>>33579384
>Jannies Are Newfags And Deleted The Other 22nd Thread Edition
Because you keep posting links asking for donations which are against 4chan rules. If this is the 22nd version of the thread you should know this by now. RTFM.
https://www.4chan.org/rules#global
>11. Advertising (all forms) is not welcome—this includes any type of referral linking, "offers", soliciting, begging, stream threads, etc.

>>33579409
>you keep posting links asking for donations
I wasn't the anon who posted the deleted thread which contained the link, you sausage

is there even a point in using this site if you're a man?

>>33579995
nope
All women on it are super mentally ill and looking for simps

is 24 to 18 an ok age gap? it seems alot but alot of people r 18

>>33580295
if you are both consenting to the relationship and don't develop an abusive dynamic then it literally doesn't matter. i started dating a 25 year old as an 18 year old and we are still happily together 2 years later. shared interests, personality compatibility, life experience and equal emotional intelligence/maturity should matter more than just a number

i'm willing to wager every account from Uintah, Utah, and Winton, Washington are bots

mfw TOO autistic

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>"Last Online: Now"
>no replies

>>33579995
I'd like to think there is for the off chance a real one comes by but there are a ton of women who aren't even pretending to take it seriously. I just cut out anyone below the age of 25 at this point because they're just looking for sugar daddies or put zero effort into their profile. How the fuck am I supposed to get a feel for someone if they've got no bio and only like 110 questions?

On a side note, interesting how many vtubers I have in my recommendeds.
>>33580295
It's all legal, who cares?
>>33580476
I've got a 72% with a girl using that image but the account is newer than your post. No bio either, lol.

>>33579384
>>33579444
I made the previous thread and just copied some older OP because I had it in an opened tab. Normal people wouldn't consider this advertising, but I guess it gives haters like >>33579409 some attack surface.

looks good

petition for reported/bot accounts to not count toward "Gets Replies To" metric

>>33580295
most people don’t care. like 90% of them. the only people giving the 18 year old shit are going to be their 18 year old friends. no one else on the planet cares. hell, some people go for younger than that and nobody bats an eye as long as you don’t age like milk.

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idk why but this is so funny to me

there's fucking nobody in europe worth even talking to.
any fembots in europe who wanna just have a bf and play vidya together

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Went on a few great dates with a girl that I was really feeling. Things got lewd even. I wasn't sure if it was gonna lead to forever but I did enjoy hanging out with her and thought maybe it could turn into something else. Was a total one in a million. Lots of shared interests.

Said she doesn't wanna pursue anything romantically or intimately with me today when I asked her out. Gut punch. What a shame bros.

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I know you guys like to complain about women on duo, but this image unironically sums up 90% of the interactions I get when I don’t react to your retarded openers or cock rate / nudes requests.

>>33586161
least unhinged sonygger

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>>33586168
He reminds me of Idubbbz if Idubbbz had aids.

>>33586161
So this is a reply to rape rp turned into a cucking situation or what happened here

would be nice to add a filter that hides bitches who never respond to intros, a percentage threshold or something

>>33586161
i added a girl from here. she wanted some sex pic exchange but turned out to be quite ugly. ended up acting just like this guy. if that's what women experience on a daily basis then i finally understand the bear meme

>>33586161
They do this because it works by the way, bitches can't help but respond to guys like this.

I understand that the ratio of men to women is pretty bad, however, my god are the women their stuck-up. I feel like 70% of my conversations i've had to do most of the talking. Now of course, I did originally go in as a joke of a profile, but come on. These women will get nothing except mass attention. Which I guess is good enough for them.

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This app fucking sucks

>>33579384
I met like 1 person on Duolicious but they disappeared and I haven't heard from them in months (through discord).
Most Duolicious women will either ignore you or message you once before ignoring you entirely, it's stupid.

>>33587589
this has to be a troll

>>33587624
>3 jobs
Probably, hopefully.
>>33587589
I tried the app like 3 times, never heard from a single woman over the course of who knows how manhy months. Thankfully met a good pool of girls on here with at least one who is showing promise so far as far as potetnial marriage material goes but even Tinder gives me like a dozen likes within a day with my looks (granted they aren't necessarily the type of girls I would like based on interests and looks). Maybe it could benefit from some sort of matching system besides just the questions but the nature of it being this sort of memey site makes it unlikely for many to take it seriously as an avenue to meet any sort of life partner or whatever.

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Today, I will remind them.

>>33587569
>>33587605
The vast majority of women on dating apps like this (and on /soc/, really) aren't looking for partners. They're looking for entertainment. They want monkeys to cure their temporary boredom, and once they're sufficiently pleased, they will drop you and move on to the next entertaining loser. Men are a commodity to them, nothing more. That's not to say there aren't exceptions, but that's just how things generally are. Blame social media and simp "culture" for enabling this kind of behavior.

>>33585280
It's grim man, duo is a barren wasteland for us euros. It's even worse now than a few months ago.

I have been telling all of you to kill ourselves. No one listens to me. You are only delaying the truth and the right path.

Or just jerk off and go to sleep

>>33588771
grim. i’m glad i gave up a long time ago. putting on a circus for these cunts that got a long list of other clowns waiting for her is never worth it.

>>33589612
i talked to a girl in the discord and straight up she said (paraphrasing) "yeah that's the way it is, you need to entertain me" same girl had been using it for like 6 months and hadn't gone on a single date.

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I just released a new feature on web: Voice bios

They currently play automatically when someone visits your profile which could be annoying. Let me know how how you all go with it.

>>33582175
Yeah, I've seen the other anons do it and they were fine

>>33584008
They stop being counted once the reported account is deleted

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You record your message on the profile tab, here

>>33589702
Thanks for this feature! I love uploading unique biometric identifiers!

>>33589709
I don't want everyone to know what a nerd I sound like :(

>>33589838
>implying every guy isn't going to put Randy from South Park saying "NIGGERS!" (bass boosted)
and i thought *i* was naive

>>33589860
Not a single person has uploaded anything yet. Not even randyposting.

>>33589838
>>33589847
Would you ever post in a vocaroo thread?

>>33579384
if you get x'd does your intro replied rate go back up, or only when the account is gone?

>>33590003
Only when the account is gone. Why would getting skipped count as a reply?

https://web.duolicious.app/me/3ReseOk

>>33590016
skipped after sending an intro

my gif won't upload. i select it, it does the little spinny "uploading" animation, and then it just doesn't appear.

>>33590277
It's probably too big, either in terms of file size or dimensions. It needs to be between 10x10 and 800x800 pixels, and it can't be any bigger than 10 MB.

I'll probably add a more informative error message in the next 24 hours.

>>33589702
I don't like it.

>>33590515
Duodaddy, when are you going to give us the option of sorting people by their replying percentage? People have been demanding it for weeks now.

>>33591832
I'm just glad to have it shown at all. My matches are very slim as it is and it's good to know who not to bother wasting time on.

I recorded myself. What would emotionally stable men prefer to hear from a woman?

>>33592649
You are soo handsome please be my super sexy chad husband and have hot romantic unprotected baby making sex with me uwu
Something like that would probably work.

>>33592661
https://voca.ro/1omkZnbZTPv6

>>33592712
Yeah thats the least sexy way you could possibly say it, still 10/10 I think that would work perfectly

>>33592009
Same, bro. Now we can avoid all those
>Gives Replies To: 3% of intros
>Gets Replies To: 100% of intros

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Good job goyims

Has the data breach thing been fixed?

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>>33593239
Although it's impossible even for Tinder to prevent scraping, I've made it harder by disabling access from Tor, disabling disposable emails, and enforcing stricter rate limits.

I suspect that the people who made duoleak were the same ones who published the fake European academic paper. The paper says they got passed rate limits by using accounts created using disposable addresses and a VPN. Although it's hard/expensive to disable VPN access, I think the other measures should go a long way.

There's also a privacy filter to hide yourself from unverified users.

>>33591832
I've got a couple of tickets for filtering by reply rate and "last online" time:

https://github.com/duolicious/duolicious-backend/issues/507
https://github.com/duolicious/duolicious-backend/issues/506

Not sure when I'll have time for them

>girl writes to me first
>I respond
>she never responds
???????????????

>>33593816
probably a bot; had that happen to me a couple of times
check their "replies to intros" rate, if it's zero it's definitely a bot

>>33592731
>not sexy

TT _ TT

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> be me
> come back after 4 months
> feed still dead af
> oh, that's the girl I was obsessed with who ghosted me on Discord without even reply my first message
> decide to message her again, new account so she won't know it's me, for now
> no reply
> last online 19 days ago

damn

>>33594814
Well its whats on the inside that matters frend, don't worry about ti too much

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How am I looking?

Why/how is it free?

>>33595828
lmao did they add those stats? the total blackpill stats. OP that is wrongthink you're not allowed to expose foids like that. holy based

Its very disheartening trying to start a conversation with people on duo. Or at least it is for me because I'm retarded. I've found the best success when I open with some vague insult but then I don't know how to follow up because I don't like actually being mean to women.

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If you see someone, that means their filters are set for you?
I see a lot of ages that make me question if that's real

>>33595992
Starting conversations isn't hard but I've yet to meet a woman who doesn't make me carry the entire thing. At least show a little bit of interest if you bothered to respond in the first place.

>>33586989
How does it help, anon? It only helps if you’re desperate for any form of female attention. You won’t get a proper convo or her socials when you act like this, let alone a meet up.

I only login to make sure my meme account doesn't get deleted

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How am I supposed to verify my photos using this stuff?

I was told I'm too attractive and autistic this is why I don't get messaged first

>>33596367
Sweet thanks for the heads up, I'll try and get some nudes out of her right now

>>33596100
Well yes, they are.
It's basically like how women post thirst trap pics on their profile to rake in messages, but in reverse, they send out hate to every woman to rake in replies, some people just want attention and nothing more.

>>33596238
This explains why I never got a single intro ever lol. I even checked out the other guys and could only find like two half decent looking ones close to my level, granted that was just out of the gay/bi ones but still. If only I was capable of messaging girls first...

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>>33596378
Ok, that was a huge mistake

How can i contact duodaddy directly?

guys wtf are u supposed to send to ppl
esp if the profile doesnt have any interests or w/e

>>33596454
You don't send messages to those profiles

>>33596394
I just think with my dick whenever I message first its works pretty well imo

>>33579384
No darkmode for the app yet? At least a high contrast mode?

>>33581273
I'm a sugar daddy and haven't found a single girl so far who is looking for one.

>>33596107
Same!!!

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No way to share/link profiles? Interesting move.
Either way, tell me if this looks like complete shit.

2edgey4me

>>33596732
Genuinely terrible profile. You're completely unaware of how unfunny you are

>>33596732
this isnt actually that edgy if u just read it desu. the last line is like a punch to the gut though, all this half-pretentious half-sarcastic schizobabble into "im sexually violent" is funny as fuck and does not mesh well at all

>>33596187
You reload a bajillion times until the robot says yes.

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>>33596751
>>33596758
>You're completely unaware of how unfunny you are
>is funny as fuck and does not mesh well at all

All of these mixed messages, feels like college all over again.
It was a spur of the moment thing, I don't really put a lot of thought into what I write anymore because I am completely mindfucked.

Honestly I'm just glad I wrote in complete sentences and was resolute enough to have a voice on a platform of some sort. I'll probably forget about it in a day, but in all attempts, both catering and inauthentic, I have found that it doesn't matter for engagement.

>mfw I'm so unfunny I round back to funny

>>33596732
>>33596764
>wordswordswords
where's the joke fuckley
>>33596578
bullshit

>>33596764
Doesn't matter if it's funny or not, you write way too much to say too little. Women don't like someone who can't just say something and get to a point

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>>33596788
There's a voice memo that frames the bio but I can't link profiles.
I put it in ChatGPT just for (you).

So should I download this app? Can I really find fencers on there or is this just a massive psyop so the feds can get to know me better

>>33596808
Fencers?

They don’t charge you money and it has interesting gimmicks.

I did recommend the app to a male friend and also my female friends. So far so so results. Dating is still rough.

>>33596813
Femcels

I finally got a reply and it's some crazy girl or someone roleplaying as a crazy girl

>>33596808
Femcels don't exist, but there's plenty of bpd whores on here.
It isn't possible to be a femcel and anyone larping as one is just picky.

>>33596808
Since you're a ph*neposter, no you shouldn't

>>33593341
I know you don't want to socially engineer things too, but we need to come up with a way to incentivize girls to send intros. Bitches be sending one intro for every thousand they receive

>>33597391
Why would they put in the effort when they don't have to? It'd be nice if they did but looking at it from their perspective, there's no point when everyone comes to you. Half of them can't even fill out a profile or answer more than 150 questions.

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Idiot here. I've noticed that some audio bios are getting saved as empty files. If you've noticed that your audio bio doesn't play after reloading the (web) app, can you please let me know:

>if you're on web or mobile
>if web: what browser you're using (e.g. Firefucks 128)
>if mobile: whether you're on Android or iOS

what OS you're using might also be useful

>>33597740
>there's no point when everyone comes to you.
Well considering some of them have been talking to people regularly and have accounts that are over 9 months old in some cases I would argue they would have much better luck if they actually looked for a match instead of entertaining the desperate guys who flood all their inboxes.

>>33597783
As much as (some) women may complain about incels having really poor social skills, women also tend to have really poor social skills. Possibly worse in the case of sending messages first, since they've never been expected to do it.

Is this app actually any good? The majority of women on there are trying way too hard to be edgy. I did get approached by one "femcel" but that girl stopped replying after like 5 messages (right after changing her profile to memes crying about nobody replying lmao).

I did try approaching my highest match who was some 18 year old. cute but a complete bum (no job, no college, only plays roblox). As expected she ghosted after talking for a few hours. I don't have any pics of myself but I wonder if it'd make a difference

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>>33598369
Im sorry that didn't make any sense.
What I meant to say was,

I've never gotten any changes in engagement no matter how I've composed my profiles, with my face or not, and at different times of the year over the past few years whenever it suited me.

It never changed that nobody ever reached out to me, which is my preference, as the stereotype of our cultural courtship rituals so often go.

I'm also a gay lil writer who sees a little too much of the world. It's probably different in isolated spheres. Everyone is shy so treat it like tindr or treat it like grindr, it's ur spectrum lil autie guy

>>33598304
It isn't. It's a dating app where nobody has pictures of themselves, the women are absurdly picky despite offering less than your typical tinder normie, and there is hardly anyone on it.
Devguy, require pictures (maybe offer a service to anonymize uploaded pictures via SD or something) or your service is dead.

>Talk to girl
>Get on really well for months
>She starts talking less and less
>Ask her whats up
>She gets mad at me for asking
>Talk to her less and less over the next few months
>She gets mad at me for doing anything
>Ask her if there is anything she wants to do together
>She says no and gets mad again

The fuck is up with these girls? She literally doesn't want to do anything together at all so I just blocked her ass.

Some people were very rude to me, am I allowed to have people deleted for not being nice?

Maybe I just have bad luck but Duolicious has been the opposite of useful. I went on IRL dates from it and none resulted in sex.

Contrast this to directly talking to girls on this board which almost always results in sex.

To save time on anyone asking about how on the dates and the sex, there's no trick, I'm tall and handsome, the end.

No findom club? Asking for a friend

>>33596732
>The Nobody general fags are on the move
I'll drag you back to /x/ myself if I have to.

>>33597391
It can't be solved with software. It is a consequence of the sexual revolution and there is no way back.

>>33579384
gonna take this girl's virginity and then tell her she has to walk home after i cum
god i hate women so much it's unreal

>>33602529
Why don't you make like der Fuher and K Y S

>>33603784
wwyd if i took you on a date apple picking an hour away but we stopped at the gas station and I drove away when you got out

>>33603893
Shoot your tires and then you.

lol, whoever is with that Kamila girl now since she's apparently taken: she was sending me nudes and begging for my dick last night. She's a whore, don't get used bro

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>>33602104
Beggars can go elsewhere

>>33605109
Take her apple picking

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>>33579384
This post is good as any. Why bother with dating apps, /soc/ and any way to finding people on the internet? What % o people looking for partner online are men? 80? 90? All those poor bastards spamming all threads, apps, forums etc for what feels like months with no results.
Why are you guys even bothering? I'm asking because I came here right now as to see how /soc/ has been after so many years of me not being here and first thing I see is such degeneracy that I doubt there are any women here whatsoever. What kind of woman wouldn't turn off the page the moment she sees like 5 posts with pictures of dicks? Maybe some attention whore who enjoys teasing men or wants to scam you out of your money.
No seriously. There are hardly any women willing to find love on the internet, and getting laid is easier irl anyway if you just want to fuck. All I see is bunch of socially inept spergs who are desperate and being desperate has to be one of the most unattractive traits for women which makes it even less likely for any women to ever come here. It all feels so disheartening to watch... its the same feeling when I'm watching this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x2KH5AoyeBc
A bird, last of its species, singing, hoping to find a partner but its unbeknownst to the fact that its never going to happen, just how vast majority of men statistically speaking will also never find any partner on the internet.

>>33605409
>getting laid
Well yeah anyone can get laid, hookups are for degenerates though. Nobody worth anything goes for them and all the women that do just end up settling for a financially stable dude who will accept that sexual history in their 30s.

I haven't gotten a single intro in weeks, but I get getting notifications that people are downloading my profile pics. Uh? Please tell me I didn't become a lolcow and people are mocking me on Kiwifarms or something.

>>33605807
Thats called having a penitz

>>33605807
What? It doesn't notify me about that

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>>33605807

>>33579384
i'm a girl and i've only gotten six intros since making my account a few hours ago, is the site dead or is racism back?

>>33605909
I live in a shitty city if I want to meet brown girls I'd go outside

>>33605909
yes.

>>33605511
Incels can't get hookups either. Women do not understand the male experience.

>>33605909
nigger

>>33606063
okay but that literally has nothing to do with what i said. when i made my account months ago i was overwhelmed with the amount of dms i got. now with this new account, i barely have gotten any interaction. back to tinder i suppose.
>>33606493
i eat white boys like you for breakfast

>>33605909

Definitely feels like there are less people using the site now. My response rate went from like 20% to 49% and I am guessing it's because most girls aren't getting many intros anymore.

Literally every single girl on there seems like more trouble than worth.

>>33606566
definitely, i even verified myself and used a real picture this time and got less matches than when i used some random black anime girls. (i'm not fat, trans, or ugly/offputting so idk)

also the people in my search have been offline for daysss and i set the search for age, gender, and location to any but it only increased the intros by a bit more. so i ended up just adding the people that msged me on discord and deleting the account.

if this is actually what the overall male experience is like on dating apps, i am so sorry.

I'm taking the risk and making an account. Too autistic to meet guys irl and edating always went well in the past.

>>33606632
Well if you were in my matches I'd probably shoot you an intro.
>if this is actually what the overall male experience is like on dating apps, i am so sorry.
I've been on the site for about a month now, have a filled out profile, verified but not public pictures of myself, over 1700 questions and nothing schizo on the profile. Not a single intro. I get about a 60% response rate so I guess it isn't that bad but welcome to hell. You don't exist as a guy and when you do show up on their radar, you're immediately replaceable with like 20 other dudes.

>>33606232
If you're not like disfigured and make an effort to look presentable then go around just asking as many girls as possible for their number you'll definitely find someone. Lots of guys don't try super hard. You're going to be rejected a few times before you find a girl.

>>33606632
Except in guys case, that's with us doing the messaging. not sitting around waiting for others to initiate something with us.

Also it's not just dating apps, it's that way in real life too.

>>33579384
>be average guy
>try my best doing a profile with good photo & nice description
>try chatting with women
>some cool responses and convos but nothing big
>always have to carry the discussion since supposedly it's in MY interest to talk to them
>get 1 intro from a aut/bdp who expected that I'd be ok with being treated like shit and putting up with her antics
>start thinking - Am I so undesirable that a decent girl would rather lose a leg than show interest in me???
>skip some months with no intros and boring convos
>be tweaking my profile
>remember to look @ privacy settings - Hide me from strangers enabled
>get an intro within 2 days after changing it

Being a retard is exhausting sometimes. She already stopped responding but I feel a little better about it. Duolicious still is dogshit and has profound crippling flaws that won't be changed cause duofaggy is a tard just like me & his continuous work on the platform without addressing such issues will be as meaningful as doing a skin care routine on a cadaver.

>>33605807
>put yourself out there on a site that stemmed from 4chan
>wtf people are downloading photos of me
that’s to be expected. what did you actually expect? it doesn’t help that more and more zoomgroids are joining this place everyday. the likelihood that one of them is only on duolicious to lolz@yourlifebruhfrfr is pretty high. they thrive off it. it’s part and parcel of nuchan.

>>33606963
boomhauer method is only worth if you have 0 self respect or truly don’t give a shit what people think of you (im looking at you, sleazegods)

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I replied to a girl with this copypasta and she hasnt replied despite being online hmmm I wonder why. She must be busy haha!

>>33608179
Who would respond to something that dumb?

>>33608324
The girl I sent this to, Hopefully

>>33596732
im wet i need to find you on here

>>33607799
>be me
>read this
>mentally facepalm, go to change my setting immediately
>'Hide Me From Strangers - No'
>tfw

>>33608516
>>33608466
Now kissth

As a guy who also gets no pull on Duo this thread is a try not to cringe challenge

I made a catfish account pretending to be a girl and I got 0 (zero) intros so far, whats wrong?

>>33609281

Too obvious maybe. Also how does the replied to counter look for new accounts? Maybe people saw you got 0% replied to and were like yeah nah..

>>33609394
I think it says 100% for new accounts.

Making elaborate bio seems so cringe to me. Doe shat shit even helps? Im not saying I would write nothing but some two or three lines of some edgy/funny/whatever stuff seems more natural.

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>>33609394
>>33609440
They now just removed it entirely if they've never replied or given any replies.

You should all jack off and go to sleep. It will be more productive that trying to find anything on this app

>>33610414
Maybe I could jack you off, anon....

>>33610423
https://youtu.be/JKQwgpaLR6o
Im good. Thanks for asking

>>33588771
This is the ultimate, logical and truthful answer

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>>33608324
Alhamdulillah

whats the point of this app?

>>33613651
Entertainment for women. Sisyphean torture for men.

>>33606963
False. If a guy is bottom 10% he will be rejected every time.

>>33613651
Ego boosting for women, self-esteem obliteration for men

>>33613651
Misogyny accelerationism

>>33613651
To crush men's souls further

i spend the whole day visting a girl i met on here last saturday. it was a fun day. i thought it went well. a couple days go by and im blocked on discord. i genuinely have never felt so bad in my life. i never want to wake up again i feel so sad

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>>33616845

>>33616845
like i literally went to the other side of the country. 8 hours on a train. and they can't even be honest to me and say, 'sorry i wasnt feeling a connection but nice meeting you' or some bullshit. anything to even slightly save my feelings. but no just blocked. like im nothing. i feel so stupid. humiliated. empty.

i don't know how people do this shit. trying to 'put myself out there' has done nothing but make me feel so much worse about myself after im inevitably cast aside. finally i think shit goes my way for once. we get on, have a fun date. no obvious points where it could go wrong and god is like; whoops, wrong outcome. What a mix up! I forgot my plan for you was to die alone!

>>33605109
post?

>>33617000
Don't be so hard on yourself, anon. I made a similar mistake recently. Around the start of this year I drove for 11 hours to visit a girl who I first met about a decade ago on a dating app. She ended up blocking me too some months later. Prior to that, she'd met me a couple of times in my home city (seeing as she was holidaying with her family anyway). In fact, she was the one who asked me out those two times. She was also the one who first messaged me on the app, years ago. Though the whole time I've known her, she'd frequently leave me on read then apologize for it later. I'm not sure what to make of that other than that she's a very fickle person. I think she's been single the entire time I've known her, and I think it's because of odd behavior like that. The moral of the story is:

>Don't meet women who use dating apps
>Don't travel for hours just to see a foid unless you're sure they'd do the same for you
>If a woman does something against you, it might be partly your fault, but it could also be because she's a crazy bitch and/or a heartless cunt

This is why dating apps are such a bad way to meet women. Women are on dating apps because they're not finding what they want IRL. Women who can't meet the right men in real life are typically just defective.

>>33617135
>Women who can't meet the right men in real life are typically just defective.
And to be fair, the men typically aren't much better. The men also aren't finding enough women IRL, which means they're from one of two groups:

1) They already get plenty of women, but they want more
2) They get zero pussy because they're unattractive

>>33605109
oof ive been talking to her on discord after she deleted her duo acc.. shit man thanks for the heads up i owe ya one.

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I've been talking to a girl on discord, someone I added from Duo months ago but the convo died. Out of boredom, I sent her a message again and we started chatting regularly last week, not a lot, but at least 3 to 5 messages a day, but she even starts the conversation sometimes, so I know I’ve got her attention, I think

The thing is, I’ve been wondering if she might be tranny. She acts super cute, sometimes a bit too much, and she’s into super niche games and stuff that makes me question if a girl would really be into all that. We haven’t voice chatted or played games together yet

I don’t have an issue with it when it comes to friendship, but romantically, it’s kind of a concern for me

Maybe I’m just a schizo, I know some trans people don’t put it in their bio because of fear of getting targeted by nasty people

Right now, I only have her discord, no socials or anything. I even tried searching her username for more info but nothing. I’m planning to ask for one of her socials tomorrow

>>33617576
Well the obvious answer is have a voice chat.

>>33617576
>trans
>people

I have been talking to this girl I met on Duo this year. We live in different countries so we never even met. I'm a NEET and she's a student. I was trying to get a job and finish my degree so I wouldn't feel so bad going on dates and stuff, like building up self-worth. Last summer, I think I was very much infatuated with her and things were really looking good. I was on a roll thinking I would get a great-paying job; it was like a dream for me, I was going to make it.

But I didn't get the job and all that momentum I had built up just stopped. In the autumn, I wasn't making any progress and because of some things she said to me, I started to think that we aren't for each other. But I kept talking with her and kept building this fantasy of how it was going to be when we start going out, falling in love, how I would propose to her and how we would live together. In my heart, I kind of knew it was not going to work (maybe because I thought this, it didn't). Last night, I told her that we should just stop whatever we had going on. My dream was dead long before, but last night was the funeral. I got my wizard powers earlier this month, yay.

>>33618135

Shit sucks lad, but sometimes it's better to know when to end it and move on than just to be delusional about something that's never gonna happen.

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someone messaged me calling me a pretty boy but then he/she un-added me before i can respond. whoever you are please add me back i wanna be called a pretty boy by you

>>33586161
kys lol. that guy will rape you

>>33617140
I mean I guess. I'm not the best looking or whatever but she knew what I looked like. Still talked to me, invited me to see her still. I just assumed that area was fine.

The date itself went well, smiles throughout. Got some positive reactions on discord immediately after. Went on the next day and was ignored and the next day blocked. Regret? They actually hated it the whole time and was just putting on a happy face? I don't know. I'll never know. I'll never see her again.

I don't usually let this shit get to me. But I really had started to feel much better about myself the past few weeks. The date itself was probably the happiest day I've had all year. And to get this shit a couple days later was like a knife in the chest. All confidence I'd built up in myself is now gone and it'll take a good while to get over it. I'm going to retreat back into myself for a while, take a break from all of this shit and power through the next while.

I'll end the moping here but I guess this is just to say don't get carried away if something goes right for a couple weeks. Life is always there to put you back in your place.

>>33618521
these sluts are vile bro they lost anything that made them proper humans at 12 yrs old. just let them come to you, trust me you're not missing out and stop focusing and typing paragraphs about them

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>>33618521
Online dating is brutal as FUCK for men, and it’s not representative of life as a whole. You should never let it get to you and I know it’s easier said than done.

And you’re right, always assume you can and will get ghosted for no apparent (to you) reason and just don’t take it too seriously.

I know for some of us it’s really hard to meet women IRL because of the loves we live but if you’re trying to find a mate you shouldn’t put all your eggs in the basket of online dating.

I deleted my account after 6 months. Replies fell off a cliff after the first month, and the only girl who added me on discord stopped replying entirely two months in.

Back to visual novel girls and exercising for me, christ.

I logged in to make sure my meme account does not get deleted
goodbye

>>33586161
Women keep responding to unhinged losers, but they ghost dudes trying to have a conversation.

This is still a thing? I tried using it, didn't send any schizo shit messages and just tried to act fairly normal. No replies. Funny enough there's always complaints about men sending crazy shit, but nothing about schizo maxing skibi rotting girl #42069. Who's funding this now?

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Who the hell is the guy that is sending hawk tuah and spit on that thang to all the female profiles? I've only been able to use it on one intro because of the spam.

>>33619049
Lol, same here. Although I do enjoy the aspect of working on my profile and throwing shit out here and there.

should i (cute trans girl) include pics on my profile? if so, should i watermark them or something?

>>33619493
yes and also message me being flirtatious. whats your name

>>33619556
i don't message first, but my name is "no"

>sign up out of morbid curiosity to see if anyone uses it in my country
>not a single person does

>>33618318
im not even gay it just made me feel good about myself i like it when people say things like this to me

>>33618823
Online dating is exactly like real life dating. A girl breaking eye contact when you try and eye her is the same as swiping left, every girl does this a hundred times a day; rejecting dozens of men who make casual/soft approaches. Online dating simply puts a GUI to the experience.

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>>33579384

>>33597758
potentially dumb question here: i am a tranny. if i go into search, anyone who shows up for me has marked that they're okay with trannies, right? i don't want to waste my time on people who aren't cool with it

>>33621485
Not daddy but answering based on what I see from the interface. Duodaddy correct me if I'm wrong. Filters have "Anyone you filter out with your two-way search settings won't see you in their searches either" so if you identify yourself as e.g. Trans woman then anyone who shows up for you has their filters set to allow Trans womans to show up.

>>33621555
ahhh yes i didn't see the filters info box thingy until just now. thank you!

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This guy fucking hated ME for some reason, 5 minute old account

just spent like 10 minutes trying to get through this goddamn captcha

i wish there were a way to one-way filter search results. e.g., if i am into both men and women, it'd be nice to be able to filter the profiles to only show women, since 90% of the time i will need to message them first, but still let men see my profile, since they're comfortable doing the intro

The selfie verification is the most dogshit broken piece of garbage ever, fix this duodaddy. Your fucking AI doesn't work.

>>33621246
No, real life doesn’t have the male/female ratio of OLD.

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I need more pics of myself, I think that's part of why my profile (and all dating profiles I have) never really gets any attention.
I wish I had someone I could just show my profile to, but everyone I know IRL is too normie to help on a site like Duo.

>>33621975
Do you understand the optics of posting this here? You've proved him correct.
Also why are people reaching out to anime profiles?
>Woman
Oh.

Literally nobody ever replied to me, I'm that unlikeable uh

>>33622771

I got a 40% response rate and honestly I'm not doing anything special. I just avoid girls with reply rates of like 10-15% or less.

>>33622674
It does. Women stay at home more than men and when they go out, they stick with friend groups to protect them from "creeps". There are far more men out and about alone than there are women, always has been. Go out and count the number of solitary males compared to the number of solitary females if you don't believe me. Public parks/beaches? Majority men. Clubs? Majority men. Bars? Majority men. Museums, exhibitions, concerts, libraries, holiday events? All majority men. The handful of women you do see will be with a group of 3-5 other women and often a few 'blocker' male associates as well.

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>>33622756
Have you forgotten the statistics of duolicious? The ratio of men to women is ridiculous. Even an empty female profile will generate at least 20 responses from men. Also, even though my profile is mostly a joke, I probably get the same amount of responses as you. Don't take the site too seriously. Especially when most of the women are severely damaged anyways.

>>33623176
You know most police uniforms looked like that prior to the 70s, right?

>>33622766
I actually don't even watch anime, it's a photo taken of a character I like from the anime adaptation

Did I mess up? lol

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I stopped carrying the conversation forward with a nice quirky girl because we were too far apart anyway.
She finally skipped me recently, which makes total sense. But during all the time I "ghosted" her, I followed what was going on on her social media, so in a parasocial way I was still involved in her life.
I had even drafted this whole ridiculous message going off about my feelings and why the situation is unfortunate, but I decided to keep it to myself and I still think that was the right decision. But even so, now it not only feels like a microscopic break-up, but also like I still have unfinished business with her.

This is fucking stupid man

>>33624188
weird

>>33624240
You're literally a gay trooner, don't @ me mate

>>33624285
doesn't make you any less weird lol

Come on women, start talking. You're making it seem like there is no personality of yours.

>>33623263
Yes, but in the case of todays new jersey police, it fits rather well

>>33624188
>>33624188
I don’t think you can say you’re ghosting her, while you keep stalking her social media lmao

People ghost because they aren’t interested (anymore) and they definitely wouldn’t make draft letters to tell their feelings to a person they ghosted.

You shouldn’t take every encounter that serious anon. You talked to some rando girl that skipped you and you ended up with a para social relationship and an one sided break up story.

This is exactly the reason why I never give out my social media out to guys on duo/discord. You think you can have a lighthearted fun convo, but because you’re a girl you can’t, because some loser will see you as their “saviour” and obsess over you and eventually put your name in his manifesto and murder you

>>33624593
Imagine complaining about getting attention, Jesus Christ. I know they say the grass isn’t always greener on the other side but how the Hell do you make up fanfiction to excuse being a shitty person who ghosts? Just be honest.

>>33624593
You really sound like a stupid, delusional whore. Your either BPD or a tranny. Either way your end up a cat lady you stuck up bitch.

>>33624593
You sound like you need to get murdered desu.

>>33624593
I pray that you get beheaded by the next man you string along

>>33624613
Retard learn to read. Where do I excuse ghosting and where do I say I’m ghosting?
>>33624621
No worries, chad is going to murder my pussy later

>>33624458
You think all these girls talking about bedrotting is just a joke? There's nothing there but tiktok mush. Try asking them who their favorite literally who e-celeb is, or what drooling rapper they enjoy.

>>33624650
You're not so important that you're going to get murdered, you need to relax

Seems that there are way more people on here than initially shown. I keep going through everyone with all filters off, and new people keep appearing. Especially if I mess with the distance filter. Sure some of them may have hidden themselves, but I'm seeing new people appear who have been offline for a long time. What's going on here?

>>33624952
Retard are you seriously implying that everyone that gets murdered is important

>>33624613
>>33624619
>>33624621
>>33624630
not even just weird but actual deranged freak behavior

>>33624593
>You shouldn’t take every encounter that serious anon
Rationally speaking, I don't. Don't get me wrong, the situation is totally fine, no harm was done to anyone. What I meant by "this is fucking stupid" is that I got too attached and was in an emotional state that wasn't really warranted by anything that happened.

I don't feel as strongly about it today but still I may not be cut out for online dating. Which is bad news because I'm basically a hikki lol

>>33625084
Ok this is definitely a thing. Everyone try opening up your filters and set distance to max. See how many people you get. Then lower distance to like 1000 mi. I am seeing more people with a lower distance setting.

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>>33625088
No, I'm implying you don't leave enough of an impression on anyone to be the kind of person who gets added to murder lists.

Leave it to women to turn a dating space into a space for finding friends, mosto of them fujo yaois. It's ironic all these women want to imitate gay relationships because they inherently want male companionship but give short responses and unwilling to try, not sure what I expected

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duolicious splinter discord, somewhat backed by duodad/admin (he wanted me to invite people)
https://discord.gg/K3mC4Yxq
come shoot the shit and get some bitches
18+ ofc

>>33624593
I deleted my duolicious and I still look at this girl's instagram sometimes. I never even messaged her before. Idk why I do it.

>>33625839
someone who is in this let me know if its legit

>>33625982
he's in the server you can join and see for yourself, also allows me to advertise this one in the main server, check the pinned messages

>>33625988
It’s better not to join the duo discord. One of the former admins is a certified nonce. The other admins tried to downplay/ignore the accusations, until general was full of screenshots of Krayde/blood (admin) grooming minors. One of the admins then deleted the whole general chat, deleting a year worth of chat, just because one of them got called out for being a nonce.

Bonus: another admin silenced the victim for a week in all chats when she tried to bring it up the first time.

>>33626119
This discord >>33625839 is the unofficial one with different admins/mods. I'm not an admin there, but I still lurk. It's more active than the official one desu

With respect to the official server, I removed the admin who was accused of grooming minors after some investigation. It was the same admin who deleted the general chat. I also modded some of the people who raised the issue. I'm thankful that they raised it

>another admin silenced the victim for a week in all chats when she tried to bring it up the first time.
Can you DM me on Discord with as much info as possible?

>>33623022
That’s not my experience at all.

>>33626766
You need to get out more, then. I've been studying this since before covid. On average I see 3x as many men as women, the ONLY exception is the grocery store where most of the women are middle aged or already have children.
Young single girls just don't exist in public anymore, and even if they did it's no longer socially acceptable to approach them.

>>33626248
Discord is a bad platform with bad people and it would be better to not have one at all. It always turns into a circlejerk of questionable personalities, even if they don't outright groom teens.

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>>33627132

>the girls here are boring
Yeah no shit nigger, your replies would be dry too if you had 50 people trying to talk to you each day lol

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Would you guys fuck Supreme Kai? He seems kinda effeminate. Is this gay?

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>>33627707
wrong image

>>33625839
They're literally discussing their estrogen regimen already, dunno what I expected

>>33626248
Cool, now how about something important now like fixing the actual app itself so that it filters trolls out (90% of the women there) and design it in a way so the male-to-female ratio is more balanced.

>>33628530
>design it in a way so the male-to-female ratio is more balanced.
how the fuck do you think a design pattern is going to fix this lol

>>33627811
lol

>>33628554
Make it so men can’t message first or something idk. I just want a single intro at this point, It’s been over a week and I think my pics are pretty nice

>>33628598
bumble tried that and already walked it back iirc. that didn't nearly fix the problem lol. the fundamental issue is, most women aren't interested in dating apps
>I just want a single intro at this point, It’s been over a week and I think my pics are pretty nice
if you're a man, it's very likely that you'll never, ever get a single intro. that's just how it works. you don't have to like it, but you need to accept it as reality

what the fuck is duolicious. do i wanna know? what a fucking awful name

>>33628606
>most women aren't interested
>most
Then remove them from the apps if they're not even a little serious. Even if it cuts down most of the userbase. Make having at least one selfie mandatory to use the app, instead of having to filter through dozens and dozens of unfunny/boring anime pics and memes. Filter keywords and social drops in profiles and garbage like "cash app plz dady". Things like that would be a gr8 start. And before you ask if that seems a little extreme, consider if this app is working for anyone involved, lol. Nobody is meeting anyone on this garbage.

>>33628626
>Then remove them from the apps if they're not even a little serious.
oh yeah, just remove the women from the app lol. that'll definitely help the ratio. are you retarded or something dude?

>>33628638
No, just remove the ones who are quite obviously not serious, as they're not going to match with anyone anyway, retard.

>>33628646
How many intros does an average guy give you think? Over the course of a week Ive sent maybe 4. Maybe the key is limiting how many intros one person can send so gigaretards who spam every person they can don't ruin it for everyone else

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>>33628530
>fixing the gender ratio
I just rolled out a filter for intros to make it harder to send offensive messages. Maybe that'll help the ratio slightly. It would've caught a couple of this guy's messages had they been intros: >>33586161

The decision to add the filter was in response to a post on reddit yesterday from someone (presumably a woman) who received a different offensive message. As far as I could tell, she'd deleted her account after receiving that message.

Now if you try to send an intro and the app says "[name] is unavailable right now. Try messaging someone else," then that could mean your intro was identified as offensive. If you think it's a false positive, please let me know so that I can possibly adjust the filter.

>the gender ratio itself
The gender ratio is currently the best it's ever been if you measure it using all users, whether or not they're verified. Although if you only compare verified users, it's about the same as always. So I think you could be right that a lot of the women are trolls (I imagine you're talking about catfishes). I think the solution is to hide your profile from unverified users using the privacy settings; it gives the trolls (who are practically always unverified) fewer lolcows to gawk at.

>>33628893
I might add limits soonish. I need to rewrite some of the code for the chat functionality first.

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Wait, does any of this matter now? Isn't the website close to bankruptcy?

>>33627132

I wish people who don't go outside wouldn't have such a black and white view of their only social program.

ignore this guy, discord is fine. just block anyone annoying.

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>most schizophrenic guy who has ever DMd me just blanked his profile and says he found his trucker wife
Truecels don't exist.

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>>33627707
>>33627714
The Supreme Kai of Time, yes
[spoiler]west supreme kai is a QT too[/spoiler]

Well that sucks. Just found out a girl I met on duo was cheating with me with probably a tranny of all things in fucking VRChat.

>>33629482
The witch hunter guy?
God I hate men

>>33632027

Probably should add, their profile was Senrikyo, 22 from Fukuoka (lie) and another is Kaede also 22 from Fukuoka (the profile picture they're using is a tranny).

If you've messaged them be careful, they are not a good person.

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/EzEGsWTZm7E

There are so many young men asking out 30+ ladies and it’s concerning

>>33632168
>(the profile picture they're using is a tranny).
Damn. I thought that she's a legit cosplayer.

>>33632027
unsubscribe

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>>33579384
Waiting for shawty to come online

>another popup begging for money
I'll kick you a few shekels when you find me a wife, sound good?

>>33579384
I've only been messaged by a girl first one time and it wasn't on duo. Is this normal? How do I cope with being ugly?

>>33635286
>Is this normal?
Yes. A man is always expected to pursue the woman