>>33610242
Id have a better chance of winning the lottery than getting in a relationship
m28

This is not the place to find someone. People are often very far away. Texting sucks.
Women are few and far between, driven away by being doxxed, then by the gays and trannies taking over.
It’s fine too fool around but never, ever, EVER have any expectations from someone you meet on here.

Ive had several relationships from here, and /b/

>>33610242
Lol unfortunately yeah. Was the worst mistake of my life, moved country to be with her and everything

Ive had a lot of luck about 3 years ago, but feels kinda shitty now, most of the girls are trauma riddedn anxious messes because of the fags here.

Any other spots online people migbt know about?

>>33610320
Trauma ridden how exactly?

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>>33610242
Yeah, for a few months last year. Online relationship. Then just about this same time last year, she vanished. And like I don't mean she deleted her profile or anything. Just stopped messaging one day mid convo, and has never been back online since. Profile pic still the same, which she would change from time to time, same with info description.

I miss her so much. I fear that she died, which would explain the situation. Still have the DM open just in case she comes back one day.

>>33610242
like half of my boyfriends in the last 4 years have come from here

I'm a straight male, it's not very hard if you have even a small amount of self-awareness and avoid the e-whores.

>>33610242
Not a relationship, but a few interesting convos

>>33610308
How did it end up?
>>33610282
gay ones?

i fucked a chick from here one time years ago, tried to fuck her in the ass but she bitched and moaned and made me pull it out so I just nutted in her pussy instead
she still posts here, very irregularly, but since then she's posted a lot of anal centric stuff and it pisses me off cause she wouldn't let me fuck her butt properly

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Yes! I found my boyfriend on /soc we’re a great couple and I wouldn’t have found him any other way :- )
We only live an hour away from each other as well
Pic related- I drew a custom card for our anniversary in October

>>33610840
Also I’m a 21 year old cis woman and he’s a 29 year old cis man

>>33610242
I'm in one right now from /soc/, have also had relationships from /r9k/. You just have to be a special breed of retard and bump into someone equally as mentally deranged as yourself, don't give up!

I met a tranny on grindr who i later learned used to be quite a popular e"girl" here

>>33610840
:( I'm so jealous but happy for you both! That picture is cutee and looks very Louis Wain esque! I hope I get what you have

>>33610921
Omg thank you! He is my biggest inspiration and I did try to make the drawing in a mixture of his art style and mine

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>>33610242
Yeah I met my current boyfriend on the ideal thread
1 month of talking stage, several months of living together, and long distance for now. I'll move with him next year
We're going strong and I love him dearly. We just work so good it's ridiculous, have the same goals, values, humor, and just enjoy each other so much

>>33610242
Dated a guy I met off here for two years, moved in with him after a year, then he became abusive. Dealt with it as long as I could hoping to help him change, but he showed zero interest in doing so, and I left. Don't think I'd try again lol

>>33610840
>>33610846
If you haven't relocated and moved in together and have plans to get married
Then she likely isn't serious.
She claims it's their anniversary but still lives an hour away.
She still hoping to find a better catch and leave him
She considers he isn't perfect or rich enough to marry

>>33610242
i've only had relationships with extremely mentally unwell women here. they've all ended horribly. i got some nudes though and the attention was so good i don't wanna kill myself until i get some more of it again. but it's been a few years now and this place has changed. the people on it are getting older and the women are becoming even worse.
i have no idea what else to do. feels like trying to look on reddit is like even more of a higher male % than posting here just cause there's less ppl here.

>>33610840
>cis
Why are you like this

>>33610242
I met a guy who I unironically believe was the best possible person for me but it didn't work out because I was too gay and evil. He was oddly extremely normal despite the fact that he added me off this board. I'm male though.

>>33610242
Twice many years ago now, and both times it went horribly, the second one destroying my ability to trust women.
[spoiler]It seems I cannot get it from anywhere else however...

>>33611132
Because people will assume any good relationship from 4chan is either faggy or trannies
>>33611071
No one is perfect buddy, but that doesn’t mean I don’t love/ care for him or I don’t want to marry him. It’s funny to see you get your dick in a twist so hard you make these crazy assumptions!
We haven’t moved in together because of my lease lol

>>33610242
I've met a girl irl, but I'm a beta retard with no experience so I missed my shot
Also met a tranny, but immediately lost interest once I saw them in person

In conclusion, yes it's possible, but only if you're Chad or gay

Met a girl from here who seemed rly nice at first but later ghosted me cause she was pissed that I texted her everyday cause I wanted to know how she is doing and if she had some freetime I would have liked to talk with her

>>33610242
no, but I've gotten nudes. I'm pretty stupid when it comes to texting so maybe that's the best I can ask for.
>>33610270
>People are often very far away.
it's even worse when you're not in a first world population centre. there's not a single soul from my country, and if there is, it's a guy or severely mentally ill

>>33610705
I thought Hunter got bored of you? And I was beginning to think that I was your only stalker left... </3

>>33612772
You got me, I've been slacking with my stalking. How shameful of me.

>>33612802
All journeys have to end. It seemed to me like you enjoyed the storytime ultimately, so I didn't register it as a loss.

>>33610242
It's hopeless for a gay guy, too. Almost everything you complain about in women is compounded in the soc gays, including the drama.

>>33612817
*pat pat* Let me give you a hug.

>>33612821
To be honest all dating is hopeless for gay guys, gay men are whores. I thought that maybe I'd be able to find a loving boyfriend here because there's a lower concentration of normiegroids on this site but it turns out that gay men are the same no matter where you go

>>33612896
I'm not ready to take that blackpill, but I've had similar experiences. At least we're not alone in the search when 2025 rolls around.

>>33612821
Vouch for this, virtually every man who likes men here is a freak and especially the ones who pretend to be straight until they hit on you

>>33610242
i've gotten sex. oh and all my worst fears confirmed that i'm unlovable garbage but trash probably should be put in its place.

>>33610242
I got into a relationship with an American girl and she flew over all the way to Europe to be with me. I still love her and we're far apart at the moment unfortunately, but I believe she'll come back again :)

>>33610926
I'm happy for you I'm sure your boyfriend loves you very much too, stay strong for him. He is probably missing you a lot.

I met my fiance here! I moved to be with him a few months after meeting and he proposed recently.

>>33610242
Can confirm, have had multiple (real) relationships from this place, granted they're all crazy

>>33610550
>gay ones?
Nah, straight. Even if i was gay i wouldnt trust any dude i met here lmao

>>33617195
We all know why.

There is a guy who wants me to live with him in the US, he will come visit me in Argentina soon. I hope he is a kind and nice person to get my green card and live with a weeb like me :)

>>33617195
Cute Miko

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>>33610840
this is the cutest thing, im so happy for u

YES hes so cute and perfect and funny,handsome, adorable, hot. i jut want to die hes too good to be true. and his voice is the sweetest ever...... he is the perfect guy seriously....

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I've had a few relationships from here, brief examples:

1. Italian guy, continents away but loved me for who I was and I still love him to death and wish I could see him.
2. Well paid tech finance dad, was willing to drive to come see me and was a very stable relationship until I fucked it up.
3. Nearby army guy, best momentary bf I've ever had until he left me because he said he loves me too much to keep letting me down due to his erratic army demands taking priority.
4. Guy named link. Lasted a week, he was mentally ill.
5. Big bulky Texas guy, extremely manipulative and overcontrolling so bad that it actually stopped working, eg "you're not allowed to respond to me however you want, I don't like that emoji" type shiii

You win some, you lose some, you learn some, you have a little fun some, some never again. All depends how often you decide to take a swing.

I met my ex here, she added me from a friend thread (when we were both 18) and we hit it off and started dating within a few weeks
relationship lasted for 4 months because she's an awful person who gave up on treating me remotely decently as soon as I stopped being effort-free dopamine for her
it was long distance (2500 miles/4000 km) and we talked about moving in together after we graduate but she was such a leech she didn't even have the patience to be a good partner for half a year before completely giving up on caring about my wellbeing
there so many red flags I handwaved away because I thought she was a decent person capable of recognizing and learning from mistakes; I only realized her toxic behavior was a pattern when I was the victim of it
pro tip: if a girl is willing to lie to her friends, she's willing to lie to anybody including her partner

>>33610242
not directly, we both happened to join the same server from here. she wasn't looking for anything serious, i just looked like fun to her, but i was in love and didn't listen. did not excuse the way she treated me, but if i could've avoided a lot of pain.

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>>33610242
Real Woman here, I found a straight bf here, we're dating for a long time already and we meet up often-ish (he's in another area of my country and its like a 6 hour ride from his place to mine), don't lose hope anon
But the thing is that we live in the same country and he was my type, long hair, blue eyes and everything, plus he was interesting to me and wasn't talking about horny shit.
Lowkey I did talk to other guys before him and they were the ugliest mongoloids ever

>>33617195
typical chad only foid confused about getting pump and dumped, that is what chadsexuals deserve.

>>33610242
Actually, no. Not ever. I'm a female eho has talked to quite a few people over the years too. ?...?

>>33623660
I heard of a fat woman who lived with a man and they had a kid together I think they originally met up as he was paying her for sex...

Add me if you want, my account is "dgnfl" on Discord and I am in my early 30's

;D

>>33610242
Yeah, but honestly, I was worse off in all of them. I never found anything happy or auspicious.

I met one women from here IRL. Didn't last long.

I fell into a thing with a femboi from here but it was on accident and they were nuts.

Still looking, you wanna change my mind HMU pauladeenqueen

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Being asexual here isn't just hopeless but people also get really angry at you for whatever reason.

You shouldn't expect anything good from soc

I am with someone from pol been with him for around a year.

Is there a discord or something pol women can all chat without these smelly boys

I want smelly women instead

>>33610242
I met an awesome girl here and we dated for half a year or so. Hung out a few times in person, it was great. Didn't end up working out with the distance and some other circumstances, but it's definitely possible to meet someone here.

>>33610242
Once or twice but it's always fizzled out. :/

Ironically, the first person I met was someone on F-list who told me about the F-list threads on /trash/

She turned me on majorly to the idea of being made to do penis enlargement and then she kinda went MIA.

Hopefully she's doing okay

The other... *sigh*

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I met my boyfriend here. We've been dating for almost a year, and I'm about to fly to the other side of the country with him to meet his family. Him, our friends and I all think it's hilarious that we met here. I couldn't have asked for a better match, I'm so grateful everyday.
>>33615187
>>33610926
Congrats guys!
>>33610840
Wow this is so cute! I'm also making art for my bf on Christmas. I bound a book and I'm going to turn it into a medieval-style illuminated manuscript of all our favorite memories together. I'd like to share art with you if you're interested! My discord: peachy.cat8

The bar is so low for men on /soc/it would be so easy to just be a good guy on here that treats his girl well and respects her boundaries to find a relationship but instead they continue to keep the bar as low as possible.

For any good guys here that actually respect women and treat them well, you are going to have the time of your life.

definitely not me every guy that i’ve talked to is a sexual maniac like do u have anything other than sex to talk about or are their brains rotted from all the other whores that they’re whoring around with

>>33635195
>you are going to have the time of your life.
lol that’s one way to phrase it

>>33610242
The pattern for me has been

Post ad

They hit me up

I respond in very normal and reasonable way


They never reply again

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>About myself
30 M Pensioned NEET
>Location
Germanistan
>Interests
Invertebrates, aquariums, plants, gaming, computers, psychedelics, outdoor, spirituality, science, space, biology, evolution, history, nature
>Music: 90s Goa Trance Industrial Dark Ambient Folk Metal Bhajans
Movies/Shows Surreal, Horror, SciFi, Documentaries, Mindfuck/trip movies and series
>Games
Vermin/Darktide, AOE II, Warframe, Mass Effect, Battlefield, DFBHD
>Physical
Long curly hair, androgynous feminine body, 170 cm, 68 KG, enduring legs, no body hair
>Mental
Diagnosed asperger autism, weird, eccentric, abstract, alien
>Style
Contract killer, night stalker, wood elf (outside)
gay dresses, nude (at home)

>Looking for
Someone to fill the endless void of eventless solitude. Someone cute enough, androgynous/feminine without beard and much body hair and normal weight to
learn about each other and in best case meet. I am prepared to house someone, you can theoretically live with me indefinitely as long as you have your own
income and life problems resolved. We can play video games/watch movies all night, cuddle, kiss, hug and go outside into the nightly forest together. Be as gay as you
want, it would only attract me further. Wake up in each others arms and sleep through the days. In the summer I would also like more outdoor stuff,
potentially camping (nomoney holiday, lost place adventure hunting) and I can need help in the garden.

Do not expect hookups, regular FWB with at least long holidays together is the minimum. Otherwise I am also open to general likeminded contacts, in that case
looks and age matter less just you won't share my canopy bed or be intimate with me then.

Be from (West)Europe at least, 25+, single, shut-in/antisocial, ideally NEET or having enough free time, like and have pen!s
>Contact
endzeitromantik @ emailn . eu

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>>33610242
I've found a 11(elf)/10 Peruvian here who visited me a few times and I never found someone as compatible as him. It was like I found my dream husband to live together forever and have a life finally but then the border patrol once checked him and returned him to Poland (where he did some work&travel shit) because he has no "allowance" to enter my shit country because of his nationality. In the meanwhile they import half Africa and Afghani terrorists, give them welfare and probation when they rape and murder. The Peruvian is not even allowed to VISIT me because of his legal status. He works on shit jobs and gets exploited. It only fuels my hatred for the shit country Poland (which is also where my ex BF came from which I lived 3 years with but ruined it for at least 5 years after which I still recover from - financially) and of course my own.

Still he does not show intention to fight while he is also obsessed with me, which means that I may just block him for good this new year and look forward to my career as a celibate warrior priest. I will channel all my hatred to sabotage and marauder in this shit country as good as I can do. It may simply my curse to not find a decent person, when I do it always fails because of nationality. My ex BF was also deported although he was a mental wreck and hopefully suffers well, which I am almost certain of. I know he started drinking and smoking, I myself made a good progress by quitting alcohol entirely and loosing at least 25 KG so far. I repaired all the damages in years of effort only on my own, which taught me to never trust or rely on anyone else. Only deeds speak the truth of someones reliability and I will not make the same mistakes again.

THERE IS ONLY WAR - NEVER FORGET, NEVER FORGET, LET THE HATE FLOW FREELY

>>33636404
I guess the lesson is stop replying in normal and reasonable ways.

>>33628561
If you find one, let me know.
>t. fellow /pol/girl

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>>33635195
>Women respecting wins
I want to believe you, but I've got 0 experiences that back you up

>>33635195
>It would be so easy to just be a good guy on here that treats his girl well
try it. good luck getting any responses.

>>33635195
I'm a good guy who would treat women well and respect them, but women only want chads and consider unattractive nice guys to be inherently not actually nice and only pretending to be nice for predatory purposes. Women would rather be with sexist abusive alt right freaks who are hot, dominant, masculine, and tall, than settle for genuinely nice but unattractive men who see them as equals and respect them

Plus women's idea of being "treated well" involves lots of high maintenance bullshit where the guy is willing to accept a relationship where he makes far more effort than she does. Women will accept ACTUAL abuse by chads, but then call it abuse when non chads simply want equal loving relationships without giving women the bullshit high maintenance princess treatment

>>33639449
Look, dating is tough, especially trying to online date, but this incel attitude is probably the biggest reason no one wants to talk to you.

You can say you're a "nice guy" all you want, but women can see how you really really feel if you're this angry and bitter. Claiming that women prefer "alt right freaks" just because they are hot or tall isn't really grounded in reality. Are some women shallow and go for that? Sure, same as some guys are shallow and only go after skinny blondes. But painting a stereotype isn't helpful and sets you up to enter that dating death-spiral of few dates -> frustration ->even less dates -> bitterness -> zero interest from women.

All in all, do some self reflection. Instead of blaming women or chads, look at what you bring to the table and ask yourself what helps you stand apart.

>>33610242
Look at any post by a female. Look how many desperate retards will reply instantly. What do you think?

>>33635195
I tailored my ad to try and appeal to what women might be interested in once. I'd made a dozen ads on various relationship threads for months and gotten nothing, so this most recent ad was a real hit! I got one entire woman to talk to me for a bit. We ultimately went our separate ways, which was understandable.
If you think men have it easy here, I think you're retarded.

>>33610242
The secret here is not to look for a girl and girls will come.

I have never once posted in any of the NSFW or dating threads and I've fucked 3 women, dated 1 for several months, and sexted probably uncountably many random horny girls from around the world (with timestamp / vc / video chat, im not getting catfished.)

>>33639449
>Women would rather be with sexist abusive alt right freaks who are hot, dominant, masculine, and tall, than settle for genuinely nice but unattractive men who see them as equals and respect them
Are you implying left wing "men" are capable of respect? If they actually cared about women they wouldn't be supporting forcefully invading women's spaces. There is a reason they don't have children, look at the stats.

>>33639699
If you don't post ads and you never contact anyone, how did you land all those women then?

>>33639732
I don't post ads in NSFW or dating threads dingus. I still post ads elsewhere.

>>33639791
Yeah but you said
>The secret here is not to look for a girl and girls will come.
if you still post ads, you're not letting them come to you, you're going after them.

>>33639861
Your intelligence is the reason women don't seek you out.

By "not to look for a girl" I mean don't actively post about how horny or lovesick you are and don't add every F who posts. If you just act like a normal person, the women who lurk on this site will add you, and they're often just as desperate and horny as you are. As a rule, I don't add women who post (massive red flag) and I don't post ads looking for sex, e-sex, or dating. I just post in normal threads and look for friends.

yeah !! i met my current bf on a soc thread, we met up for the first time in early summer after chatting for a few days, and have moved in since :] hes currently playing poe2 rn lol

>>33610242
Oh don't worry it's hopeless for gay guys too.

>>33639886
>I just post in normal threads and pretend to look for friends.
Yeah but you're just backtracking now. It took you two posts to get you to admit that.

>just act like a normal person
I mean I've posted ads in nsfw threads and I've gotten plenty of horny women hit me up. So I dunno about that.

>>33639918
This muthafucka is allergic to reading between the lines

Yes, but that was a few years ago. Back then girls were still posting here. Now fags and troons have completely taken over this board and are angrily chasing off biological females and straight guys.

>>33635195
Lol, lmao even

>>33640080
Plenty of straight guys angrily chase them off too, let's not forget that.

we've had quite a few successful linkups at this server:
https://discord.gg/SBb7JzaV
https://discord.gg/SBb7JzaV

come join us :3 :3 :3c

Every woman I've met from 4chan was really nice and didn't deserve to meet me. I played the nice guy, made them fall for me, and once I fucked them, I ghosted them. Women are so trusting and will believe anything if you package it correctly.

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>>33639986
What's your secret? I do same as you and all I ever get are: most of all ghosting guys who have personality of a cardboard, literal retards who struggle with polysyllabic words, or some pajeet thinking that if they have anime profile picture, spam emojis and claim to be a horny woman wanting to fuck me then I will fall for their scam and give them money. I haven't met a singel friend yet alone woman from /soc/ over past 6 months. I'm not a pervert, I don't turn anyone away. I don't even know what I'm doing wrong.

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I have tried, for the last decade, to get anything. So far, nothing. Sure, I have had people here and there, but they always ghost because that is far more simple than saying
>Sorry, not interested
I'm a average guy so I don't understand it. Maybe it's because I'm average. With average guys, they can pick anyone they want. I'm nothing special so I guess that screws me over. 36 and still a virgin because try as I might, I can never get anything going so I never get the stage of sex. Wouldn't be so bad if I didn't have an insane sex drive, but no way to release it. Maddening it is.

>>33610242
I could have but turned it down, it's possible just dont expect the best you know.

>>33639570
The idea that being angry and bitter (over blatant unfairness and double standards) makes someone not "nice" is fucking bullshit. That's like saying homeless people aren't "nice" if they get mad that society doesn't act to ensure housing for all.

Women don't need to bring anything to the table, even basic decency. So men should AT LEAST be able to simply bring basic decency to the table and not need to offer more than that. Gender relations will simply continue to get worse as long as women's standards keep being so fucking unreasonable.

>>33610242
I dated someone on an ideal thread for a couple of months who was absolutely terrible to me afterwards.

It went really well at first, we played Fortnite together because that's all she could play. She played on console and I wanted to play such and such games with her. I saved up some money since she was buying a new house and sent her a laptop and bought several games for her. She said that was the nicest thing anyone has ever done for her and she loved it.

However, she then said that she needed to go or some bullshit I don't remember because of her mental health. I later found out she tried to commit suicide and didn't understand what was going on. I tried contacting her friends since we were friends on Facebook and I got absolutely no response.

I later got a response from her that was so extremely hostile and angry that she just completely abandoned me and attacked me. She started a Twitch channel with the games I gave her and found a boyfriend that she publicly posts. This was back in 2020 and was the worst experience I could have. I have since stopped posting in those threads.

>paypig
Look, I was trying to find something we could do together and expand on that since she was long distance. Advice, only find people local as they may cheat on you since they think you will never find out.

i met my bf on here and we’ve been together for about 2.5 years now! we moved in together this past summer
i don’t know if i have any stellar advice or anything but love will find you should you want it. neither of us is stacy/chad but we’re trying our best for each other and that’s what counts

>>33641601
I know you think this is supposed to be about this girl, but it says way more about you.

>>33641582
Wrong. You are angry and bitter and not nice. As are all incels.

>>33610812
What was the name...

>>33641438

Buy a wig, miniskirt and a pair of stockings. Someone will fuck you eventually.

>>33642216
kek

>>33642216
Yeah...I would much rather die a virgin than do that, thank you.

>>33610242
I've been in 2 very short relationships from here, but years ago. Women on the internet are held up on a golden platter so their ego is inflated to the point they think that despite being 2-4/10 in reality, in their minds they are 9/10s.
>one from chubby girls thread
>5'6" 200'ish lbs meh face, brunette
>zero personality, didn't drive, only hobbies were vidya (WoW and TF2) and ordering fast food.
>a few months total of talking, lasted 3 weeks after physical meeting/dates/hanging out
she felt she needed more from a relationship, someone she could connect better with. she's still single today working at costco hot deli.
>one from /bgt/
>5'1" 200lbs'ish, chunky, small tits, acne, nice hair though
>talked for a few weeks, went on a couple dates, had a lot of sex
>she wanted to keep her options open, non-exclusive
>ended because she wanted to go back to college for hairdressing
She's still single also, going from job to job, acne far worse than before.

all in all, they were fun experiences, including losing my virginity, using condoms, being introduced to anal, bdsm, voyeurism, etc. The part I didn't enjoy was trying hard to create a relationship of equals and not realizing then I was being viewed as the one being "thrown a bone" for being a lower class male. That was in 2011 though, I've had 2 more relationships since then, ive been married for 3 years now. good job, own my house, nice vehicles, etc. you need to persist and realize you aren't the issue, it's low tier women larping as high class because of the lower representation on here.

>>33643076
I will add, I was head over heels for the one from /bgt/, I didn't care about the acne, the weight, the height, the small boobs, the fact that she was basically NEET, didn't matter. She was cute as hell, great voice, she has this cute country/punk thing going on and I was absolutely smitten seeing her in the little short shorts or plaid dresses and all her piercings/tattoos still visible. I really tried to keep it going but she was too busy trying to wrangle as many weiners as she could I guess. I still look her up here and there to see what she's up to. Looks like she has had maybe 1 actual "boyfriend" over the years. Oh well. BTW this is in canada and they were each 1hr and the other 35 minutes from me when we met which was extremely lucky.

Lost my virginity to a girl from here last year. Made a lot of mistakes but i just realized that i wanted to lose it that year about a week or two before i started talking to her.

Was in a really low place and i just made a post here to express some negative emotions and get it out if my system. She replied go my post and we started mailing...

She fed me a lot of nudes and had a lot of fun, especially seeing vids of her playing with herself while im in a lecture. But also was kind of a disaster meeting her as i spent way more money than i wanted to spend as a student with no income. And I was still very depressive so it was hard to actually enjoy the voyage itself.

The sex wasn't great,, honestly my dick hurt like crazy when i penetrated her. And i focussed to much on getting her rilled up that by the time she started asking me to put it in i only had like half a hard on lol

Honestly though im very glad it all happened as im in a way better place now mentally. Spent some time on tinder and had a girl ask me to become fuckbuddies and she was really cute too.
But i realized that i lowkey hate the idea of going to some chicks house just to fuck her without forming any connection first.

Ngl. The sex ive had with 4chan girl was god awfull but it got one of the many blocks and fears in my head to go away. I joined a club recently doing sports and have been talking to girls irl more. Some of them seem more akward than me..
Might ask one of them if she wants to do something together outside of the club

So yeah 4chan girl kinda helped me get my shit together by letting me have extremely bad sex with her.

I met a horrible vacuum-souled girl with BPD once. She tried to do the usual narcissistic wound thing to me that they get thrills from doing, but didn't realize that I'm immune to that shit (having met people like her many times before). We fucked a few times but it was one hundred percent not worth it - she talked a really good game about being good at sex, but when push came to shove it was some of the worst I've ever had. She also looked a lot uglier in person than in her pictures.

Basically you're not going to find well-adjusted people here on either end.

>>33643076
>200 lbs
Brother, stop disrespecting yourself by spending time with these creatures. Disgusting fat fucks should be ignored until they improve.

I'm a 33 year old gay virgin

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>>33636871

>>33628561
>>33639326
Why?

>>33610840
>>33632289
If you're both serious and genuinely have a good relationship with bfs from here then I'm extremely jealous of you both
Goddamn, what does it take?

>>33644993
being a woman

>>33644583
That’s insane gay men with literally sleep with any other man; they’re grotesquely promiscuous. You’re a volcel.

>>33610242
yes! me and my wife met here, it does happen. been together 5 years now. from the same town too!

>>33645655
I can't seem to get over my fear of people, social anxiety, and inferiority complex. Plus I have body dysmorphia issues. So everything combined has turned me into a recluse for over a decade

>>33610242
anybody?

There's been a handful of online or short IRL stuff, over the course of the years.
But there's only ever been one real relationship.
An extremely sweet, loving, caring and wonderful Italian girl.
It may sound ridiculous but honestly she makes up for everything toxic I experienced with women on here before and even now.
Simply because experiencing and getting to truly know I am or was capable of being loved fundamentally changed my life, and quite frankly cured my suicidal depression that had been getting worse since adolescence.
I certainly don't hate women but I don't think they can ever truly comprehend just how unloved some men are, like no one will even try to pretend to love you to get something out of you.
I know now that I am capable of being loved or was, which gives me the strength to carry even knowing that I probably won't ever be loved again.
I'm alive and didn't pull the trigger after tasting the barrel of my gun multiple times, now I can be there for my family and appreciate them.
Am I happy knowing I'll die alone, no of course not, but at least I have the strength to try to bear through it now.


>>33635195
This is categorically false and misleading, either a guy pulling your chain or a delusional disingenuous woman.

Only attempted once at trying to find someone to date. Posted an ad on soc here a couple weeks ago and managed to get one reply. Had a good chat with her and started off things strong, but I was busy and told her I could hop on a call the day after. Never heard back from them after that.

I basically got the impression that every dating app has given me: if you're not immediately available you're basically thrown to the side in place of someone who's 'better'.

>>33610429
How many people have you dated in 4 years whore

>>33641724
>says way more about you

Good? Bad... ?

>>33610242

Dated someone from here for a little over a year. We were great together but we just had different goals in life. The breakup was amicable and mutual, and we are still good friends.

it's hard getting a relationship as a straight guy anywhere. especially if you're actually decent, and loving, and actually interesting lol. seriously, the kinds of guys girls date these days aren't even "the bad boys" anymore they're straight up manipulative PUSSIES. like i meet these dudes and they're bigger bitches than their girl. insane, what are you ladies thinking????? all the good men are rotting

>>33656558
hmmmm

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duolicious DATING app splinter! sorta endorsed by the dev of duolicious; he essentially got tired of moderating his own server. we have more fun here, other ones dead.

come shitpost, meet cuties, get color roles, play with dumb bots, blogs, stuff like that!

18+
neets, weebs, gamers, edaters, incels, femcels, losers, a few kinda normal people- shitposting & hanging out.
come find your ekitten or whatever lol
https://discord.gg/uEWyaX5MwX

>>33610242
I've been trying to get a relationship here for six months now. Absolutely nothing. Maybe it's because I'm straight AND black.

>>33656558
where can i contact you then?

bump

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ITT

>>33617340
>argentina woman easily gets dude to fly out to her
meanwhile, argentine dude gets ghosted even just trying to be friends. tired of always doing something wrong

>>33663029
If you can’t get in contact with him we should chat. I feel the same way

l300bigby

I met the love of my life through this board, although it was through a server that was advertised in multiple places and they didn't join from soc. A truly unique, interesting, intelligent, loving, and charismatic person. We met multiple times irl, and I even met his mother. Unfortunately, I destroyed his life, and now I'll be forever ruined for anyone else. I doubt that most people on this board will have the same luck.

Marrying her in the new year so a success for me but I also had absolutely dog shit (online only) relationships

>>33610242
i met my fiance here. but we're st4t (meaning i'm ftm trans and she's mtf trans) so if you're looking for cis women you might be SOL, there aren't many here

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>>33610242
Here, no. Duolicious, yes.

>>33610242
Everyone is crazy now.
Are you a mostly normal guy, 24-35
Are you straight
Do you have a career.
Are you white and at least 5/10.
I'm looking for a boyfriend and husband asap
>f 25 UK, but I'll move to the US
Post throwaway if you want. I'm cute and mostly rational.

I always check these threads to see if a few guys have posted about me.

>>33610242
Yeah, I was like 24 and she was 19. She lived in Michigan, I'm in Alabama. She moved in with me a few months until I got tired of her fat slobby ass and ran her off. She lost a bunch of weight and found some rich dipshit on freaking omegle of all places, married him but turns out he's a whackjob and abusive

>>33671271
ag5545

there was a really sweet guy i met here amidst all of the thirsty and weird bastards that messaged me. we lived on opposite sides of the world tho. but i still had feelings for him and i loved talking with him. ended up finding someone closer physically and tried to still keep in contact but it was tough. i love my partner now, but he still has a special place in my heart. <3

>>33671271
What is your view on straight polyamory? Would you be interested in an established relationship with a man and other women?

>>33610242
I'm a woman but in 2016 I met someone here, when we were both 19. Started dating after 3 days of talking. Long-distance for some years then lived together for some more years. I'm not sure it's possible anymore these days, but I have no idea where else to look for someone with the same kind of autism as me.

>>33675585
so you cheated on him?

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I've dated one person from 4chan but the distance was pretty big and he turned out to be an alcoholic and started using crack. I still talk to him, I think he's funny.

I've had quite a few long distance relationships and none of them worked out but neither did the ones I had locally. I'm currently on the rocks in an ldr and he wants me to wait for him while he focuses on his goals. Either I'm sweet enough or dumb enough to wait.

f 26 houston, ive met 1 guy from here and it was good. this was like 2 years ago. hard to find a straight guy that also lives in the same city or near.. thats attracive
disc: ki77ur5elf

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I'm sure there are decent women here, but I don't have the time to navigate through all the insincere e-girls just looking to add to their harem, or bored women that are just using you for entertainment and won't contribute an ounce to the convo. Who the hell has the patience for that?

I wonder if this place was better a decade ago. Where do genuine, actual lonely femcels hang out these days? Do they simply not exist?

I Discord dated a girl from here for a couple of days but she ghosted me.

Met my boyfriend 3 years ago from an ideal partner thread here. I moved to his country for a work opportunity a few months ago to permanently close the gap

yeah she was nuts and it didn't last long but i fucked her in the ass

i met the love of my life on here, keep searching anons

>>33682450
>I wonder if this place was better a decade ago.
It was.
In the long ago the captcha wasn't this niggerkikery either. It was actually funny at times. We had threads where we'd post funny captchas and make memes about it sometimes. Now it's kikeass niggerfaggotry to try to squeeze a shekel out of you.

>source: here a decade ago

>>33686068
>kikeass niggerkikery
kek

>>33671271
Willing to have a fling in Vegas?
Discord and Kik are Raguspan.

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>>33610242
Havent met an autistic goonette whos into hardcore bestilaity whilst still being an overall functional human being and fun person to be around yet so no. Unless she's in this thread and willing to move to the US ill likely still be looking

>>33675736
Yeah so that guy obviously got cucked. Online relationships are never real.

>>33610897
Did you actually meet them though, when I tried on Grindr all the good looking ones were too good looking and were popular internet trannys just using the pics and I probably would have gotten jumped or killed had I try meeting them

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I got a guy from here. We met and it turned out I was actually moving a few blocks way from him before we even met. Going to be our 1 year aniv in Feb together. We both don't frequent here much and just caught each other on the yearly visit by chance.

I'm a Transfem though, mileage may vary.

>>33688059
I am uncertain about what a "goonette" is, otherwise I am as you describe. How hardcore?
Contact?

>>33689325
>"goonette"
NTA but it's a porn/sex addict but girl.

I'd love to meet a girl on here, but between my age (32), being in the UK, and wanting someone who's that ideal of being a best friend and a lover, I may as well be looking for a unicorn that shits solid gold. I've tried all the dating options people recommend, and all I bumble across are Stacys caked up in fake tan who want a sugar daddy chavver.

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>>33689325

>Discord
._._13r05ki_._.

I didn't wanna lie to anyone I met and act like i'm not totally into the thought of zoo, so admittedly im very hardcore. Would like a partner who ideally is as into it if not more into it than I am, but more so Im dying to spread my autistic wings and build something genuine with someone who intersects with both these qualities

Not at all a sycophant or secretly some greatly mentally ill person. I just like what I like while being nuerodivergent and that in of itself makes it really hard to find someone lol, so if youre serious yea add asap

>>33689613
>>33689325
Goonette means female porn connoisseur but the way use it I more so mean woman whos her own fetishist/sexual deviant. I like the idea of meeting someone who has their own experiences and interests and we collide rather than not

>>33692766
side note im mad I saw this late lol. I rarely assume people reply to me on here. Hoping I can still get to meet this person cause ive been looking for years lol

I had both a real life relationship and a internet dating relationship from soc. the irl relationship blocked me two weeks later, and never talked to me again.

I was allegedly too clingy for the internet dating relationship, and he vagueposts about me on his soc posts when he looks for women on here. saying he's not looking for clingy women, we allegedly broke up on good terms, but he leaves me on read. idk if he still browses soc actively or he simply posts his personal ad and doesn't check out other threads

overall a neutral experience, but I got to cuddle in a hotel room with the first man I mentioned in this post. so it was worth it.

I'm afab and these were all hetero relationships

>>33635195
"Treating her well" and "respecting her boundaries" left me chronically incapable of trusting anyone at their word. It's always the same thing with you people. It's never not.

Yeah, I found a really cool guy from USA here. We met in a SFW thread and it was kinda funny how it started because of a mistranslation. We saw each other a couple of times in almost 2 years of relationship. Sadly it didn’t work out and we broke up recently.

I’ve been going on a couple of dates irl but holy shit people suck lol. Maybe I should try this Duolicious thing?

I've met 2 women that I talk to somewhat regularly on discord on here and they're both taken and live thousands of miles away from me

>>33655347
What happened there? Seems she at least didn't rip your heart out, did family pressures/studies/career cause the breakup?

Yes. Three times now have I posted in a dating thread with the following results:

1. Girl emails me and we chat over Discord for about 2 months. We seem to have similar values, but she starts obviously lying to me, manipulating my emotions (cycling between very caring and indicating her intent to have an actual relationship and meetup and then ghosting me for a week and claiming she "owes me nothing") and eventually we stop talking.
2. Girl messages me claiming she's surprised to see someone like me on 4chan, glad since she hasn't met any nice dudes. We talk three times, with her messaging me randomly indicating she really wants to talk more, and then she ghosts me forever.
3. Girl messages me and is actually in my area. We talk, getting to know each other slowly, and eventually VC for a few weeks, then decide to meet up. We went on several dates over a few months, things were going quite well. Then she left the state and couldn't express herself. She was a good person, just not mature enough to be dating like this. I miss her but I think it's better in the long run for both of us...

In conclusion: you have a chance, just remember that most girls lurk, and most lurking girls have problems. But of course, so do we all. Just try to forgive one another, we're all too lonely to hurt each other more. God bless.

>>33610242
Only one. But then he would randomly disappear for days with no explanation and I got sick of it.

i have and i cannot recommend if you want someone thats long distance. its a waste time and most of the women here are mentally ill neets or have dead end jobs with no future prospects or any sort of idea on how to save money and will depend on you for most things in their lives.

>>33693441
stop talking to them. that shit is bad for you. don't settle to just be friends with people you can't have

>>33695466
Anon, you can be friends with women.

Yes

>>33693645
She had some medical training and was going to have to basically be full time with her grandmother doing hospice in another country.
She didn't believe that she could maintain communication and our relationship in a reliable or healthy way.
The truth of the matter is I didn't think I deserved her and I intentionally didn't pursue her and let her slip through my fingers.
That was around 10 years ago ever since her I haven't had a single suicidal thought, I have felt like complete shit or been a little down or depressed but absolutely nothing like before.
Despite genuine efforts and wishes otherwise I have pretty much spent all of my adolescent and adult life alone romantically.

Some people just aren't cut out for it.
Be it some combination of no confidence or never being able to build confidence through action, lack of opportunities, unfortunate looks and of course the garden variety social retardation.
I could try to lay blame at the feet of women, society, culture or my biology.
The truth is I'm not entitled to anyone's affection and the reason I'm alone and almost always have been is because I am ME, it's no one else's fault.
There's a lot of younger guys out there that just need to keep trying.
But 20 years of failure after different approaches and re-examining, it points to a fundamental failure.
And with my age on top of me being profoundly bad at all this I just can't take the games anymore, the immense immaturity from supposed adults.

I don't hate women, like I said the only reason I'm still alive today is because of one and she was from here of all places.
But I truly don't think they can comprehend just how profoundly alone and lonely some men are.

>>33635195
Embarrassing

>>33700577
Why didn't you think you deserved her? It's very laudable that you manage to keep this somewhat optimistic view despite everything. You have many opportunities to push the blame, but acknowledge your own faults. I'm sorry things didn't turn out the way you wished them to be. You seem like a very high quality and mature person. Your unluckiness has nothing to do with you being yourself or being a "fundamental failure". I hope you find your person, or happiness in a new way, soon.

my current bf and I both used to browse here before we knew each other, but we didn't meet here

>>33611085
I got sexted via /r/ratemycock. There are a lot of gays and trannies, but it's easy to ignore them.

>>33702062
Well I was obviously insecure, she was the first and really only woman to ever show me genuine love and compassion
Also this isn't me being self-critical but just realistically she could have definitely found someone with just a little bit of effort that was smarter, more attractive, successful, funnier and probably and most importantly more confident and sure of what they were doing in a relationship
Another three major parts were obviously self-sabotage thinking I don't deserve someone so lovely, guilt that someone so lovely is wasted on me, and fear that realistically I would inevitably mess it up because of my inexperience
Afterwards I realized that if anyone decent and loving stumbled into my life again I'd either have to choose to be alone or find some way to accept and live with the fact that they're probably too good for me

I don't think it's really per say optimism, it's despite all the internet jokes learning to cope with it
I'm now and for the rest of my life will always be immensely grateful for my suicidal depression being gone
That happened immediately after and I presume because I came to know that I am capable of being loved

Unfortunately the brutal reality is being a “high quality” or “mature” person never got anyone to date
Those are things that are generally recognized after getting to know an individual
Realistically people make their judgments on whether or not they're willing to go on a date with someone far before they learn any of those things
We're adults, I'm in my mid 30’s and part of that is acknowledging your failures and recognizing the patterns in them
The plain truth of it is, be it my looks, personality, sense of humor, confidence, ability of charisma, understanding/capability of capitalizing on social cues
The truth is one or more likely a combination of these makes me very obviously and distinctly unattractive
I found purpose in my family but unfortunately I'm a romantic and I figure that hole will always be there

>>33702182
What makes you so sure, beyond a doubt, that they'd be too good for you? As long as you are a good person, I'm sure you're someone's cup of tea (no matter how long it takes). Sorry to hear about all this. Sometimes I think, too, the same will continue for me.

>>33702748
>What makes you so sure
It's a psychological Catch 22
I wouldn't enter into a relationship with someone that wasn't at least decent and capable of being loving
But odds are if they do end up being loving and decent I would probably start seeing them in a very good light making me think it's too good for me
You combine that up with 20 years of women's choices and actions showing and not just telling you “You are not being good enough”, except for once maybe
That's a hard mental prison to break out of even if it is self-made, it's reinforced by the outside as well
>I'm sure you're someone's cup of tea
I have many romantic inclinations but I'm also a pragmatist, that's not really how life works out, there are certain things that are just universally desired and revolted
The story isn't totally negative, I did get an opportunity
One that I knew even at the time I could have turned into something much more than it was
I am at fault for that falling through my fingers
How and when certain people get these kind of opportunities is very different than others, some of us almost never get these opportunities or maybe only once in a lifetime
At least in my case I knew at the time what kind of opportunity it was
I let it pass up because I told myself I didn't want to hurt her, or have her squander herself on me because I was also utterly terrified of being a complete miserable disappointment to her
After all I told myself I truly didn't know what the hell I was doing
At the very least I come away from this mistake of mine bestowed with a healing kindness that I don't think anyone would expect themselves capable of
>Sometimes I think
Odds are you're not as an unfortunate individual as myself, you've probably had more adventures/misadventures more than me
Everything sometimes feels contradictory but don't pass up a good opportunity ever, same time use your head it's often a lot easier to see my toxic stuff before it really gets nasty

>>33702888
You've had lots of time to reflect on this "mental prison", and are clearly aware of this pattern. Don't you think it might be good to work on that first?

Just like you explained, even when you do get a chance, you will fuck it up due to your own thoughts. You speak as if you are some kind of unlovable monster, but I don't understand what traits you could possibly have that are "universally revolted" and unfixable. Clearly, women haven't been the most patient with you (and I admit that isn't common in general), but still, it seems like you'd need to fix that first before squandering another opportunity.

I'm assuming you either have severe mental illness, horrible looks, or a disability. Besides that, the only thing limiting you is yourself.

>>33703535
>Don't you think it might be good to work on that first?
A lot of what I've talked about is my mentality at the time, I may not be the most mature individual but I believe I'm more mature now.
I also put a larger emphasis on communication than I did before.
I already made my decision on that long ago.
If I get the genuine opportunity again I'll just suck it up in soldier through any perceived guilt of being undeserving.

> I don't understand what traits you could possibly have that are "universally revolted" and unfixable.
Obviously I'm not completely unlovable, that's the point of my initial post.
But the objective reality of the situation is I am just unattractive, I mean in a wide encompassing sense not just physical.
Whatever I'm bringing to the table is at the very least in the initial phases just completely uninteresting to women.

Besides depression since adolescents that formed into suicidal depression, that's now gone going on 10 years I don't have any mental illnesses.
I think objectively I'm probably under average, I might even be uglier than that, that's definitely a possibility.
And I'm not disabled mentally or physically.

>>33703535
>the only thing limiting you is yourself.
This brings up an interesting point that I've noticed.
People are actually extremely bad with empathy when it comes to understanding situations individuals deal with that are alien to them.
Most people when they see someone else fail at something that they could have succeeded at, they presume that it's entirely due to a lack of effort or "technique".
It is inconceivable for them that this person could apply even more effort or refine their technique past that person's and still fail.
I'm sure plenty of people have seen this when it comes to academics, that certain someone that just doesn't comprehend how another student couldn't understand or achieve something.
The same from someone born in wealth completely unable to understand the mentality of those that grew up in poverty.
I'm not saying this is just as bad or the same, I'm saying it's a similar inability to comprehend.

The truth is the sexes have different qualities and standards that they initially find attractive or extremely important.
Now this can range, you have the trite example of an ugly or fat man but with a certain sense of charisma or presence.
But the problem is if a man isn't sufficient enough in any of these categories that leaves him to be no one's “cup of tea”.
A gray man that is too underwhelming mediocre and is simply just invisible.

There are some people out there that just don't have it.
I hate shifting blame but while I'm not mentally ill I probably do lack or not possess at all, some type of mental capability/faculty or however you want to say it that facilitates that early connection.
Also generally women are hypersensitive to these kind of things.

My failures are mine and mine alone.
But after putting yourself out there for years you cannot force another to “see you”, recognize you or ultimately and most importantly give you a chance.

Any east coast USA girls lookin for a relationship? I'm a brown kissless incel, kinda skinny, under 6'

>>33620028
How did you fuck up 2.?

>>33620028
Does size matter?

>>33626829
it is pretty good for showing you the female equivalent of crazy incels

>>33704229
>People are bad at empathy when it comes to alien situations
A little "water is wet" situation, empathy is all about trying to comprehend situations and feelings which are not your own (if it weren't, it would be a little selfish), but at least I am trying to understand.

There are people out there who are absolutely made for each other despite being totally unattractive... Some women are into fat men, some women have just low enough self-esteem to be with a guy who isn't "sufficient", and some just find average guys charming. There is absolutely no reason anyone has to love anyone else. Love works in mysterious ways. It is entirely illogical, and although there are a hell of things which can help someone get a partner, a lot of it has an element of obscurity. I can assure you, there are both more averages, and actually below-average guys who have the life you desire.

I do not say this to blame you, and neither do I say it so you can keep blaming yourself and saying your failures are entirely your fault and unavoidable. Some people are shitty and nowadays, no one wants to give people a chance. You completely have the right to feel disappointed because all the work you put in, didn't result in much. Surely, you must have been lonely for decades, but I hope you know someone out there would die to meet a guy like you. It's just a matter of time.

>>33610242
I got a relationship out of it and I'm straight.

it's with a black guy though

>>33707531
Yeah, I'd agree, it's only a matter of time - not part of this conversation, but I don't have any friends etc., and it's hard to keep myself from hating myself for the things I do or have done outwardly or to myself to cope with the pain and isolation. That doesn't mean I'm bad or unlovable, nor would it mean anyone is. Things trend upward, and at the point you're even consciously wanting that kind of change or a person in your life for a second, you're pretty damn far along

>>33610242
It is hopeless.. I used to come here for friends, but as a woman, this place has too many gooners. It's impossible to filter out the good people from the "I literally just want sex" crowd.

>>33693171
>Duolicious
I mean if you’re a girl it should be very easy to find a guy on there. I’ve got pics and everything and not a single message for over 2 months but from what I see on women’s profiles they seem to get hundreds in the same span of time.