Girls only please, no gays or trans.I keep mostly traditional values.Not looking for sexual or explicit convos.I like science, history, animals, youtube, true crime, philosophy.>Discord:thecreatortcg_31803Also, the following applies to anyone: if you are interested in programming, video editing and vlogging, social media, entrepreneurship - reach out to me. I'm looking to collab with people and possibly fund a business.
>A/S/L 18 femboy uk DumfriesWould meet irl>Hobbies/Interestsvideo games, music, night walks, >what traits you look for in a partnerpreferably over 35 but close is fine. Looking for incredibly controlling men. Aggressive men. Men that don’t care about my well being >long distance? Perfectly fine>Looking for Long term extreme TPE owner. To control all decisions such as what I eat/ if I eat. Bathroom breaks, what I wear what I do in a day. Even extreme stuff such as what I do what I watch when I’m allowed to switch YouTube video ectOr I’d love even more extreme where I have to ask to change a video or to turn a light on>Dealbreakers/Not looking forbelow 30. Shy guys. People that can’t hold a chat. Vanilla people >KinksI love basically all kinks. You’ll come to find there is very little I won’t do or at least try.My personal favourites are; flashing, pain, embarrassment, risk, exposure, blackmail, online/game humiliation ALSO!!!! looking for a cult that I can be forced and blackmailed into and forced into a way of life I shouldn’t >Contact discord fishenjoyer69
>Role (dom/sub)Master/dom>ASL25 M North America>open to long distance (y/n)?Potentially>physical descriptionTall, broad shouldered, a little nerdy but pretty, kinda look like a more caucasian Joji>life situationStudent, scholar, artist, poet, and creature of the earth>hobbies/interestsI love the outdoors and learning about ideas!>religious beliefsNew Age, magical realist>political beliefsparanoic anarcho-syndicalist, used to be more libertarian/liberal>dating experienceVanilla, TPE, and mixed experience 8+ years>looking forMore slaves>not looking forTepid, unsure people who don't want to explore themselves and serve a master in some way shape or form>contactmrmustardseed