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Thought it would be nice to have an optimistic thread. Post your discord and goal you'd like to work on. Connect with others with that goal or similar to hold each other accountable.
>ASL
>Goal
>Discord
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>ASL
36/M/US/Bi
>Interests
/vr/: PS1, SNES, NES, NDS, SMD, GBA
/g/: DOS, ZXS, Amiga, C64, MSX, PC-98
/mu/: EDM, Hip Hop, Punk, Jazz, Industrial, Nu Metal
/fa/: Nautical, Goth, Visual Kei, Rivethead, Y2K, Shibuya-kei
/int/: French, Dutch, Catalan, Norwegian, Galician, Scots Gaelic
/a/co/: Iyashikei, Mecha, Mahou Shoujo, Cyberpunk, Dieselpunk, Furry
>Looking For
26 to 46 years old. Mature. Caring, loving, and affectionate. Nerdy, geeky, or dorky (cis, trans, or nb) whom I can share and relate mutual interests with. Neuro typical or neuro divergent, who can accept that I am legally autistic, have bipolar disorder, ADHD, and OCD. I don't expect you to like each thing that I do, or to have passion about each thing I follow,
just like I don't expect you to give up your interests and passions when you start seeing each other. But being able to relate and talk to each other about what we care about is an important thing. I come from an abusive child hood and had a rough upbringing as an immigrant
I am okay with being able to share and work through our issues together, but I don't want to have love built around trauma bonds / dumps
>Not Looking For
Calls. Kids, ever. Single parents. Poor hygiene. Gross, weird, or BDSM kinks. Polygamy. Neck beard, facial hair, or hairy men. Drugs, guns, edgy, or horny. I have been working over the years to leave the US and move near Spain, Belgium, Scotland, or Norway. Please nobody outside those regions
My other relations did not work out, because my last partners did not want to move away from their country, and leave their friends and family behind. I respect that, but I am very serious about moving abroad, this is non negotiable
I can accept your height, weight, belief, race, and gender, but I am not staying or going anywhere else. If you just don't see yourself in the future living near Spain, Belgium, Scotland, or Norway, I am not right for you. I can learn Italian, German, Irish, Welsh, Finnish, or Icelandic if needed
>Discord
scotaboo
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>>33151867
You’re a special kind of retarded
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>>33151931
He doesn't even read the thread titles he just spams every thread with this tldr mess lol, at the age of 36 too, what a mess lmao
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>ASL
23/M/Southern Brazil

>Hobbies/Interests
Geography, music, climatology, extreme weather, traveling, nature, languages, conspiracy theories (the ones that do have sense and are not completely denial), true crime, genealogy, fitness/cardio, spirituality.

>Goal
I want to move out from Brazil as soon as possible, lol.

>not looking for
Ghosters, low effort conversations.

>tag
Coalismo
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>ASL
20 M Norway
>Goal
be a IT Security expert and video game DEV
>Discord
adv3nced
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>>33153592
What's he mad about? :0
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>>33151022
I'm 160 pounds and I'm 5'7, my BMI is like 28 I dont fucking know anymore, I just need someone to help me lose weight or guide me

discord: katchopi
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>>33156140
>160 pounds 5'7
where the fuck did you get 28 bmi
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34/m/va
Kill me
3.5gs
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>A/S/L
36/M/US
>Interests
Can talk and shit post about:
/vr/, /a/, /co/, /mu/, /toy/, or /fa/
>Looking For
Someone else online that wants to know, learn, study, or teach:
Galician, Scots Leid, Irish, Welsh, Breton, Asturian, Scottish Gaelic, Doric, Shetlandic, Glaswegian, Dundonian, Orcadian, Ulster Scots, or Edinburgensian
>Not Looking For
Server, video, voice, horny, lewd, or porn
>Discord
yeeow
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>ASL
28/M/Alabama (CST)
>Orientation
Bi
>About you
Relatively chill, normalish guy comparatively to most peeps on the chans. I'm most social during late afternoon & evening. Got five cats who I love very much and will send you a lot of pics of. I'm very understanding about mental health issues and I don't mind discussing them, so I can alwayas an open ear if you need to vent to somebody. Started studying for IT certs lately, really fun. I am planning to build up a library of both books & physical media, really love cinema, literature, and gaming. Mostly just really fucking lonely at the moment, adult life is a pain. Talk to me about history, animals, or Linux in any order especially.
>Games?
Fallout New Vegas, Disco Elysium, Hollow Knight, any decent platformer really.
>Looking for?
Looking for people closer to 23 & above, won't go below 20.
People to message on Discord throughout the day. Fun, nice, talkative and passionate people who enjoy the things they're into and wanna tell me about em. Fellow adults who are a bit lonely online and like having/being company through Discord. All timezones welcome.
>Not Looking for?
I'm not interested in /pol/ or robots. I'm not into transphobes or homophobes..
>Tag
aristocat43
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>>33151022
>asl
x/f/europe

I'm looking for a study buddy.
add me if you're serious.
bonus if you're in Stem or CS

discord:
nyheraldtribune
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i want to develop anorexia. i have some more wants, but this is the main this i desire out of this. i won't send pics until i know you for a little while sorry
@pawtistic on telegram, no discord sorry
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>>33158454
I'm in the states, not sure how co-studying would work but could meet up once a week and share progress or something. Do you have any thoughts on how you what you're looking for?

>>33156140
if you want to motivate each other to work out I'm down.
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>ASL
21/F/Ireland

>Hobbies/Interests
Guitar, violin, singing, writing and studying mathematics and a few fields of science such as astronomy and psychology.

>Goal
looking to get back into working out and studying much more than I do as of now. Also looking to become much more well versed in terms of knowledge so, if you have any knowledge in other fields of science or if you have a lot to say about your life, that would be good.

>tag
corinthians3.12
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>ASL
36/M/US/Bi
>Roleplay
Caregiver
Middle
Sister
Brother
>Looking For
Ageplay
Middles
Motherly
Sisterly
>Not Looking For
Under 26
Hairy men
Babies
Littles
Daddy
>Discord
loba.espinho
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>>33159369
Accepted my request -> radio silence
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>ASL
25/M/Canada
>Bio
Dry sense of humor and level headed. Into firearms and fitness
>looking for
Daily chats, friends. Motivating one another - have a couple of fitness goals I'd like to reach within the next few months!
Also, I have spare time at work so I'll have my phone on me
>contact
skif762
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>>33158508
Not found
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>Status
Voyager Mission: Deep Space Exploration
>Sex/Gender, Age, Sexuality
Male long hair androgynous / Mostly gay / Timeless (~30)
>Location
WestEU/SAUerland
>Interests
Invertebrate keeping, plants, gaming/hardware, psychedelics, outdoor, nature
>Music: (Oldschool) Goa Trance, Techno, Industrial, Experimental, Folk, Metal, Ambient, Bhajans
Movies/Shows: Surreal, Horror, SciFi, Documentaries, Mindfuck/trip movies and series
>Games:
Vermin-, Darktide, AOE II DE, Stronghold DE, War Thunder, Warframe, Mass Effect 3/AMP, Battlefield 1/4
>About me, life goals and what I look for:
I have so little money that 'existantial minimum' is something I look up to (thanks to my ex BF but I'm emotionally over it but suffer finacially). Prove
yourself worthy and I show you my ways of survival including all the black backpack magic, repossession, salvaging and translocalization of all kinds. Be
near or ideally with me. Its not a problem to house someone just have your own legal adress and income, if you stay permanently I would also expect you to help
with electricity and internet cost. I have my own well furnitured apartment but I'm not a provider. Also no car so bring proper boots and endless stamina.
Embrace the darkness and it may embrace you <3

Not looking for lazy losers, teenagers that seek to run away from their parents or people who 'work' but have no time or money either. Be like me, no
attachments, no "friends" or family, one who is one with the void and ready to ascend even further. If you dislike humans and prefer solitude thats perfect.
Although for learning about each other you should be willing to video or at least voice chat. Its always weird in the beginning, but if you really want to
find someone we need to get through with it.
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I seek for a life partnership mainly, but my hopes are low and I'm used to be embarassed, so the focus is now to find compatible people in my age range for
summerly activities or "fwb" relation (exclusive, no one time shit). My long term goal is to get rid of this shitty rent debt (that my ex bf left me), save
and find a "holiday home" type property, build a giant greenhouse to it and live in it while becoming mostly self sustaining. No neighbors, but lots of
animals and even further adaption to the no money life. Its a lot of work, but fullfilling and not wageslaving. You reap what you sow. I would like to share
this with one cute likeminded male that never ages like me. In the best case, we would ignore the human society collapsing, although I'm very aware of the
coming events, I prepare for it and may even be able to use the changes in my favor if humans eradicate themselves.

For anything romantic / sexual: Don't be very masculine, hairy, unhygienic or fat. Long hair isn't a must but I like androgynity, ones that are 'in between' and young looking
but without the typical transgender/lgbt/fetish agenda mental illness. My fetish is true love and natural looks. If you want a "dom", "slave", "sissy" or
want to cut off body parts we are unlikely to be compatible. 25-~30 is the optimum age. Have a stable outcome for yourself, you don't need to be rich or
provide for me. For me it would already be a progress to find BF that can provide for himself and doesn't have any unresolved mental issues. No addictio
/ substance dependance, no habitual smokers (occasional hookah and hallucinogen binging is fine).

For anything else: We can likely hang out, do garden work, walks and other operations together, I can teach you many things including how to cook and grow
almost any type of plant. We can go out for deep forest nightwalks and trip together.
>Contact
endzeitromantik @ emailn . eu

Write at least 3 sentences why you want to contact me
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>A/S/L
36/M/US
>Interests
DOS, C64, ZXS, PC-98, MSX, NES, SG-1000, AST, Amiga, SMS, PCE, SMD, SNES
>Looking For
Bit Music, Chiptune, Sequencer & Tracker, FM Synthesis, Midi, Doskpop
>Not Looking For
NSFW
>contact
juriamo
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>>33158454
A literal natzi, so if youre not into that kind of thing, probably stay away. To be fair the pfp advertises it pretty well lol
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25/m/NYC

Looking for a female gym accountability friend, have been going for the past year and made huge progress. Want to send eachother progress pics, hold eachother to account, and celebrate successes!

No guys

discord sendmecatpics_
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I know we're optimistic in this thread so I will be nice about this but... apparently many of us are not very good at reading

>ASL
32/M/US

>Goal
Daily self-study of math/computer science
Daily work on my programming projects

>Discord
npaulrus. Let me know in your first message what you're messaging me about
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>>33163011
tldr are u a woman or not
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ftm/looking for someone to motivate or bully me into working out consistently.

Ideally from a gymrat, advice and points highly appreciated. I’m around 168 cm around 55 kg but I can barely do a pushup and I want to be stronger. A mentor in this regard would be great, or someone with similar goals so we can help each other. Idk I’m just working out at home right now, I just want to get into the habit or continually working out.

Also just being a long term friend online would be cool too, im chill I prommy and I don’t mind lewd stuff either if it gets to that point. Anyway add me if you’ve read this far and are interested.

Drop your disc contact sorry I don’t want to put my contact I want serious inquiries and not dudes asking to see pussy
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>>33164946
>>33164727
see my post, would love to motivate/bully

discord: sendmecatpics_
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Ooo this is a nice thread idea!

>ASL
33/F/US

>Goal
Be a better writer! I would really like to find some friends who are interested in writing. I’m in a master’s English program and I like the idea of bouncing ideas off each other when we’re stuck. I also write and record FSA kinda things, a writing buddy for that would be amazing.

My second goal is to make friends in general; it’s so hard to make friends as an introverted adult! I tend to be flirty and make a lot of dirty jokes, if you’re into that kind of thing without expecting it to turn into something serious, or like erping/sexting/pics. (Also I use emojis, in case that bothers anyone)

>discord
Pumpkinplz
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>>33164643
problem?

yes I'm racist
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>>33165644
Tits or get out.
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>>33165635
Do you only want to be friends with guys? I’m also not a writer (love to read though) but would be down to be friends with another 30+ girl.
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>>33165690
I’m fine with friends of any gender!
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>>33165786
Added you, I really want to workout/study more but I also write poems. My username starts with a B
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>ASL
32/M/Florida

>Goal
Just do better in general I guess? I currently don't have a real job and don't exercise like I should.

I used to have someone who bully/cared about me on this front till I messed it up this week. So I guess I could use one of those again.

>discord
ray.olight
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>>33165644
>"if youre not into that kind of thing"
You do you boo!
Iam just trying to save people the hustle of wasting time on someone, if they find people abominable based on that disgusting trait.
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>>33158454
same poster who larped as 'barely legal" and then banned everyone who added him based on that and called them pedos
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>>33166751
I mean honestly, that doesnt really seem bad in any way? If the draw to someone for you is that they are barely legal....you might have some problems. Nice way to weed out a bunch of degenerate 4channers. Game recognizes game
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this board fucking sucks, everyone is mentally ill and not in a good way. I get better convos with normie girls off tinder.
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>A/S/L
36/M/US
>Interests
Lena Platonos, Linea Aspera, Art Fact, Anne Clark, Wolfsheim, Clan of Xymox, The Birthday Massacre, Yapoos, Psyche, And One, Camouflage
>Looking For
EBM, Electro-Industrial, Industrial Techno, Synth Punk, Dark Electro, Industrial Hip Hop, Power Noise, Glitch Hop, Futurepop, Aggrotech, New Beat
>Not Looking For
e-sex
>Discord
ebmidm
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>>33166751
so what? I'm a girl btw Just because I blocked your pedo ass doesn't mean I'm a guy lmao


>>33166754
thanks for the support my friend.
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>>33170517
Hope you did well on your exam today
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>>33170517
Gotta say i do not like being called a friend by a natzi....so....gonna be a no from me.
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Looking for an accountability partner for gym stuff. Preferably a bikini or figure competitor and/or powerlifter, but other divisions of bodybuilding are cool too. Or anyone who is kind of competitive in either sport. I'm having trouble with weight loss so don't necessarily want to talk to hard gainers, sorry.

I've done three shows and about ten powerlifting meets. Currently have a coach but am not in prep for anything.
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28/M/US

I like movies, games, history, and probably other stuff.

My life is mostly together but my social life is not what I want it to be and I'm a little lost on how to fix that and very bad at keeping up motivation and doing things like making weekend plans on time. It would be great to have and accountabilibuddy in a similar position to bounce thoughts off of and help keep each other on track. Maybe even a friend-making-for-retards groupchat.

discord: emperorlondo
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>ASL
26, M, Michigan
>Goal
Mitigate or get rid of weed and achieve me goals of weightlifting and losing 30lbs.
>Discord
heymand6
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I'm a visual artist, would love to talk to creative types, get to know each other. I'm going through a rather rough patch motivation-wise, so connecting with interesting people could help a lot in that regard.


Discord: magic_man777
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>ASL
27/m/NZ
>about you
oldfag who browses /biz/, /fit/, /g/, /tv/, /o/
I enjoy gaming, hunting, fishing, diving, hiking, snow sports, movies, game dev, home servers, cars
I'd like to get into reading more, recommend me good books
>goal
someone to help me quit smoking
>contact
lwntrp
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>ASL
f22 usa
>Goal
lose 20 pounds, maybe more :]
>Discord
tychiph

this template sux. you dont have to be actively losing weight yourself though it would be preferred. i like talking about nutrition and dieting and researching related info, would be down to discuss/share studies. dont be on a fad diet. mainly interested in someone who will enable me to push myself back into an eating disorder
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ASL: m/22/USA
Discord: godjunmo
Goal: find an egirl

Just looking for a egirl that’s I can talk about philosophy with and play league of legends
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>>33164643
Oh shit, nice, I'll try adding her, thanks for the tip
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>ASL
f 18 Canada
>Goal
get better at marketing
>Discord
.deeta
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>>33180163
LoL
show me your (you) when you add me i will talk to you the most
my new username: balkanroulette
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help me not text my ex, it’s getting bad
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>>33151022
https://discord.gg/uRddzkEC
DISCORD.GG/QAFE
WE HAVE KIDS
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>>33180235
i will help if u want just drop tag desu
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>>33165635
You still around? You seem cool and I'd love to have someone to bounce my writing off of that can give me a more nuanced position thats less biased on knowing me well already.
24/mtf if that matters.
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Friends
I have an insane amount of things to list on eBay. It will take several months of maxing out free non business accounts to get through it, and I hate doing it. It's boring and lame but the money is nice and I have too many things sitting around my house
32m, they're mostly toys and video games. If you harass me about doing this I can harass you back about what you need to do.
Disc: nicotinefeeds
keep me on track pls
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>>33151022
>ASL
24 / Male / Slavic

>Goal
Keep up with my evening routine of breathing exercises, stretching and meditating
Progress on my fitness journey
Remember to do my skincare before sleep

>Discord
primhedron
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>>33151022
>ASL
M/24/US

>Goal
I just want to be happy again, I lost everything even my reddit account which I was talking to people I feel cast out from society, I'm afraid of my future I'm ashamed that OF models make so much money out of doing nothing, I dreamt of a better world for everyone, I literally remember telling my grandma before she passed away, I was playing Halo 2 and told her I wanna be an astronaut, sorry I won't fullfill that promise and off myself

>discord
lone_wanderer37
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>>33151022
>ASL
31 m us
>Goal
a female partner to support me or strive me in the right direction, kinda like a mentor in life
>Discord
whoguessed
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>>33151022
>accountability
Accountability based on what? On the subjective opinions of the other person?
To basically nothing of your own and clay to be held "accountable" and molded in an image of the other individual's aesthetic views?
Are you all retarded or super retarded?



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