When you add someone who should be the one to speak first, the person being added or the person doing the add? If I add someone and they don't say something after accepting I just remove them, likewise I always say something when I accept a requestGive me your opinions and uh, share contacts i guess
>>33730835stop being autistic. stop being socially retarded. say something to them regardless if they added you or not, if they dont respond after a reasonable amount of time, delete them. 99% of the people on this board are autistic or on the spectrum so they don't understand how to have normal conversations, since you fall under that umbrella of social retardation, you should understand their struggle and help your autistic compadres work on their social skills by initiating the conversation sometimes. no I will not be sharing my contacts with you, an autistic person, because I fucking despise you fucking autistic fucks.
>>33730835Obviously, the person who is initiating the dialog should start first, at least with something like "Saw your post, I likeed this, this and this, what do you think about that, that and that? Now send me your nudes".
>>33730835You're overthinking this. Just add them, say "hey I'm John Doe from internet site" and start a conversation about the specific topic that made you two exchange contactsAlso some people are busy, give em a few days to respond before deleting them
>>33730841this reads like a copypasta, kek>>33730835what >>33730841 said. /threadCAPTCHA YGX
>>33730957Based smut sloppa enjoyer
>>33730835So YOU added them and expect them to message first? You're honestly a complete idiot. Especially if you are a male, women get so many adds and you expect them to chase after YOU when you add them? jesus christ.
>>33730835When sending a message after accepting a friend request I've been cursed out by women for literally asking them in a very friendly tone why they decided to add me or what they saw that was interesting.So the next couple of adds I just thought I'll let them introduce themselves, the last one I accepted before I went to bed and when I got off work the next day she already blocked me for not responding to her fast enough.Not really broken up about that one I looked up her post and I have no clue why she thought we would be a good match to talk.
I usually only add black women and 9 times out of 10 they're autistic or just retarded so I'm the one that has to initiate and maintain conversations. It's OK though since they're as hot as they are retarded and them milkbags in my dms make it all worth it.
>>33734912tfw no autistic black gf that sounds adorable
>>33734920Every black girl that posts here is retarded/autistic and I'm being serious. They're either super whitewashed (retarded) or like shit like kpop or are weaboos (autistic)
isn't it the person who accepts should shoot a message first, even if it's a hi? so the adder can see they've accepted them.
>>33734934Whitewashed > hoodrat any day. Best black girls are oreos
i always speak first after somebody adds me/i add them, doesn't have to be complicated. just a 'hi how are you doing/what brought you to 4c' does fine for making conversation>>33730841mentally ill rant aside youre right lol
>>33730835Depends. Whoever sees first, acts first. When reach out to someone wrote text + contact and they accept me immediately, i thank for the add and state why I reached out and what I like about their text. When I saw it a while later after they contacted, I accept and greet them. Then I expect an introduction once they saw that I added.In general I'm more the giver though, until it's proven that they are retarded onewordrepliers...which is majority.Verification not required.
