I want to announce I had the greatest relationship in my life from someone I met here. It lasted exactly 3 dates and was the best thing in my life.Later losers, im movin up in the world. Eat my dust.
That gif tells me you're lying or the date was with a minor
Then why did it end?
>>33718470why would i lie>>33718471he said i'm gonna get hurt because his job keeps him constantly busy, but i know i just wasn't sexy or cool enough, he was probably looking for something more casual and i'm not good at being cool and sexy and casual. He said I was too sweet and he didn't deserve a fraction of the love I showed him, so he sorta ran away from me and doesn't message me.
>>33718477There goes any hope it was for me then.I met someone from here, we spent a few days together.Saw her again, could tell things were off. I'll end it there doesn't matter.
>>33718468Why are you gay?
>>33718496What the fuck is a geocel anon
>>33718486im sorry anon :<yeah, I could tell something was different on the third date. He had told me he didn't want to continue by then, but I told him I'm okay with his constant schedule and it didn't change his mind. You can tell when something is just off.It doesn't matter how many times they say "no no no it's not for that reason either" but it still feels off.>>33718500he wants to explore the world but hasn't left his country? idk
>>33718511Fair
>>33718468>>33718477tldr: he found out you were trans and got the ick when he finally heard you speak
>>33718511When I say she spent a few days with me, it was night and day, we were bonding.I simply could tell something was off because her entire attention shifted, she went from wanting my attention as much as possible to completely distant. I called it out once and just asked what do you even want, to make sure I wasn't just making things up in my head, in her own words at first she wanted something serious. Fast-forward a bit of time, her mind changed for some abrupt reason. I tried to be understanding given it was the holidays, chalked it up to that. But, na been with enough women, relationships even that you can just tell when the attention shifts, root cause not withstanding the lack there of becomes obvious.I'll chalk this one up to seasonal depression and I was easy dick.
>>33718477As much as I hate being serious you dodged a bullet. People class themselves in this life. He wasn't going to treat you well and he knew you wouldn't put up with the low value he'd ascribe to you. I've had similar experiences. Get yourself someone who isn't emotionally stunted. It's much better than if he had pursued you anyway and treated you like a fleshlight. I doubt it had anything to do with your looks even if he shut down. In my case the guy spammed my phone and tried to find me during class at college when I blocked him after he said some shit like that then started wearing only black for a few months straight lmao
>>33718524Oh it's a girl? My nigger you speak like you're the woman no wonder it didn't work out. You're not hard enough. Go through some constructive trauma
I'm retarded and can't read IDs. Peace
>>33718500Geocel - Geographically CelibateSomeone who is celibate as a result of geography(Location)
>>33718542I feel you it's lonely on the sun. Anyway where the hell do you live that men can't hit?
>>33718545I don't want to hit anyone, I just need to find a wife but there are no women on my island.
>>33718554>25/M/NSI
>>33718556>24/M/SI
>>33718557Oh word? Well best of luck anon. Worst case there's always bass thrussy
>>33718524I would not enjoy a 3 day date.can you tell me more about how you knew something was wrong?>>33718529that hurts. He said "you are literally precious I just can't be there for you" so it's confusing because that's what he said but I still feel like i'm just low value.>get yourself someone who isn't emotionally stuntedbut men just are by nature.. that part of their brain didn't develop>>33718556lol'd
>>33718600>but men just are by nature.. that part of their brain didn't developtalking about men in the third person will still not make you into a woman
>>33718600I could go into extreme detail but really whats the point, in short with my experiences when a persons' attention shifts rapidly it's never a good sign.She just went from constant replying, initiating, and wanting to talk, to just nothing.I asked her hey so uh do you just want something casual, or something serious?I'd like something serious, her own words.Not even 2 weeks later she gave me a response that was basically the opposite of that, how she couldn't commit to me, and basically was already thinking of sleeping with others.Point is I called it out, she reassured me I was wrong, turns out I was right anyway.Only regret I had was not going with my first instinct, it's usually right.
>>33718600I more meant that he'd treat anyone lowly because he considers himself not worth people like you that he respects. It might hurt now but you deserve better
>>33718644I guess you're right, i'm sorry...maybe my advice isn't useful, but I actually met the guy I'm talking about in the thread by having multiple guys I would chat it up with and he was just kinda there. I found that the other guys started to bore me and there just wasn't any energy, and I started talking to him more when I was tired and talking to him gave me much rest, until I finally just declined over 100 friend requests because I had made my decision it was him that I really really liked.So, maybe you shouldn't write her off. Maybe you should treat it how it is, she's not really all that interested but that doesn't mean she won't come back around. She's not taking you very serious, so you shouldn't take her very serious either. Sometimes taking things less serious is what sparks growth in a relationship.>>33718646I don't know, I can't understand how this all went wrong I was so happy about him. I don't know what I did wrong or what I'm supposed to fix from here. I'm just really happy about being able to feel what happened for a moment, I never experienced that before.
>>33718600>but men just are by nature.. that part of their brain didn't developGee I wonder why he left.
>>33718677it's just biology, women have that emotional part of their brain more for child rearing
That's basically the note where I left it.I'll scrutinize her on the point where she flipped flopped, because it was her idea for something serious, I'm fine being causal, having sex and it not meaning something, however it needs to be upfront.Unfortunately that isn't very usefulbecause it essentially means I wasn't good enough to begin with.I'm not even sad, but I sure as shit will not be a last resort.If she isn't all that interested, she should've stated that instead of saying she wanted something serious, then changing her own mind.I was neither forcing her into anything, or pressuring her -- I like clear delineations.This just tells me if she comes back around, don't take her seriously, just have fun with her.Which again, I'm all fine with, but why tell me it's raining when it's not? I don't quite understand the necessity for it.
>>33718693people's minds just change, but yeah communicating it is most important.
>>33718728Well anon I take some comfort in knowing I wasn't the only one that had a shit experience here recently, at least.I'm going to go dab myself into a coma and head to bed, I'll be closing this page now, goodbye everyone.
>>33718759Peace
>>33718759>he has drugs to comfort himselfi guess i have my disassociation, that's kind of a druggoodnite anon
>>33718685Outside of my bpd sister I rarely see women more emotional than me. Granted I can look pretty stoic in public myself. Not every man is some cold hearted psycho, society just generally doesn't promote men being able to express feelings in any regard without it being seen as wrong or weak or whatever else.I don't really see how that would connect with having children though.
>>33719033>he wrote a bunch of shit after being rudeim good thanks
>>33718477I believe in you anon!~
>>33718468Man, I get warned for posting shit like this, but your thread gets to stay up for a day? Fuck this gay earth.
>>33719163thanku anon ;-;
>>33718468>>33718477are you a cis male AMAB or cis female AFAB ?how old are you ?
