Too many threads with too many prompts asking the wrong questions. If we're trying to make real friends (or more than that), we need to be more serious and honest about how we do this. get your attachment style here:https://quiz.attachmentproject.com/relationship-structures/try to be a good sport about this. Answer the questions as honestly as you can. The test isn't mandatory if you already know your attachment style. >ASL>Your attachment style>Attachment style(s) you can't handle (optional)>Intensity level/what you're looking for (meme exchange, casual conversation, real enduring friendship, new favorite person of all time, etc.)>hobbies/interests/etc.>absolute deal breakers / "not looking for">discord tagit is very important you are honest in the prompt. Don't get self-conscious or ashamed or guilty over how needy you are or aren't, just be honest. We're all just trying to find people who we're compatible with.
Without having to know anything about you, the fact alone that this is a requirement to befriend you tells me everything I need to know. That you're a bpdemon and everyone should do themselves a favor and dodge this controlling bullet.
>>33700364I'm sorry she treated you that way. It's not about control for anyone but narcissists, so you obviously were abused by a narcissist. I hope you can recover from it and learn to love again.
>>33700349>attachment style= high iq mental illness thread
>>33700349>>33700364wrong. they are a troon. no real biological female would waste their time putting together some autistic ass thread like this
This is a good thread idea but I am unfortunately a fearful-avoidant/disorganizedDEMON who will never find love if I am to be open about the fact that I have the worst attachment style possible. I'm a guy too so it's not even cute when I do it. I can only attract people if I am larping as a mentally healthy individual... I must stay undercover until the other individual is too attached to me to get annoyed by my gayness. Good luck to you though
>>33700349That's a new quiz, let's try this out then.>ASL39/M/Spain>Your attachment styleIt says avoidant/dismissive, but I disagree with the assessment, as I think it turned out that was because of my inexistent relationship with either of my parents. I like clingy.>Intensity level/what you're looking for (meme exchange, casual conversation, real enduring friendship, new favorite person of all time, etc.)Anything's fine.>hobbies/interests/etc.The usual crap. Nothing new.>absolute deal breakers / "not looking for"Too many things to list here.>discord tagAsk.
>>33700349>ASL29/M/EU>Your attachment styleSecure>Attachment style(s) you can't handle (optional)Avoidant (I'm fine with not responding for a few days)>Intensity level/what you're looking forReal enduring friendship. Preferably someone to talk about books and movies we'd recommend each other and discuss.>hobbies/interests/etc.Doesn't matter.>absolute deal breakers / "not looking for"Dating, ERP etc. SFW only.>discord taghumanecondition
>>33700349Uh, bros, did I get the absolute worst result possible? I'm worried
>ASL22/mtf/California>Your attachment styleDisorganized, probably due to my unyielding anxiety.>Attachment styles you can't handleAvoidant. I need you to be at least somewhat emotionally available. >Intensity level/looking forFriends, lovers, something in between. Someone who will let me be myself in earnest. Specifically, I want to talk about all my favorite vidya and the cute girlies from them... Come have a drink with me?>InterestsWriting music, making notebooks, pokemon & touhou, outdoors, bdsm, and I'm really into minecraft right now. >not looking forMen. Strictly lesbian, sorry folks>discordyuiturn_
>>33700349this is interesting>ASL19 m PA>Your attachment styledisorganized/fearful-avoidant (picrel)im actually mentally sound i just get anxiety sometimes. im generally very calm and i'll try to learn alot about u (if u let me)>Attachment style(s) you can't handle (optional)idk>Intensity level/what you're looking for (meme exchange, casual conversation, real enduring friendship, new favorite person of all time, etc.)anything. i'd really like a long-term friendship / fav person but people tend to be flighty on here. but, i dont judge. we could just talk for a day or play games here and there, whatever>hobbies/interests/etc.music - midwest emo, title fight, crystal castles, mandopop and jpop, a ton more genres. vidya - overwatch, bg2, ror2, recently got into vr. interested in history, esoterica, tech, some fitness. i gym regularly. i like to travel especially in asia. learning mandarin.>absolute deal breakers / "not looking for"idk dont send me your genitals or something>discord tag@microwoft
>ASL40/m/USA>Your attachment styleAvoidant/dependent>Attachment style(s) you can't handle (optional)Someone who will abandon me>Intensity level/what you're looking for (meme exchange, casual conversation, real enduring friendship, new favorite person of all time, etc.)Anything, but wish for committed relationship>hobbies/interests/etc.PC hardware, 90s vidya and movies, geopolitics and war news, video editing, edm techno, bbq grilling.>absolute deal breakers / "not looking for"FTM, under 25s.>discord tagviciouseclipse
>>33705987FUCK I meant MtF, not FtM, thats welcome.
>>33700349>ASL24 NB(m) NA>Your attachment styleSecure.>Attachment style(s) you can't handle (optional)Uhhhhh I don't know about the validity of any test. An understanding of the methodology of the psych system involved and of yourself is necessary for proper categorization. That being said, I wouldn't disqualify you solely for testing as avoidant/anxious. If you can't cough up like 99% of information about yourself when asked I'm going to find you boring. If you you need time to warm up or something I'm going to find you boring. Or if you're a liar I'm going to find you boring. These are normally avoidant chatacteristics but if you are an avoidant that somehow isn't boring and you think we'd get along feel free to add me lol.>Intensity level/what you're looking for (meme exchange, casual conversation, real enduring friendship, new favorite person of all time, etc.)Regularly spend time together, exchange ideas, have fun, watch movies and anime. It's hard for me to be emotionally invested in people but I will take care of you if I think you're deserving, as a good conversationalist and someone who enjoys understanding what makes others tick. I am not looking for love though.>hobbies/interests/etc.Art related hobbies. Interested in psychology and neurology. >absolute deal breakers / "not looking for"Bad listeners, aggressive anti-intellectuals the unimaginative and the emotionally dull will be filtered very quickly. If you can't tell if you're what I'm describing just come find out yourself how bad could it hurt. >discord tagparkisempty
>>33700349>ASL 27/M/IL>Your attachment style Fearful-Avoidant / Disorganized>Intensity level/what you're looking for Connections, be they platonic or with benefits, romantically Im into woman. >hobbies/interests/etc. Horror movies, games >absolute deal breakers / "not looking for" Political stuff, dick pics>discord tagjormungandr.07
>ASL18, F, El Paso (texas)>Your attachment styleSexual>Attachment style(s) you can't handle (optional)Don't be weird ig? I'm pretty weird myself so np>Intensity level/what you're looking for (meme exchange, casual conversation, real enduring friendship, new favorite person of all time, etc.)I wanna see your BWC, racist white guys hmu>hobbies/interests/etc.Weed and alt right server>absolute deal breakers / "not looking for"Non-white people, just not my type sry>discord tag>ASL>Your attachment style>Attachment style(s) you can't handle (optional)>Intensity level/what you're looking for (meme exchange, casual conversation, real enduring friendship, new favorite person of all time, etc.)>hobbies/interests/etc.>absolute deal breakers / "not looking for">discord tagjaydenandtheboiz
>>33706666Sry this post looks weird lol, I pasted the prompt twice.Anyways, racist white guys hmuDiscord: jaydenandtheboiz
I'm not really sure what I'm looking at, but it sounds obnoxious...How over is it? Sorry for not contributing to the thread as intended, I just find these things interesting
>>33706368>>Your attachment style>Secure.
>>33706971I don't like making assumptions about people because I don't like being wrong but that's just me. You do you.
